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LITERALLY THO - posts that say “Padme would have NEVER fallen for Anakin!!!” just invalidate Padme’s ENTIRE CHARACTER ARC and indirectly BLAME HER for everything that happened after they met

y’all treat her like she’s supposed to be some pillar of decency and correctness when her secret relationship with him is one of the most interesting dynamics of her character BECAUSE it’s so opposite of what is expected for characters like her

i see excuse after excuse for Anakin’s fucky shit but most all I see for Padme is posts that shame her for her relationship with him

and honestly it’s misogynistic because you’re literally reducing her to her relationship with a man - like yeah, her relationship with Anakin was a big part of her life, but it wasn’t her whole life! 

and it’s dehumanizing because shaming her also puts her on a pedestal of expected flawless perfection, and surprise surprise! dehumanization goes both ways between “this person is trash” and “this person is a literal goodness personified”

just stop.

stop.

anonymous asked:

I'm 14 and transfem, and my mother is forcing me into the closet. When I came out to her I told her that I needed my gender expression to match my identity to be comfortable, showed her the clothes I wanted to wear, and explained how anxious and depressed I was feeling having to go out in public not looking like me. She blew it off, telling me I couldn't and coming up with dumb unrelated excuses. She forces me to dress and look like a boy and the dysphoria is awful. What can I do so I can be me?

Try being low key about it. Instead of wearing dresses wear blouses. Get some rly short heels. Try to transition slowly. And if she calls you out, tell her that this is who you are and you need to be accepted for you.
Honestly the more you bother her about it the more likely she is to ignore it. But the more you do things without her know leg the more likely she’ll take you seriously.
Best of luck!
- Andy

anonymous asked:

Ugh YES I HATE when snowbarry shippers try to compare snowbarry to olicity because for one- Oliver and Felicity actually have chemistry. two, olicity happened because Stephen pushed for it, along with the enormous support the critics were giving olicity, along with the fact that Oliver and Laurel had very weak chemistry and the writers noticed. Westallen is extremely popular. Barry and Iris have raw chemistry. Grant and Candice support it thoroughly. Literally everything is in westallen's favor.

honestly i’ve never even seen an episode of arrow so i really don’t have a clue re: how or why Oliver/Felicity came to be, but i do know that any claims insinuating that barry and iris won’t end up together on the show just because O/F exists are rather outlandish and yes my friend i absolutely agree with you that literally everything on the show is in westallen’s favor and has been since day one :) it’s just irritating and annoying to see that same arrow/olicity excuse being used over and over and over in order to erase iris’ part in barry’s story by people who know fully well their ship will never see the light of day

anonymous asked:

I honestly don't see why you stay with that miserable excuse for a family, Flo. Your father is a thick-headed neanderthal who throws tantrums every time someone sane tries to correct him when he's wrong and your mother is a cowardly mess that should learn to dress her own age... and don't even get me started on that deadbeat of a brother that you have, what was his name again, Dan? If I were you I would ditch those losers, none of them are worth your time.

{ L A T E R }

“Family Time”

Don’t you just love those precious family outings where you do silly things together and just have fun? Yeah, Papyrus took his little bro out on plenty of those. Honestly this just gave me an excuse to draw baby Sans in a fox suit. So adorable! X3 I also got to try a new coloring technique for the trees of Snowdin, not bad. :D

anonymous asked:

it blu; this is like some new level of OOC hell. Like not only are they terribad interpretations of these charactera but they're using the excuse that they Are Personally Those Characters in order to dictate how you're Allowed to interpret canon. When their interpretation of canon is beyond shitty. this is hell and I'm so sorry for the kin community that they have to deal with fuckers like this on a possible daily basis. This is shinnanigans

I honestly thought these people were trolls until I started getting literal screenshots from them. And I’m gonna use this ask for a second; when people ask me why I’m uncomfortable with the kin community, this is definitely 50% of the reason. They are invasive, try to dictate their beliefs onto other people, and are often misogynistic, racist, homophobic and transphobic all at once.  While also bullying and trying to cry uncle when they start shit with people. This isn’t the only people who have absolutely destroyed my trust in that community- it’s happened no less than two other times beyond this. 

And I’m just sick of being invaded upon and getting misgendered all because they think they know better than me. If you at all think that the anons were in any sort of capacity right, you need to unfollow me, because I am not comfortable with your presence. I honestly am posting these anons because (1) they’re so hyperinflated they’re hilarious in a very sad and dangerous way, and (2), I want people to see the harassment that some (I’m not trying to say all, no way) people of this community enact on others who are uncomfortable with the community for any reason. 

This is embarrassing.

anonymous asked:

Hasn't??? Garnet stated that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone?? Like?? These people say they just want representation, but they're overriding something THAT CHARACTER said in order to get get that. That just feels. Gross? IDK. I might be wrong.

No, she’s said she doesn’t want a relationship, so you’re not wrong! Honestly, these people just want an excuse to shit on aro-ace people. If it wasn’t for Garnet, it’d be for something else.

IMO, the way they treat us is very reminiscent of abuse cycle stuff. Cishet people have made them feel unwelcome in the world, so they make aro-ace people feel unwelcome in the LGBT+ community. Never mind the fact that MULTIPLE trans aro-aces have stated that this shit makes us feel unsafe. We’re aro-ace, so pushing us out and making us feel unsafe is okay. /sarcasm

These people will never stop with their aro-acephobia. I’m done arguing with them, lol.

#abuse mention #btw i’m only done if nobody tries to start shit

I used to be the Queen of Procrastination, but there’s reason + ways I’ve overcome my problem. 

  • Do assignments when they’re given to you. Easy said than done, right? Wrong! It’s such a simple process, that a lot of us make such a big deal out of, just because we are lazy. When a teacher assigns work, do it that day. If it doesn’t require a lot of steps such as an essay, then you have no excuse to not finish it when it’s given to you.

- side note: I do my work as soon as I get home. I can’t study in a library because it’s too quiet for me. Honestly I’m able to get all of my work done in my room, on my bed. If you have enough discipline, you can keep yourself from trying to fall asleep. If you honestly can’t do this, then instead of heading back to your room, stay on campus and go to the library after class, or find a cafe. 

  • Get your priorities straight. You’re in school and there to get a better education so you can help make a difference in this world with efficient knowledge. Especially if you’re in college, why waste money when you’re not even going to do your work? These are the questions you seriously need to start asking yourself.
  • Your GPA only affects YOU. I know a lot of people say a GPA doesn’t define their worth, but in college…it does. We need to stop looking at everything with roses in our face. If you were so set out on not caring about your GPA, then you shouldn’t be in school in the first place. This life is very challenging and someone’s always going to outshine you. Procrastinating on work, is like procrastinating on life. You’re showing that you’re okay with someone showing you up.
  • Stop making excuses. You have NO excuse for not having work done. Unless you have a death in the family, seriously get injured, or having a form of disability that counteracts with your learning…you need to stop letting yourself down. I know a lot of people who suffer from serious anxiety and other situations, but still get their work done. I don’t want to hear your excuse & your teacher might not care tbh. 

- side note: breaking this habit early will definitely help you improve in the future. Procrastination can spread to your field of work also, and that’s when you’ll get fired from your job. Building discipline is very essential.

  • Nipping procrastination in the bud gives you more free-time. Have you had to cancel plans because you decided to do your work last minute? Well guess what, you’re stopping yourself from being able to also enjoy life. If you get your work done now, you can play later.
  • Write out your goals. Put your goals in your face, I have mine on a chalk board in my room. Write down what you want to achieve in life/school. When you physically see your goals, it will motivate you more. 
  • Work with a study group. I always stress having a study group in my posts because it honestly is what helped me the most. Have some friends, and work together. Literally, your whole perspective on work will change if the group is effective and you’ll all actually doing work.
  • Get off of Tumblr. Stop trying to focus your attention on social media, and other distractions. If you start allowing yourself to actually focus, you’ll enjoy doing your work more.

- side note: You’ll realize your grades will start to improve. Good grades help us strive even further in doing our work on time. I’m always ready to turn work in and find out my grade. This concept has helped me get over my severe laziness. 

I hope these tips help you all, and remember…continue being STUDIOUS! feel free to message me anytime for more advice and helpful tips!! - xoxo Domi :*

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This one was inspired by (even if it doesn’t strictly follows) @zeezeepearl’s Fishbones AU, where Undyne is the adoptive sister of the skelebros. This is honestly becoming one of my favorite concepts since Undyne’s personality would add so many interesting dynamics to the skeleton family. Really, just think of Gaster dealing with these three at the same time and try not to smile.

I have no excuse for the characterization, I just really wanted to try a cocky teenager Sans and draw Undyne and Papyrus roleplaying as royal guards because the idea was too adorable to let is pass. Also, of course I added a young Toriel to the mix and of course I hinted at a Soriel crush, what do you think I am, some kind of non-obsessed shipper?

dA link to the single file

And now that this is out of my chest, I have a very long and very important project to finish.

anonymous asked:

I fall in love with trash lord Anakin Skywalker because of your art. I don't even know is it good or bad, but thank you. If someone said me "Join the dark side, we have a lot of Shorelle's art", i will join them immediately. You are wonderful person.

oh my lord, thank you so much anon! I’m so glad you fell in love with this trash lord too, IT’S TOTALLY A GOOD THING and honestly am just really honoured because Anakin Skywalker is literally the reason why I got back into drawing a few years ago!

// uses this excuse to doodle our original Space Trash King (now in eternally sassy force ghost form!!) (/¯◡ ‿ ◡)/¯ ~ ☆

[peter voice] stiles stilinski??? what a spaz what a— [trips] [hundreds of photos of stiles spill out of jacket] w-what a fucking asshole i—these arent mine i’m just [gathering them up frantically sweating] listen i just— listen fuck [thousands of pictures of stiles scatter across the floor] shit— fuck i’m holding them for a friend just listen

Aftertale will update tonight

sorry everyone, I’m bein worked to THE BONE (bwe hehe) but ye I haven’t had time to update it and I’ve been pretty exhausted lately. I know I could have used that time with AskErrorSans to do it but- honestly I have no excuse I just had to draw that immediately. But tonight FOR SURE Aftertale will update, thank you!

I honestly feel so fucking BLESSED that we have loving Danny, always eager to praise Ryan and others, as our Robron co-leader. And then we have our fellow co-leader Ryan, always appreciative of fans despite remaining private, it’s like!!! WE ARE SO LUCKY!! We could’ve ended up with a couple of real jerks, which would have divided the fans into the ones making excuses for them and the ones who condemned them, but NAH. That’s not a problem for us in the Robron fandom. We have two absolutely lovely ppl who know how to shine when they’re in public view, just absolute sweeties. Kind to every fan who meets them, kind in every interview, always praising each other and everyone else, just!!! I am so thankful for these two men for taking their jobs so seriously and just being BRILLIANT!