anonymous asked:

I know you're going through the same thing that I am right now and literally anything you post regarding the breakup and how you are feeling has brought me to tears because I am hurting so much I feel like it will never go away. I feel like someone has died and I don't know if that's normal. I can't stop crying, I feel so physically drained. I don't even know how to being to get past this.

hey, these feels are real. they’re heavy. they seep into everything that you do. they’re what keep you up at night and why you don’t wanna get out of bed in the morning.

but you know what? you know what is more true than anything - but sounds like the most hokey thing ever? time will heal it. i promise. i don’t know how much time it will take for you or i, but it will heal.

it’s only been a week since everything changed for me - and i’m doing way better than i thought i would. i laugh (hard!). i’m silly again. i’m sarcastic. i’m dressing cute. i’m having fun with friends. i’m decorating my apartment. i’m still me.

and you are still you.

you were you before you were with this person and you’ll be forever you until forever. a fellow human being doesn’t deserve control over your everyday life like this. sure, you loved them. i understand. believe me. i loved him bigger than the universe. but you’ll survive.

there will be other love. none quite like you had with this person, because everyone is different, but it’ll happen again when you’re ready.

i don’t see myself dating any time soon. or maybe it’s what i need to get back in the swing of things. i don’t know. i’m young. i’m lovely. if someone didn’t want me, that’s their bad. not mine. same goes for you.

now all of this is easier said than done. it’s so easy to give this advice to other people but hard to take it within yourself.

i’m still sad and i miss him everyday. but he didn’t find me worth his time. my time and i are precious. i don’t know what caused your relationship to end - but maybe in the long run, it’s a good thing.

i wish i could give you a huge hug. i know how excruciating a broken heart is.

do something sweet for yourself soon. a pedicure. a long bubble bath. a nice lunch. a date. something.

you’ll be back in no time.