@a-forger-and-a-point-man replied to your post: damn reading tom’s shitty rant made me realise all…

dude there’s a reason i stay firmly in the inception fandom (ie. the fiction, the fantasy) and stay out of engaging with hardigans or doing anything in celebrity fandoms besides reblogging pics. people are messed up. and fans get rabid. and real people are so fucking flawed and celeb political positions can turn me off so fast. i feel so much safer in dream land, where nobody can fight me on headcanons because IT’S ALL FICTION ANYWAY!
it’s very interesting to see what famous people say, no doubt, and i do read lots of it and i’m curious, because it’s eye opening. but yeah, u gotta be able to brush it off later and that’s… hard… it’s no fun sometimes… cause you perceive them differently… and as much as i wanna separate the personal from professional, that’s not always possible. i try to appreciate them for their craft and not much else.    

Hii! thank you so much for your input!
Hah, yes, after being in the one direction fandom for 3 years I can agree to this wholeheartly. i had to take several breaks from tumblr for a couple of times because seperating oneself from the people we project so many emotions and thoughts onto is, as you say, really hard.
and yes seperating their art and their personal life, to enjoy the former, is definitely less risky to end up in disappointment. however, sometimes.. i just want to enjoy their fun, relatable public image. be charmed by a person. and damn tom’s a sweetie. but stuff like this just reminds me of how human he (they) are and that’s important, too. so, yahh. oof. humans.

I do have my problems with some of the parts of the inception fandom i came across, too, though. (how some people react to harry for example.) there’s some misogyny and stereotyping, especially in fics. but that was quite interesting to see, too: the differences in fandom.   tbh i’m not invested enough, or rather, i haven’t been long enough in the inception fandom to properly identify myself with it like i do it with the 1d one. so, in the end, i can live with the few things that i disagree with :’)  mainly i just feel New and i’m excited to maybe, slowy get into it some more; understand how you guys work!

hey, really, thank you for replying !!

The fact that series 5 of Endeavour has two more episodes than usual means:

  • 2 more chances for something bad to happen to Morse
  • 2 more chances of Dr DeBryn obviously crushing over Morse
  • 2 more chances for Strange to say “matey”
  • 2 more chances for something upsetting to happen which I’m not emotionally prepared for
  • 2 more chances for Jakes to be mentioned and how he’s a real cockney cowboy™ now
  • 2 more chances for Trewlove to save the day
  • 2 MORE CHANCES for Dotty and Max to meet and save the world
  • 2 more chances for me to get emotionally invested (as usual)

anonymous asked:

Intense angst???? I don't think I'm ready, even if it's a while from now. ;0;

Hahaha, sorry about that XD
but plenty of sugar too~

anonymous asked:

like if the moving in may thing is real that means that the pinof will be in a different place smh i don't think i'm ready for that

i can’t even contemplate pinof with hobbit hair what the fuck

anonymous asked:

Hey do you maybe know somewhere where I can buy "subtle" ace merch? Like pins or something just a little bit subtler than a t-shirt. Because I don't think I'm ready to wear a shirt shouting "I'm ace" at the world and explain it to everyone i meet.

I don’t have any direct links, but I’ll reblog some good answers :)

anonymous asked:

Hey Em. I think I might need some kind of direction. Right now it feels like the whole world is trying to make me fall in love with this person but I don't think I'm ready. He's so patient and good with me and especially in the last few months it seems like the world is doing things and pulling strings that make us get closer but I'm afraid I won't be right for him or that I won't be happy and he's the most genuine person with a heart of gold and I don't wanna fuck that up if things go bad.

Why do you believe you aren’t ready? Is your life not ready for a person? Do you believe it has to be a certain way before you can love? That you have to be a certain way before you can be loved? I think if it seems like the world is pushing you two together and, despite your fear, you feel that it is going to be right then let it be right. I have felt unready for love for a long time. I thought I had to be a certain amount of healed, of grown, blah blah blah. This may surprise you because it sure surprised me, but a person can love you entirely as you are and not hope that you will change. Shocking, isn’t it? You’re good enough right now for love. You’re always good enough for love. If it is fear that is keeping you from loving, confront that and figure out why. Then maybe love. If I ran from this I would be kicking myself. If I knew it would be this good and still ran from it I would be kicking myself. Good love is real. Kind love is real. Love that understands, that is patient with you, that challenges you and pushes you to stop being so afraid - it’s real. So maybe this is it for you. People are ready to be loved when they are their most fucked up versions of themselves. There is no person that you have to turn into to be loved, to love. Just be good to the people you love. Be honest. That is all. If you feel you may hurt him then catch yourself from doing it. Don’t sabotage it because you’re afraid you’re going to sabotage it, you know? Let love happen if you think it is supposed to happen.