i'm trusting you tumblr and not signing this

what i'm understanding so far
  • some of y'all: i'm not victim blaming i just want to see any receipts of nick creeping on women at all and ill believe you i swear i trust the potential victims 100%
  • someone: ok here's an exchange of messages in which nick is sexually flirting with me, a fan and taking advantage of the fact that i was a fan of his. these sexual messages made me feel very uncomfortable.
  • some of y'all: lol ok but isn't this just bad flirting :/ i guess its just another Tumblr Witch Hunt with no evidence ://///

anonymous asked:

Mommy...? I'm lesbian... it feels so good to type that

My dear lesbian child, 

Yes! You’re lesbian! It feels good to type that because it is good! 

Your attraction to girls is beautiful. Your existence is beautiful. You are beautiful. <3 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom 

PS: I love it when i get messages like this, they make me smile. It makes me so happy when my tumblr kids “come out” to me, it’s a sign of trust and it’s adorable. 

In the wake of the Paris Attacks, a blindfolded Muslim man with sign “Do you trust me?” hugs hundreds in Paris

Near mourning sight at Place de la Republique an unknown man drew much attention by blindfolding himself and putting out two signs reading “I’m a Muslim, but I’m told that I’m a terrorist” and “I trust you, do you trust me? If yes, hug me.” (x)


In case Tumblr is still confused: yes there are racist people in  France, like everywhere, but they are definitely not the majority. Far from it.

fandom drama basically the worst. When tumblr is suffering from the drama, it’s becoming a very toxic place. Remember the amount of hatred thrown at Amanda for basically stating her being uncomfortable with Johnlock fanfics and fanarts? some of the fans are outraged, and it’s going for three days straight (I cant even browsing through tumblr in peace)

Or the one with B slamming the Johnlock pairing in one of the articles? So an actor isnt really comfortable with your shipping his character with his friend. Big deal. Them disliking it doesnt mean you have to stop shipping it.

and now, the drama is that benedict is changed because he’s Hollywood hot commodity now.

“He no longer the boy that doesnt know how to dress himself..” well, if he dresses better, doesnt mean he’s changed. The circumstance is changed, and yes, he’s a movie star now. Of course he has to properly dressed a bit more now.

“He no longer the cute, bumbly guy who’s having fun by himself.. he looks tired..” Have u seen the new Palm Springs film awards? He basically slowmo through the award speech. Still a huge dork. and remember THE DUDE IS FREAKING BUSY, OF COURSE HE’S TIRED.

WE ALL CANT SMILE WITH OUR TEETHS SHATTERING, CAN WE??

and despite having a fiancee, HE STILL HAS TIME FOR SIGNING AUTOGRAPHS TO HIS FANS,

See, The negativity is created by the fandom and is WAY worse than the reality itself. I suggest never trust anything you find on internet, stop clicking on anonymous articles and news, and start judging by yourself. Lots of drama-queens polluting tumblr. and I dont think they’re the ones you should trust with their snap judgements.

say it with me:

BENEDICT IS NOT CHANGED.