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anonymous asked:

Hi! 😊 Do you have any advice on how to figure out someone's type?? I've been crushing on this guy or a while and I'm really curious to find out his type, but idk if he would think that I'm nosy if I ask him to take a test, and I can't ask him directly because he's never heard of mbti before thx and have a nice dayy ❤

To be fair, I ask all my friends to take the test. But, when I need to type people this is more of less what I do:

1. Fill in what you know/have picked up on already. Sometimes you can tell that someone is a thinking type because they have expressed that being logical is important to them(very stereotypical example, but you get the idea).

2. Make an educated guess as to what their first and last letters are

ExxPs are usually spontaneous, impulsive, and outspoken

ExxJs are usually decisive, helpful, and grounded

IxxPs are usually creative, quiet, and flexible

IxxJs are usually reserved, logical, and motivated

3. Figure out their judging function

ExxPs are either Ti or Fi auxiliary

ExxJs are either Te or Fe dominant

IxxPs are either Fi or Ti dominant

IxxJs are either Fe or Te auxiliary

High Ti users are usually analytical, logical, and perfectionist

High Fi users are usually moral, optimistic, and sensitive

High Fe users are usually helpful, selfless, and organized

High Te users are usually efficient, objective, and fair

*Note: look up any functions you don’t understand or want more information on. There are a lot more complex and thorough explanations out there than what I am doing.*

**Other Note: if you don’t think that the person uses either of the 2 functions listed, you might want to go back to step 2. Cognitive functions are most important.**

4. Figure out their perceiving function

ExxPs are either Se or Ne dominant

ExxJs are either Si or Ni auxiliary

IxxPs are either Ne or Se auxiliary

IxxJs are either Ni or Si dominant

High Se users are usually focused on the present, impulsive, and graceful

High Ne users are usually open-minded, creative, and good with words

High Ni users are usually independent, strategic, and innovative

High Si users are usually down-to-earth, responsible, and practical

5. Put everything together. Use your answer to the first question, and fill in either an S or N for the first x, and F or T for the second x based on the cognitive functions you think the person uses.

6. Review the type that you have selected and see what lines up with the person and what doesn’t. If most things you see about this type align with what you already know about the person, chances are you have their correct type. If it’s slightly off, you might be as well. But it’s all a work in progress.

7. Celebrate. Also, I would love feedback on how accurate you think this is and what I should change.

- INFP Mod

A Writer’s PSA

Firstly: I just saw an interesting post made by @caplanbuckybarnes (who I can’t tag, but that’s okay), that inspired both anger and relief in me at once. I was compelled to type out this PSA.

Secondly: I am tagging everyone who has asked to be tagged in The Irrelevance of Napoli SO YOU CAN SEE HOW GODDAMN AWESOME THEY ARE BEFORE I START THIS. 

@thecrownedrose @persephone-is-here-omg @find-me-here2 @captainamerotica @redgillan @angryschnauzer @ursulaismymiddlename @rebelslicious @kittykitty-mewmeww @erisjade @siren-kitten-his @buckyappreciationsociety @kozmicrock @aingealcethlenn @rachelle-on-the-run @thewinterswimmer @vaisabu @inside-lizzys-head @angryschnauzer @melconnor2007 

Thirdly: I am doing this more for the sake of my upcoming fic, Cherchez la Femme, which I have been working on for MONTHS–probably since Septemberish–than I am for Napoli. Also doing this for the sake of other authors who may feel this way, but don’t want to say anything for fear of making people mad. I personally am tired of dealing with my own anxiety about this subject, so I’m getting this off my chest. 


 I am exceedingly frustrated by the majority of attitudes (or non attitudes) I see towards anything that is not a one-shot on here. ESPECIALLY if it’s smut.

I like smut. I love smut. I’ve read some really good smut on here. But… that’s not all I’ve read on here. When I first got on Tumblr, I found some really unique and interesting fics, and I got very invested in them. But lately, the majority of what I’ve been seeing on this site is the same damn thing, over and over and over again. Smut one shots, no plot, no character development, no nothing. Those fics I was invested in were discontinued (temporarily, I hope) in favor of smut one shots, which, like I said, I don’t mind, but ya know… I also do.

Authors are capable of writing more than smut one shots. 

Authors are capable of writing more than smut one shots. And many of them do write more than smut one shots. But I have seen two (2) of the multi-part fics I follow being seriously reblogged. That’s out of A LOT that I happen to read and like. One of my favorites got put on hiatus because there were no reads on the most recent chapter at the time.

Tumblr, seriously, what is going on? Like, I recognize that we all want to imagine ourselves having sex with some version of Sebastian Stan (ME TOO, I AM NOT EXCLUDING MYSELF FROM THAT GROUP) but some of these people have worked ages, ages on these fics. With well-developed characters and plot and settings and serious issues that are worked through. THESE PEOPLE I READ SHOULD WRITE ORIGINAL CONTENT AND GET PUBLISHED. In my world, they would. Because they are that good.

And yet, they get almost no recognition. And it frustrates me, and scares me, and makes me really, really sad. Some might say, “Tumblr is more (something else) than fanfic for me”–which is fine. Please engage in whatever joy may have brought you to Tumblr. But also remember that for others, it IS about fanfic, and they enjoy doing that just as much as you enjoy doing whatever you do. So hit the like button every once in a while. Read more fics of your favorite characters. Some might say, “I have –something that gives me a shorter attention span–, I can’t remember what happened before this chapter/can’t concentrate enough to get through a whole fic in the time I have”–in which case, you are fine, don’t worry about it, not a big deal. Some of you may say, “Works in progress are annoying, I hate waiting for new parts to come out”–and trust me, I’m right there with you. I’m waiting on a few new parts for fics myself (I’m also waiting for Diana Gabaldon’s next Outlander book, goddammit), but that doesn’t stop me from reading and commenting on the parts that are there! Tell the author that you have something to look forward to until the next part comes out! Also, TELL THE AUTHOR IF YOU ARE WAITING FOR THEM TO COMPLETE IT, or ask to be tagged in the final masterlist! We won’t mind if you do it that way! Some of you may just hate longer fics and there’s nothing anybody can do to change that. In which case, whatever floats your boat.

I’m not getting on anyone in the above paragraph to suddenly change your preferences and start reading fics with more than two parts. What I am saying, though, is if you consume, but don’t comment AND reblog (or at least tag and reblog), or if you don’t consume at all and blatantly ignore what authors are putting out there… come on, guys. We put our heart and souls into this stuff. Some of the stuff we write is taken from real life. Some people don’t have anything but their writing to help them get through what may be a really bad stage. Likes, comments, reblogs–writers need these. We don’t all have to be JK Rowling here, but we do hope to see that someone smiles or laughs, or cries, or feels in some way with our fics. 

One of my friends on here was very sad a couple of days ago because she was getting very few notes on even her one-shots, or reblogs with no comments. She has 700+ followers and a taglist that’s a mile long. It made me sad for her, and I can’t even hug her because she lives far away from me. Readers, you don’t have to comment or reblog every chapter of a fic that’s been written, it’s really okay if you don’t, but let the reader know that you like it and acknowledge the work that’s been done. 

I’m still relatively tiny on here, and I definitely need to follow more blogs, so I will now go looking. But, indulge me for a second: If, when I publish Cherchez, I deem it as not getting enough notes, I will make a goddamn video of myself deleting the thing off my computer and burning the damn notebooks. I started by writing this stuff for me. Napoli ended up being about someone I know who recently died. Cherchez was what I wrote when I was coming out of a breakdown. So yes, I write for myself. But as soon as I put it up here, it becomes yours. You consume it, you feel because of it. So really, guys, read all the smut you want. I know I’m going to. But read more than smut, too.


Someone who is a teeny bit oversmutted

(If you want to, you can check my tags for more info)

anonymous asked:

You mentioned in another ask that dogs can't feel guilt, and I've seen studies on that before, so I'm not trying to discredit it, but do you know of any other reason a dog's behavior changes when they've broken a rule? [1 out of 2]

Ex: my dog wont greet me if he got into something or made a mess while I was gone. What’s the difference between guilt and change in behavior? (he was never punished, esp not afterwards) I’ve been curious about it, I appreciate any insight you have!

Think about how you usually greet your dog when you get home. Personally, I drop all my things, get on her level, and smoosh my dog’s face while telling her how much I missed her in a soft voice. 

Now think about the first time you came home to a mess or other broken rules. Personally, I crossed my arms, gave a stern look, and said “somebody was naughty today” in an unimpressed tone. Not a punishment by any means, but still not the regular greeting. 

This confused my dog. Why isn’t my human as happy to see me? She offered appeasement behaviour (whale eyes, hunched posture, tucked tail) to let me know that she was confused and concerned.

(Photo by Susan Schmitz)

Dogs are masters of reading human body language - we bred them to be! Every change in tone of voice or posture is noticed by them. Most dogs can also eventually figure out why you’re upset. They clue in that Trash on the Ground = Human isn’t happy to see me, so they offer appeasement behaviour whenever trash happens to be on the ground. 

(It’s noteworthy that unless you catch them in the act of emptying the trash, they won’t clue in to Dog in Trashcan = Human isn’t happy. That’s why punishing after the fact very very very rarely works.)

It’s the same thing for other rules that might be broken. Chances are, you were not impressed when your dog broke some rules. Your dog noticed that in your body language or tone of voice and is responding accordingly. 

We’ve talked about this in our FAQ before as well.

Here are some sources about dogs “acting guilty” in response to our (human) body language, for those of you who might be interested. XX, X, X

Hope that clarifies things! -C

I've said it before but I'll say it again

Molly pines for Sherlock. Molly writes about Sherlock on her blog. Jim, who has never been heard of before but supposedly works with Molly, asks her out to drinks on her blog. Jim later is revealed to have been lying about his true identity and turns out to be a main antagonist.

John pines for Sherlock. John writes about Sherlock on his blog. Mary, who has never been heard of before but supposedly works with John, asks him out to drinks on his blog. Mary later is revealed to have been lying about her true identity and-

Well. I’ll let you fill in the rest.

dragoniangirl  asked:

I thought I'd share this with you. I've been getting a lot of little kids lately asking if we had stickers. Sadly we do not but one little boy asked so politely and I happened to be making a new price ticket with our scanner so I printed out a blank ticket, drew a smiley face on it and gave it to him. I've never seen a child so happy before.

 That’s so cute!! I’m so proud of you bud you did so good

fatedheroine  asked:

Aww, yes I've been waiting for this! How would 2D react to finding out that his s/o has an amazing singing voice and they never told him?

- He finds out when he hears you quietly singing one of their songs while (attempting) to clean up their cluttered dining room. He thinks it sounds incredible and asks you to sing a bit louder for him.
- He’s upset that you’ve never told him before. He adores how you sound and wants to hear more.
- He’s always asking you to sing for him. He begs for it like a puppy and you can never say no to him. 
- He wants to sing with you a lot!!! He thinks his and your voice combined sounds beautiful. He also thinks it’s a cute little couple thing for the two of you to do together.
- Murdoc eventually hears you two singing together and ultimately decides to make you a backup singer for the band (if you’re okay with it.)
- 2D invites you to sing on stage with him!!! He has such a good time when he’s with you and it makes the whole experience of preforming live much better than it already was.

Barry is kidnapped to be a sex slave and Len rescues him

This idea I’ve been kicking around for a while.

Barry is kidnapped by some unknown powerful group of time pirates that run a space station brothel hidden at the edge of the Vanishing Point, so they can avoid the Time Masters (previously) and effectively live forever. Other people come to them to purchase sex slaves, which the pirates acquire by kidnapping various metas and aliens they think will be most appealing.

Then they kidnap The Flash, and it’s up to the Legends to save him.

Only these guys are powerful and stacked with weaponry, way more than one tiny ship can take on now that the Time Masters have been destroyed.

This assumes an AU where Len lives and Barry never created Flashpoint, there’s just been this general sexual tension between the pair as we move on from the Zoom season and Len being part of a superhero team.

The obvious way to rescue Barry is to launch an undercover mission to purchase him. Len of course volunteers to be the buyer and has Mick and Sara as his ‘bodyguards’ while the rest wait on the Waverider in preparation of any trouble. Time is of the essence since Barry is scheduled to be sold at the next auction.

Naturally, the pirates have power-dampening collars to keep the slaves in line until they’re sold, which can also emit a slight shock when they misbehave. So to start, Len and his bodyguards get a tour of the place as a new buyer, and he even gets to see the new ‘stock’, which includes a weak and timid Barry who’s been stripped of his Flash suit down to barely existent underwear and the collar.

Len is positively seething internally at all of this, but has to play the role of interested buyer, while Barry looks on pleading silently to be saved.

The auction goes off mostly without a hitch (once Sara and Mick discreetly take out the bidding competition) and Len goes to pick Barry up, who falls against him in gratitude, even so skimpily dressed, barely able to keep from crying, because he felt so powerless and terrified of what might have happened if they hadn’t gotten there in time.

“Always a pleasure to save the hero, Scarlet. Let’s get out of here.”

“Wait. We can’t just leave.”

“Yes, we can. I own you now. We can walk right out of here.”

“What about the other slaves? We can’t let these people keep doing this.”

Len cannot believe Barry has to have a crisis of conscience now, when they are vastly outnumbered and outgunned. Normally, he’d agree to blast these assholes to kingdom come, but not if they have no chance of getting out themselves.

“I’m not leaving unless we put an end to this,” Barry insists.

Having to come up with a plan on the spot is Len’s specialty, so he proceeds to disable Barry’s collar while keeping it in place so no one else knows it doesn’t work, and tells him to follow his lead.

There are rooms available if the new owners want to ‘try out’ their purchases, which Len had initially said no thanks to, while Sara and Mick headed back to the ship to wait for them, but now as they’re walking the hallways, Len goes up to one of the guards—who has a master key that unlocks all of the collars, cells, and various rooms.

“Changed my mind. I feel like taking the speedster here for a test run. Got anything ready?”

The guard lets Len into a room, and Len asks if he wants to get a front row seat.

“What can I say, I like an audience.”

The guard is all for this, and goes in with them, though he waits just inside the door.

Len gets Barry on the bed and starts to pretend to feel him up. He kisses his neck for real and whispers for Barry to trust him, but his hands only look like they’re skimming his skin; he always remains just above Barry to play this kosher. Barry, of course, can’t deny that he sort of wishes it was otherwise since it’s Snart—but that is so not what he should be thinking about given the situation.

Len proceeds to ask if the guard wants to join them more hands-on.

“Speedsters vibrate, you know? Rarest jewels in the galaxy.”

The guard approaches, Len keeps miming touching Barry, but Barry bucks up and for a moment the touch is real and Barry moans, surprising them both—though not so much that Len isn’t able to grab the guard, knock him out, and take his key.

“Apologies for the tactic under these circumstances.”

“It was…fine.”

“Sounded more than fine,” Len smirks.

On their way out, they use the key to override everything on the station. Cue revolt, with Len giving the pirate owner of the whole place and nice salute just as he and Barry head to the Waverider. They make it out just as the place erupts into chaos. The rest is up to the people inside.

“That was reckless,” Len scolds Barry.

“I could have demanded to stay until we were sure the slaves took over.” It’s clear from radio chatter that this isn’t a concern; the pirates are done for.

“Always pushing, aren’t you, Scarlet?”

“Sometimes it’s worth it.”

Barry decides to push one more time and kisses Len before they meet up with the others.

Len jokingly brings up that he owns Barry now as often as possible.

If they play out master and slave later, it’s only because Barry feels safe with Len and asks him for it.

anonymous asked:

Hey J, I know you'll probably be full of fix it asks but... Would you do something with Alex and Maggie being the best queer moms ever? I'm not out to my family, but just hearing what they say sometimes makes me sick. Besides, Adrian is one of the best OCs I've ever read. Thanks for being such a great person.

He’s never been drunk before.

He’s never been drunk before, but god, is he drunk now.

He’s drunk and he thinks he might be seeing double, but he can’t be sure because he can’t exactly count.

He thinks he might need to throw up, but he can’t be sure because – no. No, definitely sure.

He needs to throw up.

He makes it to the bathroom and he texts Maggie from his knees.

It’s incoherent because looking at the screen makes him throw up more.

He nearly drops his phone in the toilet when it starts to vibrate.

Maggie’s picture shows up on his caller ID, and he grins faintly and mutters her name mildly and spits into the toilet.

“Detective Sawyerrrr,” he slurs once he figures out how to put his finger on the green button thing.

“Where are you?” she asks, and he thinks he might throw up again, because she definitely knows.

“Maggie, don be mad! Don be maaad, Maggie, is Latinx night and I didn’t mean to have this muchhh – I don’t even think I had that much, just – did you know you’re not supposed to drink super fast? Or mix drinks? I think you’re not supposta do those things.”

“I was gonna teach you to drink, Rodriguez, you couldn’t tell me you wanted to before this?”

“Well you coulda told me you were gonna teach me!”

“Adrian.” He can’t tell if she’s frustrated or smiling or worried or all of the above, but he definitely here’s Alex in the background.

“Hi Alex,” he calls, trying to wave before he remembers they can’t see him.

And suddenly the phone is out of his hands, and he looks up, and a friend he met through the queer center, Mateo, is crouching over him, running a damp paper towel over his lips with one hand, holding his phone with the other.

“Maggie?” he asks, and Adrian tries to grab the phone back, but Mateo shrugs him off easily.

“Mateo? Is he okay? Where are you guys?”

“Maggie, I’m so sorry, I lost track of him for just a few minutes, I thought only one beer couldn’t hurt him, but you know how cute he is, some people must have bought him drinks – “

“Mateo, you have a boyyyyfriend, don’t let Jordan hear you call me cuteee.”

“It’s okay, Mateo, it happens. Just tell me where you are and we’ll come get him. And get him some water, okay?”

Jordan greets them both outside the club when they roll up in Maggie’s car – which she bought exactly for situations like this – and she flashes her badge when someone says they can’t double park, and she flashes her badge when the bouncer asks for ID, and when he balks, she says something to him in rapidfire Portuguese, and Alex can translate enough to know that it’s something about letting underage kids in, letting underage kids drink, and don’t think she won’t be checking back in if they don’t take this warning very, very seriously.

Jordan and Alex exchange raised eyebrows before Jordan leads them to the men’s room.

“Lady, you can’t – “

Maggie doesn’t even bother, on the warpath, just flashing her badge again, but she’s kneeling on the ground next to Adrian and Mateo in an instant, and her eyes are suddenly so, so, so soft, and Alex is so, so, so wildly in love with her.

“Hey, bud,” she greets softly, her hands running over his hair, his collared shirt, after squeezing Mateo’s arm in greeting, in gratitude.

“Maggie,” Adrian slurs, barely awake, and Maggie nods and grins.

“He throw up more since I called?” she asks Mateo, and he shakes his head as he shifts to let Maggie take over holding Adrian somewhat upright.

“Alright Ade, I know this is gonna be awful, but you’ve gotta throw up a little more now.”

“I don’t wanna – “

“I know, Ade, I know, but you gotta.”

“Are you mad at – “

But he doesn’t get the words out, because he’s suddenly rigid and retching violently into the toilet, and Maggie just holds his hand, rubs his back, nods softly, sympathetically.

“It hurts,” he whispers hoarsely, and Alex kneels behind Maggie.

“I know it does, Ade, but I promise it won’t hurt forever. Trust me, I know. When I was your age, damn, I got much worse than you are right now. I know how you feel, and you know what? I promise, it’ll feel better.”

“Alex! You came too. I’m sorry. I’m sorry, I messed up your night, I messed – “

He vomits again, and Maggie kisses the back of his neck when he spits.

Alex takes the small bottle of mouthwash she’d grabbed from the apartment out of her back pocket.

“Here, Ade, swig this around your mouth. Don’t swallow it, okay?”

Adrian nods faintly as Maggie smiles at her girlfriend, opening the little bottle for him and guiding it to his lips.

He swishes and he spits and he leans his forehead on Maggie’s shoulder.

“Mateo, could you please – “ Maggie starts to ask, but he and Jordan have already come back with new glasses of water.

“Thank you,” she says, pleased with their thoughtfulness, with the concern and regret in their eyes.

“How you feel, Ade?” Jordan asks, and Adrian gives a mock grin and a weak thumbs up.

“You think you have more in you, buddy?” Maggie asks, and he shakes his head as she offers a straw to his lips.

“I know the idea of water hurts, but just a few sips. Just a few sips, okay?” Alex coaches, and she praises him when he forces some down, his face a tight grimace.

He whispers something that sounds a lot like thank you, and he remembers nothing else.

He wakes up in Maggie’s bed, jeans unbuttoned, top buttons of his shirt undone, shoes off. He wakes up with water, a banana, aspirin, coffee all next to his bed. With the curtains all drawn so the light doesn’t hurt his eyes, and with Alex and Maggie tiptoeing around in the kitchen, being as quiet as they can.

“Ey,” he tries, and even though it’s a whisper, they both spring to attention, spring to either side of the bed.

“How you feel, soldier?” Alex asks with a grin, and Adrian groans.

“I passed out?”

Maggie nods. “We only just got home a couple hours ago.”

Adrian’s brow furrows as he accepts the water Alex is giving him, accepts the help Maggie’s giving him with sitting up slow, slow, slow. “But it wasn’t that late when I called.”

“I figured you wouldn’t want us to carry you to the car, so we let you sleep it off in the stall until you could kind of walk. It’s okay if you don’t remember. Nothing bad happened. And Mateo and Jordan send their love, and their said they’re sorry they didn’t watch you closer. I’m pretty sure they blew up your phone with texts.”

Adrian blinks.

“So… so I get into a club illegally, and I drink illegally, and you just… let me sleep on you on a gross bathroom floor for hours and then take me home and take care of me?”

“What else should we have done, Ade?” Maggie asks with narrow eyes and a tilted head.

“I don’t know… yell at me? Arrest me?”

“Well, arresting you wasn’t gonna happen. That’s not what the law… But I did made it very clear to the club that if I ever catch them serving underage kids again… And yell at you? Why would I yell at you?”

“I was stupid.”

Maggie smiles, and she kisses his forehead, and she nods.

“Yep. But Adrian, you called me. Or, well, you texted me. You reached out when you were in a bit of trouble, and that’s all I can ask. I can’t ask you to never make mistakes. I can only ask you to make sure you call me – or Alex, or your parents, or all of us – when you’re in trouble so we can help you.”

“So… you’re not mad?”

Alex snorts. “Oh, she’s hopping mad. But we figure we’ll let you come down from the hangover before you get lectured, Sawyer Style.”

“Not helping, Danvers.”

Alex just winks at him, and Adrian lets out a groggy giggle, and Maggie can’t help but melt.

Because he’s home, and he’s safe, and he’s growing up, but god, he’s still their kid, and he always will be.

And she can’t ask for anything more.

the-nerd-writer  asked:

Hello! I've never asked from you before, so this is quite exciting! I was wondering if I could please request the Crush-Reveal-In-Sleep, but with Mercy, Sombra and Pharah? (I'm sorry if one of them have already been answered!) thank you so very much; have a wonderful day!


  • Lets out a soft “awww” as she snuggles close to you.
  • She is so so happy to hear you say that, she can hardly get any sleep herself. 
  • She wakes you up in the morning with a kiss, giggling at your startled reaction.
  • She says she heard what you said in your sleep and there are no take backs.
  • Refuses to let you leave the bed. Now that you two are a thing, she wants her morning snuggles.


  • She is never going to let you live this down. 
  • She’ll tease you about it in the morning, but she’ll also give you kisses in exchange for the torment. 
  • She does think it’s really sweet though, and can’t help but squeal a bit in excitement.
  • She will broadcast her new relationship to everyone.
  • Will also make jokes. “You gonna start talkin’ dirty to me in your sleep now?”


  • Is unsure how to respond. Maybe it was a joke?? Dreams are weird, you probably didn’t mean it.
  • Will definitely lose sleep over it.
  • She nervously asks you about it in the morning and is surprised to find you do have feelings for her.
  • She smacks you with a pillow she is so flustered.
  • She eventually calms herself and is very happy to go out with you, but she suggests you find a solution to that sleep talking problem. 

anonymous asked:

I work as a cashier in s supermarket, but because of allergies I don't know all vegetables since I've never had them. Because of that I sometimes have to ask people what kind it is before I can find it on the list. The thing is that some customers aren't very helpful and tell me to figure it out myself, but then they become annoyed because it's taking a while. It's not my fault I'm learning!! Ffs dude if you just told me this could've been solved and I'd know next time!! But no, ofc not

anonymous asked:

Hello I'm new to the whole reader inserts (I usually rp)lately I've been reading a lot of overwatch x readers and I wanted to know if I can get one if not it's ok. If yes I have a OC who's Hawaiian and Native American she like to have fun but I ship her with Hanzo,Reaper,or S76. I wanted to know their reaction to some guy sweeping reader away to dance with them (since the guys wont, and I've been listening to "shape of you" that song inspired this)sorry this is long can reader also be chuddy?plz


  • It took him all the willpower he had, but eventually he braved the dance floor and managed to steal you away from him.
  • The dance floor bought out a side to Hanzo that you’d never seen before, when he had you alone he took every opportunity to grab whatever he could of you
  • When the two of you got out of there, you asked what happened to him. He just told him he’d never seen a body so beautiful and he just had to have you in the moment


  • You’re his and only his and anyone who wants to risk taking you away from him will most likely regret it
  • He slipped through the crowd and found you. Placing both hands on your hips, he pulled you closer to him and began to whisper sweet nothings in your ear. You felt your knees go weak at the thought of him and turned to dance with him again
  • Gabe looked the other guy up and down and scoffed, reclaiming you as his own and you hung off his neck for the rest of the night

Soldier: 76:

  • He didn’t want to dance because he lacked both the skill and the confidence but that didn’t stop you from wanting a good time
  • He’d probably be quite salty afterwards, not to you but to anyone else who tried to take you away from him
  • When you were home and he’d cooled off, you’d worked out what exactly the problem was and so you thought it would be cute to set up something at home so you could dance the night away together without fear of judgement

anonymous asked:

So... I'm a woman in my 20s and my younger sister (16) told me to watch ATLA recently because I really reminded her both both Zuko and Iroh. I had heard of it when it came out years ago, but had no interest in watching. I just binge watched the entire thing over the course of like 4 days and my life will never be the same. I kind of want to re-watch it again. I've never been dragged into a fandom before and I grew up with HP. What have ya'll done to me?!

 i’m glad we could contribute to your love for the show!! highly recommend rewatching c:

anonymous asked:

I've probably sent asks like this before but for the love of god DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THE DAY OF TO MAKE HOTEL RESERVATIONS. I don't care if you're going on a Wednesday night in the middle of a slow season, you never know when something is going to be going on in town. If you're in town for an emergency that's one thing, my heart goes out to you, but if you've been planning this trip for any longer than 20 minutes you have no right to be upset when you show up at 2 am and all the hotels are full!

anonymous asked:

Hey there, I heard you give girls advice and stuff and I have a question; How do you know if you like girls because you like girls. And not because you've been conditioned to be scared of guys so girls are just a more comfortable concept. I've been struggling with this for years and I just don't know and I've never really dated to help me figure it out. And I don't want to define my sexuality to people before I know so I've never asked. Im not sure if this makes sense but thanks

well for one thing, i don’t think its really a cultural expectation for any woman to love women, even if they are traumatized by men. i think the dominant narrative there is to 1) try harder to find a Good Man or 2) be miserable and alone. honestly i think there is a general smear campaign against traumatized wlw with the insistence that their feelings and love are fake and signs of weakness for not trying harder with men. and i think this has to do with people always associating f/f love in reference to men, instead of just what it is. if you feel attracted to women, safe and loved with women, those are all real feelings regardless of your past or your relationship to men.

it can be hard for women, especially traumatized ones, to put labels on their sexuality. the reality is that it is really difficult to dissect the specific details of how and why our sexuality & preferences develop, and my advice to you is that its not important to cross-examine your past like you’re your own special prosecutor. i don’t think you will find any answers there. live your life in whatever way makes you the happiest and that will be the truth you’re looking for.

333weed  asked:

hey i've never sent an ask before and it actually took me 30 years to figure out where the fresh hell the button even was but i've been seeing you reblog Taako before (your most recent post just reminded me) and ur lowkey the reason i started listening to those podcasts i'm on episode 5 and now i desperately want to play D&D bless ur soul thank

TAZ is so goo, and I am so happy that you got into it!!! >w<
Hahaha, you can thank the artist of the piece I reblogged, @kaizuart for getting me into the series XD

anonymous asked:

I really like this guy and I'm going to ask him out next time I see him. I need to psych myself up for it. I've never asked anyone out before and I'm s c a r e d o f r e j e c t i o n. He's two years older than me so that doesn't help matters. Do you have any advice or encouraging gifs or anything? Thanks :)

Haha, I’ve always been really blunt when asking people out. Actually, one time I didn’t even ask. I literally just kissed him on the mouth, and then we dated for almost 3 years. Good times. 

If you want a more gradual way of asking, just ask him if he wants to hang out alone, or go on a date or something? Take it from Sokka’s book - ask if you want to do an activity together :P But maybe try for more class than Sokka lol (sorry if you have no idea who I’m referring to lol). You could use ye olde “let’s go see a movie together and then subtly snuggle in the comforting darkness of the theatre” and see how that goes. 

Here’s a gif that Tumblr provided me: 

Originally posted by itsmieille

anonymous asked:

This is actually a good story but I just wanted to tell somebody. So i work at a gas station and I've been there two years. Lately I've been feeling super irritable and burnt out so I put in my two weeks notice. Well two days before my last day my manager asked me to come in and talk to him. He basically asked what he can do to make me stay. I've never had a manager so this before and I've never seen him do it for other people that quit so it made me feel loved! And they gave me a week off!