i'm sure i say it every week now but

anonymous asked:

Oh wise and mighty Peaches!! Do you have any advice for someone who is experimenting with gender? I am toying with gender fluidness but it's a little hard to do right now cause I'm living with my parents for the next few weeks and they don't exactly approve. Thank you for any advice you can give and if not then I love you and your comics and I hope you have a good vaca!

Well be sure to tinker around with little things that’ll make you more comfy while you’re under their watchful eye! Be safe and take extra steps to be kind to yourself, every little thing counts.

I mean it, it may seem like a silly, simple little thing to say, but when it comes to being in environments where you’re afraid to or can’t do much, it really are the little things that count when it comes to combating dysphoria.

Once you’re out, then.. y’kno. 

Good luck to you, babe, and thanks for the kind words!

anonymous asked:

I know I will be random af, but I can't take karamels trying to dictate what is or what is not abuse anymore. I go to the psychologist every week because of a fuck boy like Mon-el, and I'm pretty sure she know more about emotional abuse than this 12 yo girls on the internet. I have a girlfriend now who helps me and that is great, but I was miserable at the time and people used to tell me "That's just how love is honey" so yeah, sorry to just appear out of nowhere

First, this isn’t random at all; thank you for sending this! But more importantly, yeah, I completely agree. @nistrids wrote a great post about what you’re saying here, and it’s such an important conversation to have. Saying things like “that’s how relationships are” or “boys will by boys” continues the cycle of abuse acceptance and normalization, and that’s incredibly shitty.

anonymous asked:

Deancas "every time I walk my dog you go crazy over him, but you never say hello to me. It's been a week now and I'm getting pissed" AU?

Dean’s honestly not entirely sure how he ended up owning a dog. All he knows is one day he was walking home from work and out of the corner of his eye, he saw something wet, furry and shivering against the chilly rain of late October, and while the absolute last thing in the world Dean needed was a pet to clean up after, he knew what it was like to be cold, hungry and alone.

And that is how one could say Dean ended up with a dog that needs too many walks and seems to be in perpetual need of a bath, no matter how many products Dean scrubs the silly beast with.

Speaking of walks, that is exactly what has Dean up at precisely 7:30AM, fully dressed and lagging behind as Kilmister (What? He needed a decent name, and screw you, Motorhead will always be cool.) drags him, fluffy tail wagging furiously as the he thoroughly sniffs and investigates the exact same path they walk every single day.

Dean has no idea how an animal can be so damn excited every second of the day, but even he has to admit it’s kind of endearing to come home from work and always know that at least someone will be happy to see him. Even if that someone sheds their Godforsaken hair all over Dean’s bed.

Oh, Dean thinks, licking his lips reflexively. There’s a man sitting, as he always is, at the patio of the small coffee shop Dean passes on each walk. Typically Dean sees him in a suit, a tan trench coat draped over the back of his chair, but today is a Saturday and he’s dressed much more casually, a fitted tee-shirt and faded out jeans that might be older than Dean, but fit the man like some kind of obscene dream.

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  • what she means: oikawa and iwaizumi aren't going to the same uni and i feel so attacked right now. i'm so dead inside, and their parting made me cry in a corner for like five hours but despite the fact that i'm in pain, long distant relationships dont seem so bad. iwaizumi could be calling up oikawa every week to make sure that oikawa's not overworking himself and they could have the longest skype calls. but at the same time the thought of oikawa not taking care of himself because iwaizumi isn't there to yell at him brings me even more pain and brb im launching myself into the sun

bedtimeforlouis  asked:

Honestly I'm just really angry right now like I'm almost completely sure it wasn't louis tweeting but it's still sich a fucking ignorant thing to say and extremely hurtful. I was really looking forward to the next few weeks and feeling so bloody positive but I'm kind of crushed, and this has such major repercussions on not only louis but the whole band, so it's basically every single positive thing that's happened over the last couple of months thrown out the window

In my experience with the previous bullshit tweet (jesus take the wheel, I never wanted to have to say that), we’ll spend the next 24-72 hours like this. Numb, hurt, upset, questioning everything. Ourselves, our blogs, Louis. But then, good things will happen again. I firmly believe that right now. 

So yes, I am crushed, too, but I’m also resilient, as is Louis and this band. 

Let’s not count them (or ourselves) out just yet. 

leaving tumblr for a while x

As many of you know, I’ve talked about my anxiety pretty much on my blog. Whenever I’ve had a bad day, or I’ve felt like everything was falling apart, I’ve been able to rant and cry on my blog.

So, as you might know, I’ve been feeling a lot worse lately. School is stressing me out, and I even fucked up the finals because of panic attacks. I can’t sleep, or even consentrate to anything anymore and I’m just tired, not only physically but mostly mentally.

And I don’t want you to see me like this, I really don’t. I want and need my blog and stories to be things, where you can escape all the not so great stuff in life, and right now I can’t offer that to you, or myself either.

God, I sound so dramatic haha.
All I was supposed to say was that I’m going on a hiatus for at least a few weeks. I might be posting something every once in a while, but mainly I’m just going to stay away and take some time to myself. I just really can’t keep going on like this.

I hope you understand & I’m so sorry. I’m seriously gonna miss you so much.

whattheshithole  asked:

I've been off and on with my boyfriend for over a year now, but it seems that I'm the only one that puts effort into our relationship. He has recently called me annoying and he avoids me at least once every few weeks then gets upset when I don't go up to him and ask what's wrong, but when I do he lies and says it's nothing. But what I'm saying is that I'm not sure if I should continue with this relationship or end it for good and endure heart break and hateful comments from others.

Dearest whattheshithole,

A relationship should never feel like a hard labour. Sure you must put an effort and work on it but it’s never a task to be carried alone, that’s is why you call your partner a partner.

You must show him what your worth is and how you deserve to be treated. 

There are people who deserve you and people who don’t. If you have someone in your life who takes you for granted or doesn’t give you the respect that you deserve, leave them in the past where they belong. Surround yourself with people who challenge your mind and bring out the best in you. As for the ones who only exist to bring you down or cheapen your potential; let them find people who are better-suited to their own qualities and principles. Hold yourself to the highest standard possible. People who don’t measure up don’t deserve your time. People who can’t see past their own cowardice or their own arrogance don’t deserve your time. Anyone who doesn’t treat you the way you treat yourself doesn’t deserve your time. And if you are treating yourself in a way that gives people permission to take advantage of you, start showing yourself the exact same respect that you should be demanding of everyone else.

You might want to read these:

10 Quotes To Know You’re In The Right Relationship

My Father’s Recipe For The Man I Should Marry

Ask yourself these; Are you in a right relationship? What do you deserve? Love yourself as much as you love this other person, that way you will never forget what you deserve, that way you can give more love, the love that is right.

Always, K.