I just saw a post saying it was selfish for aro and/or ace people to expect their partners to respect their sexuality and that it was ok to keave them cause of their sexuality and I'm just feeling so upset now cause as an ace I just want someone to be with someone who respects me and realizes that I may not want sex and be ok with it and it terrifies me that I may never find someone who won't leave me when I tell them I'm ace
I don’t trust anyone who says aro and/or aces owe their partner anything. It reeks of rape culture. And honestly? Don’t date anyone like that in the first place. It doubt it would be safe. And if you are worried that will leave you will no one, I can promise it won’t. For V-day we had an event that showed ace couples and often times only one member was aro and/or ace.