i'm starting to love myself sometimes

i fucking love the adventure zone because sometimes it’s like…absolutely heartbreakingly beautiful story-telling or on-the-edge-of-your-seat thrills 

and then sometimes it’s justin, travis, and their dad chanting “FANTASY SHORTS. FANTASY SHORTS. FANTASY SHORTS” at poor griffin who’s trying to move the plot forward 


Les Amis as my god-awful tweets
  • Bahorel: Could I beat Huckleberry Finn in a fight *twitter poll: 60% yes, 40% no*
  • Bossuet: When you're racing your brother for the front seat & you trip and hit your face on the car in front of 1/2 the student body #justgirlythings
  • Combferre: When you have to haul the chromebook to grandma's because the Tonys are tonight but you also have to finish a project ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ
  • Cosette: I only follow Joey Graceffa on instagram because he posts so many pictures of his dogs
  • Courfeyrac: If this gets a single like I'll try and convince my mom to buy me all 4 Golden Girls prayer candles #blessup
  • Enjolras: Reason 2087654 to see Beauty & the Beast: Anything the Russians ban for "furthering the Gay Agenda™๏ธ๏ธ" is bound to be A+++ quality content
  • Eponine: Reread Little Women today and honestly everyone in that book but Jo March can bite it
  • Feuilly: What if @realDonaldTrump did something for the good of the people, such as making @ChickfilA put the spicy chicken biscuit back on the menu?
  • Gavroche: Why does the crazy Jack Sparrow weasel from Ice Age look like Elijah Daniel *insert comparison photos*
  • Grantaire: I can't be a graceful Elf so instead I like to think of myself as an abnormally sexy hobbit
  • Jehan: My mom bought a huge bag of lemons the other day and it is taking every ounce of my willpower to not bake the FATTEST lemon cake
  • Joly: Me: wow, what a lovely spring day! Time to start dressing for warmer weather... *rolls up flannel sleeves and pant legs* much better
  • Marius: Don't ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ invade๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ Russia ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ in๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ the ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ Winter ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
  • Montparnasse: I like to think I'm a good person, but sometimes I see people I dislike buying crappy makeup because they don't know any better and I laugh
  • Musichetta: I have a theory that Yzma from the emperor's new groove is just voldemort in drag

anonymous asked:

I've been reading your conversation about Jikook, and at the same time that I agree with you both about them still being on the "flirting phase", sometimes I also think that there's just so much sexual tension for them to not have crossed that line? I mean, so much? Sometimes they check each other out and it's just a lot. I think I'm more inclined to believe they're in a "friends with benefits" kinda thing, like, not fully admiting how much they love each other, but making out, yknow?

but here’s where I contradict myself. I have around 87347734 theories on jikook, but my most solid one is the one i’ve been talking about. one of my other ones, is one where jikook have acknowledged and told each other their feelings and have even made out a little or something, but just haven’t started dating because of the consequences that could result. I feel like jikook are hesitant to become a thing, even if they’ve confessed just because of what could happen to not only them but bts as a whole. it’s all just really complicated and we’ll never know the 100% truth. (tbh though, when you said checking each other out this gif came to mind.)

(gifcred to gayjikookadi)

nothing irks me more than people pointing their nose up at what other people are reading

“Aren’t you too old for that?”

it’s none of your bloody business

“Shouldn’t you be reading something more challenging?”

why do you hate fun

i remember a time when a guy tipped his head to the side, squint his eyes and say, “is your reading level really that low to be reading something like that?” It was a standard YA novel. I was probably 17/18 at the time. jesus fucking christ.

I think there’s definitely merit in challenging yourself and reading outside your comfort zone, but there’s also??? having fun??? and enjoying yourself???

I still love you. I will always love you and itโ€™s kind of sad. But loving you is dragging me down, and driving me mad.
Someone else thinks of me the way you did, and heโ€™s so sweet. I really like him, and Iโ€™m glad I found him. He makes me happy.
I havenโ€™t been happy in a while.
Iโ€™m hoping I can start a new world for myself.
A happier world.
I just wish you werenโ€™t at the back of my mind sometimes.
No, I donโ€™t want to forget you. You used to make me happy, you used to be my best friend. You used to be my everything.
I just want to be over you.
But I probably never will be.
I hope youโ€™re happy youโ€™ve done this to me.
I bet you couldnโ€™t say the same.
—  {via cheerupsavvy}

anonymous asked:

i decided i might stop using lesbian to describe myself because i can be attracted to non-male non-female aligned nonbinary people. i still really relate to lesbians because i love women and i'm not interested in men. when people ask me what i am or when i come out to them, i'm going to say i'm queer. my question is, can i still call myself gay sometimes? just like "wow i'm so gay i love girls" or is that word off limits for non-lesbians/non-gay men?

This is a really difficult kinda messy topic to begin with, but I wanna start off by saying I really admire your dedication to making sure the people you care about in your life feel comfortable, and acknowledging that someone who is nonbinary and doesn’t personally identify as male aligned or female aligned may be uncomfortable with you describing yourself as a lesbian while comfortably expressing attraction to them.

There’s differing feelings among lesbians about how they feel about bi girls calling themselves gay–like just about any other issue since we’re not a monolith of course!–but personally I don’t see anything wrong with it. I can see why someone might be a little weirded out or annoyed to see a girl describe themselves as gay SPECIFICALLY in the context of their feelings toward a man (cis or trans), but a girl expressing her love for another girl? That’s gay.

The separation between bi women as an identifier and lesbian as a personal identifier is relatively recent. In the past, sexuality was conceptualized almost more like an action if that makes sense? So if you were a woman with another woman, you were in a lesbian relationship and therefore a lesbian the same way if you worked as a cashier at a store, you were a cashier. And if you were a woman with a man, you were in a straight relationship and you were straight, the same way as if you worked in a bank as a teller, so you were a bank teller.

Now, ‘lesbian’ and 'bisexual’ both work as identifiers discussing what type of attraction you feel/don’t feel. (And straight is a lil more complicated because it’s both an identifier describing what kind of attraction one feels/doesn’t feel and a position of power in society, but that’s a whole nother can of worms.)

So tl;dr: I personally feel like any girl who feels attraction to other girls can call themselves gay.

anonymous asked:

Hi Emma I hope you are well ๐Ÿ˜Š I wanted some advice and since you're so lovely to your anons I figured why not ask you? I used to be a straight A student but in the last year due to mental health issues I'm now struggling to even achieve Cs. I've lost all motivation and confidence in myself and with a level exams coming up and uni, do you have any advice on how I can get my shit together ๐Ÿ˜…

Hi! I am, thank you! Ahh, that’s lovely hehe! Here are a few things that you might be able to try:

  • have a clear out and tidy of all your spaces - sometimes the idea of starting out again with a new perspective is a good place to start. Have a look through your desk and clear out anything you no longer need. Create dedicated spaces for your subjects, your stationery, etc. Every term I’ll spend a weekend organising all my stuff and once it’s done, I’ll feel much happier with everything. 
  • find a planning method that works for you - whether it’s a bullet journal, an agenda, printables or a digital calendar, test out the ones which work best for you. When you’ve found the best time management process for. you, you’ll be much more inclined to keep on top of work.
  • when it comes to thinking you can’t do it, try to prove yourself wrong  - find small ways to be more productive - whether that be tidying up your desk, organising what you need to do, putting your work in order. If you get into a routine during each study session, you’ll find it a lot easier to stay motivated. Don’t let self doubt overwhelm you!
  • break up larger tasks or to-do lists - don’t pressure yourself with a million different things to do each day. Perhaps stick to 3 or 4 prominent things instead. Once you’ve completed those, you can add more. When you’re doing large assessments and things, break them down into manageable sections rather than looking at huge chunks of work.
  • find a friend to help keep you accountable - friends are always looking out for you so why not get them to help you with your studies!? Tell them what you’ve got to do and allow them to keep up on your progress every now and then. Hopefully, you won’t want to let them down!
  • start a studyblr or studygram - this has honestly been the greatest thing I’ve done in terms of my motivation. It’s such a lovely thing to be a part of and has kept me on track with my studies. It’s helped boost my confidence in terms of my capabilities too!
  • make an inspiring and positive work environment - if you’re sitting at a desk that doesn’t inspire you to work then you might find getting that extra motivation tricky. On your desk, you should have out things that will help you study like pens, post-it notes, motivational quotes, etc! If you wanted to you could check out my ‘motivational monday’ printables. They’re free to download and you can stick them up on your wall to help you stay positive about your studies!
  • track your progress - either use a habit tracker or your calendar and mark off each day you do something you need to (maybe review notes, read a chapter of your textbook, etc). Seeing a chain of your progress will make you not want to break it!
  • remember your previous successes - I’m sure you’ve had many awesome achievements in your life and they’re so important to remember. It’s so easy to forget those cool things you’d managed to do but think of how you felt when you were successful! Whilst you may still pass without studying, how great would it be to pass with flying colours because you revised!

Remember to take it slow. It takes a while to turn motivation into discipline but you’ll get there! Keep moving along and pushing your best. Best of luck with everything xx

Seven Day Queen and forced kisses

I have been hesitating on writing this post, for one because I didn’t want to do it, but also because I didn’t want to come off as negative. Sometimes I feel a little too..strict (?) after making text posts on serious topics in k-dramas, and I have stopped myself several times since writing about WFKBJ. I really loved the start of Seven Day Queen, and although I won’t be dropping the show because of the forced kisses, I do think they need to be addressed, especially since the tumblr fandom is so small and I’ve seen no one discuss them.

I will present the kisses in the order they occurred. The first forced kiss takes place once the characters are adults, and is initiated by Yeok (male lead) towards Chae Kyung (female lead). Chae Kyung sees Yeok, who now goes by another name and identity, and follows him. Chae Kyung recognises him, while Yeok is trying to keep his identity hidden, and therefore escapes the first confrontation. But Chae Kyung doesn’t give up, and when Yeok finds her too (she follows him), he thinks the only way to stop her would be by kissing her. He quite literally says, “Is this what girls like?” while holding her arms pressed to the wall, and kisses her. Chae Kyung doesn’t push him away, but is surprised, and this is where the episode ends.

The kiss is treated like a surprise action, and from Yeok’s side it’s a punishment and a way to draw a line between him and Chae Kyung. Lee Yeok was bright and positive as a child, and his transition sure is contrasting, but that doesn’t give him the right to act like trash. Lee Yeok clearly knows who Chae Kyung is, so why would he inflict this kind of harm on her? As well as this move being plain stupid, it is also degrading and sexist. No, Yeok, girls DO NOT like being pushed against a wall and kissed against their will by your mouth and “tsundere” self. Chae Kyung doesn’t really get a chance to register her feelings, and the kiss is brushed aside by the time the next episode airs. In short, Yeok tries to distance himself - Chae Kyung is too stubborn and curious to stop.

The second kiss is even more interesting, because it’s initiated by the second female lead, Myung Hae, towards Lee Yeok. Myung Hae helped Yeok when he was away from the state and had to hide, and she therefore thinks she has ownership of Yeok. It can’t be put any other way. Yeok does pull her away and tells her he is not interested in her romantically (more than one time), but it’s obvious she’s not listening. If you’ve watched The Fool (2009), you might remember there’s a secondary character named Park Kyung Ae, who force-kisses the male lead twice, and grabs his behind several times. Those scenes were treated as a joke, though it was clear that the male lead was uncomfortable. This particular SDQ scene wasn’t treated as a joke, because Yeok is at least given a chance to reject her feelings and actions, but still, the force doesn’t go away.

Both are complex and awful scenes, but I hope my little text can make you think a little. I haven’t watched SDQ since episode 6, but it’s pretty obvious that I’m not rooting for neither Yeok nor Myunghae. I’ll be happy with Chae Kyung and the King’s cute moments.

coredesignixandnekonee  asked:

Que pasta! We're introducing the small (read; the sixteen year old) to your stories via nightly chapters, and I started drawing during Midnight Bluelight, and found myself with a koi pond and then later with an Aslien, and I'm planning on drawing one based off of Every Heart. I was wondering if you wanted to be tagged when I posted them, or if I should just throw them into the void. (I'll be posting them to my other blog, where I sometimes throw my art/stories)

Tag them!

I love all art.  Gift art, commissions, fan art, official art, it doesn’t matter.  I am a greedy, greedy creator, and I want to see it aaaaaaall.

it’s crazy how much can change in just ten days but wanting the best for myself is never the wrong choice. i love you but sometimes love is not enough when you are unhappy. thank you for the past four months and i promise that i’ll be your friend and by your side through anything but i can’t keep being unhappy with you. i love you, i really do but it’s time for me to finally choose me.

"Playing it Cool" Sentence Starters
  • "We were deeply, passionately, madly in love...for one glorious night."
  • "I'm sorry, you think 'Terminator' is more romantic than 'Ghost?'"
  • "God, I love running through the airport scenes."
  • "Don't touch me with your sticky, disgusting, reptile hands!"
  • "I just don't see myself ever feeling the same way about you."
  • "If I have to hear one more four talk about her vegan pet, my sperm are going to start eating each other."
  • "Do you want to do a social experiment?"
  • "Do, um, the blowjob, the tongue-in-the-cheek thing."
  • "We fuck sometimes...for research."
  • "Happiness and marriage don't coexist."
  • "Love is what keeps fucking you long after the sex has dried up."
  • "Love is a real thing! I was watching this Korean soap opera last night..."
  • "Whenever you say it's nothing, it is never nothing."
  • "They sprinkle cute little monkey photos all over the place like rufies, and then they date rape your checkbook. Bastards."
  • "Oh, I see...the stereotypical self-loathing Good Samaritan."
  • "No, no, if I were stalking you, you'd never see me. I'm very good at it."
  • "I can pretty much guarantee that if we hang out, you're gonna walk away completely unimpressed."
  • "Men and women can't be friends. We are squids and squirrels."
  • "You're just setting boundaries so you can push them."
  • "Are you even masturbating properly?"
  • "People are petty, emotional whores."
  • "You're gonna ruin this, because you're a soulless love hater."
  • "You're lucky I'm wearing underwear."
  • "Love is like your 401k, it matches your investment."
  • "Why don't you tell the story about the time you got drunk and tried to finger me?"
  • "Look, if this thing between us, if it's nothing...if it's just an infatuation, maybe sex will cure it?"
  • "Your boyfriend? Wait, wait, you gonna tell him about us?"
  • "I didn't know you were gonna lose it and start acting needy."
  • "Well, I guess this is me waving the white flag."
  • "I love you. I should have told you. I thought you knew."
  • "I want to put my face in a waffle iron."
  • "Uh, maybe you're pitying yourself a little too much here."
  • "I got pinkeye from a charity dunk tank for you!"
  • "The sex is better with me. I know, I have first hand experience."
  • "I don't hate you. I nothing you."
  • "We're both disasters, neither of us deserve love!"
  • "I'm willing to regret you for the rest of my life."

thekassnicole3  asked:

tana. I'm a 13 year old girl who is I guess you can say overweight. people judge me about my size and how I look. I started doing stuff like cutting and starving myself. but after watching your video I learned not to give a fuck about what people say and just live your life being who you are. so I wanna thank you for helping me and just know I love you so much๐Ÿ’—

you’re so welcome, I love you! REMEMBER that there is no “perfect” body type and yours is beautiful the way it is. all bodies are perfect. sometimes people bully because they have hate in their heart, or are jealous, or hurting themselves and wanna take it out on others. remember that. you are beautiful and starving yourself will only make you unhealthy, and there’s no need to cut yourself beautiful.

seokjin-ish  asked:

Can I get a ship with Monsta X? I'm not sure if I missed anything, so ignore this message if I did anything wrong or if you already have too many requests too handle. I'm average height, have a light, caramelish shade of skin, and am very active. My hair is wavy, brown and reaches my chest. I love reading, and I'm really insecure about myself. That's a trait I hate but it just sticks. I'm very quiet until I get to know you, and then I never shut up. I am sometimes very sensitive. Thank you! x

You’re all good and no matter how many requests, we’ll still answer!

I would ship you with JooHeon!

At first the relationship might not seem like it’ll work out and there will be occasional arguments from now and then, but JooHeon’s the one. You being active would actually influence him to become more active and he would start working out more too. He would really hate you being insecure but that’s the one thing that he would work the hardest on; helping you build your self-esteem and finding self-confidence. What would cause the arguments at time would be your sensitivity since JooHeon is pretty blunt, but he would never give up on you and would always point out his reasons for saying the things he does so that you understand and don’t get hurt.

admin d

Wanted to sit down and attempt to write more than two lines of my fic, but I’ve sat down and watched three hours of new girl instead. I want to be mad, but my love for Nick Miller isn’t letting me.

Motivate me into writing something that isn’t my name over and over again in different fonts, guys!

anonymous asked:

I love my family bc after all, they're my flesh and blood, but living in this house with them is making me depressed. I can't express myself with them bc they're so close minded. I find myself spending more and more time either in my room or outside the house. Sometimes I'm even afraid to go to the kitchen bc I'm afraid of starting an argument. I already have mild depression and they don't understand or even try. How am I supposed to work on myself if I can't even be supported by my own family?

Just because they’re your flesh and blood doesn’t mean that they are your real family. I always say that you can choose/pick who your family is (your real friends and the people who really love you) because they will be there for you no matter what and family won’t always be.

anonymous asked:

@ carboxyls: hello!! you are my favorite writer ever and i love your taeguk fics with all of my heart n soul and i hope your day is just as brilliant as you are. okay, so i'm not sure if this has been asked before, but why do you ship taeguk? heh heh. like i'm a taeguk shipper myself but i want to know the reason(s) why YOU ship them together. (๏ฝกใƒปโ€งฬซใƒป๏ฝก).*๏ผŠโ™ก okay that's all goodbye i love you i hope you're happy n smiling!

oh my god anon babe this ask so so sweet i almost teared up holy shit (꒦ິ⌓꒦ີ) aaaaaa oh my god i’m gonna tear up for real if i reread it HAHA

hmm! this a pretty hard question and sometimes i wonder myself why i took one look at taeguk back when i first started in army fandom and decided it’s them, this is the otp. okay, let’s see…

  • i adore adore adore otps where person a is generally not touchy or huggy or fond of that kind of thing but they’re a giant softie for a particular person b. not that person a inherently dislikes the physical acts of affection themselves, they’re just not one to engage in it very much unless it’s with someone they really really care about! and taeguk is that otp for me ꒰๑˃͈꒳˂͈๑꒱ jeongguk is just so soft on taehyung hwuhwhuwh
  • as we all know taehyung has this notorious box smile :[] this one, but sometimes he has a crescent smile or just an oddly soft quiet one just when he looks at jeongguk and it’s. omg
  • the way they goof off with each other!!! dubsmashes and the like you know how they do. also in the v app broadcast in osaka jeongguk just STICKS HIS FINGER IN TAEHYUNG’S NOSE like come ON LOL? aaahhhh i love it when two people inexplicably operate on the same wavelength of humor because seeing them interact is (*⌓*) 

actually this list could go on forever but i’m not going to do that to you guys. these are the main reasons though!!!! ah and thank you again for such a kind sweet message thank you so much (꒦ິ⍸꒦ິ) i’m glad to hear you like my stories and i hope i can keep doing that for you! –carboxyls