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On Keith and leaving Allura behind

One thing I’ve always wanted to clear up is the ‘Keith is cold-hearted’ thing. I can see how the scene of him being ready to leave Allura behind might come across as such, to quote Hunk: “Keith, that’s cold-hearted even for you.” 

But that is not how things actually are. Let me explain why he acted the way he did back then, because Keith has had just as many emotions about it as everyone else. 

Keith is rational, observant and tends to state stuff exactly as it is, with all facts lied out to make sure that everyone gets the whole picture. (see: how he explained his board in s1e1, how he argues with Lance at the beginning of s1e3 etc.) He has been known to accept critique pretty well - he actively tries to work on his temper (“patience yields focus”) and accepted that Lance’s plan was better than his in s1e7. In turn, however, he expects people to treat him the same way. If there isn’t any evidence to contradict it, he takes things people tell him at face value and accepts them as facts. It is one of the reasons him and Lance clash often, Keith can be found constantly correcting Lance’s statements and Lance doesn’t appreciate that. 

This is coupled with his rational personality. I have no doubt that part of that comes from having been forced to grow up without a family and people to comfort him when he was feeling lost, he has had to deal with reality screwing him over quite a lot of times already. He is extremely cautious and protective of his friends when a possible threat appears (see: how he placed himself in front of the team when Klaizap appeared in s1e2), probably exactly because he knows that when they are gone, they are gone. That happened to his dad, that happened to Shiro. 

And now he thinks the same thing has happened to Allura.

It is not that he doesn’t want to help her - because he does. He really does, he even said so himself. (And he wasn’t lying. We all know that Keith is an absolutely horrible liar.) In his mind, there were four facts battling with one another: 1) I want to save my friend; 2) “the ship that is headed to Zarkon’s central command?” “the place that’s way too dangerous for us to attack?” (a direct quote from an exchange between Hunk and Keith from s1e10. Keith had accepted that information a fact); 3) we are fighting against an enemy we know next to nothing about; and 4) I am responsible for the entire universe and I can only protect it with Voltron, for which Allura technically isn’t essential. 

So he stands there and goes through all the facts. And he comes to the - absolutely logical - conclusion that it is too dangerous to go to Zarkon’s headquarters. He could lose even more friends. He could lose the universe’s only hope. So he does what he always does: suppress his emotions for the greater good. He did that there, he did it when he decided to give up the blade in s2e8.

But then the others turn against him. We can’t see his face when they begin to vehemently protest against his statement-

-but I have no doubt that it would be serious and reflective. The backlash would have made him reconsider the conclusion he had come to. Because that’s what he does when he faces critique: take a step back and reevaluate. Obviously, fact 2) wasn’t quite right. [Also note how open his body language is, he is more than willing to discuss this.] 

And once the execution of their plan starts, which means an actual chance for getting his friend back, he is right at the front of the group again. 

Keith isn’t cold-hearted. Not at all. Does this look like the face of a cold-hearted person to you?

Because that is the face he made when he came to the conclusion that it would be too dangerous to save Allura. He is not happy about it. He genuinely believed that she was already lost and they were about to condemn the universe for a suicide rescue mission. If there is anything he can do to save his friends, he will do it. Like, seriously - he had never seen Zarkon before that episode. For all he knew, Zarkon could be 5ft tall, wield magic and be immortal. But as soon as he saw a normal-sized Galra in armor, Zarkon suddenly became less of an abstract concept and more of something that he has an actual fighting chance against. Look at how his attitude towards him changed in season 2, at the end of it he volunteered to infiltrate Zarkon’s base on his own!  

(Also. He was the one that asked Allura if she was sure that she wanted to come with them: “I’m sorry, princess, did you say ‘we’?!” in s1e10. He was worried for her. There is no way he didn’t want her back.)

Keith constantly watches out for the greater good. It’s what he told Pidge when she wanted to leave to go look for her family - “everyone in the universe has families!” - and what he did when he gave up finding out about his past in the Trials of Marmora. He pushes his own emotions down because he genuinely believes one person’s life and/or comfort isn’t worth putting the entire universe at risk. And that does not equal being cold-hearted.

tl;dr: Keith has had perfectly valid reasons why he hesitated to go on the rescue mission. He wanted her back just as much as everyone else. He is not a cold-hearted asshole.

littlecassywantsbokuto  asked:

Uhm, hay! I really love your headcanons, they are so cute! I'm really happy I found your blog! Can I ask for some Bokuto or Tendou Headcanons? (I'm sorry, I can't decide! >-<)

I’m glad you like my head canons, and I’m so glad that you found my blog because you’re so sweet! I can’t stop smiling!

And, once again, how about both?

Bokuto Koutarou

  • bokuto is 100% always in a in-a-relationship persona and he will announce it to everyone he meets and the volleyball club you have been warned
  • eskimo kisses and smacking-lip kisses
  • showers you in compliments and showers you in kisses
  • you buy him flowers and he is like so starstruck because how did he get a person like you
  • generally, he is ready to show off, but even more so when he knows you are watching; akaashi better set the ball to him so he can impress you at the volleyball game
  • being able to pull him out of his mood swings by telling him how great he is and telling him that he shouldn’t let small things get him down because he has so many good things to look towards
  • you and akaashi become surrogate parents of fukurodani volleyball club
  • after you start living together he doesn’t mind you seeing his flat hair, and you laugh about it for twenty minutes the first time you see, and bokuto sulks before you kiss him and tell him its cute; because you really think it is
  • stay-at-home dates and watching horror movies
  • he’d give you the world if it’d make you happy and honestly you’d do the same for him
  • a+ listener would recommend 
  • he says ‘i love you’ all the time and you say it back always and sometimes he just says it randomly and it makes your heart swell in happiness
  • interlocked fingers and flushed cheeks

Tendou Satori

  • this chicken strip shows affection through teasing, so you have a lot to put up with, but you love him for it
  • ‘cute’ nicknames like ‘chicken strip’ and ‘tuna roll’
  • head canon that tendou has this habit of scrunching up his face and you take advantage of it by kissing him gently on the lips
  • having very in depth conversations about which actresses you both like the best, and while he argues that the actress who played the girl in The Ring is cute, you like the girl who played Noriko in Battle Royale
  • movie dates 
  • the couple that speaks throughout the movie and somewhat annoys the other movie goers
  • finger kisses and nose kisses
  • constantly holding hands because Tendou insists that his hands are cold and then he insists that his lips are cold and it all goes downhill from there
  • you are amazed by how he keeps his hair spiked up (is it natural? is it gelled?) and then you learn that he’s naturally got a cowlick and his spikes his hair to avoid the trouble
  • you laughed at it for a good twenty five minutes straight
  • people are amazed at you both being a couple because you insult each other a good 55.5% of the time, but then they see you have a moment and it all makes sense
  • also a+ listener would recommend 
  • hugs from behind and playing with each others hair

These boys give me many, many feelings. They are my sons I love them.

[reminder that the inbox is open for everything!]

- Admin Emi

jamiez-sw  asked:

I'm sorry for bothering you with this but I'm so mad right now argh, I just can't read any comments anymore under Naruto related posts. Not on facebook, narutoforums, youtube. So many SS haters, so-so many with idiotic reasons and the most painful is NH being praised to the high heavens. I don't understand, I'm starting to hate it and Hinata because of its fans. I don't want to, how can you handle them so good? Also, are you sure SS is still the most popular in the westerns after all this?

You’re not bothering me at all ^^ but i understand, this is why i deleted my last blog tbh, tired of all the hate and drama and people that lack all common sense, the only site i am on is Tumblr which granted you see enough stupidity on this site, but i don’t go near youtube comments or forums, i would recommend staying fully clear of them, because there will always be illogical hating on them just because they don’t want to understand SS because they either hate Sasuke and Sakura’s characters or they hate Sakura and love Sasuke so therefore they don’t want their favourite character to be with a “useless bitch” like Sakura, or they hate Sasuke and love Sakura and don’t want their favourite character with a “asshole who doesn’t deserve anything but death” or my favourite, people that love Sasuke yet hate on Sakura for loving Sasuke lol etc. and the list goes on, i honestly have yet to see a logical anti SS argument in all my time loving SS.
NH is praised because it’s easy you see, Naruto is a much loved character as is Hinata, and they’re simple, their story has no complications or nothing to get past (they had their own personal struggles to get past of course but nothing as a pairing) while SS had a long hard journey and went through a lot and is more darker so that means people will misunderstand it more and that it’s not for everyone and though SS is more popular, they are also more hated so SS get’s a lot more shit from people because the characters are so hated and so popular at the same time, like take Sasuke for example, he is one of the most popular characters in the series but he is also really hated, mostly because people don’t understand him, or don’t want to, it’s strange but the most hated is always the most popular, i mean just look at celebrities, the ones who get the most hate are the ones who are all over the headlines. 
Honestly NH and Hinata fans have really started to annoy me recently too, not all of course, but many, they have made it hard to enjoy NH and Hinata online which i think is pretty sad, i think it’s because of this movie tbh it made many of their ego’s go through the roof and some have turned on SS because of us not agreeing with the movie being canon so there is friction from this and i think some are jealous that SS got the resolution in the manga and some NH are annoyed that we say this etc. so all these things are coming into play.
Yes, SS is still the most popular on Google searches worldwide and polls and Youtube and in Japan too, I’d say NH is the second most popular with SN third and then NS. Popularity means nothing of course but honestly after all we been through, all the things SS has been through and how long they have been around, i take pride in them being still the most popular, i mean it’s pretty impressive, that even all the hate can’t stop SS. 
But what i say is honestly just ignore them, ignore all the haters, that was one of my conditions for coming back here, i want to just ignore as much of the hate as i can, i know some will really annoy me that i will just have to reblog but for the most part i just want to ignore it all, i know the truth, I know SS is amazing, i know SS was important enough to be included in the final arc, i know SS was important enough to get canonized on panel (people really hate when i say this and i freaking love it lol) so let’s ignore all the shit really, i’m through with it tbh, these people who deny and hate on SS are never going to change, they will forever let their biased opinions cloud their judgment but that’s okay, all that matters is that we and most importantly, Kishimoto understands SS and feels SS is important and meaningful.
Boy i really ranted here, i am sorry lol.

anonymous asked:

If you stopped talking to your friends because of a fandom change You are actually the worse friend ever. Do you literally have no life outside SJ that you put them before your friends??? God, I can't believe people like you. I'm not even a Exo fan but seeing your pathetic arguments all over my dash is annoying the hell out of me. Everyone should be able to like who they like without judgmental people like you making them afraid of their actions. SJ needs ELF not overbearing fans.

Before you start bullshitting in my blog, let me just tell you something.

There’s a fucking reason why I burnt bridges with my ex-friends.

When MAMA/History came out, my friends kept asking me to translate exo m’s interviews, mv lyrics etc etc (bcos im a chinese) and im like okay fine, then after that she kept fangirling with me about exo, how handsome how smart how good looking they are bla bla bla and im just like *awkward*? Because I’m really not interested in them and I don’t fucking waste my time talking on something that I don’t like? And its not just one person, so many of my ex-friends just starts “SHOVING” exo stuff into my faces through our conver and I’m just like wtf?! I tried talking about SJ to them but all they say was “I don’t pay attention to SJ news anymore

So what do you want me to fucking do? It’s getting on my fucking nerves and I can’t do or say anything? Even if we remains as friends, I can’t even find a fucking topic to talk to suddenly everything just become so awkward oh my god and especially when ELF and Exotics are quarelling, my ex-friends tend to side exo more than SJ, so what…? What am I supposed to do? I’m a person who protects and defend SJ so much so am I going to fight with my friends all the time? whats the point of having that friendship then?

I feel so fucking tired to be dealing with some exotics all the time I really am. So fucking annoying and especially airheads like you who doesn’t even 100% understand the fuck I’m saying in my rant and expect me to explain it all over again just makes my blood fucking boil.

So sorry to disappoint you but really, tumblr and SJ is my life, my family and friends are all here. Because of ELF I met really great friends, idk if you are in this fandom or not but the love between ELF & SJ is not something that outsiders can understand that easily.

Judgemental? really? 

DIDN’T I FUCKING SAID THAT BEING A PURE ELF DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU CAN’T LIKE MORE THAN 1 BAND?

HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT ME TO FUCKING EMPHASISE THAT THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH PEOPLE LIKING MORE THAN 1 BAND? AND THE MAIN REASON WHY I POSTED THAT RANT DOESN’T REVOLVE AROUND THIS “PURE ELF SHOULDNT LIKE ANY OTHER GROUP OTHER THAN SJ” FUCKING ISSUE?

DO YOU EVEN FUCKING READ AND UNDERSTAND MY RANT PROPERLY? I CAN’T FUCKING UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE ARE STILL SAYING THAT IM BEING AN ASSHOLE BY STATING “PURE ELF CAN’T LIKE OTHERS” LIKE SINCE WHEN DO I FUCKING SAID THAT?

I didn’t FORCE people to choose sides (or to even agree with my rant), people could have just ignore my rant and move on(there’s gazillion of people ranting in their blogs everyday), so why is that people didn’t ignore it but rather more ELF are reblogging/agreeing and speaking up and saying how they really felt throughout this year? If I didn’t even make any fucking sense I highly doubt that people would even want to reblog/like or even read my rant in the first place.

My pathetic arguments is annoying you in ur dash? (so now you know how some of the ELF feels when people are fucking spamming EXO on their dash cause thats how I fucking felt tbh) Then what do you want me to fucking do about it? Don’t fucking expect me to keep mum for the next fucking 5 years because I’ve had enough of everything especially after when I read my friend’s fanacc in SS5 London. 

I didn’t fucking ask for your opinion or you to agree with me, since people are always saying that “you can say whatever you want since it’s your blog” so I’m doing that now you got a fucking problem?

And this is my life, I choose who I want to be friends and nice with. You don’t have the fucking right to decide am I a good friend or not. You’re just a puny anon who is a fucking coward and doesn’t even want to show your own url and yet you dare to come and fucking accuse and criticise me. 

Note : I’m turning off anons from now on, if you want to fucking talk, don’t be a fucking coward and show your url and speak like a fucking man.