i will not be repeating this decision

FB Status from Jennifer Tiedt (bolding added by me): If you and I are friends, you probably know that last year I had an abortion. The pregnancy was wanted, it was planned, but it was not to be, because the embryo implanted in my cervix. If HB493 had been in place when I needed an abortion, instead of being able to access adequate abortion care PRIOR to by death being imminent, I would have been forced to wait until I was actively in danger of losing my life. Let me be clear: an untreated cervical ectopic means death. If you are against abortion, great, that’s your choice. But women all over the world who don’t agree with abortion still find themselves in situations where it’s literally their life on the line, and make decisions they could never have imagined prior to being in that situation.

I repeat: If HB493 is signed by Governor Kasich and implemented, women will die. Not “maybe,” not “possibly,” but WILL.

The following is the letter I sent to Governor Kasich earlier today. I encourage all of you to reach out to him as well.

Dear Governor Kasich,

I am requesting some guidance from you on an important issue.
Last year I experienced a cervical ectopic pregnancy. This happens when the embryo implants in the cervix rather than the uterus. It is very rare, but it still happened to me. It’s almost as though even rare complications still occur, even to people in Ohio.

A cervical pregnancy is extremely dangerous, due to the uterine artery passing through the cervix. When a fertilized egg implants, it works to develop a rich blood flow to sustain itself. Unfortunately, doing so right next to the uterine artery means devastating consequences: if the embryo detaches, one is at risk of hemorrhage, so if a cervical pregnancy is not found quickly, the woman can quickly become at risk for losing her fertility if they have to cauterize the uterine artery, losing her uterus if cauterization doesn’t work, and even death due to immense blood loss.

Thankfully, due to a routine visit, my cervical pregnancy was found at 7 weeks. The embryo had a heartbeat, which was the first thing I noticed. I was so happy to see that heartbeat following some spotting a couple days prior. My husband and I had a one year old son, and we had gotten pregnant our first month trying to give him a sibling. I had a moment of relief and wonder. Then the doctor told me what my untrained eyes couldn’t tell: that embryo with a beating heart was located in a place that made it unviable, and deadly. I had to go immediately to the hospital, where I stayed for seven days while they gave me methotrexate to try to and terminate, which was ultimately unsuccessful, forcing me to have a procedure done under general anesthesia where they used a microscopic needle to inject potassium chloride into the gestational sac, which was successful. This was necessary due to the age and development of the embryo, although less invasive procedures were tried first.

My abortion saved my life. I’d like to believe that if this happened again (which is a risk due to the fact that it happened to me previously) I would qualify for the quick and lifesaving care I received. But I don’t believe I would. My understanding is that HB493 makes no exception for the health of the mother, only the life. What statutes like this have been interpreted to mean in other areas is that until the life of the mother is truly at risk, not just potentially at risk, not just theoretically at risk, treatment is withheld. My life wasn’t “at risk” at the time I had my abortion, but that was the inevitable conclusion. Would I be forced to wait until I was hemorrhaging, bleeding out, before I could be treated? What treatment would I then be able to have? Nothing but a hysterectomy would have saved my life at that point. And I may or may not have survived the procedure at that point.

What advice can you give me to make sure the doctors aren’t afraid to save my life BEFORE I’m at that point? Why is there no exception for the health of the mother? How can I be sure I will not die if this happens again? Is your legislature so callous as to assume they don’t need to legislate for this kind of situation? Are you so callous as to not insist they make sure I am able to receive treatment that will preserve my fertility as well as my life? If you value life, why not mine? Why not all women’s lives? Why are women not allowed to make the decisions about their body that they feel are best? I assure you, I’ve talked to many women who have had abortions in all kinds of circumstances, and none of them came to the decision easily or without regret.

Please think of the women in Ohio who will die if you vote this legislation into law. Please think of the millions that will be wasted trying to defend this unconstitutional and invasive legislation in court. Please think of my son, who would have missed his mother if I had died due to my cervical pregnancy. Please think of the future children I hope to have, and am able to have, because I was able to access lifesaving treatment in time to preserve my fertility. Please think of us. We are depending on you and your judgement. Please don’t let us die to score political points.

The Village Idiot (Avengers x reader)

Request: Avengers x reader “I’m starting an idiot jar. Any time you do or say something idiotic you have to put at least a dollar in it– more depending on how stupid the thing you did or say.”

“I’m sorry, Sam,” Natasha pleaded quietly, “I thought that would work.”

“Well you thought wrong,” he winced, watching her wrap a bandage around his leg that was quickly turning red with his blood, despite her best efforts.  “Maybe next time we let Steve stick to planning, alright?  I mean, it wasn’t the worst idea you’ve ever had, but still…”

“I know, I’m sorry,” she repeated, shaking her head, “I feel like such an idiot.”

“Hey, don’t go that far. Let’s just say you’re disillusioned on what makes a good decision.”

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BTS Reaction To You Still Being Obsessed With Halloween Even Though It’s Over

((I do not own any of the gifs used))

Jin: *Judges hard and tries to hide the fact that he wants to join in on the Halloween fun*

Yoongi: Really? You want me to take a video of your dancing? Is that the smartest decision?

Hoseok: *Dances with you and is almost more passionate about the holiday than you*

Namjoon: IS THAT SONG ON REPEAT???? *Going crazy from the repetitive music*

Jimin: Play that song one more time and see what happens… 

Taehyung: *Does anything you ask him to because he just wants you to be happy*

Jungkook: *So exhausted from dancing with you so he lays down and watches you do your thing, admiring your energy*

She left her career as a journalist because she chose to accompany me to continue enjoying football and I understand that this was a difficult decision for her. Now she is more relaxed, but within two to three years, she can resume career. Sara, I repeat, is calm and will soon be able to return to journalism, which is what she likes to do. Everything is cyclical, everything changes. Today she is for me, tomorrow I’m for her.
—  Iker Casillas talks about Sara Carbonero
You know, if magical wishes were real and I was given only one, it would be to live a single day with you day over and over forever.
It would be a little like Groundhog Day, in that it wouldn’t be identical every day; it would always start the same, in the same place but I could change the course of the day with the decisions that I made. Every day I would wake up beside you and spend every moment with you, only to fall asleep beside you and start the day over again.
I could repeat this day forever and never get bored… I could do all the things I wanted to do with you… all the things we never got a chance to do. We could sit on the beach and have fish and chips, we could watch the sunset together from a million different places, we could even shop for socks I really don’t care - it’s having endless chances to spend time with you that I’m really wishing for. We could go to that Italian restaurant we always said we’d go to but never did, we could watch every great film ever made and cuddle the whole way through or I could read you my favorite poem until you’d memorized it like I have.
It wouldn’t matter how many times we repeated that day – I would always find something to fill it with… I would always find a way to love you and make you smile…
And the saddest thing is that the one thing in the world I would wish for if I had the chance – to spend endless repetitive days with you just so I can love you and finally get it right - is an opportunity that somebody else already has…
I just hope they’re not taking it for granted…
—  Ranata Suzuki | If I had one wish
  • Eurus: I had no one !!!!
  • Sherlock: really? Didn't you have both of our parents and myself and Mycroft. Also probably some form of extended family given the repeated references to "Uncle Rudy"?
  • Eurus: ...
  • Sherlock: This episode already established that prior to your being taken away you had a fairly normal childhood with ordinary parents so it's reasonable to assume you were well loved and cared for.
  • Eurus: ...
  • Sherlock: Your own decision to murder another child out of misplaced jealousy and then burn down our house with all our belongings inside led to you being taken away. So it's not really fair to say you had no one when that was entirely by your own doing.
  • Eurus: ...
  • Sherlock: I just feel like you didn't think this through.
*Personal thought*

When I read a new manga chapter of SNK I try to separate the feelings that I have for the characters and then I totally concentrate on the plot of the story. 

Damn. What can I say? I just can’t suffer for the decisions that Isayama has made. This guy is incredible. He has the best imagination I’ve ever known (almost equal to George R. Martin). I cannot do other thing that admire how he made such a deep story which has the power of attracting people emotionally. 

I don’t agree with the silly fights of the fandom, but that’s what make things interesting, I mean, if Hajime Isayama wanted to see the world burn, his mission is accomplished. 

I’m not getting tired of repeating it: what a incredible guy. The story is amazing and I love it! No matter who dies or who lives. No matter the ships, who is cute, who you love. We have to recognize it; it’s a master piece, at least for me. 

I love SNK. I won’t regret the recommendations my friends made to me. I won’t regret nothing. I simply LOVE it, including all the tragedy <3

Mafia Boss (G-Dragon Scenario) - Part 31

Thursday is here again! ^^ This is probably the shortest part I’ve written for this series in quite a while. Alright, 10 pages might not be short, but for this series it kind of is haha. I hope you’ll like this one, people! Enjoy~

WARNING! Those who don’t handle violence and strong language well, be ware. This is not, I repeat not, a series suited for young and sensitive readers.

All characters in this series, aside from the members of BIGBANG, are fictional. Any resemblance to real life people, in name or otherwise, are purely coincidental.

Summary: Your decision to not tell Ji Yong about Min Jae was eating you up from the inside. It was time to stop being such an idiot. He needed to know about what was going on. Will you get the chance to tell him, though?

[Part 1] [Part 2] [Part 3] [Part 4] [Part 5] [Part 6] [Part 7] [Part 8] [Part 9] [Part 10][Part 11] [Part 12] [Part 13] [Part 14] [Part 15] [Part 16] [Part 17] [Part 18] [Part 19] [Part 20] [Part 21] [Part 22] [Part 23] [Part 24] [Part 25] [Part 26] [Part 27][Part 28] [Part 29] [Part 30] [Part 31] [Part 32] [Part 33] [Part 34] [Part 35] [Part 36] [Part 37 - Coming Soon]

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reaction to the ndrv3 girls being called mommy by their s/o?

Why. Not that I’m one to talk seeing that I constantly call Kirumi mommy-

Maki Harukawa

  • She shoots you a glare, and it seems that you’ve annoyed her.
  • She asks you what that was, and you think it’s best if you claim that it was nothing.
  • She nods, before backing off, with the aura of ‘I’m completely done’ radiating off of her.
  • You make decision to not to call her that again anytime soon.

Kirumi Toujou

  • She doesn’t even say a word, and simply just accepts it and asks you if you need anything.
  • She’s been called worse in her line of work, but even so, it’s different coming from the one you love.
  • On the inside, she is d y i n g.
  • She keeps repeating ‘Oh my god’ over and over in her mind as her thoughts get w a y ahead of her.
  • She can’t stop freaking out mentally, being completely flustered and embarrassed.
  • Lucky for her, she’s excellent as masking emotions, and doesn’t let you see that she’s completely freaking out.

Angie Yonaga

  • Her face falls for the slightest moment before she rubs up against you, politely asking if you could choose a different nickname for her!
  • God’s watching at all times, y'know?
  • She suggests a few others, and tells you that instead of returning it, she’ll call you her sunshine instead!
  • Don’t corrupt this semi-pure girl
  • If you persist, she’ll hold her tongue and let you call her it, although it makes her rather uncomfortable.
  • Like, r e a l l y uncomfortable

Kaede Akamatsu

  • She’s generally confused at first, before laughing it off with a smile.
  • She comments on how silly you are, and cracks a lame joke of her own.
  • It ends with you two caught in fit of giggles and awful jokes and puns.
  • She seems to be quite happy afterwards, and although you were expecting a more…flustered…reaction, it’s nice to see her have a good laugh!

Miu Iruma

  • It takes her a full, long second before she b u r s t s out laughing.
  • She continues for at least five minuets, tears welling in her eyes.
  • It takes you some time to calm her down because her words will continue to be interrupted by giggles.
  • She’s freaking out this is g o l d.
  • Once she’s regained her breath, she’ll wink at you and call you the corresponding name, before cackling again.
  • She then tells you that you gave her quite the laugh, and that you should call her dirtier things sometime.
  • Preferably in bed

Himiko Yumeno

  • She gives you a rather long, tired stare, before shrugging it off and continuing with the conversation.
  • She’s lowkey into it, but not as much as one would think, and not on a sexual mindset at all
  • Instead, she views it as only a personal nickname that you for her and only her, and it makes her feel a bit special deep down.
  • It honestly makes her a bit happy that your relationship had reached such a point, and that your connection is that close!
  • She’ll eventually warm into it and call you the corresponding, although it makes her a bit embarrassed and flustered.

Tsumugi Shirogane

  • She immediately swings the corresponding name by you in a flirting tone, reaching over to give you a peck on the lips.
  • You’re caught off by how easily she accepts it.
  • She tells you that it’s because she’s used to reading about characters calling each other that, though that’s probably not the reason.
  • She then returns to whatever she was working on, a light blush dusting her cheeks.
  • You make a note to call her that more often

Tenko Chabashira

  • “H-Huh, but Tenko isn’t your mother?!”
  • “S-Should she call you her child in return?”
  • She’s flustered and confused as to why you would call her such a strange thing, blinking furiously.
  • Once you explain, her expression changes to one of pure shock, and then embarrassment.
  • The glow of her blush could probably light up an entire room as she stutters her next few replies out.
  • The experience ends with her immediately excusing herself so she can go take a cold shower to cool herself off.
Dance Lesson’s (Part One)

Kol x Reader

Requested by @babynora1983

AN: It got to 11:00 Pm and I needed to do somthing other than make headers, enjoy guys :P

“You are aware for this plan to work (Y/N) will have to be able to dance.” Rebekah sighed and four sets of eyes were fixed on you.


“Hey I can dance!” You protested which made Kol and Klaus chuckle.


“(Y/N) when we say dance we mean waltzing not rubbing yourself up someone like a mad wolf.” Elijah criticized and you crossed your arms, glowering at the original was waited for your pride to settle down.


“I can dance.” You repeated and this time Elijah was quite sure you’d lose your temper if he continued to press the matter.


“We can get her lessons; it won’t be for a few weeks anyway.” With his final decision made the Mikaelson’s vanished to where ever they spent their time and you were left to wonder around the large house.

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anonymous asked:

How is sakura not a doormat?She's even worse in fan fiction.I like sasusaku,but I'm sick of sakura constantly putting more effort in their relationship in every way.What has sasuke done for her that does NOT benefit him?Something selfless.For her

You obviously don’t like SS at all if you consider Sakura to be a doormat.

Why is it so hard for people to be able to distinguish between being a submissive doormat, and simply accepting or even agreeing with someone’s decision? I don’t even care if the following ask is the same person or not:

Because not only is it obvious that labelling her as a doormat does come off as rude due to your choice of wording, but now I’m sick of repeating the same thing over and over again. I’m sick of people constantly insinuating that Sasuke does nothing for their relationship.

Before their relationship began, Sasuke ignored the village’s pleas for help,. but when he heard how Sakura was captured, he rushed back to try to help. That was something selfless that he did for her.

Once their relationship actually began and they started a family, Sasuke did one of the most selfless things in the series. He went on a mission by himself to secure a better future for his family, friends, village and every single shinobi nation in existence

He declined Naruto’s help because he knew that he was still needed in the village, so he took it upon himself to do it alone, for the benefit of everyone apart from himself. If you can’t see how selfless that is then go and complain to someone else, because I’m tired of seeing the same nonsense in my ask box time and time again about how Sasuke apparently has no input in their relationship, and how Sakura’s a submissive doormat. I’m no longer interested.

What We Want


Having Mickey stare at him like his entire world was crumbling before him yelling for Ian to get in the car if he loved him was more than he could handle - more than he could turn away from. He’d waited such a long time to confess his feelings to the other and once again they were in the most hyper situation possible where Mickey’s freedom was at stake /every/ decision counted, including this. He held his arms out shakily and took Mickey into his arms, he knelt down and kissed him, his thumb brushing against Mickey’s jaw and the dangling earring. “I love you.” He repeated and swallowed hard before walking away from the car - only to rear around and hurry to get inside the drivers side. Their “passports” were set in the console under the radio and he waited for Mickey to get in so he could put on that damned wig. Fear but a feeling similar to that of freedom washed over him as they crossed through the border. Together.

That should have been it, that should have been the ticket to their happiness - to their worries fading, and to everything that ever tried to come between them ceasing to exist. But it wasn’t. No amount of fist pumps in the air or fucks in the backseat could add to this new level of hell of being a foreigner in a country of a language they didn’t speak. The stolen car was still their fucking home, and money was running low. It had seemed like it would be much easier than it was, and Ian kept pushing or rather pulling Mickey back from getting involved with any gangs. That was the last thing they fucking needed. But as if things had to get worse (which with them - it was always worse) he was running out of his meds. “Mick, I think I might have to go home.” Ian spoke after a long while of silence. He spoke against Mickey’s ear as he held the other in his arms in the backseat, his head against the window. “Just for a little bit. Just to get some things.” He tightened his grip so Mickey wouldn’t try to leave.

My fics on fanfiction . net

Public service announcement. As I have mentioned, I am violently tired of ff.net and today I decided to get rid of my account. All my fics will still be available on AO3 (archiveofourown.org.) I will leave the fanfiction.net account up for a week (so it will be removed on January 31st.) 

As there has been complaining about fic writers taking down their fics, I will repeat - my fics will still be on AO3 (and I actually have more fics on there than I do on FF.net.) 

I have been thinking about getting rid off the account for months. See all the reasons here: http://violetscentedwriter.tumblr.com/post/156307029233/but-why-do-you-hate-ffn-just-wondering

Oh, and today I had messages from one of the people wanting to translate my fics and when I politely declined, they basically started calling me names. That was the last straw and really made the decision for me. I’m out. You’ll find me on tumblr, twitter and Facebook and you’ll find my fics on http://archiveofourown.org/users/Violetscented/works