honestly idk if i wanna b making a post about this cos tumblr got no chill
if someone identifies as straight and is in love w someone of the same gender, dont tell them theyre in denial. dont tell them what they identify as is invalid, incorrect.
if someone identifies as gay and is in love w someone of the opposite gender, dont tell them theyre a fake, that theyre not gay, that what they identify as is invalid.
especially if the person is young. dont force someone to identify with a label theyre not comfortable with. who you love doesnt always equal who you are. you fall in love with a person not their gender.
if a straight person falls in love, and the person they fall in love with happens to be of the same gender, that doesnt mean they have to change their label to suit YOU.
the exact same goes for anyone gay.
and if anyone aromantic happens to fall in love, you have no right to tell them what they identify as is not correct.