I don’t care if you’re joking. I don’t care if you think it’s funny. I don’t care what you think about their relationships, or their sexualities, or their religions, or their races. or their genders. I literally do not care what you’re talking about, it does not give you the right to be an asshole. It kind of really sucks that I feel the need to make this post (because people apparently think this is an okay thing to do) but here we are. YOU ALL NEED TO STOP.
If you cannot respect the members of this band, you need to take a step backwards and remind yourself that they are human beings. You guys are taking this way too far, and I am sick and tired of all the drama. Why do you think it’s okay to say things like that about them?
Pentatonix means so much to so many people and I know it breaks my heart to see them getting treated the way they do. Please, please, PLEASE stop. I’ve seen so many bad things about this recently. I’m literally just asking you to stop saying the things you do, because they aren’t okay. They’re hurtful. And all of it needs to stop.
Who the fuck cares? Listen, I’ve read through all of Kevin’s ask fm answers, ever, and know everything he’s said on the subject, and I can tell you that he is not a bad person.
SOCIOPATHS AND SOCIOPATHIC TENDENCIES DO NOT MAKE A PERSON BAD. You’re thinking of a psychopath.
There was a tumblr post that explained it really well. I don’t know where it is. But basically, sociopaths find it hard to relate to people, and so tend to be very apathetic to others; this may lead to other people finding them manipulative or arrogant because they will put themselves first. They tend to find themselves on the fringe of society, and have trouble making meaningful relationships.
Psychopaths use their apathy. They are aggressive, and manipulate for the fun of it. They are able to fake Neurotypical-ness, and assimilate themselves into society, and often enjoy causing others pain.
In addition, from the same picture where Kevin talks about being a sociopath, he mentions that he has an offshoot of PTSD. Sociopathic tendencies come froom PTSD often. Read “A Child Called It”; David displays sociopathic tendencies throughout the book.
It’s also much more likely to develop for children who grew up in situations similar to Kevins. The details about that are hidden deep in his ask, so look for it if you want, but its not my place to talk about.
Sociopath is a broad term for a particularly apathetic person. This doesnt make people bad–just look at him! Look at how much he loves his fans! Look at his responses to people talking about how he helped them with depression! He’s not hurting anyone, and probably never will, so why the fuck are you attacking him?
I hope you’re happy. We don’t know what happened to Kevins grandfather, and honestly, I highly doubt it was actually his fault, just something he percieved as his fault. Even the fact that he feels like a bad person because of that shows that while he may not fully feel guilt, I don’t know how apathetic he truly is, he understands that hurting people is wrong and doesn’t want to hurt people.
Honestly, the ignorance about neurodiversity is sickening. Do some fucking research before you start calling someone a monster.