the worst kind of cultural differences are polite kissing differences…. they make everything awkward…
when you kiss with one cheek but they’re european so they go for the double kiss and you leave them hanging awkwardly… when they’re from somewhere that does three kisses and it’S FUCKING WEIRD WHY THREE, when they’re from somewhere in i think northern south america? where they actually put their lips on your cheek and you’re left feeling gross like why did u do that that’s wet and disgusting… when they’re from somewhere where they don’t kiss at all and you go for it and they kinda jump back and it’s awkward af….the worst…
if I’d rather make plans with my boyfriend rather than with my friends, it’s not because I prioritize my relationship over my friendships in every situation, it’s because mY FRIENDS KEEP CANCELLING AT THE LAST MINUTE and my boyfriend has never cancelled anything with less than a month in advance in the 7 years we’ve been together. And I like that about him.
Easiest person to talk to: BFF’s, some online friends, and my sister and mom <3
Favorite song of all time: Don’t make me choose :) please. At the moment, Kenshi Yonezu…
Grossest memory: My birth haha (Kidding lol I don’t have a gross memory)
Horror yes or no: NO SCREW THAT
In love: Yes. Marius is my love. xD. And every ichiban, and every ikemen that I love. In my head it’s a reverse harem.
Jealous of people: Hmm, not really? I guess FOMO doesn’t really count as jealousy, since it only happens when things go on and I can’t be there… (Like right now.)
KeSha: This is random? I’m not a fan but I enjoy some of her recent music.
Love at first sight or should I walk by again: W A L K B Y. Don’t make the mistake of having love at first sights!! Unless they’re fictional or people you’ll probably never meet in person.
Middle name: Secret
Number of siblings: one
One wish: To travel the world with my best friends
Person you called last: My dad
Questions you are always asked: “How do you eat so much but are still skinny?” “Can you sing for me?” “How can you sing so well?” “Why are you always fangirling?” “DID YOU SLEEP LAST NIGHT?” << Especially that one lol
Reasons to smile: My buddies, my fangirl life, and my family <3
Song you last sang: Dramaturgy by Eve
Time you woke up: Well today at least, 6:45 am
Underwear color: wtf… beige
Vacation Destination: Hard one… Somewhere I haven’t been I guess?
Worst habit: Lazy, so so lazy.
X-rays: One of my chest when I was younger, don’t remember why. One of my wrist when I injured it.
favorite food: FUN FACT: My family eats almost everything! And that includes me but I’m also picky AF. So I’ll include everything here ;)
I'm living on my own for the first time and I'm finding it really difficult to not feel super lonely
Don’t fret, friend! I felt the same way at first but I grew to love it so much. Are you able/allowed to get a pet(s)? Having Oscar and Isaac there has really helped. I recommend making the place your own, too – decorate! Pillows, rugs, throws, fairy lights, wall art, candles – you can find some real gems for super cheap at thrift stores! Sounds silly but if you hate the quiet, put the TV on. There’s something kinda comforting about having it on the background. Call your friends or family and put them on speakerphone as you cook. Also, living on your own is a big achievement – you should be really proud of yourself!
do you have any tips with trying to use they/them pronouns for someone? My friend has recently told me that they prefer those pronouns compared to she/her as they make them feel dysphoric so I am trying to correct myself but I'm finding it a little difficult.
Talk about your friend in the third person to yourself, like when you’re showering or just alone in your room. (”[Name] is such a good friend. I really enjoyed the time we went to the mall together and they tried on that shirt, because it made them look really good.” etc) It gets easier with practice!