i hate the question “if you were a girl, which band member would you date?” like? why is that first part necessary? do you need to be a girl in order to date a male band member? no. just ask “which band member would you date?”. or, an even better idea, ask bands about their music.
I really do hate it when people disrespect their favorite band member’s girlfriend like are you kidding me yeah it kinda sucks but they don’t belong to you and it’s not like you’ll ever have a real chance with them anyways so you might as well just suck it the fuck up and show them some respect instead of being a bitch about it