i-apologize-profusely-for-i-am-a-horrible-person

when you call out an abuser on their shit and they reply “yeah i know :( im a horrible person i already know that im sorry that i am this way :( tell me something i dont know :(” that is literally an abuse tactic and it is a direct route to the victims/the people confronting them apologizing profusely for doing nothing wrong and sets them up to be abused again and again. pay attention to how people react when you call them out