id like to say to you

anonymous asked:

If You dont mind could you please talk about Shiro's dark humour ? Like in s2e1 keith says that Shiro changed his life to which shiro responds 'yeah if it wasnt for me you wouldnt be in this situation so you're welcome' and later on he responds to Keith being worried about him with 'my wound is getting bigger and bigger' to 'lighten the mood'. I think it says a lot about him but id love to hear your thoughts

Honestly as bad as it sounds I think that it’s a really heartening thing to hear? I really hope we hear more of Shiro’s bleak humor going forwards, I think it’s very important.

Because Shiro’s got kind of a thing where… he’s pretty heavily sidelining his own mental health for the benefit of his team. He wants to be there for everyone but we see things like in s2e5 where he catches Allura coming back to the bridge and urges her to take care of herself and rest- in a feat of flagrant hypocrisy because he basically just sat in the bridge and kept watch the entire time everyone else was taking a break.

It’s at a point where I don’t think Shiro actually realizes how bad he’s doing. He’s just not looking at his own psychological state. And when he does think about it… every single Lion and paladin is integral to the team, except Shiro is firmly of the opinion that he’s the only one who needs to set up a potential replacement. Shiro is the first one to unsubtly suggest he might be less worthy of the Black Lion than Zarkon- and he’s the one who takes Black connecting with Keith to save him as not proof that Black cares about him enough to open her doors to someone other than her bonded paladin if he’s in danger, but proof that Keith is a better candidate than he is.

Shiro even joking about not doing okay is important. It’s because he’s actually acknowledging that he’s not doing okay in the first place. I actually would not be surprised if the positive healing process for Shiro involves him actually seeming less okay, because it’s him dropping his performative image as the consummate Black Paladin, team leader, super reliable guy who has no problems- because it’s a problem for the whole team if Shiro is burying his issues. If he can trust these people to have his back in a life-or-death firefight he can trust them enough to not try and shoulder through his problems alone.

“Alone” is not how Voltron does things. In the simplest form, that’s just now how the combining robot works. 

fionaisaway  asked:

Hi mama! Recently I've been questioning whether or not I'm ace and I was wondering if you could help me out?? I feel romantic attraction to others but nothing sexual (it's too overwhelming and just not for me) but I'm not sure since some people have said "I'm too young to know". What are your thoughts? P.s. I know some people don't like the new chapter but I loved it! Thanks for all your hard work <3

Okay, everyone who says “You’re too young” needs to stop. Sure, maybe you ID as ace now and as you mature you realize that sexual attraction comes to you in a way, but even if that were the case: so what? If you think ace is the label for you right now, because you don’t experience sexual attraction, for whatever reason, that’s perfectly fine! It’s not set in stone and you know best what you feel and how you experience stuff, so you fucking go! 

anonymous asked:

Okay, but what if like you are promptos friend and yall are just chilling and playing video games and he randomly turns to you and says "there's something else here id rather play with" and just goes from innocent sunshine boy to the kinkiest little shit then when yall are done sinning he turns back to a sweetie pie and is all cuddly but ever since then you know hes got that side and you anticipate the next you see it

That sounds like something he would totally do. I feel like Prompto is definitely the type of guy to be able to flip that switch and then afterwards be like “AND NOW CUDDLES”

I’m a difficult DL nigga. I don’t link with fems bc I fuck bitches still. I don’t do vers sex either I’m the top or bottom (id fuck my top tho wouldn’t let my bottom hit), I don’t send face pics (I see what y'all do with them). Msgs like “fuck me” or “let me suck your dick ” are turn offs. I’ve been catfished as far as niggaz saying they DL but just be discrete I cut them off soon as I find out. Scared to do parties, hate feet, picky asf but a quality can attract me. Hope I didn’t forget anything. This should help with those of you messenging me. And no I don’t give out my social media’s just my txt free number 😂💯💯

things ive overheard kids say

-“get your hair,,, off,,, my dinosaur”
-“id marry a t rex”
-“i was born with lobster teeth”
-“and so there i am, screaming, four peanuts shoved up my ass–”
-“no sexy time for rich white men”
-Teacher: “we’re gonna have some observers in here”
Student 1: “can we feel them or is this like a look-dont-touch thing”
Student 2: “no of course dude you can touch them just,,, rub your hands all over their faces”
-*yodelling “if you love me let me go” in the very back of the bus*
-high white kid @ me: “i was born in africa but you werent you know how i know that im black and youre not”
-Teacher: “and overall it was very moderate”
Student: “if you or a loved one have ever suffered moderate to severe plaque psoriasis”
-Teacher: “i mean they couldve used something else like what else does fat come from? sheep, chickens–”
Student: “humans”
-“okay but how do we KNOW jesus didn’t have a chinese half brother”
-“and i was like ‘why would you put cheese inside a bronze scultpure’”
-some kid in the hallway as soon as the class us quiet: “maybE THATS WHY THIS COUNTRY IS A MESS”
-“yo wanna snort some cheerio dust”
-“guys,,, emilee has the softest eyelashes”
-“pretty sure the missionaries only wanted the opium”

anonymous asked:

WhaT IS UP can i ask for some advice or hElp cause i have this confirmation school(???) meeting and im literally bawling my eyes out worrying if im going to have a panic attack??? Or if ill be thoroughly anxious the whole time idk im just so selfconscious about my outer appearance and what others might think that it has gone to the level where id rather stay at home unless its necessary and this isnt but id love to have the money cha ching yes thats it i love you

I think my advice would be to not worry so much over what these people would think because more than half of the time those people aren’t even caring about you?? But like not in a harsh way I mean even if you don’t attend it they probably won’t think anything of that, and unless you’re wearing a bra on your head or something then they wouldn’t really give a damn about your appearance either. Basically what I’m saying is I think you’re just over thinking things dear ^.^

did i ever tell ppl about the time me and my family thought my older brother was gay and dating his best friend? they used to hold hands and cuddle and shit all the time and cause my brothers super quiet we kinda just thought that was him coming out and didn’t really say anything about it. this went on for maybe two yrs and then one day he arrives home with this girl and is all ‘id like you guys to meet my girlfriend’. at this point everyone is ’????’ and my mom is literally crying and like 'u broke up with James?!?!?!’ and honestly I’ve never seen a man more confused in his life and yeah that’s the time my family fucked up for like 2 yrs

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I remember being teased relentlessly throughout my childhood and my teenage life where people would say that because of my skin I’ll never be beautiful enough, they would even recommend skin bleaching products. So as a child I quickly realised that as a dark skinned girl I was not considered beautiful enough… At that time I didn’t know that it was the negativity from the people around me that was causing me to hate my skin and myself for that matter. I remember a time during school photos where a girl shouted “she’s too dark! You won’t see anything on her ID but her teeth!”, of course everyone laughed it out… And so did I…. Because I didn’t want to make it seem like I was offended… Their feelings felt more important than mine… After all growing up I was always reminded of how unlikely I was of ever being beautiful or finding someone that found my darkness beautiful…..
As a 19 year old today I sit here and say “I never gave in to skin bleaching”, “I was constantly reminded of how ugly I was but that only made me love myself even more….. I began considering myself as someone different, someone beautiful and out of the ordinary.”
Your skin no matter how dark it is that when you smile you can only see the glow of your teeth is worthy of love, your skin is that of a goddess and you should never feel anything about your skin but self love. I write this to all of the people that have gone through similar and worse, you don’t need to learn to Love your skin, the love is already there… You just gotta unleash it.

I would like to hear some stories of yours if you’ve ever gone through the same thing…. Message me on Instagram.
IG: YoungNubiie

I guess I’ve noticed a really big problem in the ARMY fandom recently with all the hate, fanwars, and even our opinions on the actions of the members and I’d just like to remind you that they are not American. 

They weren’t raised in western culture

They weren’t raised with western ideals

As much as you want to ship them with members and say sexual things about them, just remember, you put their comfortableness at risk. Of course you can be attracted to them and ship them together (yoonseok for life) but just remember where the line is. They were raised in a society that doesn’t look too fondly upon homosexuals and the excessive shipping and sexual fanart and fanfiction can cause a strain on their relationships with each other. An argument might come up saying “well if they havent come out as gay or said theyre straight then we can do whatever” but id like to remind you again that Korea isn’t very open to gays just yet, doesn’t mean that theres anything wrong with gays and it doesn’t mean that nothing is changing, in fact korea is progressing pretty fast but it just isnt there yet. 

Also when you get offended by something said by a certain member, lets say they said something racist. (Im a poc!!!) we have to remember that they weren’t raised with our ideals and with our perceptions on what is right or wrong to say. And i am no “oppa apologist” because some things can be said that are out of line, but we can implement western societal values and rules onto eastern cultures. 

With all these fan wars and hate being spread around, I’d like to remind you of how heavily Korean culture revolves are respect. They respect groups older than them and they respect each other. So when we set off and start fighting with lets say EXO or Big Bang we are undermining their culture. Once the fanwar becomes bigger, they notice and it puts a strain on the relationships between both groups. It ruins the name of the younger group because they’re supposed to show respect towards the older group. Even if its a younger fandom that’s attacking BTS we shouldn’t stoop down to their level because respect plays a big role in their culture and we’re tarnishing BTS’s name by arguing with their peers.

Lastly, all this fighting amongst yourselves on which members are better or not. Id like to remind you that you are not a true army if you have even a small shred of hatred for a member. Wether you believe that the hyungs deserve better (and they do but I will believe in it while loving the maknae like equally) or the maknae line does. If you dislike even one member for the amount of lines he gets or the amount of stage time he gets then you are not a true ARMY. 

Thank you for reading this, I just want people to understand these things so we can better ourselves as a whole.

you can make me like any design by pointing at it and saying ‘butch lesbian’ that’s my greatest weakness. you could point at a moth and be like ‘thats butch’ and id be like, shit, that’s my fave bug now

idk who u are or where i am. if you diss pride and prejudice im comin for ur ungrateful ass. we could be standing at the alter abt to say ‘i do’ and if you say ‘ugh i hate pride and prejudice’ id fcking leave you. id walk out of my own wedding. i could be under anesthesia about to have major surgery and hear my doctor say ‘i never liked austen novels’ and id wake up just to request a different doctor. u could be the president of the united states and say ‘they’re just love stories’ and id deck you right there, right in front of secret service. im waiting and im ready to fight

@ all ace lesbians

Shout out to all the ace lesbians that don’t feel like “real lesbians” because they don’t experience sexual attraction

Shout out to all the ace lesbians that struggled to figure out their identity because they thought their crushes on girls were platonic due to compulsory heterosexuality and internalized homophobia

Shout out to all the ace lesbians that say they’re lesbians because they don’t want to lecture everyone on asexuality but feel guilty about it because they’re erasing a part of their identity

Shout out to all the ace lesbians that get told by non-aces they only ID as ace because of compulsory heterosexuality/internalized homophobia 

Shout out to all the ace lesbians that like sex / don’t like sex / are indifferent to sexual activities

You’re all wonderful. You’re all valid. You’re all welcome here. I know it’s hard but you’re not alone in this!!

Reblogs by non ace lesbians are appreciated!! I don’t see a lot of positivity for us going around and we really need it

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Well since I’ve been on a roll with Anti and Dark universe (and have a whole story if Id just write it all down lol) @fangsmagicandinspiration came up with a dark version for Ethan at @crankgameplays. Say hello to Corroded Crank!

He was made out of a botched summoning/creation spell, the two key ingredients being the blood of the pure (Ethan in this case) and material for the physical body (Rusted, Corroded metal in this case) and due to the metal already being destroyed, it corrupted the final result and now we have our poor metal friend who is constantly falling apart and is a little self concious about all of his useless bits and bobs and bad welding and such. His whole skull is cracked open but he usually covers his brains with a wig.

I tried to keep him creepy and corpse like considering hes still suppose to be a dark half for Ethan, but when hes all put together I still think hes pretty cute! I imagine he moves sorta like the FNAF animatronics, very heavy but twitchy and jerky. I hope you like him! Me and fangsmagicandinspiration (aahah i need to call you by a name bc thats a mouthful) always have the BEST brainstorming sessions! Such a good egg, good friend, good writer. Go check them out!!!

Members of Bangtan asking you out:
  • Jungkook: "I can't spell jungkook without the U" *flexes muscles*
  • Jimin: while jungkook and Suga stand behind you teasing Jimin he shyly asks
  • Suga: "if you want the agust D then say yes"
  • V: calls you at 2am to ask you
  • Jhope: *has 12 heart attacks before asking*
  • Jin: "but just be aware I might steal that nice pink shirt you're wearing if we date"
  • Namjoon: "Seokjin, Id like to be more than just friends"

with new years coming up id like to propose some things to draw roxy doing instead of drinking!! 

-blowing a party horn
-popping a party popper 
-throwing confetti 
-hugging her friends 
-hugging a cat 
-literally anything thats not drinking youre all smart and imaginative people dont fuck this one up 
-and dont say shes drinking sprite from a champagne glass dont fucking do it i will hunt you down myself asshole