i'm so glad they like each other

anonymous asked:

Girl, your post abt Persian guys liking white girls killed me 😭 I liked this Iranian guy from one of my classes and we kept running into each other on campus so i was ready to make a move, but turns out hes dating this white girl, and when i saw them hanging out my eyes rolled into another dimension thinking abt your post lol

I won’t generalise all irani boys but 90% of them fuck around w all the white girls they can then marry the perfect educated Iranian girl who HAS to be a virgin like give me a fucking breaaaaakkkkkkkkkk martike olagh

This might be dumb but I honestly feel so much better when CL and Dara are together. Like, when CL goes MIA on social media for a while I get worried about her (even though it probably doesn’t mean anything, just that she’s busy and working hard) and I can literally feel my life force draining by the day. But then whenever I see that she’s with Dara, like those recent pics of them in the Phillipines, I feel at peace. Like I know CL is good then, and Dara is taking care of her. Not that Dara’s sole purpose is to be there to comfort CL…more like I feel like they have a really deep connection and friendship and I feel like they balance each other out well, and that Dara is able to ground CL and help clear her mind and restore good vibes. They’ve both been through so much and I’m just endlessly happy that they continue to lean on each other and spend time together.

so anyway.. last time sarah and cosima saw each other they were both under surveillance and were, for all intents and purposes, imprisoned (sarah under DYAD,  cosima on the island) like…. those were Not Ideal circumstances for either of them but like… there was no acknowledgement from either party that like “hey you’re okay i’m so glad you’re safe!” when they finally skyped??

and like… i get cosima getting right down to business because, hey! kira’s in major trouble and cosima’s got Vital Information about all that but…. sarah nearly died??? at the beginning of this season??? trying to rescue cosima from the island??? and we don’t even get to see her tell cosima “i’m so glad you’re okay and that you’re home safe” like?!!?? goddamn that’s all that would be needed, just that one line. just /one line/ and /then/ you can proceed to The Plot okay. 

anonymous asked:

thank you so much for explaining wolf dominance behavior! I'm so sick people like "dominance means they beat each other up all the time" and then someone going "no that's not right wolves don't have dominance at all!" and I can never articulate why both those ideas are wrong but you did it so well! Do you know more good resources about how wolf dominance actually works?

You’re welcome, I’m glad it helps! Yeah I think the debate has gone to 2 extremes now and neither extreme is helpful when looking at actual dominance based interactions.

Here’s some of the models of pack structure that have been theorised:

Some of these are more updated than others and there’s still a lot of variation within these structures. The model that’s pretty much debunked is A. No one uses terms like Beta, Gamma, Omega anymore  (and our guests sometimes do and it drives us nuts). The most basic and updated wolf pack model is that of a family group: a breeding female and male and their offspring. 

But not every pack is like this. Kanti, Bicho and Fiona are siblings, but Bicho usually will defer to Kanti and Fiona and get in trouble for doing things Kanti doesn’t want him doing (howling, ambushing Fiona, being a pest ect.). Kanti and Bicho both defer to Fiona but I have seen Fiona defer to Kanti or Bicho. And Kanti gets in trouble from Fiona from time to time as well. So they’re really all over the place.

Bicho deferring by pawing at Kanti, who is posturing over him. Bicho often uses very exaggerated submissive gestures to annoy Kanti enough to move him away from whatever resource there is. He is the master of Obnoxious Submission.

Also it’s important to remember that, in play, dominance structures are usually completely thrown out. So sometimes you’ll see a dominant wolf self-handicap and flop on the ground and throw out submissive gestures at a submissive wolf who will “dominate” that wolf. It’s hilarious. Good wolf jokes!

Despite Kanti and Bicho often deferring to her, Fiona is IT in this game of Wolf and Hounds where one wolf will be chased and harassed by the other wolves and then the game will switch with another wolf being “it”.

In order to simplify things as much as possible (even though it’s a lot more complex): When looking at wolf pack structure the dominant wolf or the “alpha” wolf - which generally will be a male and a female - is the animal with the most social freedom. These wolves do not defer to anyone and they do not need to “enforce” their position. It’s continually reinforced through body posturing, which is then responded to with reciprocal submission from other wolves. 

Also these dominant wolves are not necessarily going to eat first, howl first or get any other privileges other than being allowed to breed. Their offspring will naturally defer to them and then disperse once they grow up so as not to cause conflict. 

@koryos wrote up a great run-down of different canid pack models which can be found here: http://www.koryoswrites.com/nonfiction/dominance-behavior-in-canids/

I also recommend reading the papers linked to the article.

Hope that helps!

you ever realize that the person you’re missing doesn’t know how you’ve changed? like, how I stopped wearing hoodies so often, or the way I put my hair up, or how I stopped putting effort into finite relationships, and you were the heartache that changed that for me. It’s an odd mixture of melancholy and relieving to know that the people we are in each others’ heads aren’t here on the planet, we’re somewhere else now.


Yamaguchi calls Tsukki’s older brother by his first name and it ends it with -kun (not the formal -san). Akiteru calls Yamaguchi by his first name instead of his last name with a term of closeness (like Yamaguchi-kun).

So….It’s canon that Yamaguchi’s been over to Tsukki’s house or been with his family A LOT over the several years they’ve known each other because of the way Yamaguchi and Akiteru refer to each other aka they’re close enough to call each other by their first name (at least Akiteru calling Yams by his first name)

Basically, Tsukishima and Yamaguchi are very close

crazygaze  asked:


join the club bro

edit: there’s an amazing fic for this now, please read it for a good time

(( OOC: I want to say this because it’s been a recurring thought of mine recently - but some of you guys are just amazingly creative.

There’s way too many people in this community for me to follow and actively track but I totally stalk all your blogs when they pop up and I just want to say… I dig it?? Because even though the rp community has kinda exploded over the last number of months with so many new people, there’s still so much originality and creativity and it makes me hella happy.

Not only that, the support and encouragement you all give each other is so cool. I haven’t seen any real negativity in a long time, and it’s so nice to witness such a safe, non-judgemental space.

I have an awful lot of appreciation for this community, and the majority of that is down the the people in it. So keep doing all the things. You’re all great.

*Goes back to stalking* ))

Bittersweet reunion rp starters(Warning:death mentions and angst) and
  • •"It's been awhile..."
  • •"Long time,no see..."
  • •"How long was I gone?"
  • •"Do you have any idea how long you were/I was gone?!"
  • •"You've/I've been gone for so goddamn long and the only thing you have to say is HEY?!"
  • •"I've missed you."
  • •"Did you miss me?"
  • •"Why are you here?"
  • •"Did you miss me like I've missed you?"
  • •"Why did you come back?"
  • •"Why did you leave?"
  • •"You're the reason why I've returned..."
  • •"Where have you been all this time?"
  • •"I thought you were dead!"
  • •"But you're here and that's all that matters"
  • •"I'm so glad that you're here"
  • •"You owe me an explanation."
  • •"So...what's new?"
  • •"Things have changed since the last time we saw each other..."
  • •"You're not leaving me again,are you?"
  • •"Will we ever meet again?"
  • •"Don't do this again!Please..."
  • •"I'll never abandon you again..."
  • •"You/I shouldn't have come back"
  • •"You/I should've have left"
  • •"I brought you a gift.I hope you like it"
  • •"I'm so sorry for disappearing so suddenly"
  • •"I told you I would come back!"
  • •"Thank god I've returned in time to save you!"
  • •"[insert name here]?Is that you?"
  • •"Are you real?This must be a dream"
  • •"It's been so long since we've talked like this"
  • •"I have no good reason for excusing myself.I'm sorry"
  • •"I left because I...I.."
  • •"Let's sit down somewhere comfy.Tell me all the juicy gossip that I've missed!"
  • •"I have so much to fill you in.."
  • •"Things were much better before you/I left..."
  • •"You know that legendary dog Hachiko?I'm just like him.At least my patience paid off..."
  • •"I've/You've changed..."
  • •"So,how's it going with [enter convention topic here]?"
  • •"I see that nothing has changed while I was gone"
  • •"Nothing ever changes here"
  • •"Suprise bitch!Bet you thought you'd seen the last of me."
  • •"Well...I've waited here like I promised"
  • •"I thought I would never see you again"
  • •"So,what do you want to talk about?"
  • •"You didn't even try to look for me!"
  • •"You left me to die!"
  • •"I/You left because of [insert person/reason here]!"
  • •"I wasn't able to tell you at the time"
  • •"You/I could've at least said goodbye."
  • •"How dare show yourself here after all this time?!"
  • •"Next time,take me with you,ok?"

but really … Armin’s big smile and the way his face lights up right after he looks at Mikasa and sees her awkwardly trying not to trip over a wave and awkwardly smiling while blushing

It’s the ocean yes, he’s happy yes, but you can’t tell me he’s not happy that Mikasa is experiencing this with him, that he also gets to share his happiness with her too, even if it wasn’t initially her dream, he’s like “see Mikasa! told you it’s awesome! told you we’re gonna have this moment!”

  • Me, awake watching YOI 2am: man. this show is so damn good I cannot wait for season two it's going to be absolutely amazing. It's the only thing keeping me going at this point I cannot believe I have been so blessed but where's that announcement tho..
  • Me, at 3am: ok but season 1's soundtrack was so 🔥LIT🔥 how will they possibly top it?? Each song was so beautifully crafted and fitting to each skater and I don't think I could possibly love another set of pieces as much as I already love these...
  • Me, at 4am: and someone please tell me, how are Victor and Yuuri so damn perfect for one another?? their relationship makes me incredibly happy and feel so full inside. They love and care for each other so deeply and are for real life actually engaged it's so beautiful. I wonder who's big spoon and who's little..
  • Me, at 5am: oh Yuri Plisetsky. That boy. I'm so damn proud of that kitten. He is so determined and strong and at 15 years old he accomplished what many never are able to achieve. And I am so glad that he found Beka after being alone for such a long time now he can know life and love just like his fathers...
  • Me, at 6am: and another thi- *school alarm starts blaring* ..what... the hell....... anyways,, the WEDDING.

I’m super upset by this cuz I have no idea it was going on, but I’m glad Ethan said this.


Communities like ours are literally built on trust, kindness, and the need to keep each other alive. Ethan likes to thank us, and we thank him back, because we saved each other, so why is it the second some of us got to meet Ethan we suddenly are at each other’s throats?

To @crankgameplays and all of those that were threatened: I am so sorry. It may never get to meet Ethan but I can promise you that if you need someone to talk to I’ll be right here to stand up for you and your beautiful butt! I will never be jealous no matter who you get to meet because I’m lucky I ever even found this silly little website called YouTube, filled with these dorky guys, gals, and non-binary pals who make me happy!

I am here for you.
I love you.
I will take care of you.
I will protect you.
Because that’s what families do.

Get out of here.
Disable your accounts and don’t watch YouTube until you understand what it feels like to be alone.
Because we may not know your real identity, but we know your usernames, and that’s all we need to know to block, mute, and report you.
I don’t like to swear directly at people but lemme just say:
Fuck. You.
Fuck you and all that bullshit you decided to pull simply because some of us were lucky enough to go to Indy and meet some of the YouTubers that changed our lives.


You ever think of all of the circumstances that brought you and another person together? How intricate each of the events that led up to you meeting were? Every moment had to be exactly how it was for you two to be exactly how you are together.

the thing that i love so much about jonas’ “halla boys” is that it wasn’t said to announce his presence, you know? he had arrived a minute ago, and was obviously sitting in front of them. but it was monday morning, them coming back from the weekend, a new week starting at school, and he was seeing his group of friends again, his boys. and you can tell how he genuinely enjoy having them here, how he enjoys their friendship, individually for sure, but as a group, also. because they just work well together, effortlessly. and how wonderful is it that they ended up finding each other, the four of them? 

and so jonas sees isak and mahdi and magnus sitting next to each other and he’s just glad? he has that liiittle frown like he’s thinking to himself it will never not make me happy to see you three, will it? and when he says “halla boys!”, with that lovely smile, that’s what he’s expressing, really, the fact that it’s just so nice to see them again

anonymous asked:

Yg and Jm have exposed the most vulnerable parts to e/o, they revealed that when Jm was experiencing hard times they started drinking together. They constantly want to involve one another in the most intimate parts of their lives like the fact that Yg has, for 2 years now, wanted to work with Jm with his music, he went to Jm for the guide and wrote him songs etc. This isn't even about shipping I'm just so happy that they have found something like this within each other. I want a r/s like that.

seriously they’ve developed such a strong n deep connection that is so beautiful, soft, and real. seeing the things they say about each other and the way they have constantly and openly supported whatever the other does is so unreal like…….there is so much love, respect, and trust between them and I’m SO glad they have each other

anonymous asked:

I'm so glad I found your blog. When I got into the Naruto fandom , I started to love ss but the antis ruined it for me. Thanks to you I'm starting to love this couple again. What is your favorite ss moment ?

I’m glad I could help ^_^

To answer your question though, I suppose my overall favourite SS moment would have to be the intimacy they displayed towards each other during Chapter 9 of Gaiden:

Because when you remember all that Sasuke and Sakura had gone through with each other, and then you see a panel like this, it just evokes so much emotion, because you know that they’d come such a long way. Whenever I look at this panel, I just think to myself “well done guys, I’m happy for you”.

Even though times were difficult, they were working through them together and were fully supportive of one another as husband and wife. It was really nice to see. Furthermore, the fact that this was what assured Sarada that there was indeed genuine love between her parents, made this scene that much better :)