Reading about all of this drama in the ouat fandom where once again swan queen is denied a safe space by everyone from fellow fans, to tptb and now even convention organisers.

Meanwhile, Hayley Atwell is at a convention spamming twitter with photos of Lyndsy Fonseca with captions like “cartinelli”, “cutie” and “love this girl”.

I get whiplash belonging to these two fandoms, I swear.


“That would be my dream, having you waiting at home with nothing but an apron on.”
“Then do it yourself!”
“I’d want you waiting there, naked with just an apron on, and I’d be ‘I’m home!’, and you’re there in just your apron, 'welcome home!’. You’re like, 'which would you like: dinner, a bath, or me?’ 'why, you, of course!’”
“Ew, how can you say that without being embarassed?”


You’ll never be forgiven…

Can I just take a moment here and speak about this scene and say can we all mutual agree that even though Jae Hee told Lieutenant Yeom that he would kill Cho Rim (Know the word kill makes everything i write after pointless but bare with me here) that deep down he had a thing for her. She was the first person he told about his disability of not being able to reconized others by there face. She was a person even though it wasn’t in trusting in who he REALLY was she was a person who he trusted to be in his home when he wasn’t around. Even before knowing how close her relationship was with a cop and even after he let her in through some doors that others didn’t go past. Because she sincerly was trying to be his friend. (well you know up to the point till he realized who she was and Cho Rom finding out what he did to her parents) Till this point words about Jae Hee being a moster a murderer a killer didn’t effect him because he never denied it to himself but he also didn’t care. But the moment the one person he trusted called him that he felt the sting. This cast has been perfect since day one,(atleast from drama stand point i can say this I don’t knowhow the webcomic was) how can a show have such a lovable yet hateful villan in it? Nam Goong Min you where amazing in this role! and Shin Se Kyung you where perfect in yours!

Excuse me, but…

Our puppy just did this amazing thing and shut down all the haters. You know, the ones claiming she couldn’t be golden lacquer bc she isn’t that good, or that thin or too short? Where is the excessive amounts of Luna pride rn? Why is there not more OMG, look at our girl?

United front time f(ans).

I’ve never really talked about this but I found out what a lesbian is through a porn ad. I still think about how disgusting that is. I was probably about 7 and just googling things like “real mermaid evidence” and suddenly you see two naked girls embracing each other and honestly, can you imagine how confusing it was for a young lesbian? I can’t remember my thoughts exactly but I know that I genuinely thought that it was only a thing for men to look at, I didn’t know that two girls could actually be in love until I caught an episode of the l word on tv a year later or something.
I want young lesbians to be safe so badly and I am so excited to start writing children’s books about innocent girls love with dreamy illustrations and beautiful stories so they can learn who they are through that instead of disgusting, fetishising porn.


Alright guys feel free to ignore this long, sappy post….

Today I’m two years cut free. And I just wanted to take a second to thank all of the people who have been apart of my long journey through recovery. Morgan, you got the worst of it all. But you saved my life. And I will always be grateful for that. Thanks for kicking my ass and forcing me to get help. liveonforhim three years ago I didn’t know how much you would impact my life. You always listened without judgement, watched over me, and took care of me. chrisnotball you have been one of my rocks since probably middle school. You have saved me on so many occasions. We may fight or have disagreements, but I love you so much. Ashley and Julia, you have been me two best friends for 11 years. And you’ve stuck by my side through it all. Thank you for driving aimlessly with me, loving me, and supporting me through every pathway I’ve been down. terminirwin first off, I want to say you are so freaking talented. Wether it be writing or singing, your art brings so much joy to my life. Thanks for being here for me. I love you. To my family, thank you for your love, support, and most importantly for helping me learn to love myself. (This includes math-and-body-works the-girl-from-nyc and nevercould) the-calculus-delusion although you weren’t there for the hardest parts of my recovery, you still are my best guy friend in the whole entire world. You gossip with me, sing with me, dance with me, share my obsession with grenadine, and are just all around the greatest guy. You’re gonna do amazing things buddy. thedevilsdancer Sydney, you are my rock. You are my gossip buddy. You are my best friend. You always listen when I’m having a problem and hold me when I cry. I could not have asked for a better room mate. I love you so much. And of course, my beautiful, loving, caring, amazing girlfriend, fadingfasterandfaster. Every single day with you is a blessing. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and always being here for me. I love you so much.

Thanks again for all of your support. I am truly the luckiest girl in the world.

  • 5 year old:Mommy, can we watch tv?
  • Me:I don't know, what do you want to watch?
  • 3 year old:ALTON BROWN!!!
  • 5 year old:YAY!! Let's watch Good Eats!!
  • Me:You want to watch Alton Brown and Good Eats?
  • 3 year old and 5 year old:YEAH!!!!!!!
  • Me:Not cartoons?
  • 5 year old:No, cartoons are silly. Alton Brown teaches us cooking and science. He's cool.
  • Me:Sure, you can watch Good Eats.
  • 3 year old and 5 year old:YAY! Thank you Mommy!! THANK YOU!
  • *they jump around the house chanting Alton Brown*
  • 5 year old:We just love him.
  • Me:You guys are weird, I like it.

“For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; to cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands.” -Christina Rossetti