I agree with you but I understand the anon, it's gonna be hard to be reminded he's out there, loving, feeling and discovering emotions in a romantic and it's not with neither of us, specially if you're really obsessed/in love, like picturing scenarios 24/7 with him and not just a regular fan.
I can guarantee you that person is me - the one who things about him all day, every day. The one who daydreams of being with him, the one who’s in love with him enough to be upset when I hear him singing about other girls, I can 100% guarantee you I am that person.
But, by loving him so much, I have to think about and respect what he wants and I’m not pretending to know what he wants, but I’m pretty sure he’d want us to listen to his music without caring for his love life. I’m honest when I say that being with him/in his life is one of the things I most wanted in my entire life. There is nothing regular about my love for him. Still, I know he’d want me to look at his art instead of what’s behind it - because he’s offering us (the ones who are think about him 24/7 and the regular fans) his music, not his love life.
I’d also like to point out that I’m not taking digs at anyone. I’m just saying how I feel. When you love someone, you have to respect and honor their choices and that’s what I’m doing here.