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hey pals! 
i cut off all (most of) my hair today! its so good! and I’m so happy about it!
and like, as of late I’ve been kind of thinking more about myself as a person, and what i want and need and such
and i think a thing that might be nice in this stage of my life is if all my pals out there would be cool with using they/them in reference to me.
now this has been kind of a long time coming, but in thinking about things and really kind of accepting that its okay to feel these things and be who i am, i think it would be good to move to those pronouns. 

otherwise, ill just be hanging like always

here’s to the now and all of us in it!

no offense but Ika/Demetres will be targets #1 and #2 if they vote to keep Cass this week and Kevin/Bruno and their minions win HOH next week

Cass might say she’ll “be a target ahead of them” but unlike Neda some hgs aren’t dumb enough to target someone who can’t win comps in week 4

Boy, was I wrong

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But hear me out… Yurio totally lowkey ships Victuuri

Bonus:

^This was actually the first thing I drew and I just thought that it needed a cute little backstory ^-^

Once again, this is my new art blog, if you like this check it out if you like shit like this.

I also do art requests ❤

I’ve never been good enough. I’m always a disappointment for everyone. I’m always a failure.
—  #11💔

Have you ever been lowkey emotionally abused? Like, you’re not even aware it’s happening but then you think about it later and you realize that something wasn’t quite right. All of a sudden, you start to think you’re not good enough and that your feelings aren’t valid and don’t matter and if you bring it up to the person, they act like you’re being dramatic and emotional and irrational even though you know that something isn’t right. Sucks doesn’t it?

Anyone else? Just me? Okay…

Be resilient. Try again. And again. When things don’t go as planned, make a new plan. Know your strengths. Understand your weaknesses. You know what you are and what you aren’t. Use that knowledge to assess your situation. Just try again. When you fall down or come up short, know that isn’t the end of you or your journey. You can do anything. You can get through anything.

hey, uh, real actual tip from a borderline. if you feel hurt because of something someone did, don’t second guess or ask yourself “am i really hurt or am i over-emotional?”

your feelings are there, aren’t they? you’re hurt.

you’re feeling hurt, no matter how “over-emotional” you are. you’re hurting and your emotions should be treated like anyone else’s. just because you’re borderline doesn’t mean you’re “not actually hurt” or “you’re faking” emotions. you get emotional easily, yes, but those emotions need to be dealt with regardless.