i'm giving her a chance

not to be that person but…. hating a movie before it comes out because you THINK your favorite character might be getting a storyline you didn’t “want” is really immature and creates uncessary drama over nothing. if it happens AFTER you see the movie? make a fucking scene! but before? just….chiLL

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vicbert appreciation week: day seven - overall favorite moment

#when bae has this big speech to give and he wants you there #but you don’t go ‘cause it’s his moment to shine and you don’t wanna steal the spotlight

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You want to quit all this and run?

Girl Meets Season 4 - Episode 18

Girl Meets Season 4 - The Continuing Saga of Riley and her friends as they tackle their Sophomore year in High School. The ups, the downs, and everything in between. What will their sophomore year be like? Read and find out.

Episodes [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10] [11] [12] [13] [14] [15] [16] [17]

A/N: This is a chapter purely for Zay, because he deserves the best in the world.

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2x04 Escalation, The Man in the High Castle

Helen Smith storms the office

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“I’m not going to defend the rest of the cast, but I still believe in…”

I cosplayed supergirl at sdcc and everyone told me how much I looked like her, complimented me, took pictures with me and kids smiled at me and it made me confident and happy because I got to be supergirl for a day. But I’m also bisexual and hc-ing Kara as bisexual meant a lot to me so that video hurts… this isn’t meant to be mean I’m just explaining how it affected lgbt+ people who possibly identified with her. Is Melissa going to be a Supergirl for only straight girls or is she for us too?

Firstly, I’d like to say good job on the cosplay, that’s really cool. I hope you posted pictures. For the record, I also headcanon Supergirl as bi-sexual, and am a giant piece of SuperCat trash lol.

I’m not saying it didn’t sting, it did, even me, and I see a lot of myself in many of the characters on the show. Melissa is Supergirl for everyone, she’s proven that time and time again, did we forget about the scene where she acted out (probably multiple times to get it right for us) where she hugged Chyler Leigh’s character Alex and said “I’ll get the alien, you get the girl”?

What I’m saying and I’ll say it again if I have to, is A: I still feel that this was pushback from them about how the community has treated them. Constantly pushing it in their faces, and then being rude when they don’t get their way. It’s frankly childish how many people in the fandom have acted, specifically the SuperCorp and Karamel sides of the fandom. To the point of harassing Chris Woods and even Melissa Benoist (or even just talking shit about them here on Tumblr which is bad enough in my opinion.) just because they didn’t show up to a con after a bombing happened in the same area. B: Also, I do feel that it was brave of them to do this. We as a community should not get so offended by a joke, and a relatively tame one at that. 

I have anecdotal evidence from back when I wrote fanfiction about me doing this exact same thing to a friend/fan when he asked why I didn’t have any regular human male characters in my fic and I straight up said “because that’s fucking boring” after he had hounded me about it for two hours as to why I HAD to represent him and his gender in my story. Sound familiar? And just because it’s a man, doesn’t give me the right to say that his concern is invalid, it’s still valid, and quite honestly, the SG cast didn’t say anything nearly as blatantly offensive as what I said, and I’m not even famous.

Every community of some sort has been the butt of a joke at one point or another, now, I do agree that there is crossing a line, but this wasn’t it. Being gay is never going to be normalized if every time anyone does anything to remotely represent us that we force them to walk on eggshells to the point where a simple joke ruins their career. They weren’t talking about the LGBTQ+ Community as a whole, they were saying that the SuperCorp shippers need to stop shoving their ship in their faces.

Hell, we make fun of straight people, white people, cis people, and everyone else all the time on this site, and everywhere else. It’s not fair of us to make fun of them, and they can’t do it back, that’s a double standard.

We also shouldn’t expect other people to represent us, we should represent ourselves. I know so many artists here on tumblr, and the rest of the internet who could be doing more to represent us and themselves, but they don’t do it.

I still believe that this was nothing more than them saying “this isn’t going to happen.” to those radical fans out there who take this shipping thing a little too far and cross that boundary between fun shipping and just being obnoxious about it. This community would’ve been upset no matter how this was said, because the tumblr community and the internet as a whole seems to have this hard on for finding reasons to demonize celebrities at any opportunity they get. Exhbit A: Your fave is problematic.

Tumblr is the same place where the Steven Universe fandom drove a girl to near suicide because she didn’t draw their favorite character the right way. That is fucking disgusting. (I’m not saying everyone has done that, hold your mouse clicking finger from the Ask button.) The point here is that the community is just as much to blame for this situation and honestly, if it was me, I wouldn’t put up with the behavior either if I was the creator of this show. If we want to expect more from the people in the public eye, then the public needs to be better too, and so far we have shown that we aren’t.

I don’t see people making apologies to Melissa and Chris about their death threats, or booing Chris’s character at event. Which is just as rude and awful.

This community could’ve behaved far better, this could’ve happened and we all could’ve had a good laugh out of it, and maybe even been like “well Karamel is stupid, nyehhh” like we would with our friends. (At least I would but that’s how I act around my friends and we make fun of each other on a daily basis for basically everything about each other, because all of us know that at the end of the day its just for fun and joking around.) But they didn’t. They chose to act like kids on a playground and go tell the teacher instead of talking it out like adults.

Now, if this behavior from them continues, and they make more jokes that are worse or whatever, yeah, tell them to fuck off. But one strike is not enough for me to condemn them. 

anonymous asked:

This is a fuck co workers. I work at Mal Wart and a co worker of mine was incredibly rude to a blind gentleman who had his seeing eye dog with him. Instead of answering his question she ranted at him for having a dog in store. The woman that was with him rightfully told her off but my god I really hope my co worker gets fired. She's behaved ableist before and I'm pretty tired of the manager giving her second chances

  • V: Talk to me about your relationship with Rika, there's some beef.
  • MC: I didn't know Rika personally, but I've had altercations with her over, I guess twitter, before I joined the RFA. Like, Rika is just a hater.
  • V: Now, Rika has brought her personal security-- is that gonna affect how you're gonna approach the situation?
  • MC: *chuckles* I'm gonna walk in, and I'm gonna tell her "Bitch, get up." I'll give her a fair chance to square up. I'm not gonna sneak her, and if she don't wanna square up, I'ma hit her.

anonymous asked:

i am so sick of stumbling on hateful comments about perrie on tumblr, people don't even want to give her a chance :(

I will never understand the logic of people that hate on perrie edwards but every single day of their life are somehow creeping on twitter/facebook/tumblr searching for her life and just being purely being mean to her, like, ain’t here to teach you how to behave but you should at least know how to respect the others, it’s about time people grow up. You’re totally allowed to not like her and give your constructive criticism but in the exact moment you denigrate and diminish her as  human being by calling her offensive and disgusting things or saying that she’s dependent on zayn, which is just misogynistic and ignorant even because zayn wasn’t there until 2012 and before that she was already a winner of a talent show, so please don’t use that as argument to hide your denial of the success and career by her own HARD WORK, it just sadly shows how you follow our patriarchal society that still thinks that a woman can’t make her own money without depending on a man for that. And also about other subjects that people often use without knowing if it’s true or not (hint: a huge part is not true) like: “perrie said zayn fans are fat and smell bad” “perrie said she isn’t a feminist because she doesn’t hate her man” “perrie said this or that” PLEASE CONFIRM WHAT YOU READ BEFORE YOU GO OUT THERE SPREADING LIES ABOUT SOMEONE’S LIFE, THIS IS ALMOST MEAN AS CREATING THESE LIES. Now you want to ask me: how about the cultural appropriation issues? Please don’t have the illusion that her fans aren’t aware of that, we’re trying to figure it out a way to get EVERYONE on the band educated on the problematic things they have done but HOW do you expect us to try to get their attention (like on social networks which is the easiest manner for the fans who want to warn them) if every single thing they post comes followed by a bunch of comments of people that aren’t even their fans just spreading negative and awful things? I do recognize we have to find a way for educating perrie and also the other girls on certain topics and therefore people who DISLIKE her for whatever reason and also don’t want to help, should in the first place, mind their own business. If you don’t want to give them a chance to learn from their mistakes and become even better persons (yes! shocking news: people can make mistakes and still be a decent human being) then you should blacklist/stay away from things related to them: “if you ain’t got nice things to say then don’t say nothing at all”. But as always and unfortunately the majority of people who are too pretentious to think that they were born knowing everything and even more snobbish when when they think that is totally ok to make obnoxious comments on her appearance on even worse: on her personality, which i can guarantee to you that it’s absolutely harmless and lovely and despite the ignorance she has (such as other millions that don’t have any access to that kind of information) she is an amazing person and i’m 100% positive that if she was educated enough SHE WOULD NEVER DO ANYTHING TO HURT SOMEONE!! I seriously still have hope that one day people will learn to love and RESPECT and live their lifes not having to hide on reasons to deliver the hatred that they feel inside. And honestly if you are one of those individuals and you are reading this right now, i hope you got the message and if you haven’t: I’LL NEVER GIVE UP ON YOU.

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And then there’s my daughter Jenna. She leads a glamorous life. Jenna has an apartment downtown, a lovely roommate. She calls her Naked Shirl. I’m so proud of her. She’s a big-time lawyer. She’s got a big success with that.

Caught Cheating Starters
  • "It's not what it looks like--I swear!"
  • "I can't believe you'd do this to me!"
  • "How dare you?!"
  • "You said you wouldn't be home until later..."
  • "I didn't mean it, I promise."
  • "Please, give me another chance."
  • "I'm leaving you. Have fun with her/him/them."
  • "...This isn't how I wanted you to find out."
  • "I didn't know it would bother you."
  • "I'm sorry."
  • "...What are you doing here?"
  • *midnight; Bart's morgue*
  • Molly: *working*
  • Sherlock: *standing in the doorway; watching her*
  • Molly: *yawns*
  • Sherlock: It's late.
  • Molly: *jumps* Jesus...how long have you been standing there?
  • Sherlock: *sighs* Long enough to know you shouldn't be here *walks over to her desk and retrieves her coat* I'm walking you home.
  • Molly: *hesitates* Uhh, actually-
  • Sherlock: I'll buy you chips *mutters* With your money.
  • Molly: *smiles* That's sweet but-
  • Sherlock: *raises an eyebrow* You don't want to go home.
  • Molly: *sighs; defeated* I can't go home... *shaky* My landlord kicked me out...changed the locks and everything. He said there's a problem with the rent but...I've paid it, I'm paying it *looks at the floor* He won't let me back in until I give him double the original rent and I-I can't afford it.
  • Sherlock: *scowls* Because you rejected him.
  • Molly: *nods slowly* I don't know what to do.
  • Sherlock: *urgently* You've been staying here?
  • Molly: *nods* Yeah. I mean, it's...like a second home anyway, I spend so much time here.
  • Sherlock: Parents? *pauses* Parent?
  • Molly: *shakes her head* No room.
  • Sherlock: ...
  • Sherlock: *shrugs* I have room.
  • Molly: *hesitates* Oh, no...I couldn't...that's asking far too much-
  • Sherlock: *texting* Mycroft owes me a favour *glances up at her* Get your things. You're coming home with me.
  • Molly: *bites her lip* Don't do anything stupid. I like that place. Do you think he could get Toby?
  • Sherlock: *still texting* If Toby is your feline and not a boyfriend, certainly.
  • Molly: *chuckles; gathering her stuff* Yeah, he is *looks at him; smiling* Thank you so much, Sherlock. I don't know what I'd do without you.
  • Sherlock: *rolls his eyes* Oh, Molly, I'm afraid I need you just as much as you need me.
  • Molly: ...
  • Sherlock: *holds out his hand* Still fancy those chips?
  • Molly: *nods; takes his hand*

No but imagine this – Robin going to Regina in season 4 (after he and Marian have parted ways because he realised he can’t love her like he used to), and asking her to give him a second chance.

I might cry.