I've been going out with this girl on and off for three years. She lives in a different town but she comes down every weekend, but she doesn't text at all while she's gone. I feel like I was only her boyfriend when she needed one. I talked to her about it but she only got mad at me. I had to end the relatiknsho she's been abusive in the past and talks to other guys in a sexual way even when I'm around. Just the lack of communication sent me over the edge but I still feel horrible for dumping her
fuck, this anon must have been from forever ago im sorry im just now getting to replying. i hope youre doing better and youre moving on. but if youre still struggling then just know that you did the right thing. im really glad and proud of you for getting out of a toxic relationship. there are some people who dont know how to have good LDRs and people who take advantage of LDRs to be shitty. your ex was the latter. i hope your next partner is communicative, trustworthy, and treats you like youre the most special person in the world.