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samwiseofficial  asked:

Hey Alan! I just saw a post about different types of allistics on my dash... one of them was "The 'Ally'™". I'm allistic and I want to know how I can be a good ally, so I thought I'd ask about certain things mentioned in the post so i can avoid doing them! What are person first language and functioning labels and what can I do as an allistic to be an actual ally (not an “Ally"™)? Thanks so much!

okay, first of all, I’m going to assume that you meant [this post]. If not, sorry. Second, I’m not going to get this perfect. I’m viewing this as a bit of a first draft, which (note to self) I will edit at some point.

definitions: person-first language is “person with autism” as opposed to “autistic person”. Please use “autistic person”. I dealt with functioning labels later in this disorganized hell-post. 

So here’s my stab at allistic ally 101

1) You follow the same rules as if you were an ally for any other group: [Here’s a pretty good ally 101 article], but it’s not the end-all-be-all. Keep listening to autistic voices, and if we contradict the rules hold our voices higher. 

Also, above all, rule #1 of allyship is don’t be a shithead–come to conversations with the intention to listen and learn first and treat us like human beings (this is particularly critical with disability rights)

2) Our voices are the important ones: this is important with being an ally to any group, but autistic people often struggle to communicate or express ourselves. Be patient. Ask people how they’d like to communicate and be prepared to be a bit flexible.

Some autistic people use AAC (Alternative or Assistive Communication), and their voices matter just as much as verbal people’s. You don’t have to learn ASL or anything, but don’t assume that because someone’s not communicating verbally they’re less intelligent or competent. And, even if someone can’t communicate using language (or communicate at all) don’t assume that they don’t have thoughts, feelings, and needs.

3) Nothing about us without us: knowing an autistic person doesn’t make you an expert on autism. BEING an autistic person makes you an expert on autism. If you see anything claiming to help autistic people that doesn’t prominently feature Actual Autistic People, don’t support it (unless Actual Autistic People are telling you to support it, see #2)

This goes double for any charitable organization focused on autism which leads me into point number 4 (also from here on out things are a bit smaller-scope, that doesn’t make them less important):

4) Autism Speaks is trash: [and] [here] [are] [some] [sources

If you want to support charities try ASAN and The Autism Women’s Network

5) Please don’t try to “cure” us: I’m dealing with some internalized ableism with this one, so let me turn you over to  Anya Ustaszewski who in [this article] writes:

My autism is part of who I am. It is not something “extra” that can be taken away from me to suit the agenda of an intolerant society. My abilities, challenges and perception of the world all go hand in hand. If I were to be “cured” of my autism, the person that I am would cease to exist.

so yeah cure = bad, acceptance and accommodation = good

6) Celebrate the things that make autistics unique: lately, tumblr has gotten a lot more stim-positive, but stimming isn’t solely a pretty, paint-mixing or slime video (in fact, stimboards are rarely tagged and can overstimulate the SHIT out of me). 

A lot of time, stimming is viewed as ugly, distracting, loud, disgusting, or socially unacceptable. Support your local autistics, don’t expect people to stop stimming and try not to stare or comment (many autistic people have to work very hard to reclaim stimming after childhoods of expecting to suppress it entirely).

Also, try your best to support different cognitive styles and processing issues. Try to keep your websites accessible, provide image transcripts, try not to make posts that are entirely text in images (like screenshots of twitter posts), and help to subtitle videos if you can. <- these things also help d/Deaf people and anyone who accesses the internet via a screenreader

7) steer clear of stereotypes: I’m not rain man or that dude on the big bang theory or your cousin’s dentist’s sister’s younger brother’s son. The ‘idiot savant’ stereotype is almost never true and puts unreasonable expectations on autistic people. Also, not all of us are good at math or science, have incredible memories, etc. Fitting or not fitting stereotypes don’t change the fact that every autistic person is human and deserves rights and respect.

8) functioning labels are fake: never listen to anyone who describes autism as “high” or “low functioning”. Every autistic person has struggles, and putting labels on functioning basically sorts people into “can be ignored” and “subhuman”. [here’s about a million posts about why they suck because if I put it all here this post would be five times as long]

9) ABA is trash: this is trigger territory for a huge number of autistic people, so [here] and I’m not going to say anything else just take my word on this one

10) If it has puzzle pieces on it, run: if you’re looking to see if a group is okay, look for the rainbow infinity sign. The puzzle piece is a huge red flag. Please don’t support anything with puzzle pieces on it. Please. I’m begging you.


Okay that was WAAY longer than I meant it to get, sorry. Also, I’ve missed a bunch of things, but I’ve been working on this for an hour and I don’t have the energy to add more. I’ll throw this in #actuallyautistic and hopefully someone else can add anything important I missed.

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“You pray,” the man said, and barked a laugh. He glanced at Cassian. “He’s praying for the door to open.”

“Pray I get a chance to work,” Cassian murmured, but both men seemed to ignore him. 

Chirrut stopped his chant abruptly. “It bothers him,” he said, “because he knows it is possible.”

Chirrut’s partner laughed again. The sound was brief and ugly, but Chirrut only shrugged and told Cassian, “Baze Malbus was once the most devoted Guardian of us all.”

Baze Malbus. Cassian ran the name through his mental database and came up empty. “Now he’s just your guardian?” he asked.

Neither man took the bait. 

From the Rogue One: A Star Wars Story novelization by Alexander Freed

Pain Split || Peter Parker x Reader [[soulmate au]]

{soulmate au where you and your soulmate share each other’s pain…however there is one extra catch: evidence of their injuries may show up on your body as well… (this mainly applies to bruises, open wounds and broken bones are never shown, but they can still be felt by your soulmate)}

Here’s the promised soulmate au for Peter ;w;

peter parker is my waifu and i will never stop writing for him ;w; he’s such a gr8 boyfriend material that i swear i’m falling more in love with him every time i see him.

i’m so hyped for homecoming man, sooooo hyped [♥]

permanent tags: @psychicwitchphilosopher , @pharaohkiller

**please don’t plagiarize/repost this story. reblogs are fine.**

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A shot of red hot pain felt blooming across your abdomen forces you to wake up in the middle of the night. You let out an involuntary groan, lifting up your oversized shirt to see what was wrong.

Upon seeing the ugly purple and blue bruise spread out across the wide expanse of your skin, you whimper and gently touch at the surface. When you applied a bit of pressure to the unknown bruise, you felt yourself jolt in response, making you nearly cry out at experiencing the intense pain.

Just who the hell was your soulmate and what were they doing each night?

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In These Arms

A/N: This is my entry for the 4k Celebration Challenge being hosted by Ashley over at @d-s-winchester.  I was given one of my all time favourite Bon Jovi songs “In These Arms”.  I’m also combining this with my entry for Week 7 of the SPN Hiatus Writing Challenge 2017 being hosted by @thing-you-do-with-that-thing.  The prompt given is in bold.

Word Count: 765

Pairing: Dean Winchester x Reader

Warnings: None, just fluffiness.
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Pulling your car back into its designated spot in the garage and turning off the engine, you slouched down in the seat and let your head lean against the soft worn leather. What started as a visit to an old friend out of state quickly turned into hunt after hunt after hunt and now, five weeks later, you were finally home. While none of them had been particularly difficult - a couple of witches, a lone vampire, a handful of hauntings - each one of them had kept you away from the bunker, and from Dean, for longer than you had ever been away before and it had taken more of an emotional toll on you than you would ever care to admit to anyone.

Slowly dragging yourself out of the car, you hauled your bag out of the trunk and headed straight for the laundry room, determined to at least get one load of washing started before exhaustion took over.

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It hasn’t taken long to get your clothes sorted but before you had the chance to head towards the shower, the gentle noise of music playing in the kitchen caught your ear. Following the sound, you rounded the corner to be greeted by the sight of Dean chopping vegetables and tossing them into a frying pan. 

Keeping quiet, you took the opportunity to watch him; it was rare that you got to spend any time doing those everyday tasks that people so often took for granted, so seeing Dean relaxing in such a way made all of the stresses of the previous weeks slip away. 

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anonymous asked:

can we get more frat boy Shiro headcanons pls 😭😭😭 they're so good ughhhhkhghkjg

SINCE YOU ASKED SO NICELY I WANT TO DELIVER!!!!!!!

  • Shiro once tried to do the prank to the sorority with ordering them like 50 pizzas and was so stoned he actually paid for it with his credit card. 
    • Then when he realized he sucked at the prank, he asked them if he could go over for a slice and they thought his attempt at the prank was so sad they let him have some
  • One time while playing darts, he got hit with one in the shoulder and didn’t even realize it until hours later
  • Shiro rocks the tanks + snapback look 
    • At first he was a lil self conscious because of his scars (still has the prosthetic and the scars from some accident he was in) but his frat bros were very supportive
  • Being one of the older members, he takes on the position of frat older bro pretty easily. Will definitely be the one on the grill using his Dad Voice™ during bbq night
  • Ridden a mechanical bull for the longest of the frat and didn’t throw up. The absolute madman. 
  • Is the record party thrower. Once made a single night party a 3-nighter barely trying 
  • Has taped two big ass 40 oz beers to his hands 
    • Matt: Dude, why would you do that to your hands?
      Shiro: Easy access.
      Matt, laughing: What if you need to pee?
      Shiro: I’ll think of it… when I think of it. 
      Matt: My hero.
  • Shiro has definitely climbed onto a bar a la coyote ugly when he gets wasted. Probably also has fallen off said bar, but he likes to think of the fun times.
SAID IS NOT DEAD

“Neil, what is this?” you gurgled. “What does it mean ‘said is not dead’?”

“It means exactly what it says,” I screamed. “I’m saying that those posts about words to use instead of the word ‘said’ are absurd and unnecessary. People need to stop telling writers to stop using the word ‘said’.”

“But Neil!” you hissed. “Isn’t it true that ‘said’ is boring? Don’t you want your writing to be more descriptive?”

“No,” I uttered. “Not at all. Just because the word isn’t exciting doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use it.”

“That’s silly,” you yowled. “Of course it does! Why would you want to write anything that doesn’t include excitement and creativity bursting out of every sentence?”

I sighed and rubbed at my temples, trying to stave off the migraine that was beginning to rear its ugly head. “That’s ridiculous,” I sobbed. “Why on earth would it be a bad thing to cut words just because they’re commonplace? Do you think it would help your writing if you stopped using the word ‘it’? Or ‘and’? Or ‘the’?”

“Well, no…” you rejoiced. “But this is different.”

“It’s really not,” I reported. “In fact, there are two extremely important reasons why you should keep ‘said’ in your writing.”

“Oh? And what are these reasons?” you articulated.

“First, said is more or less invisible,” I moaned. “When the reader is sucked into your writing, they won’t even notice the dialogue tags if you’re using the word ‘said’. This helps prevent those tags from breaking up the flow of the dialogue, and thus the scene.”

“What’s the second reason?” you reassured.

“The second reason is that when you use a fancy and highly descriptive verb for every dialogue tag, it lessens the impact of the description,” I blabbered. “The same way if someone calls every movie they see ‘amazing’, you’re not going to take their word for it when an actual amazing movie comes along and they’re trying to tell you about it.”

“So, let me see if I understand,” you taunted. “If I keep using all those other dialogue tags, then when there comes a point when I need a character to actually mumble, or snap, or blubber, using those dialogue tags carries less impact?”

“Exactly,” I mentioned.

“But, wait,” you expressed. “Does that mean that I’m not supposed to use any dialogue tags besides ‘said’? I feel like that’s limiting my creativity.”

“Not at all,” I implored. “I’m not saying that you can’t use them. I’m saying that you should only use them if that is the actual type of speaking you want to convey. If a character is shouting, feel free to use ‘shouted’. But don’t throw those words around willy-nilly. They’re not decorations. They mean things.”

“All right, I think I’m with you,” you boasted. “So you’re saying I’m only supposed to use ‘said’ if the character is speaking with absolutely no particular emotion or inflection?”

I stared at you for a moment, wondering if perhaps you were trolling me, but the sincere expression on your face told me you were completely serious. “No, that’s not what I’m saying,” I meowed. “You can often use the actual dialogue and the context of the scene to get a sense of the tone of what is being said. Additionally, you can always use ‘said’ along with adverbs.”

“Adverbs?!” you yodeled. “But I thought adverbs were evil!”

“You thought wrong,” I threatened. “If there’s a certain descriptor you want to use for your dialogue tag, and there’s no equivalent word that fits correctly, adverbs are fine and dandy. ‘“It’s not important,” he said dismissively’ will have a very different meaning from ‘“It’s not important,” he said hastily’.”

“Okay, I guess you’re making sense,” you voiced. “So, that means that all those posts I see about words to use instead of ‘said’ are…?”

“They’re total bullcrap,” I alleged.

“Well, thank you Neil,” you squawked. “I think I now have a much better appreciation for dialogue tags and their meaning.”

“You’re welcome,” I ejaculated.

NaruSaku Fandom Breakdown

Hello everyone. Here I am with a bit of interesting ‘news’ I’ve come across.

I manage various NaruSaku things across the web and monitor many others. Due to my monitoring and the statistics I’ve gathered, I think I can conclude a few things.

#1: NaruSaku is not as popular in majority English speaking countries

So far on various fan pages of mine, English speaking countries, such as the US, is not ranked number one. It tends to come in 3rd and 4th. If we take into account that the creators of Naruto wanted to appeal to a ‘western’ audience (AKA, the US), it makes sense that NaruSaku wasn’t chosen. The NaruSaku appeal stretches farther in other countries other than the US, though even still we were a minority among hardcore fans.

#2: Without a doubt, most NaruSaku fans are from majority Spanish speaking countries and Indonesia. 

Indonesians currently dominate the NaruSaku fanbase on sites such as Facebook, Fanfiction.net, and various other websites. ^_^

Most NaruSaku fanfiction posted today is only in Indonesian and Spanish. There are almost more fanfictions about the NaruSaku family (Shinachiku and Hanami) in Indonesian than there are in English.

Spanish speaking countries come in second in terms of fanbase spread. Then the other notable ones are the US, the Philippines, Brazil, and Peru.

#3: While the pairing wars have settled down here on Tumblr, they still rage on in many other places such as Facebook.

Compared to other sites, NaruSaku fans here on Tumblr have it much easier than other websites. On sites such as Instagram, crosstagging is the norm there. It doesn’t matter if the pairing you tagged is not related to your post, you tag every single thing on instagram.

Cherish your time spent here with a relatively clean tag. You won’t find it anywhere else except maybe Deviantart.

#4: The reason why our plea to stop art theft and respect artists doesn’t reach very far is because our posts are all in English, art theft posts are probably glanced over or missed completely.

On facebook, art theft is rampant. It’s very sad not only because they are taking art without credit, but they often post lower quality ugly version of beautiful NaruSaku artwork


And that’s all I have for you today. What things you have noticed about our NaruSaku fandom?

Linstead: The Playlist - When someone stops loving you.

Okay, so this originally wasn’t next. However conversations with @halsteadpd have been full of realisations and this was one of them. You’ve rocked this week in listening to me rant and rave and discussing all kinds of theories with me! So this one is for you. 

There should be another one of these up on Monday and hopefully another Lullaby chapter, too!

Anyway, this is When Someone Stops Loving You  by Little Big Town and really, for posterity, you should listen to it while reading this. It just adds to the whole ugly crying experience. This piece is angsty as all get out and really should have trigger warnings probably, I just don’t know what to tag. 


Still gotta button up your collared shirt
The one she used to button down
Sleep on the mattress where her body left a curve
Or maybe just the couch

The only time Jay was usually in either a suit, his military green or his Police blues these days were court appearances or funerals. Which is why when the chance to go undercover as a uniform had come up, Jay had jumped at the chance. Give himself a different set of memories in the uniform.

The case had closed now, and Jay hadn’t bothered to change back into his regular clothes, he’d finished his paperwork and headed straight home, making one stop on the way.  It had been months. Months of nothing but silence. He’d fallen into his routine and it was unshakable, he’d been numb. He’d been numb until he’d heard Al talking to Voight about how she was doing in New York and suddenly he’d felt sick. He’d broken out in a cold sweat and he’d had to go make himself coffee in the breakroom to calm himself back down. The raw grief gripping him hard. It had felt like someone had torn his heart from his chest and all of a sudden he was empty again. Hollow. But the agony had stayed, taken up residence in his chest, and it beat like his heart did. Every step, every breath hurt and he had no idea how it was going to work.

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Jesus Lord though REALLY??

I am so sorry to new followers, I typically avoid major wankages in the Sherlock dumpster fire fandom but some things are too ugly to ignore.  Yes it may seem silly, but it isn’t silly to me.  Not at all.

I’m a survivor myself, of childhood trauma, but trauma nonetheless.  Seeing those posters make light of true victimhood is not ok.  You don’t get to make images that misrepresent the characters of a tv show to manipulate people into thinking they embody TRUE abuse.  What makes it truly horrible though, is that the person put real, actual abuse hotline numbers and women’s organization phone numbers on these images.  Damn.  ૮(ꂧꁞꂧ)ა

I’m fine with Johnlockers chaffing til the cows come home about their ship not becoming canon, but the continued outright LIES have to cease.  Write your fanfic.  Drawn your fanart.  Fix the show in those ways, that’s fine.  We all do it.  But you guys have to stop poisoning the rest of the fans who enjoyed this thing with outright falsehoods.  Move on, find a new thing that gives you what you want, fix the thing in your head…but stop ravaging the rest of us with your bitter cucumbers of buttock fruit.

#3 Shutting him out *Requested*

AN: I got this request and I think my inbox didn’t like it so I think it was requested again however it was asking if I got the request about shutting him out. Now. I don’t know if it was for 5sos or 1D or if it was about shutting him out of your head or literal shutting out of a house. So I've decided to do it as 5sos and a mix of both your head and out of the house. Just to cover the ground to get at least one will be like what was requested. If the requester wanted me to do it as One Direction please send me another message and I shall do one for them too.  This contains swearing at one point.

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Luke: scrolling through your twitter you couldn’t count how much hate you were getting. It would have been simpler to count how many tweets weren’t hate, if you could find them that is. Normally you quite enjoyed the fans. You would even go on tumblr to talk to some on there and go through all the tags and see many blogs defending you but some days there was an explosion of fans who didn’t want you. You were getting all sorts of tweets such as ‘Go cut yourself @Y/t/n’ and ‘I hope you fall sick and die you ugly bitch’ but a certain tweet caught your eye which sent you over the top. ‘I hope you are proud you are holding Luke back. You’re a selfish bitch, leave him now and let him get on with his career’ It felt like your heart stopped. Reminding yourself to breathe you ran to the bathroom and locked the door. You didn’t hold him back did you? No of course not. But then again if he didn’t spend so much time with you then he could spend more time with the boys rehearsing. Don’t be ridiculous! But it’s true! Your thoughts were interrupted by a knock on the bathroom door. “Y/n?” you heard Luke’s soft voice asking through the door. When you didn’t reply he knocked again “Y/N, open up please. Don’t shut me out, we can talk about this!” getting up from sitting on the floor you opened the door while looking down. “Hey,” Luke said lifting your chin up so you looked at him in the eye. “What’s wrong?” he asked. You couldn’t bring yourself to say anything. You open your mouth to speak but more sobs escape. Luke took you into a hug pulling you close. “Whatever it is we can work through it together,” “But that’s the thing,” you coked out. “Together, your fans don’t want us together” “It’s not up to them. It’s up to us. If they don’t like it then they will have to live with it ok?” you nodded, “If you are ever upset please talk to me about it. Don’t lock yourself in the bathroom, I hate it when you cry and I can’t get to you,” “I promise I won’t do it again”

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Calum:  You had a troubled past. Things happened in your life you didn’t want to talk about. You had your walls built around you. The only person who could ever come close to seeing what was behind them was Calum. But you knew he would never reach there. You made it your mission to make sure no one ever reached past your walls of safety because if anyone ever did they would own you, if they did then your walls would have to get higher if they ever left causing your past to become worse. “Y/n. Tell me what’s wrong” Calum said to you one day while you were sat together watching TV, “I don’t understand, nothing is wrong.” You replied confused. “I don’t mean right now Y/N, what’s wrong all together. What’s happened in your past to make you act in some ways that you do? You flinch when someone lifts their arm, you have night mares all the time and when we talk I feel like at some points I lose you and you aren’t listening.” “Calum I don’t want to talk about it” you said standing up and leaving the room. Sighing Calum followed and said, “We don’t have to, but please know that I will always be here if you need to ever talk. And I promise I won’t leave afterwards if you do ever decide to talk to me” “I can’t tell you right now. However in the future when the time is right if I feel like I can tell you I will and that’s a promise” Calum walked forward and kissed your forehead. “I look forward to it” he said smiling at you.

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Michael: “Get out!” you shouted at Michael; “Get out!” you repeated. He finally got the message and left. You ran to the front door, not to tell him to come back but lock the door behind him. You two had gotten into a fight, a pretty big fight, things had been thrown around the room and smashed, voices were raised and both of you were red and out of breath. It took a long time after Michael had left for you to finally calm down however you were still mad at him and you knew if he came back your anger would also. It had been a few hours when you heard a knock at the door. “Y/N it’s me, open the door, I’m sorry for being such a dick, please let me in.” you didn’t move from your seat. “Please Y/N it’s starting to rain! I’m sorry!” you still didn’t budge. Turning the TV up louder you ignored his pleads from outside. You saw his figure retreating from the window in the front door only to hear his voice now at the kitchen door. “Y/N! I know you can hear me, let me in!” turning off all the lights you went upstairs to your room. You could feel your anger for Michael leaving as it amused you that he was trying to back inside the house. While getting changed for bed you could hear a grunting noise coming from the bathroom, confused you decided to go investigate, you opened the door to see Michael half way through the bathroom window laughing you realised you had left it open. “Y/n, help me, I’m stuck” Michael asked while trying to wriggle his way further in. walking over you grabbed both of his arms and pulled. You pulled a little too hard and you and Michael were a heap on the bathroom floor both laughing with tears at the situation. “Although this is funny Y/N, please can we never fight like this again,” you nodded in agreement and you both helped each other off the floor.

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Ashton: Previous relationships never worked in your favour. For example you were once deep in love with this boy to find out you were a bet and your whole relationship had been a lie to see how far you would go. On that day you swore you would never let another person come that close, especially a male. But Ashton had you questioning your decision but you knew one day he would break your heart. When you two got too close you decided to cut all ties with him. He would text, he would call but you would never respond. Confused he went to your house where your mother let him in knowing that you two needed to talk. Sitting in your room you heard a knock and you told whoever it was to enter. You gasped when you saw it was Ashton. “Y/n, what’s happened, why won’t you reply to any of my texts or return any of my calls?” you just shook your head in response, “No? No what? Y/n talk to me!” he said more forceful. Walking closer to you, you shifted to the other side of your bed getting as far away as you could from him. “What have I done wrong?” he said now clearly upset, if you weren’t mistaken you could even say his eyes were beginning to water. “Nothing Ash, at least not yet.” “So you are ignoring me for something I haven’t even done?” you nodded, “That is stupid! How do you even know I will do it then?” “Because all you boys are the same! You treat us like you care, like you want to be the one for us but once we let you in you just throw us to the ground like a piece of dirt!” Ashton’s face softened, “Y/n I would never. Never ever. I care for you too much to ever hurt you like that. I can prove it, just let me in and I can prove that I’m different to them other guys,” Unsure you agreed finally knowing in the future you may regret this decision. He came and sat on the bed with you holding you from the side, “Does this mean we are ‘together’ now?” he asked hopefully, you chuckled slightly, “I guess it does”

AN: was that good? I hope it was, I think it went well. But what did you think? 

Anonymous asked:I just wanted to check and make sure your ok. Your last few posts about Liuis gaslighting fans and targeting Larries makes me so sad. I’ve always seen you as such a supporter of his and if you’re questioning him well that says a lot about the effect of their promo.

srslycris

I’m okay.  

People get very emotional after days like today and I’m no exception. But my “emotional” tends to come across very distant and impersonal, it’s just how I am (unless I’m angry, that’s another ball of wax).

So the few posts I’ve made about this stuff today were just me bluntly saying what I see: The actual words from his mouth were hurtful to a number of his fans. How anyone can dispute that is beyond me.

At the same time I’m asking the questions: Why?  What’s the purpose? What is the end goal of this? Why now after all these years? Why now when he’s depending so heavily on the fans these words hurt the most to promote his music?

And I don’t have good answers. There are a number of theories floating around, but they all contradict each other at some level.

The only workable one, for me, is that they’re setting up the end of babygate. But I have literally been saying that for 2 years. I’m getting tired of hearing myself repeat it.

I usually bounce back from these hits, and I expect to do so again after this one, but the simple fact is that every time I bounce back, I end up landing further and further away from them both.

I believe in Louis (and Harry) and I believe I have a solid idea of who he is as a human being, which is truly stellar. But what I don’t know is how far he’ll go to get something he wants. So this isn’t about Louis and his feelings, this is about how it feels being a fan of his sometimes.

Nothing they do or say will make me change my mind about he and Harry, but things that they do and say can make me change my mind about how long I want to continue taking hits just for being a fan.

1 hour ago Tagged: #Anonymous66 notes


Yes, thank fuck. Now go, go, go. Delete, stop blogging, get away from Louis and the other boys. LEAVE THE FANDOM, ugly Larrie, and take all your toxic followers with you.

anonymous asked:

ffs stop adding the actor, show and episode name at the bottom of your gifs! it makes the gifsets look so ugly, literally no one else does this

There is actually a reason I do what I do. I finally got fed up with reblogs with WHO IS THAT or WHAT SHOW IS THIS despite having put it in the original tags. 

So I just made it part of My Thing that I include that information in the post itself. Credit where credit is due and alla that.

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Hello it’s everyone’s ugly ass friend ruri here,,, what a surprise huh?????

Anyway yes here you go a wanna one bias moodboard and non wanna one bias moodboard (I ONLY POSTED THIS NOW BECAUSE @wanna-one CAME BACK AND IM SO HAPPY)

I was tagged by;; @parkji-hoons​ (ily so much,, ur moodboard was so aesthetic my eyes burned), @sungwhoon (thank u Moira ur a sweetie), @energetic-mv (thank you!!! your moodboard was so pretty like w o w) and @ongsecngwoo​ (u beautiful angel thank u for tagging me)

So like,,, there’s Sungwoon a sunshine™ and me, a fake art hoe. Then there’s Yuehua boys’ Seunghyuk and me, the child with depression 🤷🏻‍♀️

I just noticed that I used mirror selfies in both wtf

I’m tagging;; @parkswoojin, @flyingsquirrelminhyuk, @daniel-trash, @darkpastwoojin, @jeo-jang !!! I’m sorry for tagging u if you’ve already done this,,, feel free to ignore this if you don’t wanna do it !!!

jajalone  asked:

I just wanted to say that youngjae's "puppy arm" is the thing I can relate to the most !!! Hahahaha , like I always do that when I'm standing awkwardly or waiting for someone or when I don't know what to do with my arm generally , I didn't notice before but after I saw your tag I was like " OMG I ALWAYS DO THIS ! IS THIS WHAT I SHOULD CALL IT ? MY PUPPY ARM ?" Hahaha (Btw it's so cute how u notice the smallest things about him , tru love) Love u ❤️

Hi again!

OMG!! You do it too!!!!!! i used to also but i found it an ugly habit of mine so i eventually stopped but now im not forcing myself to not do it because it’s natural even until now haha but i find it so adorable now!!!!!! haha i notice everything about Youngjae :] i have a hashtag for anything and everything, try me xD

And just to make it clear in case no one understands:

The arm!! Puppy arm!!!

hashtag: puppy arm

Love you Najwa!!! <33 be careful and healthy!

anonymous asked:

Imagine when the team gets Matt back. Lance: "Dude how do you get away with so many memes when you're friends with Mr. 'stop-it-with-the-memes-u-guise' Shirogane over there??" Matt: *blinks in surprise, suddenly overtaken by uncontrollable ugly laughter* Shiro: "matt you say anything and i'll uppercut you bACK INTO THE GALRA EMPIRE I S2G"

matt: i’m s-sorry, what was that [giggles] mr. navy seal w-with [laughing] over 300 confirmed kills?

shiro: listen i have access to the entire arsenal of voltron and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent

lance, softly: oh my god

I was tagged By @multikverse to do this challenge. Thanks!

rules: using only song titles of one artist/band cleverly answer the questions and then tag five people

artist/band: FTisland

What is your gender: Hey girl

How do you feel: Ugly

if you could go anywhere: train (under a train)( i sound very suicidal today wow i promise im okay:))

mode of transportation: paper plane

your best friend: they tell me to stop (i do a lot of stupid stuff so that explains this)

favourite time of the day: orange sky (i love sunsets) and the night

if your life was a tv show: save me

relationship status: because i dont know how to love, i wish  (that there would be even some kinda human interaction irl)

Im tagging @biaseveryonenoregrets @justsomekpopstuff @neo-yeppeuda-taehyung @dreamingwithmel @lmaokpop

Alright I stopped cooking for a sec. So the thing with Keith Ape and the girl he said looked like an ape. I wanna give a disclaimer that this is in no way me defending this or any of his actions, just offering a perspective for you guys to come to your own conclusion.

So the person who got that insult was actually on a new pic of his right before it happened callimg him ugly, saying he looked like Michael Jackson, etc. Now y'all know even to this day Keith checks his comments and tags. He saw it, went on the girl’s page, and clapped back at her with the ape comment. She showed me and a couple of friends of mine and started talking about how hurt she was. Personally? I couldn’t share the same sentiment because it’s not like this came out of nowhere if you talk about somebody expect them to talk right back. I got accused of being unloyal or whatever and she submitted it anonymously to a khh blog here without any backstory and talked shit about how I didn’t agree with her MONTHS after even after I apologized for not feeling the same. Rappers have actually told her to shut up for the stuff she used to put on their pages I don’t know what she expected really but long story short I was over it and cut that person off.

That’s all there is to it. Do I feel like what Keith said was out of line? Absolutely, but I have no sympathy because every effect has a cause and she was just as out of line as him. I’m not here to change any minds, I’m just giving you guys some info for you to decide whether to keep your conclusion or change it. But please don’t let this be an excuse to think Keith is an innocent person or whatever.

baalsdungeon  asked:

Hi Dany! Please stop referring or tagging your art as `ugly drawings`! They are so nice and you`re improving very fast. Your last drawing was (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧!! Have a good day ~

Hi baal (*꧆▽꧆*)

Aww thank you so much!! i will try not to call them that, but ahh i don’t think that i’m improving very much ( drawing bodies is still a mistery to me xD) but i guess we all have somethings we are good on and others in which we aren’t that good xD, Even so, i enjoy trying!! And sometimes the result isn’t that bad, i think ^^ I’m really happy that you see some improvement, that means a lot to me!! (maybe i judge myself too hard haha) and thank you!! i’m glad you liked my last drawing ˙˚ʚ(´◡`)ɞ˚˙

Thank you so much! i hope you have a nice day too ♥ ♥ ♥