i'm not even 21 guys

anonymous asked:

Hey, I love your blog! I have to ask this on behalf of the ladies in the same set of heels, who would like to find an honest and charming man, how exactly do we spot a real gentleman in comparison to a fake. As I've managed to date plenty of them. I'm 21 but even some of the guys that look the part just aren't cutting it, most still even live with their parents! That wasn't the case when my grandad got married! What's gone so badly wrong? Confused young lady x

There is a big difference between a guy and a gentleman. A guy is the sort of man does note take love seriously or even if he does, his actions do not speak about it while a gentleman is the type of person that is mature enough to understand your needs and good and offers you a certain security when you are around him. There are plenty of signs to prove that you are dating a true gentleman, but I might say that the most important thing that defines a gentleman from a guy is the following “rule”: I put the good of my lady before my needs and desires. His understands the importance of your dreams. He wants you to succeed. He’s your #1 fan. He always looks out for you in every situation. Whether it’s putting his hand on the small of your back to guide you to your seat at a restaurant, or warming your car up for you when it’s cold or voicing frustration about the people who treat you badly — he genuinely wants what is best for you and he goes out of his way to help you get it.
Moreover, a gentleman will offer you security, He stays loyal to you. Real men stay faithful, and only have eyes for YOU. he doesn’t mess around. You know what he likes about you because he tells you. He doesn’t do it because he wants a favor (or sex), he just cares about you and wants to communicate that to you. 
I hope my advice helped you understand the difference. 

Have a wonderful day!

A gentleman’s thoghts