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Just so my followers know

You guys can come and talk to me about anything. I don’t have triggers, and I will not ever judge you. I will try and talk with you and make you smile and laugh. I’m not a doctor, I’m not a therapist, I can only help you so much. But if you are feelings down and low I can at least listen and share my experiences and make you feel not alone. Don’t ever feel shy or nervous I will try and get back to you as soon as possible, if I don’t respond I’m asleep. I try and help everyone to the best of my ability. When I see that you all feel better after talking to me I get so happy, also I will always private message you as long as its not on anon. 

I’ve come to notice that this is the picture that has the most notes on my blog… And it makes me so sad to see so many of you feeling like this.

It gets better guys, it really does! In just a matter of a few weeks I’m a happier person. I’ve gotten rid of a lot of people who were making me feel so bad about myself. I’m not so down anymore and I just feel so much better.

If any of you EVER need anybody to talk to PLEASE come to me! I will talk and listen. I promise my life on it. You won’t bug me and I’ll understand, I’ve been through it and I’m still going through it. Just please come to me if you need anybody by your side! I’ll be that person!

Hey guys!

Originally posted by saber-toothed-kittens

How are you? 

How’s your holidays going? Are you back to school/work? 

I haven’t hearing of you for a while! Not so much actually, but I miss our little chitty chatty! ;) So c’mon! Tell me what’s going on in your life! :)

xx

Originally posted by dark-dagger

reminder:

I’m always always here for you if you need to talk. tell me about your day or yourself. ask for advice. rant about little things. rant about big things. tell me about your hometown, your best friend, your girlfriend, your boyfriend, your little brother. tell me anything. tell me what you think no one wants to hear. because I really really do. I really want you to know that I think you’re very interesting and I want to hear what you have to say.

- have a lovely day xx

Funeral wear and my cousins messy counter. I did good that day, they thanked me for really lifting the spirits of our family on such a sad day, of course we will still be sad but I know you will live on through all of us because you changed us and taught each and every one of us something. I love you. I miss you. I’m sorry I didn’t know.

Just letting everybody know, in case it wasn’t already here, if you’re ever struggling with an issue or freaking out over something or just need someone to hear you out, please don’t hesitate to send me a message. My inbox is always open and I’m always around to listen and give advice, if that’s what you need. I’m great at advice on relationships and friendships, parental/family issues, self esteem and body positivity problems, and also makeup advice, if that’s ever needed! 😂

I’ve been in the position where all I needed was someone to talk to and all my friends were just too close to the situation. I ended up keeping it all bottled up inside and that’s definitely not healthy. I care about all of you and if all you need is a small portion of my time to help you and your mental state, I’d do it in a heartbeat with a smile on my face.

Just keep that in mind if you ever find yourself in a pickle ❤️ love you, babies!

Ever been so worried about someone that you start shaking? Yeah, that’s happening now. I care so much about my friends, and I don’t want to see anything bad happen to them. To all of my friends that are having a bad time, just know that I’m here if you need to talk. I always was, and always will be. I care about you. I love you, and that’s the truth. No matter what happens, that will never change. Just know that you’re all very important to me, and I would never ever change anything about our friendship.

anonymous asked:

I had a fever and was very sick during an exam during the week someone in my family suddenly died and I got a C on and exam that I needed an A on and it's been horrible and I feel stupid and like a failure I couldn't think properly because I hallucinate when I have a fever and they almost kicked me out of my program even though I have honors

Now, listen to me: 

You are NOT a failure, and you are NOT stupid. 

You are a human being and you are responding to a bad period in your life accordingly. None of this is your fault. 

You have all the right in the fucking planet to be like this and people need to understand that. When you feel better, talk to the people that almost kicked you out and explain your situation calmly. Maybe have a conversation with your teacher as well, see if there is something you can do to get a better grade. Maybe a side project or a chance to take another test. 

I truly hope you’ll feel better. Don’t take it out on yourself.