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About Yoon Bum’s mental illness

Honestly, I’m not sure he has Stockholm syndrome. I mean, I can’t say for sure but being a borderline myself, I’m just guessing. This is gonna be a little long so please bear with me.

So before I go into this, imma explain BPD a little.

Also, this might not really help with the stigma against us borderlines, so I’m saying this in the beginning, please, don’t give us shit for feeling this way. This disorder isn’t really something we asked for or something we’re happy with. As much as it might hurt the people dealing with us, it hurts us so so much more. We don’t like being this way, and having to deal with us either.

 If your someone who’s got something against borderlines, don’t read this. It isn’t a request, I’m serious. I’m being completely honest about everything in this, and I don’t want to be insulted for a mental illness that’s already hurt me so much, that’s already taken away so much from me. So please, I’m open to questions about BPD, but I’m not going to tolerate any insults.

I’ve also added some spoilers I found from chapter 15. So this is kind of a spoiler alert. XD

Keep reading

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Hey it’s xmas month, that means only one thing.

Finals are over with! also xmas.

And what better way to celebrate than by drawing some good ole narcissistic self shipping.

CPAU was loving made by @loverofpiggies

Gaster Sans was made by @borurou

I think both Underfell and Underswap are fandom made and don’t necessarily belong to anyone

Reaper sans I know belongs to @renrink

I respect your opinion. I don't agree with it, but I respect it.

Respecting that someone else has a differentiating opinion than yours doesn’t mean you have to agree with it, it means that you can at least be civil about it and agree on one thing- Not everyone thinks the same thing as you.

I respect your opinion, even if I don’t agree with it entirely.

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a derse dreamers kin aesthetic because i got bored and i guess am starting to make aesthetic posts now??

watch me make like 50 of these things in a week on an impulse and then never make aesthetics ever again after that.

none of the images are mine.

One time in 5th grade we had an exchange student named Soon-Yeong from Korea and we all thought he was the new class pet so we asked him lots of nosey questions that he didn’t understand and in return he gave us scented twistable crayons and shiny anime stickers as tribute then we found out he was really good at soccer so we took him out to play and he kicked the ball so high it hit a seagull flying by and it fell into the playground and we all crowded round to see if it was dead and after that Soon-Yeong was our hero.

To this day no one knows what happened to the seagull.

Don’t tell me you won’t forget me if someday you will. Everyone forgets. I never forget. I’ll never forget you. I hope you never forget me.
—  Leohearts 

anonymous asked:

Dearest Duke, I came to you now for advice. Duke, do you ever get lonely? I mean, I only ever have two good friends while we were undergraduates but now we have already moved to different cities in pursuit of a job and I never get to see them anymore. I also am horrible at making new connections and I'm bored out of my mind. Also, my work is quite solitary. At first it was wonderful but after a while I found myself needing some human connection. How about you, do you ever get the same feelings?

Sure. I think everyone does, and I think it’s important to remember that. Human beings are social animals, and when we don’t get enough interaction with other social animals, we get sad. Personally I totally understand your dilemma: all my other MA classmates (with like one exception) have already left London, and I’m a writer, so my work is really solitary. Usually that’s okay because I’m a secret introvert, but I do get a little stir crazy when I haven’t seen a friend in a few days. You’d be amazed how alone you can feel in a city with 8.7 million people. None of my neighbors speak English, and they’re all leading very closed insular family lives anyway. I don’t trust men I don’t know, frankly (I’ve just been hit on one time too many and it’s exhausting, to the point where I don’t even want to talk to men anymore, which is a shame because some of my best and oldest friends are men) and where are you supposed to meet other women you just want to be friends with? Doesn’t sound like rocket science, but it’s harder than it seems. Next month I have to fly to Texas, where I know literally no one except my parents, and I have no idea how long I’m going to be there. This is a long way of saying, I feel ya. 

As for what to do about it, that’s harder. The best antidote I’ve found to bouts of boredom and friendsickness (as opposed to homesickness) is just to reach out. Most people are only a text message or a Skype call away and even though no, it’s not the same as hanging out in person, it’s better than nothing. Alternatively, if you’re looking for a more long-term solution, the best thing I can suggest is to go out and do stuff. Comfy as it is, you can’t make friends holed up at home. So go find some people with similar interests. Join a book club. Volunteer somewhere. Strike up a conversation with someone who knows a lot about something you’re interested in. (I had a fantastic chat last week with a guy who works at one of the record shops I’m always in because he knew the band on my shirt.) Lastly: it might make you feel like a dork, but there’s literally nothing wrong with saying to someone “All my friends have moved and I’m looking to meet some new people. You want to grab coffee sometime?” Even better, have a plan: “I was going to go see Fantastic Beasts on Wednesday. Want to go?” Nobody will know you’re interested in actually forming friendships unless you tell them, directly or otherwise. So go out on a limb. You have nothing to lose. 

Hope you feel better soon. 

If you’re ever hating yourself for your flaws just remember that Natalie Dormer has a wonky upper lip that naturally twists down but we perceive it as a sassy smirk and still think she is one of the most beautiful women in the world

So don’t hate yourself for what makes you unique and beautiful

This has been a random confidence boost post that no one will probably ever see but I love you all

anonymous asked:

So I really love your band au??? Like, it reminds me of when I was in highschool because I was a chorus girl and the band room was right next to where the chorus was and for some reason there was always this mini feud between the two? So imagine chorus!mc and band!rfa engaged in the feud between each other and one day they realize "OH NO. I'VE FALLEN AND I CAN'T GET UP"

IM SO GLAD YOU LIKE MY BAND AU :33 i like it too heheheh

i was in band and chorus and i totally remember, like, thinking everyone in chorus was an annoying jerk LMFAO!!!!

i feel like i can picture Yoosung getting a crush on MC, then before band class starts he tells everyone about MC and he’s like “oh and she’s in chrorus” and then Seven screams DUDE WHAT ARE YOU THINKING and Zen is like ARE YOU CRAZY and jumin and jaehee roll their eyes and jJumin is like good luck with that and even V is like ok Yoosung idk about this one scoob

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Favorite TV Show 2013.