can we please talk about how perfect Minos eyebrows are?! I mean they are seriously underrated. His eyebrows deserve more love!!!! omfg I seriously want to touch them they are on FLEEK. Why so perfect .. uhghhh. Makes me love Mino even more..
Something I started forever ago (shortly after the first RTTE season came out) but never finished. There’s a hundred and million mistakes, but I found it in a pile of art and decided I’d quick finish it up :)
I seriously object to the idea that wanting to be beautiful/wearing make up/struggling with self image/caring what people think of your appearance makes you a bad feminist.
Being a feminist does not mean: “I am entirely unaffected by the patriarchal society we live in!”
It means: “I am aware of the patriarchal society we live in, have grown up in it and have absorbed a lot of its toxic ideas about gender and women, but I want to change it!”
It can also mean: “Now I am aware of certain aspects of this patriarchal society, I am in a super difficult and confusing position because I do not quite know how many of my choices are actually choices and how many are a response to conditioning and subtle yet constant societal pressures. I am trying to strike a difficult balance in forging my own identity and being confident in myself regardless of what I look like without denying myself things I enjoy like pretty clothes and make up tutorials because feminism should be about choice right? and I don’t want to feel forced to stop enjoying those things. That is the opposite of what I signed up for. But also I don’t want to reinforce the idea that women need to look attractive in order to be confident/valued and would love to be that woman that can be totally at ease with no make up whatsoever 24/7, but at the same time having grown up in a patriarchal society I do not personally feel 100% confident in dispensing with my beauty regime altogether, and I’m not sure if I even want to do that because it’s fun… am I a BAD feminist???”
We are all on a journey. There is no such thing as a perfect feminist. So long as you aren’t harming anyone then you make the choices you feel are right and healthy for you. Unlearning this stuff is hard and may well take forever. Feel no guilt over the way you want to present yourself.
You can be a feminist who likes to wear make up and wants to be beautiful. They stuck us in this mess, it’s up to us how we hold onto ourselves while we fight on through it.
A/N: Not requested. This is my opinion and I tried to be as accurate as possible. I hope you guys like this! :)
S. Coups- For the dad of the group, I
feel like he’d need someone to be the mom. Someone warm, gentle,
understanding, and patient. Someone who he could protect but also
someone who isn’t necessarily a push-over. I mean, you have to be
able to deal with 13 boys all at once, so you kind of have to be
fairly assertive personality-wise.
Jeonghan- The angel would want someone
similar to him. Quiet and gentle would be musts. I don’t think he’d
be comfortable with someone incredibly outgoing or loud, as he seems
to be the type to be embarrassed easily by people who are like that
(I’m looking at you, DK, Hoshi, and Seungkwan.) He’d be more
comfortable with silence and quiet conversation than loud jokes and
Joshua- Whereas the previous two boys
would want girls similar to him, I think Joshua is the opposite. He’d
want a girl that was more outgoing than he was just so it’d bring him
out of his shell. Someone who would joke and make him comfortable and
also encourage him to take part in more conversation. But they’d also
have to be okay with being alone every once in a while so he can
recharge from being social (since he is an introvert).
Woozi- He’d want someone as passionate
as he is about music. Someone who would listen to his stuff, give him
fair critique, and comfort him when he’s stressed. He’d also
appreciate a girl who could make him feel more manly per say, since
(if I remember correctly) he does feel a bit insecure about his
height. Also someone who doesn’t demand a lot of wordy expressions of
his love, but would recognize the little things he does to show that
Jun- This greaseball would like someone
who he could be protective of. It would give him a lot of
satisfaction to have someone who would look to him and only him for
reassurance and love. He’d match well with either an outgoing
introvert or a slightly less energetic extrovert who would be okay
with dirty jokes and lots of teasing. The most important thing for
him, though, would be a girl who’d encourage him in his dancing and
be very supportive of his musical career.
Wonwoo- This shy little emo child is
very similar to Joshua.. Poor Wonwoo needs a girl who makes him
comfortable and who he can depend on in social situations. Someone
who will make him feel safe and secure. He wouldn’t want that
dependency to be going one way, though. He’d also want someone who
trusts him enough to share their insecurities with him and let him
Mingyu- He’d do great with an
introvert. Just look at how close Meanie are; it seems natural for
introverts to gravitate towards him just because he’s so good at
making them feel comfortable. But, I also feel like he could work
well with an outgoing, extrovert type person just because he isn’t
super over the top in his extrovert-ness. Instead of the both of them
feeding off of each other and getting really hyped, they would
balance each other out nicely.
Hoshi- He’d love someone goofy. Someone
who he could joke and mess around with, but who also would have a
serious side. Having passion would be a huge turn on for him just
because of what a hard worker he is, and even if it wasn’t in
something that he was initially interested in, he’d still love to
watch you talk about it and see that light in your eyes. He’d love
a girl who would be his best friend first and lover second.
DK- He needs someone who could balance
out his energy. An introvert would be best with him just because
they’d be able to remind him to tone it down a bit while he would
bring them out of their shell. He’d do very well with someone who
could give reassurance on his singing and talent and also someone who
he could pamper and really love on. If he was to choose between cute
and sexy, personally I think he’d go for cute.
The8- Minghao is very similar to
Jeonghan, although instead of someone who was an equal in how
shy/quiet he is, I feel like someone slightly more outgoing would
suit him better. He wouldn’t feel entirely comfortable with a raging
extrovert, but having someone who could help him overcome his shyness
would be a good thing. He would be very appreciative of a girl who
is as sweet as he is and who makes sure to compliment him a lot.
Seungkwan- Diva Boo needs someone who
can keep up with him. This means he would do best with an extrovert;
someone that loves to joke, have fun, and just in general have a good
time. Someone witty and who could counter his sassy remarks would do
well with him. I think he would especially love someone who could
sing just so they could have karaoke battles and compose duets.
Vernon- Vernon may act like a cool
swaggy rapper, but in reality he is a gigantic cinnamon roll. That
being said, he would be similar to Joshua in that he needs a girl who
would encourage him to try new things. He would appreciate someone
who is playful, isn’t afraid to joke around, and wouldn’t mind just
jamming out to music or geeking out over anime.
Dino- My little maknae would do well
with a person that really appreciated and supported him. I feel like
he could connect with both an introvert and an extrovert as they both
have things to offer to him. He’d like a girl that either shared his
love for Michael Jackson or was willing to deal with his enthusiasm
about him. Being able to do aegyo would also be a huge plus for him
along with having a compassionate and loving personality.