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not-natural-moose-and-squirrel  asked:

Hello! I'm currently questioning my gender but I'm feeling like I'm faking/confused since I don't have dysphoria. Idek. I'm thinking that I'm androgyne or androgynflux, but I'm still on the fence. I have a few NB friends, but I'm too nervous to talk to them abt it since I don't have dysphoria. I didn't really know about NB genders until very recently when I met said friends. I'm not sure what to think. I never questioned my gender before now. I never knew any different I guess :/

Hi there !! Gosh, okay, before I say anything else, I’m sorry you’re dealing with faker feels and confusion because you don’t experience dysphoria but I’ve got good news for you !! Dysphoria is not required to be trans !! Dysphoria is not required to be nonbinary !! You can absolutely 1000% be a non-dysphoric nonbinary and/or trans person !!

And the way these things go, chances are you’re not a faker, I promise. Most people who have to doubt whether or not they’re fakers tend to not be, actually, since being a faker usually implies that you’ve made a conscious choice to fake something. And based on what you’ve said, I’m positive you’re not a faker.

In terms of talking to your friends, I’m sorry you’re too nervous to talk to them about it right now. Chances are, talking to them will go okay, but it’s okay to still be nervous. You don’t have to talk to them about gender stuffs unless/until you’re comfortable with it, okay? When I started questioning my gender I actually spent some time not telling anyone (even though most of my friends are also nonbinary and trans) until I was personally comfortable with the idea that I was not a girl. Take all the time you need. 

And finally, it’s okay to be confused. You’ve got the words “androgyne” and “androgynflux” already, that’s a start !! I’m really proud of you already for being able to self reflect and question your gender, which I know firsthand can at times be a difficult process. Sending lots of love and support !! 💜💜💜💜


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I think you’re confused. All your life, you’ve used fear to control people, like your friends, Mai and Ty Lee.
“But what choice do I have? Trust is for fools. Fear is the only reliable way. Even you fear me.”
No, I love you, Azula, I do.

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