Someone has brought to my attention that I have gone against my own rules in responding to the request of ‘waking them by going down on them’ and I would have to agree with them. It was completely unintentional and it was an issue that I was being oblivious to in the time of responding to the post.
There is no consent given by these boys to their significant other that they are okay with what would be happening to them since they are sleeping. Consent cannot be given by an unconscious mind. I was being neglectful of this fact by drawing too much from my own personal relationship in which my boyfriend has asked me to wake him up this way on different occasions. This, of course, does not pertain to every male out there and I did not mean to suggest that every male wants this at any given time. I also did not mean to ignore the suggestion of unwanted sexual assault and rape. And if I had brought some unwanted feelings or memories from anyone through this post than I am profusely sorry.
Because of this, I will be deleting the post altogether and will be creating another post to serve in its place.
I am so terribly sorry to every for being hypocritical and I thank the person that pointed this out to me. I do not claim to be perfect, which is why I am grateful that you had come to me with this and I will try harder to be more conscious of these things while writing. Just because one thing pertains to my own personal experience does not mean the same for everyone else and I am very sorry that I came off wrong.
Okay but WHAT IF Jon doesn’t care about the Iron Throne
WHAT IF Jon doesn’t care If he is a Targaryen or not
WHAT IF JON DOESN’T FUCKING CARE ABOUT RHAEGAR BECAUSE HE ALREADY HAVE A DAD ???? NED STARK????THE GUY WHO RAISED HIM???THE GUY WHO ALWAYS TREATED HIM AS HIS OWN????
what if the only surname Jon wants is the Stark???hmmm????
(also no it’s not a pro jonsa post damn they both grow up seeing eachother as sister and half brother how can u except them to fall in love with their siblings wtf )
why do therapists refuse to believe you about your experiences, like i told mine that even if part of what i am relaying is my perceptions of how people see me, some of that is based on concrete facts of how i have been/am treated and talked to and she like, acts like i didn’t say that? she says yes and and then tries to convince me that i am imagining things