i've been asking for this for years now

kimheenim: 오늘 밤 8시 50분 JTBC <아는 형님>에 이특, 신동이 나온다!!👿🙈🙌
오랜만에 멤버들과 함께하는 예능!! 알콩달콩 케미는 1도 없으니 기대하지마😀😃☺😏
※사진 속 예성은 아무 상관 없음ㅋㅋ#이특 #희님 #신동 #아는형님

[TRANS] Tonight at 8:50, on JTBC, Leeteuk and Shindong will be on <Knowing Brother>!! 👿🙈🙌  It’s been a while since I’ve done variety with the members!! There is not a single lovey dovey moment so don’t expect anything. 😀😃☺😏

※ A photo with Yesung who doesn’t have anything to do with this ㅋㅋ
#Leeteuk #Heenim #Shindong #KnowingBrother
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Listen, listen. The fact Eliot Spencer’s response to Parker being upset and asking if they could kill the guy who upset her was a shrug and, “Yeah. I mean, I could.” will never, ever not be important to me.

((Happy Holidays everyone!!! <3
i’m so sorry for the hiatus in ask-soriel! >< i’m still not dead and really wanna get back to updating here… sadly i’ve been very busy with commissions recently, and i really need the money to help at home right now (it’s pratically my job now, and has been helping A LOT!)
i’m very happy to be getting so many commission requests. thank you so much! i know this blog has been immensely important for my popularity as an artist increasing so much this year. i’d like to thank you guys for all the love and all the nice messages i’ve ever received, for bearing with the slow updates and the fashiontale posts…
once again, i’m so sorry for the ask box been closed for such a long time, and i sure hope i can open it again soon~!))

itsthechangingoftheseasons  asked:

mayuzumi going 5a ( @ kuroko thanks )

5A. I thought it a LOT.. (lol) so i hope you’re pleased with the results. 🍍 🍍 🍍

Royai Fanfic Masterpost

Hey guys! So I asked if y’all would be interested in a masterpost of all my Royai in chronological order, and you said yes! It’s not necessarily the order in which I posted them, but the order in which they happen in the FMAB timeline :) 

I’ll update this list as I add more things to it, but for now, here’s all my Royai in order! The bolded items are the major plot points or events that happen either in my headcanons or in Mangahood :)


Stars - Royai Week 2016

J/10. Teach me how to play?

Warmth (first part)

AE/31. In awe, the first time you realized it

the call 

Roy goes to the military academy

Roy comes back, Berthold dies, and Riza gives Roy flame alchemy

Roy and Riza meet in Ishval

Ishval war ends

monster

Hughes’ death

i will try to fix you

Transfer to Central

O/15. Loud, so everyone can hear.

Ignite

Color

Music

Lab Three incident, Roy kills Lust

Could you write some Royai?

Bradley reassigns Riza

V/22. Muffled, from the other side of the door

Pride is revealed

call to arms

Promised Day

“You’re worth any fight”

7) “Oh gosh, no, I didn’t mean that. Forgive me, please.”

some nights

Mokita

Warmth (second half)

Roy gets his eyesight back

Royai some type of sweet surprise?

AI/35. You heard me. Take. It. Off.

stay with me for the-cookie-alchemist

Y/25. In a blissful sigh as you fall asleep

Roy and Riza get married

at last

Mistletoe for kahasyn

“Thank you for always being here for me”

Roy is elected as Fuhrer

N/14. Hey, I’m with you, okay? Always.

Forgotten

Choices

anonymous asked:

how can mac be gay if he's slept with (a lot) of women? i dont mean to be offensive just curious

sure!! that’s a fair question and you worded it pretty respectfully so i’m not offended by this

okay so the idea that you can only ever have sex with your preferred gender, or that failing to do so invalidates your sexuality, is one that’s damaging to lgbt people, especially closeted ones. throughout history, lots of gay men and women have had sex with different-gender partners, and even entered heterosexual marriages. they didn’t do this because they wanted to or because they weren’t actually gay– it could be done for any number of reasons.

for one thing, it can be dangerous to come out, so “playing straight” was a safer thing to do for many people, even if they knew they were gay. it can also be hard to admit to yourself that you’re actually gay due to reasons of self-loathing– especially if you come from a religious background that tells you that you SHOULD hate yourself for being gay. that’s another reason gay people might seek sex and relationships with different-gender partners. finally, some people may just not consciously realize they’re gay for some time– they may have all kinds of experiences with different-gender people before they realize they’re gay.

in mac’s case, we can see that he fits at least two of these categories– he doesn’t start showing any signs that he might be gay until season 3, which leads me to believe that it took him that long in his life for him to start thinking that he might be gay. secondly, his strict religious upbringing DEFINITELY would have discouraged him from thinking about his sexuality, so he probably forced any gay thoughts or desires he was having down to focus on women.

even then, though, it seems like he’s aware of it on some level– we know from comments made by dennis that the women mac sleeps with in the earlier seasons aren’t conventionally “attractive,” and it seems like mac is interested more in sex for sex’s sake than the women themselves.

and you’ll notice, as the seasons go on and mac’s sexuality becomes more and more apparent, he stops sleeping with women.

so to try and sum this up nicely, mac slept with women due to a mixture of willful ignorance about his sexuality and (sub)conscious self-loathing. as he slowly becomes more open about his desires, he stops sleeping with women as he works towards coming to terms with himself. it’s something that can and does happen to a lot of gay people, even to this day.

i hope this was helpful and cleared things up for you! feel free to hit me back if you have more questions :)

Picked up some mini prints today!! They would have looked a lot better if I had the versions of the book that I based the colour schemes on and also if the people who work at Staples understood the concept of using bleed when printing images.

anonymous asked:

Due to years of bullying I use a lot of spoons to camouflage my autistic behaviour and self. I've started stimming again but get anxious in public but now I need any energy I can get for school so wasting it on pretending to be NT is ridiculous. Would CBT or DBT methods work for this? Thanks

I’m not sure about DBT, but in my experience CBT is all about recognizing your stressors and figuring out the way you best deal with them. This doesn’t mean the “best way” is always the “most NT-seeming way”. So in your case, CBT would likely be a lot of self-affirmation that stimming is the best way you have to deal with your stressors and thus is what you should do, whether or not it “seems acceptable” to NTs around you.

I recall a story about a woman with OCD who was always stressed that she’d left her hair dryer on and compulsively went home to check multiple times a day, until her therapist suggested just taking the hair dryer with her. Nothing else had worked, but that did, even though it wasn’t the “acceptable” way to do it.

My CBT was/is for psychosis, and through it I figured out that the best way people can help me with my delusions is by agreeing with and taking interest in them, which is the exact opposite of what most people think is the “right” way to handle delusions.

So as long as you get a therapist that understands they’re there to help you cope, NOT to “fix” your behaviour (because tbh in that case it ceases being CBT and becomes ABA), then I think it would definitely help! Or, if you’re forgoing a therapist altogether, that’s not something you need to worry about, so again I think it would be quite helpful!

-Brother Cat

anonymous asked:

oh my god, who the fuck cares? I'm following this blog for KHR not eldlive or whatever, get over it

my dude,,,, I really hate to inform you of this, but I’ve been reblogging (even posting about) elDLIVE for close to a year now??? I like to acknowledge, respect, appreciate and share any and ALL work by Amano, and that includes elDLIVE

I will defend it, not only as a series that I like, but also as Amano’s work. literally just ignore it; it’s a couple posts that you don’t see as often because the majority of the blog is KHR.

also, it’s my blog. so, get over it

TO ALL PEOPLE WHO ARE STARTING AP/IB CLASSES THIS YEAR:

Just a reminder that you guys are going to have a rough time adjusting; ITS NORMAL.

Get more than 6 hours of sleep.

Take breaks from studying. Just because you study longer doesn’t mean your studying better.

If you’re overwhelmed, talk to your teacher. Ask for help; the teacher is literally there to help you. Ask questions. Ask for less strict assignments or to go over readings a little more in class.

I’m not fucking around when I say how you should at least sleep for 6 hours.

If your friends aren’t in your advanced classes with you, don’t feel bad if you sit with the kids in your class instead of them. You’ll benefit from it(and if your friends give you shit, then fuck your ‘friends’)

What I do when I study or do really long readings is CRAM CRAM CRAM for like an hour or something then take a short break like for 10 minutes and don’t even think about school. Socialize, laugh, feel like a human again and then I go back to working. Again, working for longer doesn’t mean you’re working better; you’re just exhausting yourself tbh.

Don’t feel guilty for taking a break from social media to focus.

Put your phone in another room(ringer on high for emergencies)

Find a place where you can focus. Where it’s quiet so you can read or somewhere where it’s not busy so you don’t get distracted from other work.

If you have to summarize shit:
Find all definitions(bolder words) and at least three bullet points about each subheading in your textbook.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE realize that not getting a good grade does not mean you’re a failure. You have worked to hard to get here to give up bc of a C. In 3 years, you will NEVER look back and say 'if only I got an A on that one test in APUSH’ or 'maybe if I switched these paragraphs on that one essay about Edgar Allen Poe I would have gotten a higher grade’

If your teacher EVER lets you retake tests, take advantage of it.

Organize your fucking notes. By chapter: highlighting key terms and starring info your teacher puts emphasis on and using different highlighters or different points or topics. You’ll thank yourself later, especially when you test at the end of the year.

Quizlet.com go there. There are flash cards for EVERYTHING.

Don’t hate yourself for taking a nap. You needed it.

Take your math class SERIOUSLY. Sit in the front, ask ANY questions you may have.

Have something to look forward to in every class. It makes it harder to fall asleep if you have someone/something you’re looking forward to. Idec if it’s the dude next to you or the girl who always makes faces at her friend across the room or the pattern on the tissue box.

Take days off. You need them. Trust me. Getting your nails done or eating a pizza or vein with your best friend will honestly feel more refreshing than you think.

Do your homework. Have a system. Which has to be done first? Probably your first hour. Start there.

Accept every hug you’re offered(if you like hugs. Don’t let me control your life)

You’ll make it. Breathe. Breathe again. One more time. You’ll be okay.

comic-rust  asked:

Hey got a question chronic what inspired you to the the recent bunny character if I may ask?

Well, honestly, I’ve been drawing this character for a couple of years now in my multitude of notebooks, and I never really wanted to show him off.  In the beginning he wasn’t a bunny… I’m honestly not sure WHAT he was, but over two weeks ago I decided to revamp his design, FINALLY give him a steady name (I kept changing up the name to whatever I thought fit him at the time), and show him off like my my other OC’s.

But what inspired me to actually go forth and finalize this OC and go crAZY with his story (i thought i was gonna stop with the sketch I did here, but nopE)… was because of @piranhebula and her ability to create the most aMAZING FLUFF ON THE PLANET WITH HER CHARACTERS GORO AND KITO (allheroc’snotjustthetwohhhhhhhhh).  Seeing her stuff inspired me so much and gave me a huge boost in confidence that maybe… maybe I can post my own cute alien characters and make my own fluff and not feel embarrassed about it.

I dunno

2

“Sirius!  Sirius, you wanna go to Diagon Alley with us.  We’re gonna get school supplies and get ice cream,” your younger brother asks.  Sirius had been dating you for a little over a year now, and it seemed that your family took a liking to him.

“Yeah, yeah, sure, that’d be great,” Sirius replied with a smile, a bright look in his eyes as he turned to face you.  He’d always had to go to Diagon Alley alone while his parents went to Knockturn Alley.

“I’ll go, then we can just apparate there,” you say, smiling as you look at your boyfriend.

“I’ll apparate with Sirius!”

“No, I will!”

“You always get to be with him!”

“Yeah, ‘cause I’m older than you, dummy!”

“Guys, guys, he does happen to be, you know, my boyfriend.”

Fandom: Haikyuu!!
Pairing: KuroKen
A/N: for @shizuos and all the fluffy things all weekend that have now cemented my place in KuroKen hell.  ♥


It isn’t until nearly the end of his second year that Kenma becomes completely aware of how much Kuroo stares. 

When they were kids, it had been because of things like Kenma sometimes going cross-eyed staring at the video game console for too long, or his hair falling like a curtain over his face without care enough to brush it back, or because Kuroo had asked something and, as usual, Kenma hadn’t paid enough attention to hear it, let alone come up with a passable response.

But now - now Kuroo stares when there is no reason to stare. Kenma makes sure to blink enough that his eyes are in no danger of crossing, makes sure to tuck his hair behind his ears because they get in the way more often if he leaves them as they are, makes sure to respond appropriately when addressed (albeit short and clipped because Kuroo always teases him about one thing or another). 

So when the staring continues for weeks after their famed match with Karasuno at Nationals, Kenma starts to wonder if it is Kuroo’s way of trying to figure out what’s wrong with him, to figure out if, after all this time, maybe Kenma’s guarded traits and brief responses aren’t as great to be around. That with Kuroo going off to college in a couple of months, maybe he’s been trying to find a way to tell him, but doesn’t quite know how. 

“You haven’t blinked in the last thirty seconds.”

“What? Oh! Right,” Kuroo says with a quiet chuckle, shaking his head as he challenges the statement with a few rapid blinks. “Is that game new?”

“No, I bought it last week. You were with me.”

“Right. Of course I was.” Kuroo pauses and tilts his head to the side, proceeds to look at Kenma with a sort of fixed concentration. The same look he wears when watching his favorite movies or during particularly important matches.

“You’re staring again.”

“Am not.”

“Are, too.”

“Am not.”

“Are, too.” Then Kenma pauses the game and glances at Kuroo from his peripheral. “Do you have to do that? You’re being weird.”

“Sorry,” Kuroo says hurriedly, a crease forming between his brows. “Something’s different. I’ve been trying to pinpoint it for a while, but now I think I’ve finally got it.”

Kenma’s stomach sinks. He clutches the edges of the console and holds his breath. This is it. Kuroo’s finally realized it. How strange he is. How unreachable. How difficult it is to maintain a friendship with someone who seems unwilling to put in as much effort as he does with his silly video games. How maybe university would be the perfect time to try new things, to find new friends, to–

It takes Kenma a few seconds to register the quick brush of lips on his cheek. To process the action and promptly flush, much to his chagrin. Stupid Kuroo. 

“I figured it out.”

“Congratulations,” Kenma says without thinking. Then, “what is it?”

“I think I like you.”

“We’ve been friends for years and you only figured that out? I thought you were supposed to be really smart.”

“No,” Kuroo says, cups Kenma’s chin and eases his gaze away from the game still currently on pause. “Can I?”

Kenma blinks. Slowly nods, eyes widening just the slightest bit when Kuroo leans in. His lips are warm, soft, a little chapped, but pleasant. Like the flutter in Kenma’s stomach. Then he pulls back, quirks a grin like Kenma is an equation he’s finally solved and Kenma’s stomach does a little flip, an involuntary jump. “Um.”

 “I like you.”

“Oh.”

And suddenly, with eyes downcast and cheeks warm, Kenma thinks that maybe he doesn’t much mind the staring after all.

pathless-wood  asked:

Book ask: 6

6: Which book was the last one you really, really loved?

 The Archived by Victoria Schwab

I’d had it in my TBR for over a year. The tagline said ‘Imagine a place where the dead rest on shelves’ so I thought it would be about Mackenzie, the main character, keeping a library of the deceased’s memories or something? Just some cool world-building in general, because that’s what I’d come to expect from the author.

Well! I got that, but I did not expect:

-an actual murder mystery, set in an old gothic hotel with gargoyles on the roof and blood-spatters on the floor and everything. It was all so deliciously creepy.

-‘the dead’ to be echoes of their old selves wandering around in a dark and maze-like plane of existence, and the heroine has to contain them, and by contain them, I mean use Buffy-esque moves on them so she can lay them to rest in the Archive (which WAS a sort-of library!)

-this painful, real exploration of a grieving family, and how the loss they have suffered has made it easier for Mackenzie to lead her double life.

- to have a heroine who was shut-off and hurting but insanely vulnerable, and an exploration of exactly how much the double-life  isolates her. I found her kind of prickly at first and couldn’t quite connect with her, but by the end, I loved Mackenzie like whoa.

-and finally, the main guy character, Wesley. Who disposes of walking shells of people and wears black eyeliner…and does it all while being the most cheerful, exhuberant person ever.

-like, I am SO open to hard-edged girl/sunny guy ships but it has to be done in the right way — it has to respect the girl, for one: it has to have the guy be teasing but sweet and understanding of why she’s that way. And it has to give her a sense of humor too, or else it wouldn’t work for me. And this is exactly how that ship went! And I loved it.

-it has a sequel (I’m ordering it as soon as I can!), but I don’t know if the publication house will allow the author more books. Which is a damn shame because I would devour so many more books about this world and especially the two main characters. </3

book asks

anonymous asked:

Who is 'you guys', you moron? Danielle was in LA so it couldn't have been her. Now we know it was likely Eleanor. Do you have any self respect? Does it look like Louis cares about your opinions on his love life? Idiot.

Check your attitude, asshole. There is proof of her being back in LA for the first weekend of January. We know she was in London for New Year’s Eve. Like you do the math, you moron. She could’ve been anywhere during that week. Also don’t you think people would’ve recognised Eleanor if it had been her instead of Danielle? Wow talk about being a dumbass.

TLCShipweeks: Kaider | Prompt: Dreams

Kai sees her clearest on the warmest night of the year. He doesn’t even think to ask where she’s been in the months since he last saw her. The nights he’s lain awake torn between hatred and longing for her are swept into the ashes now. [x]

anonymous asked:

Hi! I've been in an LDR with my boyfriend for about a year and three months, coming this Valentines Day. <3 We met when we were 15 on this chat website thing, and I've never loved anyone more. We just fit so perfectly, he makes me laugh and makes those little imperfections I have disappear...how can I stay positive knowing he's so far away? And block out the people who say we're doomed to fail because of distance and never meeting? (Though we of course plan to!) Thanks~ <3 16 and lovesick~

Long distance relationships are by no means doomed to fail! I know a ton of adults who are happily in stable marriages today after having done long distance. Statistically ldrs are no more likely to break up than close-proximity relationships, so you have every shot!

It can be tough to stay positive. I pray a lot, which helps me but I know probably most of my followers don’t have my faith. To be honest Im pretty new at this so I don’t have a looooot of ideas to help you out—maybe someone else might?