Ok i may be paranoid because my girlfriend is obsessed with this band but i have to ask. The girls who go to every show and try to meet the guys all the time. is it because deep down inside is y'all think that you could potentially date one of them?
Not at all. Meeting them is about seeing the boys who play the songs that make us happy. There is something about the music that changes our mood, that makes us smile after hearing the first chord. We want to meet them to thank them even if we don’t say it aloud. They are the embodiment of the music. For me, they helped me through my depression without even realizing it, their live shows helped me meet my very best friends. I do adore van, but I know we would never date, I just want him to know that his lyrics, bobs drums, Bondy guitar solos, and benjis bass lines changed something inside of me!