i'm sorry for being a bad person

A story from the line at McDonald's
  • Me: okay so my sexuality's a complicated deal so let's just call me queer as hell
  • Friend: nono I wanna know can't you explain it
  • Me: well ok mainly I am asexual which means I don't want to do the do nor do I long for it, so it has nothing to do with lack of confidence or anything like that, I simply don't find anyone sexually attractive
  • Friend: right right
  • Me: but I'm also bi romantic. The sexual and romantic attraction are different, and I still fall in love and want to have physical contact with my partner, I just don't need the hanky panky
  • Friend: right cause you have a girlfriend that's pansexual right
  • Me: exactly and as long as we're both happy with not doing the rumba naked, that's a valid relationship
  • Friend: I get it, I get it... I didn't know the entire sexual and romantic orientations were different
  • Me: yeah I know it was an eyeopener for me when I found ou-
  • Lady behind us in line: excuse me so sorry but I couldn't help but overhear but I didn't know half of what you just said and I was just wondering what that thing your girlfriend was is, pansexual?
  • Me: *awkward glance at friend* oh uh I'm not an expert or anything and uh ok so basically it's similar to being bisexual, but there's less value in what gender the one you're attracted to is, at least as I understood it. So a bisexual would be attracted to a person despite their gender, a pansexual wouldn't really care at all in a way uh I'm sorry I'm bad at explaining
  • Lady behind us in line: that's alright I can look it up myself later you gave me a general idea! So where did you find out these things, you're pretty young?
  • Me: well, Internet. Once you're a bit confused about what you might be you usually go looking for explanations...
  • Lady behind us in line: so uh in theory... It's fine if you don't know, I just want to check with you... Is there a thing called aROMANTIC? like you're asexual, is there a equivalent to the romantic orientation you mentioned?
  • Me: oh yeah, absolutely! You can be both asexual and aromantic, or aromantic and heterosexual, literally all combinations are possible!
  • Lady behind us in line: *smiles LIKE REALLY GODDAMNED GENUINELY* thank you so much, I did not know that. *fishes up phone from pocket* now if you excuse me, I'm going to call my mother and tell her I'm not crazy for never having been married or stayed with one guy for long despite being 50+ but still has three children! *steps out of line and walks off while dialing*
  • Friend: wow that was... Amazing
  • Me: see how happy she got? That's the power of right information.
  • And that's why I've been smiling since this happened.

hey, to my cis followers, specifically my cis women: i get that y'all are really proud to be women and i don’t wanna take that from you, but can you please stop saying shit like “why would anyone wanna be a guy” and stuff along those lines? it really can fuck with trans guys bc we’re sat here like “shit man am i a bad person for identifying as male and not female?”

zombiezenik  asked:

Alright. What are some of your favorite Sterek headcanons, then? :)

ok listen, like i have so many and this is a dangerous question because you have open the floodgates. (also, i’m so sorry that i’m so late to answer these. life is getting in the way!) 

  • derek hale and stiles stilinski fall in love with all of each other 
  • derek likes to chase stiles’ lips when they’re kissing because every single taste of him is addictive and derek’s never felt so much need
  • stiles likes to trace derek’s tattoo when they’re resting on their bed, his fingers languidly following the lines while he murmurs, “alpha, beta, omega. past, present, future.” and derek will have this gentle smile as he replies, “you’re my future.”
  • derek’s head automatically turns to stiles’ heartbeat even if he’s in roscoe still heading up the street. he can pick it out of a thousand heartbeats, knowing which one thumps in his ears when he goes to sleep at night
  • stiles will never miss any opportunity to touch derek
  • stiles and derek find the most support from the sheriff 
  • when john looks at derek, he doesn’t see an adult werewolf, capable of ripping people to shreds, he sees the same young man who’s eyes were red-rimmed and lost at the station, soot covering his body
  • stiles sometimes wonders if derek will stop loving him 
  • derek wakes up every morning to make stiles a cup of coffee
  • they fight a lot. usually it goes something like this, “derek, stop being a self-sacrificing dolt. erica can handle it. allison and lydia are backup. they’ve got this. plus, the rest of the pack is gonna be with them.” “i’m not letting erica walk right into the line of fire. i’m not letting her get hurt.” “you’re so fucking stubborn!” 
  • but they always talk things through, refusing to go to bed angry with one another
  • i love yous are constantly being shared between them and they never hesitate to say anything to the pack either
  • stiles and derek are happy together
  • and they’re a forever and always kind of love
warning I'm ranting

tbh am I the only one who like…. wishes jewish people could be supported in our excellence? Like other groups can be proud and flaunt and show off their businesses and celebrities, and they 100% deserve to do that!! But like every time a Jew tries to, tries to create something or show off or say “look at this cool, proud Jewish celeb!” They get shut down and yelled at and suddenly everything they do is problematic and they can’t be proud. Like, let jews be super proud and talk about being Jewish and let us talk about stuff and celebrities!!! Let us be Jewish!!!

Our identities aren’t always fucking political and not everything we do is bad. A Jewish person who puts Magen davids on every design? Awesome!! A Jewish person who constantly talks about being Jewish??? AWESOME!!! Jews who maybe want to talk about Israel and enjoy it a little bit, and go there and say “I loved my time in Israel” because it’s the only truly safe country or state or smth for us? THEY ARE FINE. Because everyone hates us and we NEVER get to enjoy ourselves loudly. So leave us be.

I can’t find a good gif of that old “Shit’s Fucked” music video, but if I had one, it would be here.

This is my D&D character, DinRaali. He’s an elf wizard with really shitty people skills and a bad habit of adopting every npc he comes across. The list of things he’s enlisted in his personal Din army are, but not limited to; A Goblin named Bob Dole, a warboar who is convinced that he is her piglet, a very fluffy harpy, A unicorn that’s on fire at all times, An orphan boy (After forcing his father to shoot himself), and a dog that is secretly the hulk, but with a lot more hair. 

I haven’t drawn basically anything in over a year now and life is showing no signs of letting me fix that. Sorry guys, I’m doing my best.  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Reason #84936293 Why I Love Leverage:

This fandom. This whole freaking fandom. The people.

It’s been over four years since the series finale of Leverage and people are still watching and rewatching and starting it for the first time every day and I think I love that. It’s amazing. No other show is like that.

Going on the Leverage tag on tumblr, you can still see people going “Just started Leverage. The obsession is beginning.” And that’s how you know it’s really a good show. How, even now, people are obsessed and amazed at how good it is, four freaking years later!

And also, the fact that when you go through the tag, looking at what people have to say, none of is bad. Usually in a fandom, there’s that one person who is just like “Ugh. The writers are such idiots! What an absolute mistake they made!” But not in the Leverage fandom. All comments are insightful and full of adoration for this show because it’s so good and will never cease of being so.

So, yeah, I love Leverage, and I love this fandom, too.

I’m so thankful that Spider-Man Homecoming showed us that you can have so much fun if you’ve been given superpowers and that it’s not fighting the bad guys all the time. 

It gave us a Peter Parker who’s enjoying himself being a superhero, having the time of his life going around in his suit. Because that’s what it is all about; when you’re a kid and you have these abilities, you’re gonna love it. 

The kid literally enjoys showing he can do a backflip to random street sellers, creates one-rope (web) bridge just so he can walk on it just for fun. Like sure, he tries to impress but who wouldn’t when you’re Spider-Man? It brings smiles to these people and it makes Peter smile when people appreciate him that’s why he loves being Spider-Man.

The people who receive his thoughtful notes on their stolen things are probably endeared with him. He likes helping people with simple everyday things and he sure as heck gonna have fun doing it. And I’ve never smiled so wide in the cinema when I watched that sequence.

anonymous asked:

I'm kinda having a bad day, I'm extremely sensitive to being yelled at so my question is If the boys accidentally snapped at their gf and they were sensitive too, and they take it personally, and shut the boys out because they got scared of them, what would they do?

Oh my goodness, anon, I’m sorry that you’re having a rough day. I hope it gets better soon! <3 Sorry that these are super long, but maybe they’ll make you feel a bit better! 

Leo: As tears well up in her eyes and she mouths an apology, Leo’s face goes slack. He curses at himself and then reaches out and takes her in his large arms as gently as he can. Leo tucks her head under his chin the best he can and he rests one hand on her back, drawing soothing circles in between her shoulder blades. He apologizes, multiple times, but she gives him the silent treatment. 
 Eventually they part and she leaves the lair, leaving Leo to marinate in his own thoughts. At this point he would go through stages of guilt, annoyance, guilt again, then anger, then acceptance. He didn’t mean to snap at her, he knows that she’s sensitive, but she should understand that he wouldn’t hurt her, right? (“It’s almost like she doesn’t even trust me!”) But he’s supposed to be the levelheaded one that keeps his cool, that’s the whole reason why he’s the leader. Leo stays up that night with the events of the previous day haunting him.   He would think of all the ways to try and make it up to her, and text her an apology, asking her to come back to the lair whenever she’s ready and that they’ll talk then. 
 It might take her awhile, but when they finally do meet face to face, he would be the one to show up with a list of grievances that he’d want to voice, but end up just hugging her and reassuring her that he’d never hurt her, that she’s safe, and that he promises never to raise his voice at her again.

Raph: As soon as the words leave his mouth, he wishes he could suck them right back in and then hide under a rock. She look like she touched a hot stove top the way she retracted and held her arm to her chest. He bites his lip and against his better judgement, he turns right back around and locks himself in his room. How could he recover from something like that? How could anyone? When she, his girlfriend, looked at him, someone she should be able to trust inexplicably, with fear…it broke his heart. 
  When his gf avoids him, or gives him the cold shoulder for a bit, he gets angry. How dare she act like this! He broods around the lair, he practices more, and is generally like a walking time bomb. He starts thinking up excuses for his actions, even though he knows that it’s wrong. (And he thinks she’s being childish. Yeesh.) He just doesn’t want to accept the fact that, even for a brief second, his girlfriend was scared of him.
  When he finally sucks it up and texts her, with the encouragement of local love guru Michelangelo, to come back to the lair to talk, his palms get clammy and his stomach churns. Once she arrives the tension is terribly thick, but he begs her to hear him out. Eventually as he explains, he starts crying as he reveals that he’s scared of losing her. Though it’s difficult for her, for fear of getting another volatile reaction, his girlfriend explains her side of the situation and he listens with intense focus. All is well in the end, but he’d be scared to touch her for awhile, for fear of rejection. “Do you really think I would hurt you?”

Donnie: Shit. Holy shit. He curses himself a thousand times over. He stares at her face for any sign of emotion, but regrets it when her bottom lip starts quivering on its own accord. Donatello knows that his girlfriend is hypersensitive and isn’t prone to snapping at her anyway, but today he just lost it. He knows full and damn well that that’s no excuse, and when she flinches away from his touch his stomach dropped. Suddenly all those times she asked if he’s killed come to mind and his breath hitches. Surely she couldn’t believe that….but when she hightails it to the lair’s exit, he doesn’t bother following because he already knows. Donnie puts his head in his hands and shakes his head. “What have I done?”
He goes over the probability of every outcome if he apologized in different ways, but nothing seemed high enough. Snapping at her wasn’t fair, she didn’t deserve it and he knew that, but she also wasn’t responding to any of his texts and it’s been three days. THREE. Donnie starts getting even more worried and tries to call her. 
 She responds, but not exactly how he’d like, but it’s better than nothing. When she agrees to come back to the lair to talk, he is relieved, but also nervous. Would she still be scared of him? He straightens up the lab a bit and turns off the monitors (aside from the surveillance ones) before she gets there so she won’t be overstimulated during their conversation. She shows up unimpressed, but by the end of it they’re both shedding a little tear. 

Mikey: He’s not usually one for angry outbursts, and especially not around his gf, who he knows is more sensitive than she’ll let on, but it was an accident. It should be fine, right? HA. She bites her lip to look strong, but he could see her eyes watering, and her cheeks grew hot. “Babe, I’m sorry, i didn’t mean to-,” She hits him with the “No it’s fine, I get it.” Before grabbing her purse and making a beeline for the exit. He chases after her, but stops short of the door. He could still see her swiping aggressively at the tears falling down her cheeks. 
 Mikey would feel like absolute GARBAGE for the rest of the day, and then some. But this sweet boy is very in tune with his feelings and he knows that she’s gotta come around eventually, right? HA.
  After three days, Mikey begins to lose hope and chooses to take a visit to her apartment. Standing on the fire escape, he knocks on her window, using their special rhythm (two knocks followed by three knocks) He waits and watches for any movement from within, but there is none. He waits. He waits for two whole hours before an idea hits him full force. He leaves her apartment to run back down to the lair to get a secret weapon. 
  A couple hours later, armed with nothing but a retro boombox, Mikey stands once more on the fire escape. He clicks play and lifts the boombox above his head as it blares Peter Gabriel’s In Your Eyes. A couple of minutes pass before the blinds shift and Mikey sees a flash of her hair. Hope swells inside him when he hears the window lock click and suddenly she’s standing there with a knowing smirk, one eyebrow raised. In a dramatic event that rivals any Cusack or Hughes movie, Mikey apologizes and promises to do better in the future. 

Bisexual Percy Headcannons

It’s bi-visibility day, so I thought I’d write some bisexual Percy headcannons!

- Okay so since he was 12 Percy has been so preoccupied, as a result he literally never got time to even question his sexuality.

- It’s not until he turns 17 after the giant war that it even occurs to him that he might actually be attracted to guys, like he had a crush on Annabeth for so long and heteronormativity and internalised biphobia/homophobia made him just assume he was only attracted to girls.

- Plus Percy is pretty embarrassed about being attracted to anyone anyway, and gets embarrassed so easily about it.

-he probably realises he’s attracted to guys because of Nico saying he had a crush on him to be honest

- once he starts to think about it, he realises that he is definitely bisexual (he totally realises his huge crush on Luke from when he was younger)

- He definitely talks to Sally about it straight away, who of course is an absolute Saint about it.

- I reckon he tells her that he’s worried what people will think, and she tells him he doesn’t have to tell anyone if he doesn’t feel comfortable 

- (and that if he wants too he shouldn’t be friends with anyone who doesn’t accept him anyway)

- I think it’s quite a while after until he tells anyone else. He definitely has some internalised biphobia.

- after a while, I think he tells Paul next?

-I’m not too sure how close they are, I like to think they are and he seems to be in canon, but I’m not 100%. 

- but assuming he tells Paul, Paul is totally understanding and nice too.

- I think he’d be really nervous to tell Annabeth at first.

- this could be totally self-indulgent but I like to think he talks to Nico about it, and he comforts Percy by saying how nice Annabeth was to him when he came out as gay.

- I think he would be worried she’d get jealous or something?

- which I don’t think she would, I think she’d be totally nice and accepting of it, she knows Percy loves her and him being bi doesn’t change that or make it more likely he’ll cheat. 

-I mean Annabeth is quite a jealous person, but she wouldn’t get more jealous because of this.

- basically after that is just Percy being happily and openly bisexual and totally smitten by Annabeth Chase at the same time, and Annabeth chase is just an amazing person as usual too.

- once Annabeth gets used to the idea her and Percy totally talk about guys being attractive (read: Jason) and Annabeth is bi too (so they talk about girls as well, PIPER).

anonymous asked:

do you have any vulnerable!viktor headcanons?

So there are a lot of ways in which this ask could be interpreted, but:

Viktor is a person who is naturally resistant to sharing his emotions. There’s a reason he’s so good at that fake smile; there’s a reason why nobody really knows what’s going on inside his head, what a mess it is.

That being said, I don’t think Yuuri is the first person he’s ever in his life been vulnerable to. That’s just a little too much like saying “Love cured my mental illness” which, no, that’s not how any of that works. So we’ll say that Viktor’s moments of vulnerability are incredibly circumstantial, and something that even Yuuri does not see until Viktor’s emotions for him begin to transition from Puppy Love to full blown, I-Want-To-Grow-Old-With-You-Love-Love.

Viktor also knows that there is a certain version of himself that is incredibly palatable, and that’s the version he puts forward. When he lets that version drop, it’s basically the biggest indicator that he’s really and truly suffering. 

I’m not really sure that Viktor himself even knows what his true personality is. He’s been putting on different masks for different people all his life, and it’s reasonable to assume that he never had the chance to figure himself out like that. This, I think, is where Yuuri comes in–Yuuri says to him I just want you to be you, and Viktor has no idea what that means, because he’s never been just him

But he wants to be everything Yuuri needs him to be, and so he endeavors to figure it out.

And I think that what Viktor does eventually find in himself are those moments of vulnerability. The ability to cry in front of someone, someone he loves very much, and not worry about what it looks like. The ability to release emotions when they get too strong. He familiarizes himself with the idea that he doesn’t have to be hurting unbelievably before someone will sit and listen to him. He begins to understand that he can sit down and say, “Please come talk with me for awhile, I’m lonely,” and Yuuri will never ever tell him no.

It’s a learning process, and Viktor’s moments of vulnerability are still difficult. They’ll probably be difficult for the rest of his life. But he at least feels okay with having them now. 

anonymous asked:

Black Limes sensei ;; I've been diagnosed with clinical depression. May I please get a message from each of the Matsuno bros that everything is going to be just fine? (It took me a lot of courage just to ask anonymously. Im so sorry to bug you.)

Sorry this is kind of messy, it’s been a busy holiday season! It’s all I have time for…Hopefully it’s okay!

Either way, a lot of people have been sending me asks, messages, and notes saying they’re not doing too well this year, which is very unfortunate. I’m not the best at comforting people, but for those who’ve reached out to me I’d like to say that everything will be okay. I don’t know what you might be going through or what may be happening, but all things come to pass with time, and if it seems bad now that just means it’ll be alright  later.

For all those folks who have requested me to draw them a Matsuno bro giving words of encouragement, hopefully this is alright. I’m sorry that I cannot reply to every single message personally–I hope it makes you smile either way.

Merry Christmas, and good luck anon-chan~

(Ah, I feel like Karamatsu hehe””)

anonymous asked:

I got into an argument with someone about your name. I say wiishu cause I'm sure I can't pronounce Signe right (plus it's your handle) but this person said I can't be a true fan if I don't use your real name. I'm 'not respectful, only like them as an idol instead of a person if you don't use their real name' or whatever. She made me feel real bad, like I'm no longer allowed to be a fan. (She made me cry when Jack/Sean came into it). But you like being called Wiishu.....right??

Yes absolutely! I think it’s incredibly unfair to assume that you are not a “real fan” of someone because you choose to address them by their online name and not their given name. I prefer people call me Wiishu because that’s who I’m known as to most people!

All in all; I’m sorry you felt bad about it but know you’re totally good! 👍

honestly sometimes ppl just gotta start making an effort to be nice!!! it doesnt come naturally to some ppl and that’s ok but you gotta at least try !! dang

anonymous asked:

Do you believe in Things like "the love of your life"? I Think something like this exist but it's really difficult to find. Sorry for my bad english i'm from another Country but i Hope you Know what i mean c:

Hello! And your english is fine, good job! :)

Well, yes I do believe in the concept of having someone being ‘the love of your life’. At least I hope so. 
I guess it’s different how people viewe it, like the love of your life can be someone you can handle being with the rest of your life or it can be someone you are meant to be with. I really think there’s that person out there for everyone, but sadly it’s a big world and it isn’t sure you’ll find yours or you may settle down with someone you thought were the love of your life but who actually weren’t. I think it’s stupid to believe that the love of your life HAVE to live close to you or even in the same country. The world is a big place you know. 
But I defintly think it exists in the matter that there is one or more(if ur luck) out there for you that you are meant to be with. 

- R 


minhyun!volleyball player au

Originally posted by utamun

  • the star setter on the varsity team
  • is still better than basically everyone at playing every other position
  • constantly has scouts at his team’s games
  • expected to go to the best university in the country with a scholarship
  • has one of the biggest fan clubs tbh
  • has been mistaken for an idol both because of how attractive he is and the herd of fans behind him 
  • seems cold because he doesn’t have very many people he talks to since he sacrifices a lot of time for volleyball
  • actually the nicest person alive
  • really caring towards his teammates (especially jinyoung but no one needs to know that)
  • also the tallest person alive (as sworn by sungwoon)
  • never does a day go by that he doesn’t compare sungwoon’s height to the net
  • or himself
  • “minhyun shut up”
  • “but you’re so small-”
  • “I SAID BE QUIET”
  • once daniel asked him to help him practice his receives
  • but then he almost broke daniel’s arm with a serve so daniel never asked for his help ever again
  • always tries to pair up with guanlin during blocking drills so they can high five over the net
  • the biggest nerd
  • can recite to you the entire “volleyball handbook” in the coach’s office word for word if you asked
  • can’t jump that high but his height makes up for it
  • jihoon always tries to challenge him to a jumping battle
  • but he always wins
  • “it’s not fair, you’re taller”
  • “you’re the one that wanted to do this”
  • “that’s not the point hyung”
  • “but it’s the 5th time this week”
  • likes setting to seongwoo and jaehwan the most
  • seongwoo because he looks the best while spiking
  • he can’t give you a reason for jaehwan even if he wanted to
  • you can find him shouting at jaehwan to shut up during practice
  • takes care of the others really well
  • is really protective once someone gets hurt
  • doesn’t realize when he gets hurt sometimes so needs jisung to take care of him too
  • seonho, a 1st year from the basketball team, has the biggest crush on him
  • told him once he was gonna drop basketball to join volleybal to spend a lot of time with him
  • he was joking (at least minhyun hoped)
  • didn’t end up dropping the basketball team but stuck to minhyun when he visited practices
  • kinda sucks at studying and spends so much time on practicing but still somehow one of the best students
  • best friends with jonghyun, minki, aaron and dongho from the badminton and tennis teams
  • dongho never stops making volleyball puns
  • “I guess that serves you right”
  • “you get 2 more warnings before I kick you out”
  • the rest of his teammates and even players from rival schools look up to him a lot (literally and metaphorically asjsdgf)
  • both in skill and character
  • despite being extremely talented in his trade, he never used that to hurt anyone
  • has stayed extremely humble and continues to stay humble
  • just a Good Person and an amazing volleyball player tbh
  • gets really serious when it comes to volleyball
  • games with him are intense
  • is really passionate about the sport and would do anything to continue playing it for the rest of his life

Hey just in case any of y’all were worried about me, don’t be. I’m not in the hurricane zone. I won’t be in any danger this weekend.

That being said, there are a lot of people who are in danger right now, and if you’re one of them– if you live on the Texas coast, or anywhere inside the storm zone– please evacuate. This isn’t something to blow off. Stay safe, guys.

anonymous asked:

weren't you aro? I'm sorry for the ignorance, im just really confused

I’m arospec but I hate being that way bc I love the idea of being in a relationship so bad PLUS I have been noticing girls a lot more these past few years so I’m holding out hope that I really just havent found the right person yet

in short idk what I am and I’m just going with the flow because I’m chill~

anonymous asked:

I'm in need of some help from another empath, do you know any extra strong cleansing tips or anything for after being alone with someone incredibly emotional and anxious all day long? They really imposed and wouldn't go home and very rude to my roommate, boyfriend, and mother so I got like bad moods ×4 and I'm having a rough time wringing out my emotional sponge.

Oh my goodness, can I relate! I’m so sorry you had to deal with all that toxic energy and I truly know how draining it is to be around people like that. 

Here are some of my personal cleansing tips that help me a lot when dealing with empath burnout:

Smoke Cleansing

The first thing I do after spending time with a toxic individual is smoke cleanse my space and myself. This removes the residual energy of the experience and helps me become grounded again. You can use whatever method of smoke cleansing you prefer. Even lighting a stick of incense and waving it around your space and person can work wonders when it comes to removing unwanted energy.

Water Cleansing 

Taking a shower or a bath with the intent to have the water cleanse any unwanted energy is an easy and effective way to raise one’s vibration. I find that the simple act of self-care, coupled with the intent to cleanse is extremely powerful. You can use bath salts for added cleansing power as well. Water is very programmable too, so it’s an excellent way to literally shower yourself with intent. You can recite an incantation while in the shower, or just think positive and cleansing thoughts. 

Alone Time

When I’m drained and anxious from an unpleasant encounter, I need a lot of time by myself to re-charge my ‘emotional battery’ so to speak. I find that taking some time to just be is very helpful after negative stimulation. I might burrito myself in a blanket and curl up with a good book, or I may sit quietly and meditate for a while until I feel calm again. No matter what I decide to do with my ‘alone time’, I find it always helps to retreat for a bit.

Crystals 

After I’ve smoke cleansed and showered, I find that spending some time with some of my favorite mineral specimens can be very uplifting. Black tourmaline, smoky quartz, labradorite, fluorite, rose quartz, and amethyst are some of my favorite crystal ‘friends’ to hang out with after a draining experience. They all have properties that are extremely beneficial to empaths (refer to my 10 Crystals for Empaths post for details) and can have a neutralizing effect on bad vibes and funky energy. 

General Self-Care 

If I’ve tried all the methods listed above and I’m still feeling some type of way, I do my best to be as gentle with myself as possible. I suggest doing whatever activities that are the most uplifting and relaxing, whether that be drawing, binge watching a favorite show, eating a favorite comfort food, making some yummy tea, or taking a nap. Sometimes distraction and comfort is needed more than anything else. 

Those are just my personal tips. If any other empaths wanna add some tips for Anon, please feel free to do so ♡

I really hope this helps and that you feel better!!