i'm just angry at my parents so bear with me as i pass through this phase

anonymous asked:

May I request a headcannon for the RFA (+ V & Saeran, if it's no trouble) reacting to MC coming out to her parents (as bi, pan, ace, it can be whatever) and them telling her that "It's just a phase"? I came out to my mom a while ago, and her exact words were "I swear, this is a freaking trend". Then, like last week, she was just like "Remember when you went through that phase when you thought you were gay?" I wanted to say "Bitch what the fuck I'm still gay as hell", but I also wanted to cry ^^;

(I’m so so sorry about the delay!! I’m so sorry your parents did that to you! It’s honestly an absolutely horrible thing to say, and I really hope this is close to what you wanted, and that it cheers you up even a little bit. Please know that you can come talk to me whenever you need, about anything! 

Loves and hugs to you darling <3 <3 <3 

I really hope you enjoy this! 


-SxW)


RFA reacting to Bi MC

Yoosung

  • He didn’t understand at first.
  • You said you were visiting your parents because it had been a while and you needed to talk to them.
  • So why were you on the couch crying?
  • He knelt by you, unable to figure out what happened.
  • “MC? Love what happened? Did something happen with your parents? Did you guys have a fight?”
  • He was praying you were just being a little emotional after seeing them in so long.
  • “I….I told them I was Bi….and…they told me it was just a phase….we ended up getting into a really bad argument and I just couldn’t be there anymore…”
  • Screw confused. He was angry.
  • A phase? A phase? That’s the excuse they used for their narrow mindedness?!
  • Yoosung didn’t get angry too easily (he just slaps people with facefulls of kimchi for the hell of it)  but this really riled him up.
  • You were a beautiful, kind and amazing person!
  • You were the one, who stood by him and helped him really understand and accept Rika’s death, instead of just drowning himself in those numbing habits.
  • And you never made him give up what made him passionate, only helping him manage his time.
  • Why should something like sexuality make your parents just brush you off like that?
  • He ended up pacing around the room, aggravated to all hell.
  • But once he saw the look on your face, he instantly calmed down.
  • He was by your side, taking your hands and pulling you close.
  • “MC, you’re a beautiful, amazing person, and you’re my angel. Don’t ever let anyone make you feel less, or make you feel invalidated, because of a few mean words. Your sexuality is a part of you. It’s not just a phase”
  • You felt tears rush down even harder, but this time, they weren’t of complete frustration.
  • Yoosung held you close that night, as you slowly stopped crying, and while the ordeal itself was painful, you knew, that you had someone who accepted you completely and wholeheartedly, and someone who loves you with all of his heart.

Zen

  • It was the day after one of rehearsals.
  • He was expecting to have the apartment to himself, seeing as you went home to spend some time with your parents.
  • So the last thing he was expecting to see, was you curled up on the couch crying into the teddy bear he got you a few weeks ago.
  • Wait reboot.
  • Why are you crying?!
  • He rushed over to you, and immediately gathered you into a big bear hug.
  • “What happened Princess?! Is something wrong with your parents?”
  • You started to shake your head, but in a sense he was right. There was something wrong with them.
  • He quickly carried you into the kitchen and grabbed you a glass of water, gently setting you on counter.
  • “Easy Princess…breath…”
  • Once you calmed down a bit, you explained to him that you came out to your parents, and they just brushed you right off.
  • It was as if your feelings didn’t matter to them.
  • You ended up getting into an argument, and you stormed right back home.
  • Zen didn’t know how to react.
  • He didn’t have the easiest home life.
  • But you? His princess? That’s unacceptable.
  • You’re his princess, his angel. You deserved the world and more.
  • Your sexuality, shouldn’t matter in the slightest to anyone.
  • It doesn’t change who you are. It’s a part of you.
  • And he loves every single part of you.
  • As furious as he was with your parents and their narrow mentality, you were his priority.
  • He hugged you close, repeatedly whispering that he loved you, all of you, unconditionally.
  • He wanted to confront your parents, wanting to beat  talk some sense into them.
  • They don’t deserve you.
  • You didn’t deserve that kind of brush off.
  • No one did.
  • He hugs you even closer.
  • He was determined to show you, that you were important and loved.
  • He snuggled you, ordered your favorite foods and made sure to get plenty of snacks, and he promised you a night to remember.
  • And you did.

Jumin

  • Ooooooooh boy.
  • When he came home, to find you hugging a slightly distraught Elizabeth.
  • He needed to keep from firing his entire penthouse.
  • Who the hell upset my kitten?
  • WHICH ONE?!
  • THE HUMAN ONE GODDAMMIT YOU’RE ALL FIRED
  • He rushed over and gathered you in his arms.
  • “Who hurt you darling? Tell me.”
  • “Jumin…I…I came out to my parents…and they just brushed me off….they said it was a phase…I just…I knew it wouldn’t be exactly easy but….a phase? Was it really so difficult for them to sit down and actually try and understand me…?”
  • Jumin was someone who felt family was important.
  • So he was completely ready to talk to them with you.
  • You were hesitant, and honestly not really ready to jump right back in.
  • So he decided to wait, but once a few days had passed, he brought it up to you again.
  • You hesitated again, but with some persuasion, said yes.
  • So he called them and set up a meeting.
  • He had you all taken to a fancy restaurant, and seated in a private booth.
  • “Thank you both very much for coming, I had called and arranged this to discuss what MC had very courageously told you-”
  • “Oh? The Gay thing? MC don’t tell me you threw that at him too! Jumin don’t worry so much about it. I’m telling you it’s just a phase! She gets into all the trends people see! Even if they are ridiculous and wrong”
  • He was angry.
  • You were crying.
  • Not a good combination.
  • “Now I see why she was upset when she came home. If this is the mindset you insist on keeping with MC, I refuse to let her stay around the toxicity. You may come to her to apologize once you realize your mistake. Come darling”
  • Without another word, he took your hand and led you outside.
  • He wanted to help you, but he also saw that pushing into toxicity wouldn’t be the answer.
  • So he would be there for you, every single step of the way.
  • And that night, he showed you just how much he truly adored you.

Jaehee

  • You decided to take a day off from the cafe, and told Jaehee you weren’t feeling well.
  • She wanted to actually close the cafe to stay with you.
  • But financially couldn’t. It was still pretty new, she needed all the business to help it.
  • So she decided to close a bit early and surprise you with your favorite coffee and some nice pastries she was saving for you.
  • So she came home around 7, when closing was around 8:00-9:00 pm.
  • She knocked on the door to your shared bedroom and slowly walked in.
  • “MC? Love? I brought you something to…”
  • She trailed off when she saw you wipe your eyes hastily.
  • Mama Jaehee activate.
  • “What’s wrong??” She rushed over to you.
  • You softly explained the situation with your parents.
  • And how hurt you were, but most of all frustrated, because you didn’t understand why they would just say that and expect you to be okay with it.
  • She didn’t have a good home life, so she didn’t really know what advice she could give you.
  • But she did pull you into her arms.
  • And hug you tightly right to her chest.
  • “I…may not have the right words to fix all of this…but I do know this: You’re you. Your sexuality doesn’t change you. You’re you because of your strength and your heart…please don’t ever doubt yourself…”
  • You helped her through a time where she was stuck.
  • Where she was hopeless and you helped her achieve her dream.
  • She wasn’t going to let this weigh on you.
  • So she sat you down, and began to spoil the ever living hell out of you.
  • That night was full of extra cuddles, favorite foods and Zen Musicals.

Seven

  • He just knew.
  • He didn’t know all of the details.
  • But he knew.
  • When he finally finished with work, and found you curled up on the bed in his spare hoodie.
  • He knew your parents hurt you.
  • All he could do was wrap his arms around you tightly and hold you.
  • This wasn’t the time for jokes or stupid puns.
  • You needed him. Serious him.
  • And you clung to him.
  • “Say the word, and I’ll make them regret it MC. You deserve so much more than them. If they can’t accept you, I’ll make them realize it.”
  • “No…Saeyoung…I don’t want that at all….I just…I wish they didn’t brush me off like that…”
  • He held you tighter to him and stroked your hair.
  • You shouldn’t have to go through with this.
  • You’re his angel. His love. His everything.
  • You didn’t deserve this.
  • You deserved the world.
  • And he would do his absolute best to give it to you.
  • “MC?”
  • You looked at him curiously, because he had a softer tone now.
  • “I could totally fill your parents banks up with Monopoly money if you want…”
  • Monopoly….
  • What the shit no
  • That’s my future money dammit no
  • “I’m good babe….”
  • “Just saying….”
  • You couldn’t help but laugh and hug him closer.
  • You were so lucky.
  • And he made sure to make you feel loved every single day. Loved and accepted.

V

  • He was still home, when you came rushing back from your parents.
  • He could hear the sniffles and the held back sobs when you rushed in and he was immediately worried.
  • “MC…? Angel…?”
  • He barely got a chance to stood up when you rushed into his arms and hugged him.
  • He immediately threw his arms around you and hugged you close.
  • “What happened? What’s going on?”
  • He didn’t want to be pushy, but he was too worried to wait.
  • “My parents they just…”
  • You explained what happened, but had to pause to keep from outright crying again.
  • He was speechless.
  • He understood, that it wouldn’t be the easiest topic in the world, especially when it feels like there’s no right to time to just say it.
  • But he didn’t expect them to just outright sweep it under the table.
  • A trend? Phase? Why the hell would they come up with that? Of all things?
  • While he was angry at your parents, and disappointed. He wanted to take care of you.
  • So he gently led you to the kitchen.
  • And immediately began to brew some tea for you.
  • He reminded you that you were loved and cared for you.
  • That you were accepted by not only him, but by the entire RFA.
  • Your parents would see their mistake soon.
  • And until then, you will be safe and taken care of.
  • He made sure to have you know that your feelings, your identity, your being itself. Everything is valid.
  • Everything is important.
  • Everything is perfect as it is.

Saeran

  • He wanted to commit a felony.
  • As soon as he saw you crying on the couch.
  • He didn’t waste any time in asking you what was wrong.
  • After he detached himself from the bear hold he forced you into.
  • He’s not too great with gentle cuddles just yet
  • But you still held onto him, when you explained the situation with your parents, and how little they managed to make you feel.
  • Make that two felonies.
  • You had to sit there and hold him to make sure he calmed down.
  • Despite the comfort you brought.
  • He knew.
  • You needed him first.
  • So he held you, more gently than the first time.
  • It was a bit awkward, but he made sure to try and keep himself relaxed for you.
  • You helped him heal.
  • He wanted to make sure you knew how important you really were.
  • He wasn’t good with words.
  • He couldn’t never properly explain just what was going on inside him.
  • But he hoped, that you realized that he loved you unconditionally.
  • Regardless of your sexuality, gender or any preference whatsoever.
  • He fell in love with your heart and soul.
  • Thank god you weren’t hearing this it’s too fucking cheesy even for him
  • But he loved you.
  • That’s all he needed to know.