gatewaytogay  asked:

Do you genuinely care abt not harming minors or are you just upset bc people are mad at you and you don't wanna lose your internet cult following? If you really cared you wouldn't hide it all and you'd post something publicly. I'm really hurt considering I used to be a big fan of yours.

Absolutely, I do!! I have posted publicly, and I don’t think of anyone as a cult following, I constantly am overwhelmed all the time by the love people show me each day because I feel I am undeserving. You all are incredible individuals and I can see you’re hurt by this, and that kills me, as well as any possible thing I may have promoted. I just didn’t know if you wanted your blog out there on the dash, but I can certainly do so if you wish! I am doing what I can to restructure and prevent any of this again. Please please don’t lose hope in me. I don’t know how to express this more than my future actions, so I hope what I do from here on out helps fix things and prevent any possible bad results from my actions.

tfc characters as things my roommate has done/said
  • dan: listen - i'm trying to be encouraging and kick ass here but halfway through my speech i realized that i also have important and kick ass things to do so i have to leave but i love you and support you
  • matt: -comes into my room with four things of doughnuts and places them on the desk and kisses me on the top of my head- when you want to cry just eat a doughnut and come get a hug from me
  • allison: i bought four loofahs so i can use four different types of body wash with them
  • renee: sometimes i lay in my bed and think 'i'm soft but deadly' y'know?
  • kevin: no YOU LISTEN - stop it LISTEN - cmon i'm trying to talk. i can talk? ok what i was trying to say is you annoy me
  • nicky: -literally comes busting through the door unannounced- I JUST ATE THREE HOT POCKETS IN A ROW AND I'M FAILING TWO CLASSES BUT GUESS WHO'S SMASHING TONIGHT??
  • aaron: by the way i'm putting an alarm system on my door so when you try to come in without knocking you get kicked in the nuts -says this right after coming into my room... without knocking-
  • andrew: -purposefully leaves the shower curtain open even after being reminded several times to keep it closed and also uses up all of the body wash in spite-
  • neil: honestly, i'm kinda hurting really bad. where? oh, everywhere but i'm ok i think, i just can't really move that much so do you think you can drag me to my bed

anonymous asked:

TT I need advice I told my datepartner it's okay that they're poly and that I just dont want to know about their other relationships but I'm not I'm really not okay with it and I don't know what to do and I'm just really hurt and upset and I know this probably isn't the kind of thing to ask a hp rper but i dont know who else to ask because as dumb as it is cause you dont and will not ever know me you're my best friend I dont know who else I can turn to please help me

(( OOC: I have a very strong opinion on this, so forgive my bluntness.  

Be. Honest. With. People. 

This goes for any type of relationship. If you are not alright with something, if you have concerns, or if someone you love does things that make you upset or uncomfortable… talk to them about it. Be open with them… discuss it (Do it in a kind, loving, open-minded way, but talk to them). 

If you are in a romantic relationship with someone, and you are not comfortable with their preferences or how they view relationships… then there must either be compromise/change… or the romantic relationship should end, because you cannot provide each other with the things that you value most.  

Relationships are built on trust… if you don’t have trust, you don’t have a relationship. If you aren’t honest with others, or if they are not honest with you, then you will be building a relationship with a stranger. 

If you are not truthful about who you are, and what you want out of life… then the person you are with will be falling in love with someone that isn’t real.

They will love the image you put forward and not the real you, because you’re not allowing them to know the real you. You’re catering to what you think they want, and sacrificing yourself in the process. 

If you feel like you can’t be honest with someone, for fear of them leaving you… 

That is not a real relationship. That’s pretending. That’s playing. That’s nothing.

Be. Honest. With. People. 

Be honest with yourself. )) 

mistcrprongs  asked:

Hey Leigh! ❤️ When you started out writing and you decided to write YA fantasy, did you feel silly at all? I've been writing a story for a while and it's fantasy, and I always feel really self conscious when I tell ppl about it bc whenever I do, a lot of them generally view it as childish or "not serious writing." Someone told me fantasy (esp YA) had "no substance. That's why they don't teach it in schools." I'm ngl it's really hurt my self esteem haha. Anyway, I wondered if you had any advice?

Yeah, unfortunately, there’s still a tremendous bias against genre fiction. But you may want to remind these kind people that the Iliad and the Odyssey are fantasy, that Spencer’s Faerie Queene is fantasy, that Shakespeare’s Tempest is fantasy, and that they are ALL taught in schools. (To say nothing of the magical realism of Marquez, Allende, Morrison, and Erdrich who are some of my all time favorite authors.) 

Write what you love and remember that, when someone tries to shame you, it’s usually because they’re afraid of what you might accomplish if you stop caring what they think. 

  • resident racist: everyone KNOWS that no one REALLY gets hurt when someone is racist against them!!! which is why it's my RIGHT to deny people service if they're black!! and if wants to challenge that right of mine, then I'll go to war to protect my right to be a racist, because i'm not REALLY hurting anyone!!!

anonymous asked:

So there's this show called Wh*n We R*se that has really obvious bi erasure (and I think trans erasure) and as a bi person I'm really hurt and slightly offended, but of course all the gay men and lesbians are getting pissed at the bi people "complaining." I mean we're a part of lgBt history too y'know? Anyways you have any advice? Should I just get over it? Thanks jaxx.

i haven’t seen it so id have to research more to formulate a proper response but here’s my 2¢

any lgbt activist movie or show that blatantly disregards the contributions bisexuals+ and trans+ people have made towards the movement isn’t a fully, well rounded movie or show accurately representing the full picture/scope. period.

anonymous asked:

my super manipulative and codependent ex and i recently blocked each other on all social media. before the cut off, they said some really hurtful and vicious things to me. i don't want to reconnect with them, but i'm still really hurting. and on their blog all they post about is their new s/o and it seems like they're still trying to manipulative me because they know i'll keep looking at their blog. how do i control myself ag not look at their blog? how can i put all this behind me?

Hey darling 💕 I want you to know that being curious about your ex is more than okay and it’s actually very normal. We are alllll guilty of checking up on our ex friends or partners at least once in our lives. There are usually two possibilities when we do this though: we either see something we don’t care about at all, or we will see something we really don’t want to see. With both possibilities, the end result will always be the same: you will feel worse.

  • Reflect on the last time you read your ex’s blog, pinpoint how it made you feel, and speak it aloud. “It’s okay to be curious, but reading their blog will not make me feel better.” Psychology backs that affirming yourself out loud is a good way to start gaining self control and strength.
  • Do not punish yourself for the times you end up reading their blog. You haven’t done anything wrong, and just like any other habit it’s not always as simple as telling yourself to stop. It can take time, so be extra patient and loving with yourself.
  • Keep in mind that people tend to post their highlights on social media. I think since social media is so widely used every day, a lot of people forget that it isn’t an accurate representation of a person, or their life.
  • Block and keep them blocked. Deleting all of your old messages, pictures, screenshots, etc is another good idea. You don’t want to be randomly reminded of your ex, or be tempted to check on them again.
  • Try using a reward system. Every time you resist the urge to read your ex’s blog, do something extra nice for yourself. Another good way to resist the urge is by putting some change in a jar every time you do end up reading their blog.
  • Find a replacement habit or something to distract your mind when you find yourself thinking of checking on your ex. Play a fun computer game, write something in a journal, open up a magazine, give your pet some tummy rubs, practice deep breathing, etc. Practice self care as often as possible.
  • Mute any mutual friends on social media that could reconnect you and your ex. Also consider making your accounts private or password protected.
  • Meet some new people and don’t be afraid to socialize. Try chatting with someone new through Tumblr, say hi to someone in line at the grocery store, hanging out with a good friend’s friend that you haven’t met in person yet, etc. Go out on some dates !!! Take yourself on a date, go on a fun date with your friends, or go on a date with a special somebody if you’re feeling up to it.
  • Take a break from social media. I personally find social media exhausting to keep up with, so I turned off all of my notifications a few months ago and it has been very liberating for me. I only check social media when I want to!

It’s tough enough as it is dealing with breakups, and you definitely do not deserve to be manipulated and hurt. Remember that you will move forward. You will not feel this way forever. You are a beautiful person who deserves happiness and healing. 🌷💝

anonymous asked:

Hi!! Your work is absolutely fantastic! And I truly enjoy reading them! Please if I may ask for a scenario where Revali and Sidon hear their hylian s/o screaming in pain causing them a frighten only to realize that their s/o had only stubbed their toe? THOSE REALLY HURT! I'm just saying! Haha! Thank you, love! <3



The sound of rushing footsteps hit, and through the door came an armed Revali, looking around furiously.

“What is it?! Is there an attacker?! Who- why are you jumping up and done on one leg?”

“Stubbed my toe- hell that hurts!”


“Oh shut it Mr. I-scream-when-I-see-a-spider-”



A scream. From their home. Were they well? Were they under attack? Please don’t let him be too late, please let his aim be true and fast enough to save the- why are they cursing out the door?

“My pearl..?”

“****************door***********-Sidon? Something wrong-ACK!” (Name) was crushed against him, his spear clattering on the ground. “…Sidon..?”

“I… I am glad you are safe.”

anonymous asked:

"I Have Questions" screams Camren so much I don't know if I'm ready to hear it all ... I'M HURT. It really blows me to think about L and their relationship hurt her at some point and how disappointed she sound. 💔 She mention it he/her on the song, telling that she was let alone in a hotel room, the glass closet and how this person let her alone ... This is Camren, don't try to fuck with me.

anonymous asked:

Hey , I noticed that I'm always slow to feel emotions, you see something bad happens but I feel nothing and ignore it but later on when I'm alone I remember the events and I'm like 'oh that really hurt ' and get upset, sometimes I don't even feel it until someone mention it like 'they shouldn't have talked to you that way, and I'm like ' your right' and I got angry, do you think it's normal to be so slow about emotions like that?

Indeed. That’s part of the glorious ridiculousness of having inferior Fe. 

Our lowest cognitive function happens to be (surprise, surprise) our emotional function. Unfortunately, because we’re introverted, our lowest function is extroverted. Which means that everyone else gets to see our feelings.

Because we don’t like emotions, as we often have the faulty idea that they’re at variance with our logical minds, we tend to push them away when they do show up. We ignore them and laugh about them and shrug them off. Unless there’s something really awful or we’re under a lot of stress, we get so used to doing this that we don’t even think about it.

The good thing about this is that INTPs don’t generally hold grudges or hate people or stuff like that. But the bad thing is that we have a really hard time making friends, we can hurt others easily (because we don’t understand that not everyone else just brushes things off like we do), and we aren’t great at reading the emotions of others.

So, basically, you’re a perfectly normal INTP. Not sure if that’s a good thing. But there you have it.

One thing you can do to help this is to force yourself to spend time with other people. It’s not fun, but being around others will help you to develop some emotions. And when they show up, don’t let yourself push them away. Consider them, and ask yourself why you’re feeling what you’re feeling. Tell your logic that it can get along with your emotions. After all, people need both to be well-rounded individuals. 

I hope this helps, and thanks for stopping by.

mistressalexandra18  asked:

Okay. So here's my ask. How would the 2ps react to their s/o having really bad leg problems, and a really bad case of déjà vu? Like their legs are sometimes alright, but then the s/o starts crying due to really bad pain in their legs, and they can't walk due to the pain. Their déjà vu is so bad, the s/o starts to feel sick, their head hurts, and they feel as if they are going to fall down. (This happens to me all the time. One second I'm fine, the next, I'm hurting really bad. It sucks.)

(You poor bean I hope you get better eventually)

Is always there to help you. He’ll literally carry you if he has to. – 2p Germany, 2p America, 2p Russia

Feels so very sorry for you and hates seeing you in such pain. – 2p Romano, 2p Prussia, 2p China

Takes you to the hospital or straight home to feel better. – 2p Spain, 2p England, 2p France

It stresses him honestly and he hates not knowing what is wrong. – 2p Italy, 2p Japan, 2p Canada

//So uh... I got a couple messages from a mean Anon that actually cut deep and hurt. I have a feeling I know who sent them as it's things only they would know... So I'm really hurt right now. I'm gonna head off for the night. Sorry. I love you all. <3

anonymous asked:

everyone i've talked to has told me that dionysos and i are incompatible (? i can't think of the right word..) because i'm asexual, but he's the one who reached out to me in the first place. i'm just really confused and hurt at the lack of support i'm getting from my community and i'm not really sure what to do??

 First of all, forget those stale brownies. 

Secondly, there’s nothing in Hellenic polytheism saying that anyone can’t or shouldn’t worship any of the theoi. 

Third, there is a hell of a lot more to Dionysus than ~sex~, like, okay, personal experience and unverified gnosis indicate Dionysus as having some kind of domain in sexual matters, but there is a lot more to him. He’s also Dionysus of the Night, Dionysus of Torches, Dionysus of the Feast, Dionysus of the Grape, Dionysus God of Wine, Dionysus The Good-Spirit, Dionysus of Ivy, Dionysus Basket-Bearer, Dionysus of Flowers, Dionysus of Liberation, Dionysus Savior, Dionysus of Recovery, Dionysus Minstrel, Dionysus Citizen, Dionysus of the Earth…and that’s just a sampling of translations from his list of epithets.

Fourth of all, WE DO NOT HAVE TO SHARE ATTRIBUTES OF THE DEITIES WE WORSHIP. We learn more from worshiping deities who differ from us sometimes, than we do from finding and worshiping deities we have a lot in common with.

Fifth, why should any aspect of your sexuality exclude you from worshiping a deity that is largely accepted as a patron to LGBTQIA+ and MOGAI folks? 

Sixthly, he called you, so who are these mortals to tell you no? Hellenic polytheism isn’t a closed religion, so anyone trying to gate keep needs to take the red pill and figure out what’s what. Sure, there are specific initiatory branches within Hellenic Polytheism, but worship of Dionysus isn’t closed and no one has the right to tell you that you can’t honor him.

So in conclusion, forget those stale brownies. You know what you do with stale brownies? You throw them away because they’re gross, just like those opinions. Anyone saying that you can’t or shouldn’t worship Dionysus is flat out incorrect. They’re either horribly misinformed, or being deliberate jerks.

If you want to talk, my ask box is always open.

confidenceatitsfinest  asked:

Hi~ I'm a really big fan of your writin g and you're actually part of the reason why I made a tumblr in the first place! So, I wanted to request a Sugakookie from you. I'm really into the hurt/comfort genre so here's my prompt: Yoonkook get into a fight and in the heat of the moment Yoongi says something hurtful (I should've dated Jimin instead, and he knows Kook is insecure about how their relationship). Please make it a happy ending! Thank you!!!!

A Moment’s Heat = Yoongi might have ruined everything.
» sugakookie. fluff.

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Fairy Tail 504
  • Gray: Hey so you were the one who I was gonna kill no it's not like I'm really hurt by my waifu's death and you are the montster I was searching for, not at all.
  • Gray: I'm gonna fight you even if you're like a brother to me because the plot
  • E.N.D: HeY DUdE i Am ScREamINg tHaT I'M nOT ThE baD GUy HErE
  • Brandish: Look useless doctor I'm a cool bitch who heals herself
  • Evergreen: I'm not trusting ya you blonde haired psycho
  • Lucy: Hey Brandish it's not like you tried to kill me I'm just gonna give useless life advices in the middle of a war
  • Juvia: Juvia knows everything about Gray-sama and will save him!!!
  • Wendy: Not giving a fuck
  • Makarov: MY BAAAACKKKK
  • Erza: 1!1!1!I'm cool and strong! And also beautiful and smart! Something else?
  • Eileen: Get on my level bitch.
  • Also Eileen: Hey it's not like I'm gonna give a fuck about you long lost /daughter/sister/niece/past self. I'm gonna kill that Gothic loli who tried to run away from me.
  • Everyone: SAURON'S EYE
  • Angel: Hey just a reminder that I'm really useful
  • Eileen: Just you wait little bitch. Just you wait.
  • Bonus
  • Invel: Look at me Zeref-senpai I'm a cool spy who knows everything about everyone's family businesses

anonymous asked:

I'm really craving some hurt!merlin fics with protective!arthur. I was wondering if you could possibly rec a couple? Thank you very much!

You can also check the protective tag on our delicious page.

Somebody to Lean On by samyazaz
Merlin may be the worst manservant ever, but when he breaks his arm and Arthur has to care for him, he quickly discovers that he’s kind of terrible at it, too.

Between the Dusk and the Dawn by ZairaA
When Arthur is sixteen his father deems him ready to lead the knights on his first mission, which is to take care of a druid camp that has sprung up within the borders of Camelot. In the midst of chaos and bloodshed that leaves Arthur guilt-ridden, he manages to save one boy whom he swears to protect at any cost.
Over the years Merlin becomes so much more than Arthur’s redemption, but is Arthur ready to accept their shared destiny, his own feelings for the younger boy and the chance for love Merlin is offering him?

Feel Me In Whispered Words by kayura_sanada
Merlin and Arthur are close – very close. So when Uther learns of Merlin’s magic, he finds a public execution might, for the first time, turn his son from him irrevocably. And so he decides to make Merlin disappear.

Boy Toy and Sugar Daddy by Slayer_of_Destiny
Merlin and Arthur have been together for a few months and are happy. The only problem? None of their friends believe that the other is with them for anything less than nefarious reasons. Merlin finally snaps and tells off Arthur’s friends and it all comes out. Cue Merthur snuggles and fluff.

Experiment by elirwen
After Uther’s death, Arthur visits one of the facilities run by the company he inherited, a mental health institution specialized in research and care for magic users.
He meets Merlin, a research subject for a study about long time solitude and its effect on human psychology, and finds out there’s something very wrong with the facility.

All You Did Was Save My Life by sky_reid
Overusing magic exhausts Merlin to no end. Luckily, he has Arthur to take care of him.

Court Sorcerer and Royal Consort by Slayer_of_Destiny
When Merlin falls ill, worked too hard from all the running around he is doing, Arthur decides that it is time for something’s to change, and something’s to come to the light once and for all. When Merlin wakes it is to a very different Camelot, and very different future from the one he foresaw for himself and had settled on.

Ashes to embers by andiwould
Merlin is trapped in his apartment and the building is on fire. Smoke is quickly filling the small space and chocking out all the air, while flames and heat are consuming the place from the outside in. Arthur and his men the “knights” are firefighters. Arthur saves Merlin.

Cry Havoc by Nightfox
Enslaved by Kanen since childhood, Merlin has been raised to believe his collar is all that keeps him in check. That it is the line between the beast that bites and the dog that obeys…but either way, he’s still an animal. Then one day Kanen’s gang is ambushed and in the ensuing confusion, Merlin escapes and flees to Camelot where he attempts to start a new life. However, his old master isn’t about to let him go without a fight.