i wish i was kidding but this is actually true

anonymous asked:

Give me a reason why Owen loves Amelia more than Cristina than .. you can love other people I get it but you can have only one true love in life. Owens true love is Cristina 😉



I am kidding. It is actually because Owen said he wished Cristina had died on that plane crash.

Oh wait.


For real now, if you want to believe Cristina is better for Owen, that he loved her more and all of that, feel free to do so. You have every right to feel that way, I am not here to change anyone’s mind about their ships or win any discussions. But if you’re asking me why I think Omelia are much more functional than Crowen ever was, that I can tell you.

First off, I disagree that a person can only have one true love. I don’t think you can romantically love two people concomitantly but I don’t buy this fairy tale belief that there is only one person for everyone. In a world with 7 billion human
beings, finding your only true half would be pretty hard to tackle.

I think that Owen really did love Cristina. But he doesn’t anymore. And he hasn’t for a long time. He loves Amelia now (so by logic, he loves Amelia more than he loves Cristina 🌝). But who says that only love is enough to build a functional live as a couple? That only love is enough to make a marriage work? Crowen’s relationship is there to prove only love isn’t enough. You gotta be on the same page, you need to want the same things. Love isn’t enough when there is no respect, no admiration, no partnership. When there is a constant fight for control and an underlying resentment that the other person doesn’t think or feel what you wished they did.

In two years with Amelia, Owen was able to share more of himself than he’s ever done with Cristina in more than half a decade. With Amelia, Owen doesn’t need to lie about who he is, he doesn’t need to pretend or try to be something he is not, there’s no one asking him to change himself, telling him that what he is isn’t enough.

Amelia loves Owen exactly for whom he is and they prioritize the same things in life. Owen knows that he can selflessly give all of himself because he will be appreciated by it and will get the same in return.

Amelia would never offer him in return for medical education; she would never prefer an award over him. Cristina does have one true love, and that’s her career. No other relationship will ever be more important, and that’s fine but her biggest mistake was to demand that Owen accepted that reality while demanding to be the number one priority in his life in return.

Owen doesn’t need to ask Amelia to change. To be a better person, to have empathy, to give affection. He already loves who she is, not the illusion of what she could become.

And combining that with love is the real recipe for success.

*drops 🎤 *



“To be honest, at first, I was mentally kicking myself, I could not believe I left so early. I really thought I was going to handle it worse mentally, but to be honest, it didn’t worry me at all. I asked God to have me traveling and performing for the children, and he granted my wish. I was out in the universe and not worried about it at all. I was actually in Los Angeles doing shows when my elimination episode aired. Honestly, I am taking it as it goes. From what I am hearing, my departure is the biggest upset next to Latrice Royale going home. Many people don’t think I should have gone home so early, but I was lucky and left in a costume of my own style, a true Club Kid!”

When I was a kid, I didn’t have the leeway to smile. I idolized the Italians who showed up in movies and books. I dreamed about smiling cheerfully, like them. And now–that dream’s come true. I wish this great time would last forever. It’s a dumb wish. Still, I feel really lucky just to be able to make it.
—  Firo Prochainezo

I am suicidal
That much, I know, is true
I feel like my world is breaking
And I don’t have any glue

I used to be so hopeful
Loving everyday
Now I wish everyone
Would dissapear and go away

I came close to killing
Hurting myself I did
But something changed in my life
A simple miracle I do not kid

I used to be suicidal
All my tears could fill the sea
But then someone finally said
That they actually loved me

—  Lockedheartbreak

For me, the biggest problem about TJLC is the fact that I put so much trust into this show for Johnlock actually becoming canon. If I had told myself half a year ago I would ship anything so badly, I would have stopped myself from watching Sherlock. I really never wished for something to come true as much as I do with Johnlock.

On some days I’m really happy and on other days my brain goes like: What if it doesn’t happen … What if Moftiss aren’t going to be brave enough … What if the casual viewers were right and we are all just batshit crazy.

But then, I hear Mycroft’s voice whispering: “They are right. We are wrong. This is a war we must lose.”

virginalilamia  asked:

❝I once believed long ago that I could wish upon a star and my dreams will come true. Now I know such things are false.❞

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❝I once believed long ago that I could wish upon a star and my dreams will come true. Now I know such things are false.❞

Yu can’t help but curl his palm against his lips at Mika, trying to block a slight laugh from escaping out of his lips. It wasn’t inappropriate due to their conversation being on the calm side, but the fact that Mika had managed to escalate his words to such a degree was admittedly humorous.

“You were really superstitious back when we were kids, Mika. You believed in all kinds of stuff…it was kind of funny, actually.”