i-care--do-you

wrathblook  asked:

Is Kinstuck still a thing? If not, than shoot! If yes, who are Meenah and Feferi's fathers and do they even care?

Kinstuck is still a thing in my heart and brain even if I haven’t updated it in a thousand years whoops

I might as well confirm that meenah’s bio-dad is actually GHB… which makes kurloz and gamzee her uncles technically I guess. Feferi’s dad is a dude condy met in college who is not a main cast member, I don’t have a name for him but he’s a sorta goofy ska musician/scuba instructor who lives in cabo. Don’t ask me why I just thought it was fun.

Condy never told them outright who their dad’s were, she’d usually just laugh or play it off when they asked or say stuff like “What? Having the best mom in the world isn’t enough for you?”, but they’re both really smart and resourceful so they eventually did figure it out. But It was more just a sibling-bonding thing and a way to one-up their mom more than something they actually cared about. 

Meenah doesn’t really like GHB, he was basically the main male authority figure in their lives growing up and she thinks he’s a grumpy jerk, so she was sorta bummed out about being related to him and she certainly doesn’t go out of her way to hang out with him. At 17 (the time of the portraits) Feferi has skype called her dad twice and thinks he’s nice enough, but doesn’t really feel a pressing need to get to know him better.

i never do promises, but, i’ll promise you this, no one will ever love you as much as i do and no one will ever care about you, about your health and about all the little details of yours as much as i do..
—  @aalsahli
I wish I could care what you do or where you go but I can’t… My dear, I don’t give a damn.
—  Margaret Mitchell, Gone with the Wind

anonymous asked:

Hey so this is about the asthmatic. What about a dancing shirt? They're supposed to be a binding technique that it is safe to exercise with because if how breathable they are. So maybe they would be good for an asthmatic. Though maybe they still shouldn't exercise in it because of the asthma.

Thanks for the message! It’s a good suggestion. A sports bra might also be an option for asthma anon, too.

Another anon also sent in:

Some advice for binding when asthmatic. I have severe brittle asthma and I do bind. However, I am incredibly careful. The way I’d go about it is, do you have type 1 asthma (decreased lung function/constant breathlessness) then do not bind. If you want top surgery you you can usually get it pretty fat due to your condition. If you have type 2 (acute exacerbation/ otherwise fine ish) bind unless you feel unwell. Even if you’re unsure, better safe then sorry

anonymous asked:

I told my ex I wanted space, to think about us and where I feel I stand in the relationship, and she didn't respect my wishes of just needing time to myself with no contact. She kept pushing for me to make up my mind and just be with her even though I felt like I was drowning in my own feels, plus her's, but she couldn't just let me focus on myself to heal. She wouldn't let me and yet some part of me cannot just leave her. I know logically she isn't healthy but I can't help it. I miss her.

Oof. That’s such a hard situation. I’m sorry she’s not giving you the space you asked for. I know it’s so hard to draw those boundaries especially when you care about someone and they make you feel needed but I hope you’re careful to do what’s safe and healthy for you. I obviously don’t know your situation but someone who doesn’t respect your boundaries especially when you ask them to back off can land you in some dangerous places. Take care of yourself, peanut.

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So I was Writing and Noticed...

that I may not be writing exactly what you guys are looking for in match-ups, but I really don’t care.

Now before you, all start unfollowing me because I “don’t care” let me explain. I do care (way too much) about what you guys think of my posts, what I don’t care about is what those posts are. I made this blog to write whatever popped into my head, the one thing I was missing before was a prompt (see where this is going).

Your guys asks give me the inspiration to write whatever pops into my head (in response to your asks), and that’s the one thing I love to do.

Now, I know I have mentioned this before, but the reason I’m posting this now is due to a specific ask I answered (but haven’t posted yet). I LOVED writing this specific ask, and I would not stop talking about it with anyone that listened. Eventually, as I was explaining the short-story I wrote to one of my best friends she questioned it.

“Isn’t this supposed to be mushy and cute?”

That’s probably what you guys want right? Mushy, cute scenes where your S/O shows their love through cliche action and flustered adorable messes.

The ask I wrote was NOTHING like that.

It was a Match-up mind you! You had a bonding moment with your S/O where their love for you is blatantly obvious. But, can we be real here, the Transformers Universe is not all sunshine and rainbows, there is some dark, sad, and gritty stuff (the story is literally about a war for crying out loud!). If you’re in any relationship with a bot there will be danger at one point (and even based on your personality maybe several points). So what I’m trying to say is…

IF YOU DON’T LIKE WHAT YOU GOT, ASK AGAIN!

I am trying to put as much content out there as possible so I don’t care if you drop in the asks and be like “Yo, can you do [this ask] again, but [different more specific request]?” I can assure you I will say yes 100% of the time. Let me repeat, I WILL SAY YES 100% OF THE TIME.

Thank you for listen, I hope I didn’t bore you. If you stuck to the end I can assure you I have bought a shitty desktop computer to use and am currently doing final editing on 4-5 answered asks (though this post was completely made on my phone, RIP).

call-me-origami  asked:

Hey, I know what you're going through right now. It's happened to me a lot, and I've watched it with people I care about. Just know that you don't have to do anything immediately. Take some time and really think through all of this, then come to a rational conclusion and go from there. Consider all the facts and information you have.

thank you I will and for the data I have, I’m going to ignore these feeling and just enjoy being friends with morality

Nikola Tesla is the greatest b/c he loved pigeons and science and wanted to provide people with electricity at low cost but he was also lowkey trying to build a death beam. 

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  • if you treated yourself to your favourite food today i am proud of you
  • if you bought something pretty for yourself today i am proud of you
  • if you remembered to take your meds and eat today i am proud of you
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  • if you read or painted or wrote something today i am proud of you
  • if you wore your comfiest sweater today i am proud of you
  • if you drank lots of water or took a walk today i am proud of you 
  • if you told yourself you look good today i am proud of you 
  • if you treated yourself with kindness today i am proud of you
  • for all the small achievements that no one else sees i am proud of you, and i hope you are, too.