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About kissing Teruki ...

Never thought I would write about this. Well, as a child in the 80s, I had a huge crush on Boy George …. go google him. So I guess you can see, a celebrity’s orientation is not an issue to me. But I’m also not keen on seeing untrue “info" being spread about the very people I dedicate my blog to.

This is the follow-up to my reply to  my friend’s question about the sexuality of MY FIRST STORY’s vocalist Hiroki. 

http://japanessie.tumblr.com/post/158614750312/hi-i-just-want-to-ask-bcoz-other-fans-are

I’m also going to touch a bit about guitarist Teruki as he seems to be dragged into this as well (I know many fans fantasize about these two getting it on together LOL😆).


1. They already said they’re not gay

Hiro and Teru already said they’re not gay through this photo. 

Teru: The vocalist of a certain band is sleeping on my lap. #not gay #you’re cute when you’re silent #vocalist of a certain band #headed for Summer Sonic

Hiro: I’m not homo yo! ( ゚д゚)」 I love girls! @(・o・)@

They were travelling in a van! Touring musicians yo! They were headed for Summer Sonic Festival. He was tired and he wanted to rest. Where else could he squeeze in that cramped van? Luckily, Hiro is small enough to curl up like that.

I love how Hiro replied to Teru TWO HOURS after. It means Teru was such a good sport letting his little friend rest on him for THAT long. Imagine the cramps Teru might have gotten LOL😃. Sleeping on your friend’s lap doesn’t necessarily connote something sexual yo!

What’s the big deal with him using Teru’s thigh as his pillow? After all, Hiro is the type who can fall asleep anywhere and Teru has always been the one who enjoys showing “sleeping Hiro" to the world the most. As usual, Teru only saw it as funny.


On a side note ….

Teru himself is also very open to affectionate friendships 😊

Because that’s the kind of friendship he has with his best friend Taikan, which occasionally includes brotherly hugs and friendly kisses. Taikan once tweeted their photo together and captioned it “Thank you for our friendship. I love you!“. Yes, he wrote “Aishiteru!” for Teruki. No, Taikan isn’t gay either.


2. Hiro likes women

I’d seen Hiro talked about his taste in women in 3 separate video interviews already so far. Then, there’s the ViVi magazine one too.


3. Is this about stereotyping?

I hope these people are not stereotyping sexual orientation through the way Hiro dresses and his level of comfort in showing his emotions to the world. Hey, must straight people be conventional, expressionless and boring?


4. Hiro is a child of divorce yearning for love & affection

True that Hiro enjoys affection from those he’s close to such as his band members. We must remember he was only 11 when his family split up. He didn’t get to enjoy that love & family environment for very long.

The fact that he likes older people is a hint of a boy who’s craving for that love and trying to fill up that missing chunk of his life through the bond he shares with his friends particularly the older ones. We all know how attached he is to the 10yrs-older band leader Sho by now. Then, just look at how quickly he bonded with guys twice his age like HYDE, Aki, Gackt and Daigo.

Hiro is just missing and yearning for that part in his life. He wants a family. Just look at how his brother Taka treated him when they were kids. Don’t you think he misses those moments every day of his life? His friends seem more than happy to give him hugs and shoulders to cry on. Why not? He deserves it.


5. Finally, about kissing Teru …..

Back to Hiro & Teru again. I’m sure there are those who made assumptions about Hiro because they saw this particular photo …. (among others from that night).

Here’s the story.

It was Hiro’s 20th birthday bash when he became legal in Japan to drink alcohol. So, his friends bought him a few bottles of pretty strong liquor. Sho posted the photo of those bottles that night.

Translation by me.


@MFSMAKI 主役登場(*´ `*)お誕生日おめでとう―!
shuyaku toujou. o tanjoubi omedetou !
The appearance of the main character. Happy birthday!

@Teru528 HBD!!ぶっ潰す。
bu t tsubusu.
HBD!! Smash.

@fromus_mfs プレゼントがほぼ酒。笑
purezento ga hobo sake. haha.
Presents are mostly alcohol. Haha!

@fromus_mfs 笑。Haha.


@fromus_mfs この絵はやばい。笑 げんさん。。
kono e wa yabai. haha Gen-san.
This photo is the shit. Haha Gen-san.


@Subciety_gen ダメなやつ。
dame na yatsu.
Bad boy.


@fromus_mfs 次はキング佐々木がキスされます。助けません。
tsugi wa kinggu sasaki ga kisu saremasu. tasukemasen.
Next is King Sasaki to be kissed. I won’t help.


@fromus_mfs テルキを襲ってキスしてます。てるきが助けてって言ってる。俺は助けない。
teruki wo osotte kisu shitemasu. teruki ga tasuketette itteru. ore wa tasukenai.
Kiss-attacking Teruki. Teruki is saying “Help”. Me, not gonna help.

@Subciety_gen マイファス愛。
maifasu ai.
MY FIRST love.

@MFSMAKI Hiroが号泣し始めました!お酒の怖さを思い知ったようです!とりあえず、ふぁい!みんあHiroが大好きだよ!
Hiro ga goukyuu shi hajimemashita! osake no yowasa wo omoishitta you desu! toriaezu, fai! minna Hiro ga daisuki da yo!
Hiro started to cry! Looks like he has realized about how scary alcohol is. Meanwhile, fight on*! Everybody loves Hiro yo!

* Not sure what she meant with ふぁい。So I just guessed LOL

So, how badly drunk was Hiro? 

Bear in mind, this was his 1st experience. I don’t remember who took this last party photo but Hiro looked the most drunk in it. He probably had to be carried back home by the end of the night. Though he likes to say, “When it’s drinking time, I drink. When it’s not drinking time, I don’t!“, but I highly doubt he ever gets to this level again nowadays. If you notice, he doesn’t even take beers with his meals.

Note: Special thanks to MY FIRST STORY Thailand FB Fanpage for keeping the captions from those photo tweets.

A friend of mine said Hiro made a bet which he lost and he had to kiss his friends as a result. I can’t reconfirm that because their Twitter accounts are gone now. However, I do remember Sho and Maki tweeting something along the line, “Woah! Who’s the next victim to be kissed?! Run!! Haha!!”. So, it was a crazy game they were playing really, to celebrate Hiro’s coming-of-age.


Hmm …. come to think of it, if you actually look at the real situation, there was nothing even remotely sexual about all the kissing.

To all those who simply assume things about others, please do your research first! When you see a photo, look at the whole context.

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Tagged by @gumisae! Thank you sm 💕 💓 💖 💝  I was supposed to make a moodboard using the pics on my phone and i did my best!! also ive never posted my face on this blog before, but heres a disgusted photo of me as a kid if that counts 


I tag @resabeans @the-female-prince @sugarquill-slayer and anyone who wants to do this!

anonymous asked:

eh you want the focus off jian yi ? the focus last arc was on tianshan and I'm really curious about jian yi's family, I don't get why everyone's so negative when the arc has just started. I get that it's been rushed and a lil confusing but I think it will be really good... not trying to anger anyone with this, I hope you get where I'm coming from. Really love your blog btw!

aah, I guess I didn’t explain myself, since I wanted to keep it brief. I did, however, mention about keeping him as the center, so I’m not saying Old Xian should just drop him and show us other characters instead. no, don’t take me wrong, I’m actually happy that we finally got to see something (not enough tho) about his relationship with his mother, since it was never properly explored (until now?).

by slightly shifting the focus I meant that it would be nice if it weren’t just about Jian Yi. there are many characters involved in this arc that we don’t know much about, or nothing at all. for example, his father; what’s up with him, what kind of business is he involved in, what’s his relationship with Jian Yi, what was all that?? also, some information about He Cheng would be greatly appreciated. so, you get my point.

well, I admit I’m a bit afraid that Old Xian will deal poorly with this kidnapping, though I don’t want to sound so negative about it, sorry for that. it’s not the first time Old Xian delivers something and then leaves it unresolved. and it just seems to me like this arc is such a great opportunity to deepen the plot and explore relationships we don’t know so much about! I agree with you, there’s actually a lot of potential in this arc!! so yeah, sorry if I made it sound that way, like I’m not interested in Jian Yi’s situation or something like that. aah honestly, these days I’m on an objective ground and my ideas keep changing, because I feel like Old Xian is really, really teasing us, which can get frustrating after some time. I guess it’s a mix of ‘maybe I will get disappointed’ and ‘maybe I will get surprised’. 

thanks for sharing this with me and sorry again if I sounded negative, hope this cleared up the little misunderstanding! I’m glad you like my blog, although these days I haven’t been around so much, so hearing this sure makes me happy. have a great day, anon!

guess who is live-blogging their attempt at writing their thesis?

(it’s me)

but seriously. I have a long footnote explaining that it really is necessary that I sometimes refer to the character as Bruce Wayne and other times as Batman, so just think of them as two ways of referring to the same thing. and this is only just beginning

Do you like Killing Stalking? Then read these!

I promise this is a 99.99% KS content blog, but I want to take a moment to gush about my favorites in the psychological/horror genre (some which might be even more fucked up than KS even).

1. DEAD TUBE (ongoing)
This is one of my all-time favorite ongoing manga. It. Is. BLOODY. There’s gore everywhere and there’s always someone losing some limbs or dying. 
There’s this site called… you guessed it: Dead Tube. It’s like Youtube or Vine but about a million times ‘WTF’. The aim is to create videos that will shock as many people as possible. People will murder, torture, do sexual acts, take unsolicited videos of other people, and pretty much do every single fucked up thing imaginable on the list. Once you’re trapped in the game you can’t get out. If your videos don’t get many views, you get killed. Every single character in the manga is batshit crazy. There’s extreme violence, gore, and nudity every chapter. KS is probably ten times tamer, so if it’s your limit, I suggest you at least tread lightly at first. (NSFW pictures under cut). 

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Introducing TD and Chastity Play, What i did wrong......

To me FLR has SO many different angles and when introducing your partner its important to be careful. See where as i took my time, slowly introduced more and more bits into it before eventually plucking up the courage to put the cage on and show her, i still made some real big mistakes.

See my wife is not a Domme, i dont really want to know about her previous life before me but im kinda guessing im the first person that really wants to explore all these roads and possibility with her. I originally made this Blog to share things i found sexy in some way shape or form with her and looking back now i should have kept it more Vanilla and slowly introduced my interest in things like pegging. See you follow all these people then one day they reblog some Sissy stuff, some Anal Torture, Some Ball Busting. From my wife’s perspective she probably sees that and thinks FUCKING HELL.

The reason i am writing this is because somethings have been lost in translation, see she was under the impression that i wanted to become her bitch, a groveling sissy whore who wanted to wear her clothes and make up and suck strapons all day long. Now if that’s your thing im all for it but that wasn’t what i wanted.  

I came across chastity play and tease and denial play a while back, i have always been aware of bondage and always had a thing for tying or being tied up sexually. I saw it as a fun way for a male and female to have a laugh, be intimate and grow together as a couple. As much as i love her Locking me up, tying me up, teasing me and laughing as i quiver on the bed in a desperate need to cum only to deny me for another day i also would love to do the same for her. Its about exploring each others bodies, each others fantasies.

Its only fun for me if its fun for her, if she wants to lock me for a day, a week, a month or a year ill play the game as long as she finds it exiting and gets a kick out of it. If she doesn’t want it its just not going to work. But don’t give up that easily pick it up and put it down, its keeps it exiting. After a chat with my wife in the week she said she likes the cage but doesn’t want a bitch of a husband, so i explained the above and below to her and now i think it makes sense.

I am writing this because i get lots of messages from people asking how did i break the news? how did i get her on board? Truth is we are still working on it, still exploring it. I haven’t been in the cage for months, as real life is more important. This morning after our chats and fun this week i put it on.

I guess im very lucky to have such an amazing wife, i put it on gave her the keys and she smiled. That’s all i wanted. She is one of a kind, trusting and fucking gorgeous.

For anyone out there toying with this i hope this has helped, below are few images i have stolen from others. I hope they don’t mind. Good Luck and go have some fun.

I love making her moan, and its true i work harder when my dick is locked up and im working to earn a release, its common knowledge you put more effort into thngs if your getting something in return. (Or at least you think you are) 

Then there is this, after a night of teasing and a great time she didnt let you cum, your going to wake up in the morning and WANT to do this for her because your still super horny. You know your not going get to cum but pleasing her is at least some sexual activity.

Then on the other hand there is nothing sexier than doing the same to her, make her feel how you feel, i remember once back in the early days i edged my wife and then just turned the wand off and said nah, night night. She was mortified, grabbing my cock, trying her hardest to get me to fuck her. In the morning she woke up horny and we fucked. But it can work both ways.

This is also one that i agree with, the lust i have towards her, the want to constantly touch her, to kiss her its just amazing. Then once you cum its takes a good few days to get that back. Its the strongest drug i have ever felt and its awesome. 

I love it when she feels sexy the sexier she feels the more she glows the better the experience. 

Turn it into a game, a guessing game and have fun with it.

Tease him, if he is anything like me he will enjoy it.

But most importantly talk about it, discuss it find out what you both want from it and just have fun.

I guarantee it will bring you closer together. 

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@agentlacey-universe
(Sorry for taking so long to answer these, they made me really happy and I didn’t know how to respond aaa)

To the shy anon: Just go for it! The undertum community is really kind and supportive, you should have no problems fitting in!

Thank you all so much for enjoying my art and sticking with me :,)

Here we go.

I know that when you type the word studyblr into the tumblr search bar you find things that are literal AESTHETIC GOALZ but that shouldn’t stop you from pursuing a studyblr and continuing to study. Listen, I am no perfect studyblr and Rome wasn’t built in a day so here are @bohostudying (my) tips on avoiding burnout with your blog and your studying life.

1. Make a Schedule.

One thing that I find very helpful is keeping a schedule of what I need to do every week. I think it is common sense to keep a planner and many studyblr’s would agree that some form of analog planning is good. It is also really soothing and satisfying to see it all lineup. If you want to know about planners you can message me or if I get enough interest I guess I’ll just make a stationary master post.

2. Take Breaks!

a key to avoiding burnout is to make sure that it isn’t 24/7 studying. If that happens you will feel like you are studying too much and then you will want to just completely shut down and stop. So if you do take a break then do something fun, like drawing, dancing, or something that you just enjoy doing. (Make sure that you don’t do it for too long because then you won’t want to continue with your studying.

3. Don’t forget to be aware of your health 

I want to stress this that your health is the most important thing, and if you don’t pay attention to it then you can probably kiss your studyblr goodbye. So while you study it is important to stay hydrated and to eat right. One thing that is really good is to eat something that has sugar and protein in it. That way it can sustain you and also give you an added brain boost.

4. sleep, Sleep, SLEEP

Sleep is so important to the avid studier and if you don’t get enough then your brain will not function right. Also, don’t convince yourself that 4 hours of sleep is enough. You don’t reach REM sleep and if you don’t it is still like not getting any sleep. It is also really important that you go to sleep at the same time every night so your body can get into a habit of falling asleep and waking up early. This will boost your productivity and help you stay more focus.

5. Use Technology to Your Advantage

Technology is an amazing thing where you can actually have access to EVERYTHING. But, technology can also foster procrastination which is basically every student has faced once or twice in their life. You can download an app like freedom, which blocks apps and tracks your phone time. Also considering sleep you should download an app like smart alarm clock that helps track your sleep. This will really help you with your productivity

6. Use a Habit Tracker.

If you want to stay up with your social media and other things in your life that you want to start, use a habit tracker. Whether it is in your bujo or in a fancy app it will be really satisfying to see your streaks pile up.

That’s all folks! If you think of anything else and message me

Bye now,

@bohostudying

This has been something Ive wanted to do for a long time. It’s a lot scarier and stressful than I thought it would be. I am still terrified and second guessing everything about this thing… But to hold this in my hands is worth it. Ive been writing since I was five years old and this is a dream come true. There will be more to come, thank you all for your support.

My book is out! 🍻Please spread the word if you don’t mind! Thank you guys again for putting up with all my blogging about it. I can’t thank you enough. And to the people who pushed me when I literally was about to call the entire thing off, you mean the world to me (you know who you are) 😘

OK SO I WAS JUST LOOKING THROUGH THE KEEP BEACH CITY WEIRD BLOG AND THEN I SAW THAT

*DEEP BREATH*
ok… So look at that last thing.

“Dogcopter dies defending the planet but then he comes back to life because he’s part cat”

And look at the parallels!!! Steven, who is half-human (mortal) and half-gem (immortal-ish) and oh my freaking dog.

Is Ronaldo guessing this as he has guessed EVERYTHING BEFORE??

And, what made me really believe this is that earlier in the post, he was talking about spoilers and that someone had spoiled the end of a movie for him.

He is LITERALLY SPOILING THE ENTIRE FINALE!!

so 2 months ago this happened

not only did i lose all gifs and graphics i’ve made for my anime blog and kpop side blog over the years but i also just hit 20k back then.. but guess what? 2 months later i finally got my 20k back! this is all thanks to my amazing mutuals and followers!! there’s no way i could do that alone! special thanks to @kimdaily @yoongsins @mewchim @yoonse0k @hwangsae @jeon-gguk @taeguk @mangaetteok @chimcheroo @jiminrolls @jjilljj @apgujeon @bangtanbanchan @chimchams @bfjoonie @sosjimin @jminies @yoongles @yoonminnie @mssuga @rapdaegu @holy-yoongi @tahyns @bwipsul @thekookiest @pjmsx @dearmyjimin @cyyphr @chokemejimin @ttaewo @jimiyoong

also i’d like to thank people who only knew me as kanekx/shiggeo/nickiforov and found and followed this blog even tho i didn’t really tell anyone about accidentally deleting ;; 

okay kat nobody even reads these just get to the point

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hey hello, sorry about all the pages posted at once! last time i updated this blog i had like 20 followers and now there’s… uh…a couple thousand of you for me to annoy… holy fuck hi

but yeah, i make a whole part at once and idk how else to upload it except all in one go so sorry for that i guess!

NCIS One Shot: Kiss the Gunner’s Daughter

Summary: You’re dating McGee. McGee’s boss is your father. Gibbs doesn’t know you’re dating McGee. You don’t know McGee’s boss is your father. McGee doesn’t know you’re Gibbs’s daughter. Guess you all had to find out somehow. No wonder DiNozzo can’t stop laughing.

Word Count: 1.3k

Requested By: Anon

Warnings: None

Notes: I’m not dead, I swear. I think of this blog everyday, I’m just so short on time :(. But here you go! Enjoy!

Originally posted by justbacktothegoodolddays


Kiss the Gunner’s Daughter: A sailor about to receive punishment (usually flogging)


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Okay.

Usually I’m the type to quietly block or scroll past posts or blogs that tick me off, and to wait for shit storms to pass, but going through the Destiel tag for the past two days has been nothing but the same accusation every other post: people loudly yelling into the void about Dean/Cas shippers supposedly harassing/hating on Jensen Ackles.

I (to no avail) hoped that this entire argument would’ve blown over by now, but days after the event ended it’s still everywhere I look in the pro tags, even though it’s merely that at this point; shouting into the void.

And I get it, some say that Jensen was rude and what he said was uncalled for. Others say that the question that the girl asked was badly formulated and rude so she had it coming.

But no matter what side you’re on (I honestly don’t care), what saddens me the most is that in this fandom it seems to be some sort of trend to start witch hunts and jump on the opportunity to shame or pick on other fellow fans whenever something like this happens. And to lecture random fans in tags or places where they go simply to look up fanfiction or fanart, even though like 95% of these fans are probably innocent of whatever it is that you’re accusing them of.

You want to actually do something; do it, but make sure it’s not a waste of energy and that your energy is also directed where it should be directed.

Go to twitter, the search will easily help you find all tweets with Jensen’s UN tagged in it. If you see rudeness or harassment, address it. Simply report or flag the account (only takes one second, and Twitter does look into it), or (politely) call the person out if you feel like it. Same goes for FaceBook; report harassing comments towards your favorite actor, or politely call people out who are actually committing the crime, explain to them why they’re in the wrong, according to you.

If you visit cons or other events and come across disturbing behavior directly towards actors and it worries you; again, report it. This is how you can help, by addressing and reporting actual harassers.

However randomly shouting on tumblr is probably the most pointless thing ever, because even the people who rant about Jensen on their own blogs aren’t doing much harm; I doubt Jensen follows or checks the blog destiel5everomg on a daily basis. Or ever, for that matter. And if you must rant about this to vent, sure, do it, but this is what anti tags are for. 

Yet it sickens me how this fandom pulls this shit every freaking time. Instead of educating others or kindly calling them out when necessary, everyone’s always eager to generalize/demonize fellow fans, often young women and/or LGBT+ fans who aren’t acting out of malicious intent but who are desperately seeking for representation and fictional characters to look up to, even if it’s only by discussing their interpretations.

Instead of yelling at each other, let’s listen to each other. Instead of jumping on the opportunity to spread hate and anger, let’s spread compassion and try to understand each other. Because that is the only legit way to honor this ‘SPN family’ that so many speak so highly of.

anonymous asked:

I submitted a fan art like 5 times Kaito, and it has NEVER been on fan art Monday. Why?

The only explanation to this is that I didn’t get the fanart for any kind of reason. Sometimes Tumblr doesn’t deliver anything to me and I can’t do anything about it. But 5 times… seems like something really strange. I doubt Tumblr messed up five times. The only explanation is that you’re not submitting to the right blog?? I don’t understand what’s wrong if not.