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anonymous asked:

I hate to drag on this topic. You're right about everything in terms of the marketing of girl groups but its unfair to call out the men for it when girls do the same thing even if its not as common. You can say you dont think jimins innocent and you dont like jungkooks eyes for the innocence. But a LOT of girls do. I see posts like that all the time. I see girls talking about wanting to take an idols virginity or calling them a baby. This happens with many male idols even when they're of age

When the situations aren’t equal, I don’t believe they call for an equal response.  You compare seeing posts online by “girls” (note that girls are not adults) saying that a particular male idol is a baby and they want to take their individual virginity with the desire for female innocence that is so pervasive that large companies are promoting and selling it to broad segments of the adult male population for profit thereby perpetuating the issue.  Granted, I’m a westerner, so maybe there is a comparable industrial scale lust for childishly naive and innocent boys (or young men who act like boys) to feed the sexual urges of masses of adult women in parts of the world.  If that is going on, please show me because I’m oblivious to it.  

I’ve not seen large numbers of posts of women and girls specifically lusting after an idol strictly because of his innocent, naive or childlike behavior.  But I don’t follow a lot of people and I’m really picky about what I read.  I avoid all that daddy dom/mommy dom stuff strictly because I don’t like the infantilization that goes with it - but I could see what you are describing fitting into that realm.  I don’t want to get all judgemental about other people’s kinks, so I just stay out of it.  The times I have seen what you are describing – that over the top, “omg look at his baby face I just want to ruin him and do unspeakably dirty things to this cute little boy!” type of posts… I almost always come away from those thinking that the person writing it is probably immature, possibly inexperienced and playing things up for attention.  Maybe I’m wrong about all of that.

My general rule of thumb is when you see individual people acting gross and creepy – call them out on it individually.  When you see systemic grossness and creepiness – call it out publicly and broadly. 

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