i'm tired of your shit fandom

If you are referring to Zen as a fuckboi (originally a fuckboy), then you obviously don’t know what the word means so stop using it.

Learn hip-hop culture and then get back to me.

If you are trying to use it by twisting it into the popular incorrect use of the term, you STILL don’t know what the word means so stop using it.

Zen is still not a fuckboi.

He’s super loyal, flirts with no one else but the MC, and turns down a woman who is all over him even though it would advance his career tremendously because he has feelings for the MC. You seem to be latching onto his public persona even though you have seen many times over what he is truly like AND you know his family history and why he over compensates. 

“But he takes a lot of selfies,” you whine.

I take a lot of selfies too. The only difference is I’m not a popular actor who is known for his looks, who posts them to help keep his fandom happy.

Guess we all should stop liking all our favorite actors/performers because they are obviously all fuckbois too with their selfie posting ways.

But Zen’s a fuckboi somehow.

OTP HI
  • Person A: Hi, I'm (A)
  • Person B: Hi, you're hot... NO! I-uh mean,... it's hot in here? Yeah, you must be hot too.
  • Person A: we're outside in the middle of winter...
  • Person B: ...
  • Person A: Actually, you look pretty hot in that jacket, maybe if you grace me with your name, you could take it off at my place. 😉
  • Person B: 😳 uh, oh! Yeah- yes,that sounds, yes... I'm (B)!
  • Person A: *giggles* ok (B), this way.

people in fandom need to get that like…you’re allowed to have your own opinion about a character or a ship or whatever, but the moment you go out of your way to put that negative opinion on someone else’s post/in their inbox/on their work, You Are Being An Asshole. 

you don’t have to like someone’s favourite character! you don’t have to like their favourite ship!! you don’t have to like their art or their writing or whatever!! that’s fine!! but the moment you step out of your lane to directly contact someone who is clearly just enjoying their thing in their own space and minding their own business just to be like “lmao but that character is a piece of shit so jot that down” you’re actively being a dick and people have every right to call you out on your shit and block you.

people are allowed to enjoy things that you don’t enjoy without your permission. go take a nap and mind your own business

Levels of fandom friendship

Level 1: Hey! How’s your day been going? I saw that one thing you posted about ___ and I just wanted to say that I completely agree and I think it’s hilarious that… etc

Level 2: Yooo what’s up? Have you read this one fic that has the ___ bc omggg you need to and it’s fantastic, here i’ll link it

Level 3: *out of nowhere message* they’RE JUST SO ____ AND ETC ETC [MORE RANDOM YELLING THAT WILL BE RECIPROCATED]

Level 4: (link) this one has ___  and ___ and ___ kinks and is a 7k pwp. takes place in ___ and fuck it’s good shit. oh also there’s fanart. enjoy

What have you and your friends reached?

Let's reduce the hate anons! :3

Okay firstly I want to apologize because I’m bringing back something that certainly not happy bubbly cheery on your dash because I just login back to my Tumblr. So, I just gone for about two days and it seems like this fandom suddenly so full of hate lately with those bombarding hate asks from some retarded anon. It just getting worst and worst and. The recent case I found that someone (or some people?) was “being super polite” by sending anon asks to @fureiaa (thanks @dreamsinparadise for tagging me on your rant).

To be honest, I don’t know who she is and never talk to her even once but seriously anon, you’re already overboard because you were wishing her to get raped and died. And the worst, you were using my homies @viridian99 @akanojikan @rose-of-yonezawa and @i-dont-look-good-i-look-great as excuses to send some hatred to her. THAT.IS.NOT.COOL :|

Yes, I’m triggered af and hella mad right now. This is the worst hate anon case I’ve ever seen after I joined SLBP fandom. You had no idea what had you done, anon (not only this current anon but for all of the hate anons). You’re making people to think that the entire people in Tumblr are social justice garbage, easily get offended and full of toxic friendships just because of some irresponsible retarded people like you who spreading hatred to this fandom by lurking in anonymous, even until this seconds and the seconds ahead. Hat tip to you for ruining our peaceful and loving fandom because of you’re lowest of the lowest of the lowest attitude, Anon-sama :)

I’ve seen some of people already tried to remind us about how wrong spreading the hatred using anon, just like what @sinfulinsecret wrote in this post and @thedaydreamingotaku wrote on this post. Also with some rants about hate anon that my homies stated Wini’s rant, Minami’s rant ( @minminami), Viri’s rant 1, Viri’s rant 2, Momma’s rant, Kan’s rant, Nikki’s rant ( @nikkihime), Soua’s rant, and another rants that I might be not seen yet. But well… It seems all of those posts didn’t work at all because those haters just simply retarded. Their brain didn’t do its function well as the normal brain would do. Or maybe when we all are line up to get brain before we born, they just simply not in the line and go straight to the world instead so THEY HAVE NO BRAIN AT ALL. And, haters gonna hate really fit to describe them, literally. No matter how we will warn or even rants and cursing them, they will just continue to hate us unconditionally. We will always get so wrong in their eyes.

I’m getting hate anons too on my blog and of course that annoying me as hell. And I got it just because I simply spamming trolls to Milord Nobubu’s blog when he’s online again after a while and made Nobu Month event with my lovelies lmao please get a life anon :|
I did some action to respond their hatred to me, and it’s kinda work (at least for me) because I didn’t get any hate anon lately. So I want to share you my experience. Here are the steps I’m taking to face hate anon.

1. Turn off anonymous
Yes, this is the most simple and practical step you could take to prevent hate anonymous. It’s 99,99% guaranteed that you wouldn’t receive any hate anon on your blog. I’m saying 99,99% because you could get hate anon through another blog that get hate anons. This is for the example, where my momma @rose-of-yonezawa get mentioned in another’s people hate anon in this post.

So, even if we turn off anonymous, we would still get hate anon after all (again, just because it’s simply haters gonna hate)

2. Do not always reply or answer their asks.
I know there must be some blogs that couldn’t turn off their anon because of they knew that some people were to shy to reveal their identity (in a good way, obviously not like those haters) to send them request or just simply saying that they love your blog. The blogs that didn’t turn off their anonymous clearly would be an easy target of hate anons.

I’m turning on my anonymous again after a while and… I got some hate anons back on my asks D: I never reply or answer those hate asks that sent for me and they just… Stop. At least the asks that had same writing type never sent me hate asks anymore.
So I have this conclusion that what the haters want from you is to respond their hatred toward you, or we would simply say, they want your attention by seeing how you react to their asks (and maybe the whole people on this fandom because yeah some people must be would reblog your answer and the anon could see their reaction too). You would satiate them once you reply or answer them. The haters were like “Oho~ so you got so worked up because of this? Let’s roast you moreeee”. They would keep sending you hate asks for more and more and more. Again, haters gonna hate so no matter how you explain your situation, you will always get wrong on their eyes. (Well, damn you haters =_=)

Of course this step would not work directly if the case was like what @fureiaa had because that retarded person using someone else to spread his/her hatred. We needed to confirm the truth about what those haters said first. It would be better if you ask directly to the person they mentioned. You would get the absolute truth because it’s the person him/herself who confirmed that what’s the haters said not true. You could explain and clear all the misunderstanding that the haters made. After that you could imply ignore the upcoming hate asks that pops out on your inbox because you already know that was all lie.

3. Block the hate anon asks
I’ve done some experiment with this step with Wini and it would be very effective to get rid of them because it would permanently block the anon IP address. You would never receive any asks from the blog even if they were off of anonymous. If you still get hate anon, just block them again. It means you have more than one haters that sent you hate anons. At least you would reduce one of the source of toxic people in this fandom because they would never be able to spread hatred through your blog by blocking those asks. Reduce 1 hate anon = reduce 1 hate in this fandom. You can see the steps How to Block Hate Anon post made by @andallwaswell-ish (This is very useful, you all need to check it! ^^)

Well, this is just simply my own experience when I’m facing hate anons and it’s kinda work for me. I hope it would work to you too and help you to prevent and reduce toxic posts in this fandom. I really wish we could bring back the peace and the love we had before those retarded anons attacking this fandom and spread toxic post through their hate posts. And for @fureiaa I might not know you and we never even talked before but nobody deserve any hate anons, not even you. I wish you all the best.

And lastly, let’s make this fandom back to its peaceful and lovable state! :3

anonymous asked:

oh tHANK GOD you're speaking about all the langst problems because i'm so tired of how the fandom makes the others seem abusive just to highlight lance's insecurities. at one point i remember seeing a post about shiro yelling at lance to shut up and i just?? he would never?? why can't people realize that insecurities represent a war with your own person and that if you want to explore that kind of character development you shouldn't make the others treat him like shit

it bothers me so much because i can personally relate to Lance with the insecurities he has, so i feel like i know whats going on with him and when i see people making out the rest of the team to be mean and abusive to him….it’s like……

i don’t really get the point of it? it’s like kicking a puppy who’s already hurting??  and the team aren’t like that at all, they would never

sure, with the way Lance’s insecurities are, maybe it can cause him to think the rest don’t care about him but that’s not true, they do care about him. they don’t treat him like shit. 

why antis gotta have no chill? why? why y’all gotta ruin a good thing??? i know the other day at work i saw a little boy getting himself a voltron toy and goodness was it so refreshing cause this was like maybe a 6 year old child that enjoyed voltron and was innocent of the nastyness that is the older (teen and up) side of the fandom. like… it was so nice to see someone innocently loving voltron. a show that was made with children in mind. like dudes, why is it so hard to just enjoy something like that little kid? y’all ain’t gotta be nasty about it. i’m mainly looking at antis here, but shaladins gotta follow what they preach too. this fandom is a war zone and it’s become toxic. y’all anti’s preach about keeping people safe, but what are y’all gonna do when an excited child (no particular age, just able to use a computer) that is looking up more stuff about voltron and is ignorant of the horror that the fandom is, stumbles upon one of your accounts and sees y’all just being nasty, ruthless, and vicious towards anyone opposed to you. they won’t think you’re protecting them at all, it’ll scare them off most likely. One day (hopefully) y’all gonna regret all the shit you’re doing. i just don’t feel it’ll be soon enough. a good thing is being ruined.

I spent the last 6 hours of my life looking for active blogs and doing this but it was when I finished I remembered I must ask first to do something like this. First of all, I know some people might feel uncomfortable with this so I’m sorry I didn’t ask first, if you see your blog here and want me to delete it just tell me okay! Here is the link to the page so you can read it more clearly.

Also I want to point out to lemonmeds, katillo and sir-shanksbutt that the links used here are “/tagged/harvest-moon” and “/tagged/story-of-seasons”.

@lemonmeds | @diaryofseasons | @storiesofseasons | @talesofthreetowns | @kurokuyo | @worlds-okayest-farmer | @anawkwardmoo | @harvestea | @abountifulharvest | @friendsofoaktreetown | @cursedwateringcan | @frickfrackharvestmoon | @farmblr-trash | @harvestfarming | @harvest-moo | @harvestmoonauntie| @katillo | @happyharvestmoon | @theharvestbrand | @harvestfreakingmoon | @sir-shanksbutt | @harvestthemoonn | @shadowoftheharvestmoon | @toyflower | @saveforgetmenot | @animal-moon-harvest-crossing | @harvestmars | @vaughn-baby | @ranchstoryblog| @harvest-moon-town 

I just wanted a list of actives blogs in the Harvest Moon and Story of Seasons fandom, to make it easier for me to look for content and could be useful for other new blogs like me looking for blogs to follow.

Again, I’m sorry if this made you uncomfortable and don’t hesitate to ask me to delete your blog from this list.

anonymous asked:

OMG NEKO! ! Lately there is so much hate going on, arist blogs are dying and jokublog left or something?!!?! D: Please never leave us. Asdfghj! I love your blog so much and after all that shit going down, I'm scared more weird sh!t could happend. QAQ Hugssz

actually Joku didnt left- she just moved her accounts-

and anyway I do notice the fandom have been looked pretty desspressing and quiet tbh- and it’s not helping that my collage got me tired everyday I ended up cant contribute anything for the fandom.

but your message today remind me that I’m not alone ;w; thank u dear sweet anon! WE will do our best!
Rahul/Katie are gorgeous

I went to see the comments on rahul’s picture of katie on twitter and just as I expected, filled with superc*rp shippers saying “she’s gay dude your character should stay away from her, can the next picture be only of Katie pls, nooo she likes kara” and so much more

and that’s just the beginning over one selfie, imagine when they actually have scenes together

like wow, such an amazing wonderful fandom, what a great way to welcome rahul to the show

and they wonder why people don’t like them looool okay

rahul is a precious bean and an incredibly talented actor who looks FABULOUS with Katie/Lena

suck it haters

why do so many white people in this fandom feel the need to call out POC on what they feel is “”racism”” and fucking lecture us like they know what they’re talking about??? stay in your lane for five seconds for gods sake!!!

@icedyuris

Are you going to counter what I said with anything of substance or???

Yes, I am very familiar with the racist content within this fandom. The whitewashing (which I and others have been actively fighting against), the disrespectful depictions of her as being an animal and claiming that Anubis = dog (and not a god, for some reason?), and justifying their bullshit with that. Overly exaggerated and stylized proportions.

But this isn’t that.

Perhaps Fareeha looks too muscular here for your liking, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t or can’t be true to life.

Hello! We exist. Do I hate myself, or do you hate me?

Look, the ED fandom is hurting. Whichever fave you have they are not acting as you would want, not being written as you would want. The current SL is awful for everyone and I can’t imagine any stans enjoying it.

People identify with characters for different reasons and I understand the frustration when someone disagrees with you, because someone disliking your favourite character feels incredibly personal. However, we are all trying to make sense of the same SL and we are all right now being shit on by ED in terms of writing and characterisation. I understand that anger but turning it on the fandom is only hurtful and only fuels negativity. We like characters for personal reasons but disliking your character is not an attack on you. Attacking someone for liking a certain character is a personal attack.

the-bookish-soul  asked:

I also prefer Elucien to elriel But elriel has a brotp

Obviously I do prefer elucien romantically more but a)- I think e/riel makes a really compelling relationship in ACOWAR, it’s interesting b)- I could maybe even have gotten on board the romantic stuff as a side ship to my major interests if the fandom wasn’t…what the fandom is. 

I am just so fucking tired of having every other post in the elucien tag being an e/riel shipper who feels the need to tell me why my ship is Bad And Wrong and why their ship is Good and Pure while…Completely ignoring 80% of canon in the process and having to reduce these characters to like..shells of themselves in order to make their arguments work. 

Do that in your own goddamn tags people, we have antis for a reason, get out of the elucien tag. 

Are you fucking kidding me?

Are the idiotic antis really claiming that Pharah in that spray is a child?

Are you really that dumb?

Why do you guys insist on infantilizing a grown woman in her twenties (which is what she was in that spray) while not realizing just how condescending, patronizing and racist it is as well?

Look, I get it. You guys fucking hate Pharmercy.

And while there are legitimate reasons not to like this ship, (the way the fandom acts and the bad fanfics and fanarts mainly) it says a lot that you guys have to reach so hard and invent something out of nothing in order to feel smug and to ‘justify’ your hatred of it.

I try to stay out of this shit but Overwatch fandom is just so exhausting sometimes.

I wish you guys would just find a job or do some volunteer work or just do something meaningful with your spare time, instead of masturbating to this wank and finding all sorts of reasons to hate a ship that is mainly supported by gay/bi/pan women

Do not re/blog

Yeah ...

I’m kinda getting tired of doing this critical stuff because it’s not fun anymore when people ridicule you constantly for sharing your opinion on the show and constantly knowing everyone else in the su fandom hates the fuck out of you. It especially sucks to have to look at hate post and get called all this shit from your favorite fan artist and mutuals. Not only that, the entire fandom is pitted against each other, people are harassing one another and the su fandom has become a toxic environment…again. I’m questioning if any of this was worth it in the long run, maybe we should’ve just kept our mouth’s shut.

In any case, I suppose things get worse before they get better, and I’m glad this is a side blog, otherwise this would’ve really been a day ruiner.

I see the X-men fandom has exploded because there seem to be rumors that Taylor Swift will be in Dark Phoenix.

It’s “your fave is problematic“ all over again. Just stop with the blatant hate and let me enjoy my things in peace.

DC: Finally, we're making a Wonder Woman movie

DC: Oh, and yes Jason Momao IS going to be Aquaman.

DC: Victor Stone? Black Superhero Lead? Sure, why not!

DC: Black Adam being played by the Rock?

DC: Traditionally white characters being played by non white people?

DC: Yeah, I think I’d rather stay on the left, thanks.

anonymous asked:

Why do you always reblog angst kyle ron shit to your blog. Half the time you seem good but then you do stuff like that.

You are probably a troll, but I’ve answered a question (albeit that anon asked in a friendlier tone) like this already. Every time I reblog Kylo content I get two to three anons like you. 

I relate to Kylo Ren because of very personal and painful reasons. Since you and a few others seem really really adamant about probing me; here are some canon reasons why. 


When next Snoke spoke there was an intimacy in his voice, a familiarity that stood in sharp contrast to the commanding tone he had used with Hux.

“I have never had a student with such promise—before you.”

Ren straightened. “It is your teachings that make me strong, Supreme Leader.”

Snoke demurred. “It is far more than that. It is where you are from. What you are made of. The dark side—and the light. The finest sculptor cannot fashion a masterpiece from poor materials. He must have something pure, something strong, something unbreakable, with which to work. I have—you.” - Force Awakens Novelization

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He met her eyes steadily. “We’ve lost our son, forever.”

Leia bit her lower lip, refusing to concede. “No. It was Snoke.

Han drew back slightly. “Snoke?”

She nodded. “He knew our child would be strong with the Force. That he was born with equal potential for good or evil.

“You knew this from the beginning? Why didn’t you tell me?”

She sighed. “Many reasons. I was hoping that I was wrong, that it wasn’t true. I hoped I could sway him, turn him away from the dark side, without having to involve you.” A small smile appeared. “You had—you have—wonderful qualities, Han, but patience and understanding were never among them. I was afraid that your reactions would only drive him farther to the dark side. I thought I could shield him from Snoke’s influence and you from what was happening.” Her voice dropped. “It’s clear now that I was wrong. Whether your involvement would have made a difference, we’ll never know.”

He had trouble believing what he was hearing. “So Snoke was watching our son.

Always,” she told him. “From the shadows, in the beginning, even before I realized what was happening, he was manipulating everything, pulling our son toward the dark side.” - Force Awakens Novelization

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The Supreme Leader’s voice was flat. “You have compassion for her.

“No—never. Compassion? For an enemy of the Order?”

“I perceive the problem,” Snoke intoned. “It isn’t her strength that is making you fail. It’s your weakness.” The rebuke hurt, but Ren didn’t show it. […]

“I want the entire Ileenium system destroyed.”

Daring to disagree, Ren took a step forward. “No—Supreme Leader, I can get the map from the girl, and that will be the end of it. I just need your guidance.”

“And you promised me when it came to destroying the Resistance you wouldn’t fail me.” The threatening figure of Snoke leaned toward Ren.[…]

“Kylo Ren. It appears that a reminder is in order. So I will show you the dark side. Bring the girl to me.”

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Ben had the wavy dark hair that Han remembered, now shoulder length. His mother’s cheeks, Han’s chin. Yet everything about him was narrow and stark, as if he had starved himself of nourishment. And his eyes were not the brown eyes Han remembered. They were dim and dark and terribly sad. […]

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“They (Han and Leia) had this kid who was born equal parts good and evil. He is someone who is broken….But it’s more than just having a bad seed as a kid. Snoke had targeted this kid, knew that this kid was gonna be incredibly powerful in the force and wanted him as an ally. So this mother and father had a target for a son. Someone was watching their boy. And these parents aren’t there enough to guide him.” (J.J. Abrams)

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Aftermath Empire’s End:

Who is out there, who is watching us? Hands reach for her, hands of shadow, lifting her up, reaching for her throat, her wrists, her stomach -
Inside, the child kicks. She feels her baby turning inside, right-side, up and down, struggling to find his bearings, trying so hard to find his way free of her.

He is less a human shaped thing and more a pulsing, living band of light. Light that sometimes dims, that sometimes is thrust with a vein of darkness. She tells herself that it’s normal - Luke said to her, Leia, we all have that. He explained that the brighter the light, the darker the shadow.
Right now, her son is upset, tumbling inside her as if he can’t get comfortable. His light, flickering with dark. […]
As Leia finds her peace, so does her son. […]
My son is alive. The future is bright.  […]
The baby turns inside her again, troubled by something she cannot feel and cannot yet understand.