i was so wrong about you

anonymous asked:

i love zayn but hows he asking us to help his mums best friend? 128k and hes worth millions? boy u better get your own wallet out

I’m sure he already has………….don’t be an fucking asshole, my dude. You don’t know how much money he and his family have already offered - in fact, the woman says in her explanation of on gofundme that her “friend” is funding all travel and accommodation costs. Any guesses as to who that friend might be? Did you ever consider that perhaps the woman doesn’t want Zayn and his family to cover the full cost because she feels that would be asking too much? I’ll never understand why some of you need to get nasty when it comes to stuff like this. It’s so unnecessary and you know almost nothing about the situation. If you don’t want to donate money, that’s your decision, but don’t act like you have any idea what Zayn and his family have done for their friend.

listen. skam fandom, we need to have a talk. about lesbians.

as you may have noticed, a lot of people have become quite enamored with the idea of lesbian!vilde and there have been a lot of headcanons. unfortunately, there has been a lot of pushback to this and some people have been attacking these headcanons or sending anon hate to those that make them.

one of the biggest arguments about why vilde could Never Ever Ever be a lesbian is that she’s had sex with men. and i, your lesbian aunty, am here to tell you that you are so very wrong. 

lots of lesbians have had sexual or romantic relationships with men. sometimes we haven’t figured out we are gay, sometimes we are trying to force ourselves to have feelings for men, sometimes it is bc we’re afraid of rejection/being harmed if people find out.

lesbians experience compulsory heterosexuality, which is the idea that being straight is The Norm and it is forced onto us by society from birth. when being straight is expected & enforced, & everyone who isn’t straight is treated like crap, it is easy to deny or misinterpret our feelings.

this means a lot of us end up trying to force feelings that just aren’t there, convincing ourselves that if we behave a certain way the feelings will come along eventually, or that it’s “normal” to not really feel anything for men.

saying someone can’t be a lesbian because they dated/slept with a man is not only a gross over-simplification of sexuality, but it is also gate-keeping the lesbian identity, which is pretty harmful.

there’s also a point to be made that even if vilde is not gay, her having slept with men does not prevent her from also being attracted to girls also. other sexualities besides gay and straight exist.

so, if you don’t think vilde is a lesbian/think she is straight, then that’s fine. we are all entitled to our own opinions.

what is a problem though, is when you go out of your way to harass the people that do think this, and throw lesbians and questioning girls under the bus to try to prove why you’re right by making false assumptions about sexuality.

so please. if you disagree, maybe next time consider just scrolling past instead of adding some unnecessary (and potentially harmful) commentary to a harmless headcanon post. 

please just think about what you are saying. because sapphic girls deserve better than to be attacked for a headcanon about a character they relate to. and maybe you just reassess why the idea of having a lesbian character bothers you so much.

I am always going to wonder how it would be like if I had taken the other road.
He was faced with just two paths but often we are faced with several.
It’s hard to choose, it’s harder to imagine all possible consequences.
It isn’t math, I can use permutations and combinations to get a fixed answer.
It’s the hardest to live with your choices if you keep wondering the destinations the roads you didn’t take would lead up to.

But there’s no right choice or wrong choice.
It’s just a choice.
It’s about how that choice makes you feel.
And how you feel isn’t stable.
It’s not.
It changes more than you can keep a record of, more than you realize.

How you feel changes like the weather.
So make any choice you want, make the best choice you can, it will make you feel good and then some time it will make you feel uneasy. You will doubt yourself.
But even with weather, you can choose to stay in a predominantly sunny, rainy or cold weather location.
Even then, it wont always stay the same but for the most part it will.
So I will make this choice now.
And I will hope that it lays foundation for my home in a predominantly pleasant weather location in life.

—  creatingnikki

anonymous asked:

so i need an explanation. i'm an old gay who never been into fandoms and all this stuff, i've just been casually watching dan and phil for the past 4 years and let me tell you - i know my gays when i see them. i have experience. i have years of gaying behind me. i cannot be fooled. so imagine my surprise when i stumbled upon some old dan videos and heard 'my flatmate phil' and 'my friend phil'. what is that about. have i miscalculated. have i been wrong for all these years. scientists explain ??

i’m not a scientist but dan and phil seem to hold their personal lives very close to their chests and that lead to many “no homo” comments throughout the years. nowadays those comments don’t happen and thats v nice and good. i don’t think you were wrong about the gays

Dear Jughead Jones

Jughead x Reader

In which the reader writes a series of letters to her best friend over the course of their senior year in high school, but doesn’t know if she’ll ever send them.

Warnings: mentions of depression, swearing

Word Count: 1,060

A/N: You might have to think and fill in the lines with this one, I hope that’s okay. This one is very personal to me, written in another journal entry type format. (And this actually fits as a perfect part two to “A Journal of Thoughts” but they work separately on their own as well)


Dear Jughead Jones,

Emotions are fucked up.

I gave advice to Betty today, and it was to acknowledge how you’re feeling and to admit what you’re feeling to yourself in order to move on and learn from experience. Cause you see, she told me she broke up with you today.

I guess I should probably move on too.

Move on from the murder, move on from my past.

I was sad.

I was mad.

I was upset at anything and everything.

I was upset for a long time.

But then I found my way back… to you.

I found a best friend.

And now I’m happy.

I’m allowed to be happy.

And I need to admit that to myself.

Dear Jughead Jones,

I’ve been obsessed with the idea of love for a very long time. It’s always been there, this need to have a boyfriend or someone to crush on, because that’s all I knew growing up. From the 2nd grade to the 7th grade I had a crush on Archie Andrews. It was always there, no matter what.

Then he broke my heart. We had never even dated but just like that he ripped it out and shattered it into a million pieces.

I was lost… but I healed. I moved on.

But I was still obsessed with the idea of love.

Maybe I read too many books.

Maybe I watched too many movies.

Maybe I was too sheltered.

Or maybe I just wasn’t confident.

A lot has happened this past year and I think I’ve finally started accepting who I am.

I’ve become more confident in the things I do and I know I don’t need a man’s love to be happy.

My friends make my happy.

Singing makes me happy.

Writing makes me happy.

You make me happy.

I have all the love I could ever need right in front of me I don’t have to be crushing on someone all the time.

I have to just take life as it comes and stop worrying about boys so much, because it’s the second semester of senior year and goddamnit, I’m going to make the most out of it and enjoy it without any drama.

These are only my beginning chapters, I still have my whole life ahead of me, after all.

Dear Jughead Jones,

Why can’t my life be a contemporary love novel? Everyone always ends up happy.

I have to return to real life once I’ve finished reading.

It’s not fair.

Am I not likeable? Is that it?

Does it have to do with my appearance?

My personality? My interests?

I don’t get it.

I mean, I’m not dumb, so I’m not going to change myself for anyone, but I don’t understand why I’m so unappealing.

I’m not sure if anyone has ever liked me, except maybe Kevin, but he doesn’t even really count. Ugh.

I’m better off chasing fantasies of getting together with you.

Cute, funny, and unattainable. Just the way I like them, apparently.

Having fantasies of unattainable yet attainable guys helps me ignore my ever-present loneliness and single-ness.

I can’t live through books all the time.

Don’t judge me.

Dear Jughead Jones,

I think you’ve been ignoring me and I don’t know why.

You haven’t messaged me as much lately and I’m probably reading way too far into it but I’ve just been getting these weird vibes. I should probably ask you if you’re okay, especially after that poem you read in english today.

It was about depression and I couldn’t help but feel like I should say something.

Am I being too clingy?

The answer is probably yes.

I’ll just leave it alone for a few days.

I’m overthinking this, aren’t I?

Dear Jughead Jones,

Feelings are hard to explain. They’re complicated and confusing and no one really knows what causes them.

Feelings can change, or they can become stronger.

Ethyl complimented me on my confidence level yesterday, said she wished she was able to be as confident as I am and it made me realize how much I’ve grown as a person. If you met me two years ago I would not be the same person you see today.

She asked me how I did it and I couldn’t give her a straight answer. It just kind of happened. I’m still insecure in a lot of things, my body and my social skills and my past.

If someone is going to love me, though, they are going to love me for who I am, not someone I’m supposed to be.

Which brings me back to feelings.

Along with all of the song lyrics I have rattling around in my brain, there’s one thought that keeps popping into my mind:

Do I like you?

Dear Jughead Jones,

Why do I let people consume me?

Why do I let myself believe people care?

I don’t know if I’ll ever let myself believe that a boy could love me and only me.

I’m not sure it’s possible.

I have to learn to love myself first, I know, but that’s so hard when you feel alone.


Why am I so emotional all of the time?

Is there something wrong with me?

Why can’t I think logically without overthinking?

Why can’t I get over things quicker?

Why do I have an obsessive way of thinking?

Why can’t I stop thinking about you when you clearly don’t think about me nearly as much?

Why do I care?

God, I’m an idiot.

Dear Jughead,

You’re never going to see this. And if you do, well then fuck me, right?

We’re messaging right now over some dumb english project but there are some things I need to tell you, and I’m not sure I’ll ever get the chance:

I want you to have all of the happiness you deserve.

I’m sorry I ever doubted you.

You’re an amazing writer… and kisser.

I regret not getting to know the real you sooner.

I regret not admitting my feelings sooner

I am very protective of you now, more than you could ever know.

You’re cute… all the time.

Like seriously stop being cute.

You look hot when you dress up.

You make me happy.

Thank you for being someone I can trust, and for being there.

Thank you for taking me to senior prom.

Thank you for just… knowing.

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anonymous asked:

Less of a fuck coworkers and more of a ??? So like I work at a restaurant. I'm one of the new hosts I've been there for like a week and a half. I got one of the servers names wrong while wearing a guest (there are a lot of servers and I'm bad at names) and she like bitched about that to one of the other hosts saying "my NAME is X NOT Y". Like, uh I was close and you KNOW I'm new you can't expect me to magically know your name when I JUST MET YOU TODAY.

Love Triangle - Final (Jensen x Reader)

Originally posted by jmaclean

Characters: Jensen Ackles x Female Reader, Daughter!OC Gracely

Warnings: Fluff, some cussing

Word Count: 671 (short for the last part, sorry)

Catch up! Part 1 Part 2 Part 3

(Before reading, I just want to say thank you for everyone who has read this and gave me such kind words. I love you all so much!)


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anonymous asked:

It may come in the third installment of the rivals series, but 10 times Yakov realized he had a wrong first impression of Yuuri?

There isn’t really a way for me to do this one as there aren’t 10 separate times and also you will see Yakov’s progression from using Yuuri’s routines as example’s for his skaters to ‘I always knew there was something wrong about you’ to ‘I misjudged you’ in obs&bh so anything I say will be a bit of a spoiler 

onabalconyinsummerair  asked:

omg bless another person who doesn't hate on william, my dash is so full of hate it is so annoying. sigh. a lot of people just hated on william and now they get validation without even analyzing how they would feel or react when it would happen to them. Like, I saw a lot of ppl already giving him shit over not letting Noora explain at first that shit with niko but hello, how would you react if you thought your partner slept with your brother?? i'm so done with all the hate THEY WERE BOTH WRONG

they should’ve communicated then and they should’ve communicated now. like, so many problems in ALL of skam could be avoided if ppl just TALKED about stuff. sigh. i’m so tired. I’m just happy there are some people like you left :)

listen, that thing about him ghosting her in s2 was bad, i agree, but like first of all, you can bet nico did not tell him he had “raped” his girlfriend, he probably told him he seduced her and they slept together, and william is vulnerable to his brother, i mean this is the guy who made him feel like crap for years, who drove a car off a cliff with william and in their sister in it (killing her), william can’t help but feel specially vulnerable to his exploits and nico knew that and he USED it against him. i refuse to hold this against william when he didn’t know noora was blackout drunk when it happened. i mean, do you really expect someone like nico to tell him he’d taken advantage of his drunk girlfriend? yeah, didn’t think so

as for what’s happening right now, FUCKING HELL, how can people be so transparent. like, personally, i would be very hurt if someone i trusted and loved lied to me about the person that had manipulated me for years. i said it in the tags on that other post and i’ll say it again,  i 100% believe that william would’ve supported noora completely on her decision not to testify, but it was the lying about it that hurt him the most. and we know already that he way of dealing with heartbreak and hurt is to distance himself from the person who did it i.e. noora. now, her decision to leave without saying a word, while wrong, might be understandable. and the fact that neither of them have reached out to each other so far puts them BOTH in the wrong. it’s not just one or the other’s fault

anyway, i just wish people would stop putting noora on a pedestal and crucifying william when they both made mistakes and that’s what makes them human and that’s what makes skam so real and relatable. i’m tired of seeing hate for the sake of it. thank you for the message, i will keep defending william to the end bc i think that he shouldn’t be hated and crucified for making mistakes just like everyone else on this show.

i’m weak for rafa and i know you thirsty mofos are too.  i’m also so excited to write this and did a lot of (probably mostly unnecessary) research for this, but i’m no ballet expert, so please don’t be afraid to tell me i’m wrong about something.

title: you’re hot in a world that’s cold, pt. 1 (entrée)
fandom: hamilcast(???), basically lmao
pairing: rafael casal x reader
rating: t for swearing
word count: 3433
tagged: @tailored-shirt-tails

After a bad knee injury and surgery, you’ve been forced to take a break from ballet.  You decide to take some classes at NYU Tisch in the meanwhile, where Rafael Casal is guest teaching, and the two of you tiptoe the blurred student-teacher boundary.

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Please Respect The Show And Other Fans.

As you all are aware, the season 3 intro that was presented at the Closing of the Art Gallery in California was leaked by TheKingdomOfMewni.( I could be wrong but that’s where I found it) To all the people that are deciding or is about to post the intro to the public, please think and be aware of the consequences and negativity you will receive while doing so. And to the people that have already posted the “leak” out already, I would highly recommend to delete your post immediately and don’t refuse yourself because of the views, likes, or and any other responses you can receive from others. If you would like to make the argument that, “Daron already knows it doesn’t matter anymore!” Or “It’s not a big deal, just be happy I got this footage from you!”, you can go ahead and keep them since I’m not forcing anyone here to do anything right or wrong. But, don’t be surprised if we all get the news we never wanted and the fandom is going to be filled with certain “feelings” and “opinions” to those who encourage the idea of posting the intro and gave them one of those 2 arguments or a different one. I hope does the right thing and make sure we are still a stable fandom. Last time Im talking about this.

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs

guys i just read the worst comment on youtube: so this woman comments that this video helped her with her PTSD from pregnancy, and this guy has the audacity to fuckin tell her “you can’t get PTSD from pregnancy, PTSD is for war vets”. and im like??? BOY u know nothing about this woman’s situation wtf ? ?? do men ?? know a nythgn? about LABOR???? and the countless ways it can go wrong??? listen to me guys if you think childbirth is as easy as taking a shit for every woman then ive got news for u. a lot of women are in constant labor for 36+ hours pal !!! so this guy continues like “am I supposed to care or something? you live in the first world where you have drugs that reduce and nullify the pain at will.” UM BUDDY there are so many women in first world countries who can’t get an epidural from the hospital due to the fact that some hospitals are extremely strict on how far you’re dialated, and they don’t want to risk having to do a c-section; and then they stick a tube in your spine and the drugs are liable to fail. and then there are others who simply have health-related issues, or without access to proper care. THEN he says: “if you experience psychological breakdown comparable to people in warfare who see men blown apart from just pooping out a kid, that just shows that you’re an extremely mentally weak and overly sensitive person.” GUYS IM NOT JOKING THIS GUY FUCKSIN GF !!!1!1! ok first of all, ”pooping out a kid”. boy i sure hope ur mama reads this!! thanks drdray711 on youtube, i guess u think women are weak for developing mental conditions after being in a situation where you could literally die–kinda like people in warfare? so today i learned that even if u told a dude that more than a thousand women in the US die from childbirth each year and that number is increasing, and that many experts consider childbirth one of the most challenging things most women will ever do in her lifetime, crusty men are still gonna be like “if birds can do it, why can’t u??”

selfish (e.d.)

~Hello lovelies! My last two posts have been all about Gray, so I think it’s time I finally write a lil somethin’ somethin’ about E. This is the first time I’ve done an imagine involving song lyrics and I absolutely love the idea of it, so I hope y’all enjoy. I’m very proud of this. :)


***No warnings 

SONG: “Selfish” by Future ft. Rihanna 

(also the letter in the ending is made up of the words to the interlude Little by The Maine.)

It was right, 

Even though it felt wrong. 

Nothing ever stopped you 

From showing your progression, suddenly..

Heart swelling, clammy palms, loss of breath.. All the symptoms sappy, old people used to describe “love” and what it was like falling into it. It wasn’t supposed to happen to you. You had witnessed too much pain being caused at the hands of love. Love wasn’t ever something you imagined yourself being in, nor was it something you ever longed for. Until him, that is. The moment you first looked into those large, alluring eyes, you felt an unfamiliar sting in the pit of your stomach. They were stunning. Their smoked honey tone was suddenly your new favorite color. You didn’t even know what the hell “smoked honey” was, but it probably looked exactly like those shining orbs. His plump, baby pink lips were begging to be kissed, and his large hands that adorned many veins seemed as if they would be the perfect companions for yours to keep warm. The small sting in your stomach began to rise and set alarms off in your head: stop staring! stop dreaming! His beauty wasn’t worth the pain he would inevitably cause you… Was it? Seeing so many failed loves, you promised yourself you wouldn’t ever risk it.

Ethan Grant Dolan changed that. Ethan Grant Dolan changed you.

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ask-mugman  asked:

"i-i- ... ...I'm sorry!! I'm sorry I haven't spent much time with you and I'm sorry I hurt your feelings- I'm sorry I pushed you to the point of feeling so upset to the point you- ...I-.. If you'll permit it- I promise i'll try to be better- a-and there for you and Cuphead-" *he started crying-

“m-m-mug calm down please,what are you bein all sorry about you havent done anything wrong!”

calltomuster  asked:

Honestly, ever since season 4, watching any Sherlock makes me sick. I even blacklisted TJLC and Sherlock just because I didn't want to see things that made me sad anymore. It's really disappointing. I used to think Sherlock was the best show on TV.

Hey Lovely,

I’m so sorry that you hurt so much, and you do what you have to do to protect yourself and your mental health.

I still think it was one of the best shows – before S4 anyway. It helped a lot of us learn about who we were, opened our eyes to viewing the world in a different way, and taught us how to read subtext – I’ll forever be grateful to this series for that at least. Whatever happened in S4, we don’t know, but I am certain we were not wrong in our reading of it; even the surface-level reading media thought S4 was a wash and made no sense. I still consider TAB to be a masterpiece, and Ben and Martin’s chemistry and performances in the whole series above A+. 

Something happened within that one year span that we just aren’t aware of, and it’s sad, though, that what we got has divided us all so much. I hope that you find your happiness, Lovely <3

I don’t know how anyone can hate her. You may dislike her but you don’t even know her enough to hate her. From what I know about her she has such a kind heart and is so humble. If anyone thinks that the comments she made were to hurt anyone you are so wrong. She was giving her team constructive criticism. Everyone wants to win,nobody likes the feeling of losing but in order to do that everyone needs to be giving 100% including Ashlyn.I bet you not one person on that team were hurt from the comments she made. They are never going to get anywhere as a team if there weaknesses are not discussed. People say things out of frustration and if you were in the same situation you would say the same thing. As a captain it’s her job to lead her team to victory and as professional football players they are expected to be able to take constructive criticism in order to succeed.

So To all the people that “hate” her and always have snide remarks to make about her online. Just know that things are changing and soon people will be held accountable for what they say online. Huge wake up call soon for some people.

Thoughts on the new clip

1. Vilde and Magnus are fucking disgusting.I mean,I like them both as characters but together they are gross.
2. Let the Noora x Sana friendship rise!
3. I’m so happy that Noora finally realised that she’s better off without William.
4. Also,I thought that Sana would tell her about his new girlfriend,but I guess she thought that it wasn’t the right time or that Noora interupted her.
5. Even thought the things that Noora said about Islam were totally WRONG,I think that Sana is at fault too.Noora’s main problem here is ignorance.Sana should tell her how things really are,even if Noora didn’t want to listen.When you are correcting a person this is not only beneficial for you but for the other person as well.Especially if they are your friend.ALSO SHE SHOULD FUCKING TELL HER ALREADY TO STEP THE FUCK BACK OF YOUSEF,BECAUSE HE IS HERS!! YOUSANA FOR THE WIN BITCHES😎

Updated LGBTQIA+ Starters

For trans, genderfluid, genderqueer, gay, bi, pan, ace, non-binary, demi, and all other labels/terms under the lgbtqia+ umbrella.. Also some ally-friendly things too  // also feel free to add more

I needed to make some adjustments / fix a sentence && add a bunch more very important sentences

  • “So, you wanted to talk to me about something?”
  • “I’m just a little different from before, it’s not bad but.. I don’t know how you’ll react.”
  • “You seem anxious today, is everything okay?”
  • “I need to tell you something really important!”
  • “Whoa sorry, i didn’t know you were changing in here-! Wait?”
  • “Ah-! Get out of here! Forget what you saw!”
  • “Why should it matter?”
  • “I thought you’d think of me differently..”
  • “Hey, stop crying, what’s wrong? What did you want to tell me?”
  • “Ple-Please don’t be mad o-or dislike me..”
  • “Why are you looking in the mens/womens section?”
  • “I’m only looking in the boys/girls for a bit, shut up!”
  • “Um.. I found this in your closet?”
  • “Why were you in my closet? What did you find?”
  • “Why is there a ton of makeup in here?”
  • “My mom leaves her stuff everywhere, gees..”
  • “..It’s okay.. It doesn’t change how i feel about you.”
  • “Thank you for understanding so well..”
  • “So.. You’re not a boy?.. But you’re not a girl?”
  • “I’m not a boy or a girl, I’m just-!.. Me.”
  • “Whoa.. ..That’s so cool!”
  • “I know, I’m sorry i didn’t tell you this sooner- Wait what?”
  • “This is news to me. I have to think for a while.”
  • “Please don’t leave, please!.. It’s nothing new!..”
  • “I’m confused about my gender.”
  • “I’m confused about my sexuality.”
  • “I’m confused about my gender and sexuality.”
  • “My romantic orientation and sexual orientation are two different things.”
  • “But I like ladies and I like guys”
  • “I realize it’s a surprise…..”
  • “I’m gettin’ bi”
  • “Oh yeah, I’m lettin’ my bi flag fly”
  • “I’m a bi kinda guy/gal”
  • “My, oh, my, it’s a fact I can’t deny”
  • I”’m bi, bi, bi until the day I die”
  • “Oh, you’re just gay, Why don’t you just go gay all the way?”
  • “I’m afraid someone might say “Oh, you’re just gay, Why don’t you just go gay all the way?””
  • “That’s not it ‘cause bi’s legit”
  • “Whether you’re a he or a she, we might be a perfect fit”
  • “Whether you’re a he or a she, I’m here. I love you.”
  • “I don’t know whether I’m a he or a she.” 
  • “Being bi/pan does not imply that you’re a player or a slut”
  • “You might just catch my eye because I’m definitely bi/pan/gay/etc”
  • “It’s not a phase; I’m not confused; Not indecisive.”
  • “I don’t have the “gotta choose” blues”
  • “I don’t care if you wear high heels or a tie”
  • “It doesn’t take an intellectual to get that I’m bisexual /etc”
  • “This is how I want to see my body..”
  • “ i kissed a girl/boy and i liked it. ”
  • “I’ve always been this way. This has always been me.”
  • “Nothing’s changed because I’m ___”
  • “Nothing changes for me. I accept you.”
  • “I swing the other way.”
  • “It’s cool that you swing the other way.”
  • “I don’t know what my gender identity is. I just know what I’m not.”
  • “If I hear one more pan sexual joke…”
  • “Pansexual? Does that mean you like pans?”
  • “I’m ____”
  • “I am _____, that’s what I wanted to tell you.”
  • “Pansexuals are magical.”
  • “Yup, I’m pansexual, which means I like pans.”
  • “I’m not going back into the closet.”
  • “Well, looks like the cat’s out of the closet.”
  • “Let’s let this cat out of the closet? I’ll be here for you.”
  • “Let’s let this cat out of the closet.”
  • “You’re coming out… I want you to be comfortable.”
  • “I am tired of hiding.”
  • “I’m tired of lying.”
  • “I am tired of hiding and I am tired of lying by omission.”
  • “I suffered for years because I was scared to be out.”
  • “I’m here today because I am gay.”
  • “You know if you reversed that Death Note character, Light’s last name, Yagmai, it spells out I am gay.”
  • “I didn’t realize how many people actually knew…”
  • “Was it that obvious?”
  • “Oh trust me, you aren’t that straight.”
  • “I’ve seen the way you look at me.”
  • “Be who you are.”
  • “I’m not ashamed to be me.”
  • “I’m not ashamed of you.”
  • “What’s wrong with being unique?”
  • “I am proud of everything that I am and will become.”
  • “ There are so many qualities that make up a human being…”
  • “Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself.”
  • “ I don’t have any secrets I need kept anymore.”
  • “Gay people don’t actually try to convert people.  That’s Jehovah’s Witnesses you’re thinking of.”
  • “Heterosexuality is not normal, it’s just common.”
  • The fact is, I’m gay/bi/trans/___, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.”
  • “There is no gay agenda – it’s a human agenda.”
  • “All of us should be treated the same… Long live love.”
  • “It’s okay. It may not seem like it right now, but you are going to be fine.”
  • “ I know it’s scary, but don’t be afraid.”
  • “You are who you are, and you should love that person.”
  • “Let’s get one thing straight…. I’m not.”
  • “I’m not gay, I’m not straight, I’m GRAIGHT!”
  • “Cupcakes are just gay muffins.”
  • “Spaghetti is straight until it gets wet.”
  • “I’m not straight, I just bend both ways.”
  • “I’m from lesbos, I only come in peace.”
  • “I’m more of a graceful ace.”
  • “I’m a space ace kinda of guy/gal/__.” 
  • “Instead of ‘gay friends’ can we say ‘homiesexuals’?”
  • “Not gay as in happy but queer as in fuck you.”
  • “Be a fruit loop in a world of cheerios.”
  • “Don’t ask me about my orientation because you’re not going to get a straight answer.”
  • “I like my men like I like my wallet, big and covered in leather.”
  • “I like my women like I like my coffee, hot and sweet.”
  • “You come out as yourself.”
  • “I’m not a dude, I was born intersex.”
  • “You don’t get someone to fall in love with you. They fall in love with you because of who you are.”
  • “I’m a triple A threat; agender, aromantic, asexual.” 
  • “I have a medical condition called androgen insensitivity syndrome.”
  • “It’s not something you can get.”
  • “I was born with XY chromosomes, but I developed as female, okay?”
  • “The pills I take are estrogen/testosterone because my body doesn’t make any.”
  • “That little bitch is threatening to tell my ___ I’m a _____.”
  • “I’m proud of my __(intersex/bi/etc)___ ___(child/friend/etc).”
  • “I meant what I said, I don’t care if you were born a little different.”
  • “I was born a little different…”
  • “I have something to tell you…”
  • “I am not a man nor am I am woman.”
  • “I exist outside of the two binary gender.”
  • “I am neither gender. I identify as genderless/gender-neutral/agender.” 
  • “I am genderfluid/genderqueer, let me explain to what that means for me.”
  • “My gender identity and gender expression don’t line up.”
  • “My gender identity and gender expression are two different things.”  
  • “No one should be pressured to slap on a label so that someone else can define them.”
  • “What are your preferred pronouns?”
  • “These are my pronouns, ____, please use them and respect them from here on.”
An open letter

Screw you.

You. You’re the one that took away my childhood and my innocence. I didn’t know it was wrong at first; how could I? I was a mere 3rd grader. And when I did, and tried to stand up for myself? You told me I didn’t love you. You told me no one cared about you. You played the victim and made me feel bad just so I would give you what you wanted, when in reality, we both know I was the victim and you should be feeling like the piece of shit you are. You made me feel disgusting and broken, and I could never, ever, wash your hands off of me.

You. No longer granting me reassurance or privacy. My room was no longer my safe haven, and the smell of alcohol gave me a breif warning of what was to come. Until it didn’t. Until your disgusting tendencies carried over to when you were sober. Everytime, I had to forget and act like nothing happened. Everytime, I could never scrub hard enough. Everytime, I could never sleep without feeling like there was something on me that would never come off.

You. Now sitting in jail because after 6- almost 7- years, I finally gained the courage to speak up, and now you decide to ask for an attorney and plead not guilty. My mother, your wife, is angry. She’s clearing out our home of everything that reminds her of you. She’s taking back her maiden name so she doesn’t have to associate with you. Your sons, my brothers, hate you.

You. You knew that my mom, your own wife, was sexually abused by her mother’s boyfriend. You knew she has severe PTSD. You knew that you were sometimes a trigger. You knew, that because she went through it herself, she was already suspicious of what you might have been doing to me. I have PTSD, and I had to hide it for over 6 years just to protect your ass, “as a loving daughter should.” You arrogant bastard, who told me that you wouldn’t stop enjoying an alcoholic drink whenever you wanted just because it made me uncomfortable; that you wouldn’t make your choices for me, your own daughter; that it was okay because you weren’t going to get drunk anymore (even though we both know that was a lie).

You. I had hoped you would just confess, then maybe I could forgive you. But no. You wouldn’t talk to the detective yesterday. You forced me to recount everything you’ve done to me. You made me relive it all; and because you knew how to put on one hell of a show, your family doesn’t believe me. Your mother and stepfather, my grandparents, are harrasing my mom. Your sisters, my aunts, along the rest of your family, think I’m making it all up. They think my mom put it all in my head. They think it’s fake. They think you’re innocent. Your own mother is just waiting until she can pay your bail; because why would “her baby boy” ever do such a thing? And to think that they said they loved me.

You. You’re going to be in the news tomorrow. The day I have to go back to school. The whole time I just have to pray no one will find out it’s me. The whole time I’ll have to hope that no one will ask questions. The whole time I have to act like I know nothing so they don’t press, so I can be left alone, so I won’t ever have to say “my dad sexually abused me” again.

You. You made my life a living hell, and now, just so you can save your fucking pride, you’re passing it on to everyone that my mom and I know because you don’t want to be in prison. Well you know what? The detective believes me. My REAL family, the ones that ACTUALLY LOVE ME, believes me. My friends will believe me when the time comes for them to know. Three attorneys already believe me. And you wanna know what? You bet your ass that jury will believe me, because no matter how arrogant you are, you can’t keep running and hiding from the truth. The only person who could hear and see me tell every detail, only to look me dead in the eyes and easily tell me that I’m lying, is YOU, because you’re already a monster.

You. You better prepare for the rest of your life. It’s going to be a living hell, worse than you can even imagine. You won’t be able to see me or your two little boys grow up. You won’t be able to be near us, you can’t speak to us, hell, you can’t even pass messages to us (3rd party contact, we can legally go after you if you do). You won’t be at your kids’ weddings, and you sure as hell won’t ever see your grandchildren. In fact, I can list off more than 20 people right now who will easily take your place and do a much better job. Every event in our home town you used to go to with your family? Yeah, you’d better find some new things to do, because we’re not going to stop going to those. We’re just going to force you out of those events and gatherings, because we can all finally live our lives freely and happily. In fact, it brings me joy to know that you can’t attend my music concerts anymore, you can’t go to the Independence Day Parade, you can’t enjoy Christmas in the City, in fact you might as well just move out of town. Better yet, move out of this state so I don’t have to share anything with you anymore.

You. I’m glad I’ll never have to call you my father ever again. If you aren’t gifted with a sentence that leaves you to rot in prison, I hope the rest of your life is absolutely miserable.

Screw you.

~ Chloey

anonymous asked:

Did you get the idea for hacker hoseok from YH1NM!!! (I realized I got the title wrong and I sent it to the wrong blog sorry😅😅)

I ACTUALLY DIDNT THINK ABOUT THAT but I might have subconsciously LOL but I wanted him to be a hacker to support his powers aka make his heists flawless. I also need it for the story so yeah! Hacker hoseok is a good concept™