i wouldn't have chosen me

Honestly…It makes me really uncomfortable when people draw Leia’s Episode 4 Dress as being really tight with a big slit up the leg, because that’s not how it was at all??

It doesn’t even cling to her breasts or anything?? There’s like…a Small knee length slit, I guess, if you look hard enough. But this, and most other outfits of Leia’s, strike me as incredibly modest and professional. In fact, Lets take a look at that for a second. 

Look at what she chooses to wear on Cloud City in Episode 5.

Like…It’s a dress with pants? And I think this was probably an outfit she either A.) Packed for the trip on the falcon or B.) Was provided to her by Lando, And I find it hard to believe that Lando would force an outfit on her, considering he was very nice to her in previous scenes. She would have chosen it out of several different options.

I won’t add pictures, but her White Hoth outfit also consists of a jacket and pants. It’s sensible. They’re in the freezing cold. Why would she wear something sexy. She Wouldn’t.

There are honestly only two instances over the course of three movies where she /kind/ of shows skin. Instance 1 is at the end of Episode 1 where she…Kind of, I guess, Has some cleavage showing?

Like Barely. Keep in mind as well that this dress is floor length and has long sleeves. The second instance is at the end of Episode 6 on Endor

This slit is definitely more revealing, but to be honest, I can’t remember a single time in Episode 6 where it was apparent? They Honestly may have just done this for promotional material? Other pictures of the dress come off as much more modest

I’ve worn dresses shorter than this, so, I wouldn’t exactly consider this revealing by any means.

So when does Leia put on something a little sexier? There’s gotta be one instance right?

Yeah, Against her fucking will.

What I’m getting at here is that I hate the weird sexualization of Leia in Nerd Culture. It’s literally so rampant. It’s not surprising to me whatsoever, but it still makes me mad.

Leia Organa, a 19 year old Freedom Fighter personally fucking chose to dress modestly and people still depict her as this oversexualized Male Gaze Fantasy Being and it’s really disappointing tbfh.

Really tired of the idea that if a monogamous and a nonmonogamous person get together, the nonmonogamous person should automatically compromise and be monogamous. 

Destroy the idea that monogamy is the default.

Have conversations about what relationship is best for you and your partner(s) all the time. Keeping having that conversation. 

Stop privileging monogamy.

I don’t know! I’m gonna have to text Mr. Sheeran and ask him, he seems to know what to do. He knows the formula. I don’t know! It’s just, um… I just tend to go all- like, when I’m writing songs, I tend to just go all feel and what people around the room or people I play it to feel. Like, if it was me, I wouldn’t have picked ‘Slow Hands’ as my single and then I just kept playing it to people, around, you know, friends and family, and they were just like, 'Oh, no. This is the one.’ And, yeah, I don’t know. Just whatever- I heard Camila Cabello talking about this the other day, and she was just like, she was in kind of in the same rut. And she started playing it to her manager and her mom and stuff like that, and then she just felt like it was the right thing to do. So I don’t know. There’s no real formula, but, um. Actually, there probably is, but I don’t know the answer to that.
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