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I’m sorry for interrupting your scrolling, but this is really important! 1. Please, drink some water and stay hydrated. 2. If you haven’t already eaten something, grab some fruit or something relatively healthy along with that glass o’ H20 3. If it’s really late/you haven’t slept, the tag you’re in will still be there after a nap. Sleep is important and I don’t need you missing out on it! 4. Open a window or go outside for a little bit. The fresh air could help clear your mind. 5. Try not to be on tumblr too much, there’s a whole world out there and there’s probably something else you could be doing. 6. WORK ON AN ASSIGNMENT OR STUDY IF YOU’VE BEEN PROCRASTINATING! By putting it off until the last minute, you’re just going to get more stressed about it. 7. Take care of yourselves. That’s my #1 goal.

Originally posted by nikforovs

anonymous asked:

I feel so upset right now. I was just at a family wedding and I'd forgotten to bring a necklace. My mom let me borrow a set of pearls she had that have been in our family for decades. I knew they weren't vegan, but for a couple hours (and not my money) I accepted the favour. My sister, who is NOT vegan, decided to call me out and basically call me a hypocrite. Like, I haven't bought an animal product in 5 years - why do carnitas always try to go for a "gotcha" when they don't actually care?

People like this tend to know that what they’re doing is wrong, at least on some level, so it makes them feel better if everyone else is doing something wrong too. It has a lot of psychological appeal, this idea that it isn’t really possible to be vegan. If it isn’t possible, then eating animals isn’t a choice, and they can’t be judged for it. These little “gotcha” moments appeal to that cynical and vindictive side we all have, that wants to drag other people down with us. You know that reasonable compromises can be made, and I suspect they do too, they just want a little moment of pleasure at your expense. 

Has anyone noticed how Sana’s father says “Everything is okay now? Are you together now?” like if something had happened between them? I NEED TO KNOW IF THEY GOT MAD AT YOUSEF FOR NOT BEING IN THE FIGHT AND STAYING INSIDE THE CLUB DSAKFLAJFDPFA

Also, when Sana’s father asks Elias what are they going to do Elias looks at Adam and doubts about what to say and that’s when Adam says “Football”. Does that mean they’re lying and they’re going somewhere else?

ALSO YOUSEF LOOKS SO GUILTY AND IS CONSTANTLY TRYING TO MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH SANA AND I JUST WANT TO CRY BECAUSE I THOUGH JULIE WOULD EXPLAIN THINGS BETTER AND I CAN’T SEEM TO UNDERSTAND ANYTHING.

Getting on Archie’s bad side would include:

Originally posted by hvproductions

• having absolutely no idea how you ended up on his bad side, one day he just starts ignoring you

• catching his glares in the hallway constantly

• when he’s not completely ignoring you and pretending you don’t exist

• “oh, she’s going… I guess I’m busy then.”

• him pretending you aren’t there at all most of the time, or rudely interrupting when you’re trying to have a conversation with Veronica, Betty or jughead

• him brushing you off completely when you try to ask what’s wrong

• “do you have a problem with me, Andrews?!”

• “no, my problem is you.”

• having to get one of the others to ask him when you need something

• no one else having any idea why he has such a problem with you

• snide comments and little insults whenever you do manage to talk to him

• being shoulder checked in the hallway all the time “by accident”

• getting so frustrated you stop trying to fix things entirely and just start being as petty as he is

• always interrupting his conversations just to wind him up

• calling him ‘orange zest’ because you know how much he hates it

• putting glitter in his school books so he can’t open them with out getting covered

• finally fighting it out in the middle of school

• everyone watching as you scream because you’re both as loud as each other

• Betty and Veronica trying to break it up and neither one of you listening to them

• him leaving the room when you start making valid points and basically winning the argument

• you still having no idea why he has a problem with you

• approaching him again, calmly, to ask what his damn problem is

• “just stop with the glitter”

• “then tell me why you hate me!”

• “I never said I hated you!”

“You told Betty I was the devil.”

• you being really upset about the way he acts towards you

• one day he goes too far with a joke and you leave the table, obviously distressed

• Betty follows you to see if you’re okay and comes back saying you locked yourself in a bathroom stall crying

• he finds you and actually apologizes, because even though he doesn’t like you that much right now he didn’t think you’d be that upset

• him laying off when he realises out how much it’s affecting you

• the two of you coming to a silent truce after that, you leave each other alone

• you co-exist

• both of you secretly hope that you can make up

•but your both too stubborn to say so

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Not a Date - AuroCyanide - モブサイコ100 | Mob Psycho 100 [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
By Organization for Transformative Works

“Even back then they never chatted easily. But sometimes… sometimes there had been enough there to fill the space between them and make it seem a little less like they were two odd shaped pieces that didn’t fit together. Two odd shaped pieces that could be okay together because they didn’t really fit in anywhere else.”

Mob and Emi go on what is most definitely not a date.

*whispers* This was meant to be a drabble. I tried to write… prettier? Because Emi is a writer, I wanted to try and do something that would suit her.

Anyway, I really love this ship and I really, really love Emi, she is so well written. I need more content of them and I swear I will do my part. I can’t believe this is the first fic in the tag omg

anonymous asked:

How do you flirt? Like pls give me advice that's not "be yourself" I try to flirt but I am a human train wreck and all I've got going for me if self-deprecating jokes

Self-deprecating jokes are okay only if used sparingly. 90% of flirting is confidence, you gotta at least create the appearance that you like yourself before someone else will. It’s sorta like if I’m trying to sell you a car but all I do is joke about how shitty the car is, are you really gonna be interested in the car? No, probably not. Doesn’t even matter what it looks like because you’d assume the engine was bad or something. Dating is basically the same thing, you’re selling yourself to other people and if you don’t believe in the product you’re selling then no one is gonna wanna buy it.

So basically identify what you like about yourself and accentuate that. For example, if I’m trying to flirt in a more serious way and not just for quick sex I’ll usually talk about politics, social issues, video games, or tv shows I like. I know these are all things I can have a conversation about and feel smart so I work off of that. If the conversation veers into something idk about then I playful admit my ignorance and ask to move things back to something I can actually talk about. Worse thing people do when flirting is try and maintain a conversation that they don’t know shit about just because the other person brought it up. So yeah, work on it, it’s a skill that takes practice to get good at.

Dear Anonymous,

Boy, that’s a real shame.  That’s an issue I’ve never really dealt with since my inheritance paid my way through college…  I really wish I could sympathize better.

I do know what it’s like to be depressed, though.  Sometimes it seems like you’re not getting anywhere, even when you’re doing everything you can.  I still struggle with that practically every day.

Here’s the good part, though – the way it seems isn’t always the way it really is.  My advice is to help your friend focus on what he’s been doing well instead of what he hasn’t.  If nothing else, tell him how glad you are that he’s still trying!  Trying always counts for something.

-Athena Cykes

bloomingpaladin  asked:

Yeah I'll come off anon. I'm just wondering why you're saying we're the ones in the Shaladin tags when we're obviously trying to stay away from it.

oh my god, i cant with you nigga, you’re something else.

1. stop. stop defending your dumpster diving buddies ok. most posts about anti shaladin come up in the shaladin tags. wanna know why? because, we share the same name which is

shaladin (ex: anti shaladin, shaladin discourse, pro shaladin, anti sheith, pro sheith, sheith in general.)

2. you can be doing a good job staying away from the tags. but once you mention the words in your posts, they show up regardless. this is why we have BLACKLISTS. if my posts show up in the tags by accident, and trust me i don’t want to get near the dry ass anti tags anyways, there’s blacklisting for a reason. 

3. i think you’re mentioned it before, tumblr having a horrible tagging system. if you didn’t well look at #2 again.

4. you guys don’t stay away from it, you curve it. dont play victim in this shit. you guys like to poke the bear then run instantly when it targets you. you make posts about shaladins, it gets tossed into our tags no matter how much you try to censor it then we reply, you guys flip shit then blame it on us. so tell me, how much are you really avoiding? you must love to fuel fire since yall have been making lists, saying shit and more.

5. to end this off, just lurk before you speak. you’re embarrassing yourself even more. just like how we “end up in the anti tags! oh no!”, you ended up here. why am i not even blocked by you? what was the legit point of this anyways? yes its to defend the post about how posts get mixed up but tell me, what was the worth of this? to make yourself look like a bigger dumbass than before?

dude, im done. go run and beat off to your klance nsfw, complain or do something. i have work to do before my ass has to take more courses next year. yallah.

anonymous asked:

Is it okay to come out and tell people to call you one name for a couple years before you're old enough to legally change it and then decide later that you want to change it to something else? Only one person really calls me my preferred name - my family says they're "trying" and "getting used to it" but it's been six months and there's no difference and the handful of times I've brought it up they're just started screaming and shit... idk idk

Your family is being assholes about it, flat out. If they were really trying they’d be doing stuff like I am when my friend changed her name to Riley- correcting when they said the wrong name, apologize gracefully when they messed up, and not make a huge damn deal about it because that’s rude and uncalled for. Screaming like that isn’t alright, and I’m sorry about that.
As for decide that you want to change it to something else, that’s perfectly fine. Its your name, you can change it all you please. You can change it every day if you want to. I personally went through two or three names before settling on one, and I still have two or three nicknames people call me in addition to that. Its your name after all, you decide what it is when it is that.

I stg trying to write when you’re depression numb is the hardest shit b/c it’s like… how do I talk about feelings when the only thing I’ve felt, for so long that I can barely remember anything else with clarity, is Void™? If I don’t feel anything when I’m writing a story does it mean the reader won’t feel anything either? Literally all that I’ve written lately has felt so clinical and detached to me, but is it just b/c of a combination of depression numb + knowing my own writing too well? Or is something actually missing??

7

Tearful Jimmy Kimmel breaks down revealing newborn son’s heart surgery.

Kimmel used his personal story to blast President Donald Trump for trying to cut $6 billion in funding from the National Institutes of Health, and he applauded Congress for doing the opposite and increasing funding by $2 billion.

He said his experience shows why all Americans need access to health care, especially those ― like his son ― born with preexisting conditions.  

“If your baby is going to die and it doesn’t have to it shouldn’t matter how much money you make,” he said. “I think that’s something that whether you’re a Republican or Democrat or something else, we all agree on that, right?”

What to Watch While You’re Waiting for Yuri!!! on Ice to Come Back

The wait is long, but don’t you worry! I will give you some good anime to watch in the meantime lol give me your suggestions too!

1. Haikyuu!!

You’re literally living in a hole if you haven’t watched Haikyuu yet, but now you have time, don’t you? It is an amazing show - the OTPs, the characters, the storylines, the feels, you’ll love it. Plus, 3 seasons and an ongoing manga - what fun! 

2. Bungou Stray Dogs

You have to watch this, guys. The story is unique, the characters are hot, there is a storyline that’ll have you hooked and Dazai is awesome. Got some strong OTPs in here too.

3. Joker Game

This is one of the newest anime in this list, and it is spectacular and mind-boggling. The characters and the stories in different episodes will have you full of feels and amazement throughout. Worth the watch.

4. 91 Days

Mafia. Hot men. Broship at its finest. What else do we need? It has feels, excitement, anticipation, and everything you need in a short anime. Good watch.

5. Kuzu no Honkai

If you’re looking for something along the lines of mature, watch this. The story and the characters are angsty and the manga, in my opinion, is even better at it. It’s a good watch. Some people don’t like it, but I think it’s worth a try.

6. ACCA: 13-ku Kansatsu-Ka

I’m not done with this anime yet, but I am very intrigued up to the point that I have watched. The art is very different, Jean Otus is hot, and the concept seems worth watching too. 

Long Hiatus

Hello everyone!
I just wanted to give you some news.

As you can see, I’ll be absent for a long time. Recently I haven’t feeling very well, both physically and mentally due…many things are happening in my life right now.

I don’t want to lie to you all and pretend I’m always smiling and being funny and silly. This time I really need a time to deal with all those stuff that requires time  that I’m spending in my blogs and chats with people. I need some time alone. 

I’ll come back when Underverse 0.3-2 is finished, maybe in the middle of July, I’ll try to update a few advances of the animation, nothing else. I won’t stream until that day comes, too. I prefer to not using the chat for a while. I need to focus and save a lot of time to finish this animation and then being able to take important choices that are about to change many things of my daily life.

I have a couple of things to do before leaving, so don’t worry to people I promised to do those things this week.

…So, see you soon and thanks for everything.
Have fun.

Nessian’s Kids Headcanons

I know this is unexpected from me because I was vehemently against any pregnancies/baby faes for any of the ships in ACOWAR but I am okay with them having kids waaaaay way down the line. Anyway, I don’t remember how this happened but Sarah @nessiansmut and I came up with a few headcanons of Azriel and Elain babysitting Nessian’s kids so here we go:

  • The inner circle would do the ‘not it’ thing whenever nessian need a babysitter. no one would be able to keep those kids in line
  • Elain would volunteer as a last resort 'how bad can it be?’
  • Azriel agrees to help because Elain convinces him he could probably help keep the kids entertained with his shadows
  • one hour in they’re missing one child, one’s running around naked and another’s pulling at Azriel’s wings trying to get him to spread them wide so they can see them
  • just imagine loud curly headed children running around everywhere
  • even azriel’s shadows wouldn’t be a match for them. Elain would be frantically screaming at him to find the missing kid and he’d just be like 'I’VE GOT NOTHING! IT’S LIKED THEY DROPPED OFF THE FACE OF THE EARTH!’
  • I thought fae children were supposed to be rare where do they keep coming from????
    From your damn sister who apparently spends all her time “training” doing something else entirely
    Someone needs to stop them before they make a small army
  • The naked kid is pulling out all these random weapons and Elain is just horrified. “Do they not baby proof?!?” (Cass would be offended to hear that: 'that is baby proof! the blade’s shorter than 20cm!’ )
  • Azriel would be begging and pleading for Rhys to use his daemati power to convince the kids to calm down “But you’re High Lord surely you can get them to stop moving.”
  • one of the kids would be grinning really wide but his teeth have a blue glow and Az sees and he’s like 'Spit out the Syphon! Geez, how and when did you even get that?’ (SOMEONE PLEASE DRAW THIS)
  • a completely dishevelled Elain would be furiously whispering to Az “Just knock them out! Not too hard. Nobody has to know. It’s the only way to get them to sleep and we can get a break. Please”
  • Azriel trying to change diapers having to use his shadows to stop the kid from squirming around
  • 'AZ I CAN’T FLY YOU NEED TO GET HER DOWN FROM THE ROOF ASAP' 
  • one of the babies is that type of kid who just doesn’t stop asking questions. “Are your wings bigger than daddy’s? Do you sleep upside down like a bat? Why are yours blue?”
  • the only reason nessian needed a babysitter was to go to the cabin in the illyrian mountains and have sex for a few hours.  
  • Nesta: I have a meeting with the humans. Emissary business he’s coming for protection.
    Elain: *mutters under breath* the only protection he needs to provide is of the contraceptive kind
    Azriel: emissary business my ass.
  • imagine Az with a baby hanging onto his back for dear life and nibbling at his wing while he’s trying to find his pacifier “Elain it bit me” “Azriel they have names…" 
  • "PLEASE STOP CHEWING AT MY WINGS DEAR GOD ELAIN THEIR BABIES ARE CANNIBALS”
  • “I fought Hybern. Twice. I survived my brothers. This this is too much.“
  • They find a 4th kid just sitting in the kitchen completely still. they’d look outside into the living room muttering "1…2…3…” they turn and look into the kitchen “4?…” “I thought they only had 3.” “So did I.”
  • after they realise that two of them are twins Elain would be running around yelling 'WHO ARE YOU?! WHERE’S THE SECOND YOU?!’
  • Nesta then lets them know that they won’t make it home in time and they need them to babysit the kids overnight  “What do you mean you’re running late and watch them for 3 hours is now over night? What do we feed them? Do they sleep?” 
  • eventually Nesta and Cass would come back and Az would be passed out on the couch with a baby cradled in the crook of his wing on the floor, the baby’s nappy not even secured properly. Elain would be sleeping upstairs with her head on the toilet seat with two more kids sleeping in a nest of blankets in the bathtub and the fourth kid would be in the kitchen stuffing his face with marshmallows and grinning at them when they come home
  • They wouldn’t even blink, though. Cass would just pick the kid up when he makes grabby hands at him and goes 'DADA!’ and he’d be like 'Heeeey buddy… did you give auntie Elain and uncle Az a hard time?’ and the kid would nod and he’d be like 'good job!’ and fist bump his little fist. Nesta would go upstairs to wake Elain up and thank her
  • Elain would wake up and the first thing she says is  “I swear to god, Nesta if you have any more kids not even your death powers will save you from my rage” or “I’d rather be thrown in the cauldron again than babysit these monsters again.”

BONUS Headcanons:

  • Nesta and Cassian have 4 kids: the oldest is a girl, the twins and the youngest are boys
  • They name the girl after Cassian’s mother
  • the twin who always disappears has Nesta’s personality and he always just hides somewhere and reads
Self Care

It’s Mental Health Month. May 1st. The beginning of it. I just want to post some tips on what I find useful when I feel anxious, depressed or lonely. Some tips on how to care for yourself mixed in here too. I know what it’s like to feel like nothing is going to work out and you feel like there is no point anymore. I still get sad from time to time but here is what I try to do to lower those horrible feelings. 


  1. Music 
    When I feel down I put on my chill playlist and listen to the songs. Not just recognize that the song is playing. I listen to every word, every beat, every instrument that makes a sound. I listen so hard that I forget everything else around me and forget everything that is going on in my head for a while. This actually really helps and especially if it’s a slow song, something that matches my mood. 
  2. Reading 
    Reading is one of my favourite things to do. I’m in love with words. And getting deep into one of my favourite books helps me forget for a while. Grab something to drink and maybe a snack, find a quiet and comfy place to relax and let yourself fall into a book. 
  3. Eat 
    When I feel depressed my appetite can go away pretty quickly. But if you don’t eat, you’ll feel even more tired and low. And that’s not good. So eat. Not junk food. Maybe a treat every now and again but make sure to eat healthy too. Fruit or vegetables. Maybe make some type of sandwhich or maybe eat a bowl of porridge. Whatever you want to make. But remember, not always junk food. And drink lot’s and lot’s of water. 
  4. Shower or bath 
    If you feel all ugh, and ew take a long warm shower or a bath full of bubbles. Taking a shower or bath might help you feel more relaxed and feel more taken care of. And keeping yourself fresh and clean will help help boost your system. 
  5. Fresh air 
    When I’m down, I get lazy. So the whole ‘take a long walk’ thing doesn’t go with me. What I like to do instead is open a window and stand there or take a chair and sit near there. I’m getting fresh air into my lungs which is good and I don’t need to get up and go outside to do it. Now getting exercise is a good thing to do too because it’ll boost your system also. But when you really can’t get up and walk far, just go to a window and read or listen to music.
  6. Cry 
    Yes crying is on this list. When you really need to let those tears out, just do it. If you’re in a place you feel comfortable enough to do it. Let it all out, for however long you need to. Crying doesn’t make you weak or a loser or whatever you think it makes you. It helps you. Instead of holding all those feelings in, you can let them out by crying. So just do it because a cry every now and again, will make you feel a little better. Hopefully. 
  7. Decorate and change it up
    This may be an odd one but it helps me. When I’m sad I’ll look up some quotes that I really like, write them on some paper and decorate the paper and stick it on my wall. Or sometimes I sift things around. If I think something in my room would look better in a different position then I’ll move it. I’ll maybe take some things down and hang something new up instead. Tidy my room too if it needs it. This helps because I’m focusing on other things. Where will this go? Does this look good on this wall? Things like that. Try it and see. 
  8.  Breathe 
    When I feel like I can’t breathe, I remember that I just need to take a minute. Look at my surroundings. What’s the colour of the walls? Breathe. What’s in the room? Breathe. What’s the weather like outside? Breathe. What’s my favourite food? Breathe. Do I have any plans this week? Breathe. Ask yourself some questions. Answer them and breathe. Breathe, breathe and breathe. Don’t let you make yourself small. Think bigger than what that stupid annoying voice in your head is telling you. Breathe. Because you’re worth it.

I hope these tips helped. I really do. And please, please REMEMBER… you are beautiful. You are so amazing and this world needs you in it. Maybe you feel like no one cares. But I guarantee you there is somebody out there who thinks the world of you. You are somebody’s moon. You’re that person who lights up the darkness for them. Don’t let your light go out. Stay strong and remember to love yourself and take care of yourself. You guys are more than welcome to ask me something if you need any advice or have any questions. The door is open and you are welcome.