i wanted to see more of their friendship

anonymous asked:

i ship heather and valencia (as anyone who's seen five seconds of them interacting should) but as much as i love them together i haven't really seen the evidence on the show that they might be heading in that direction forreal that a lot of people seem to. am i being completely blind here? what would you point to as being the most obvious romantic moments between them? just curious and wanting a second opinion, no pressure to answer :)

most people i know in the fandom – myself included – don’t see heather/valencia as an inevitability, rather something we really really really want. that hope is intense, but of course we don’t know what the writers have planned.

as for scenes that obviously spell out romance, i’d point out that f/f relationships are often read as strong friendships and nothing more by the majority of television consumers. a large part of that trend can be blamed on the fact that there aren’t many models for what f/f attraction looks like, and the examples that are out there don’t always do a great job of communicating the actual experiences of wlw. so what might look like obvious romance between heather and valencia to some would look like nothing more than a supportive friendship to others. it’s the way our brains have been wired to read f/f relationships. the possibility of anything more than friendship simply doesn’t occur to some people.

the aspects of the heather/valencia relationship that make me read them as more than friends include:

  • their unwavering support and encouragement of each other (“you’re really good at this”)
  • they’re considerate of each other’s feelings (“wait, no, i should not be talking to you about this”)
  • the fact that they listen to each other’s problems ( “truth is, i actually don’t know what to do with my life right now”…“that sounds really hard”)
  • their constant silent communication (if they’re in a scene with each other, they always share at least one meaningful look…they are each other’s touchstone)
  • “i always knew i liked you”

sure these things could be read as friendship…but is friendship not an excellent foundation upon which to build romantic love? a good friendship can make for an excellent partnership and i happen to believe that heather and valencia would make some of the best partners.

plus? they’re really attractive people and i happen to enjoy watching attractive people with a deep emotional connection make out with each other.

i don’t know if this answered your question, but i’m always happy to discuss h/v with fellow shippers. so thanks for asking!

I really want to see more cis boys who like boys being actively supportive of trans boys who like boys bc I’m tired of being afraid to flirt or form friendships with other queer guys bc I don’t know if they really see me as a guy

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BNHA: Female friendships

i feel like im alone in this but I really want to read more about the bitty/jack FRIENDSHIP. like, sure, pining and obliviousness is fun, but tell me about the time jack stayed up all night to help bitty rewrite a paper that accidentally got deleted and then held that over his head the rest of the semester any time bitty whined about Jack’s dad jokes. write sonnets about the way bitty chirped jack mercilessly for WEEKS for accidentally breaking the drink machine in the dining hall. pls show me all the times jack tried to wrestle bitty.

✨Z I M B I T S F R I E N D S H I P✨

some stuff that would be cool in the next animal crossing:

having your other characters be active in the town while you play on your main (see them walking/fishing/talking to villagers, etc..)

being able to take pictures with villagers (think of the Sims 4 camera skill) and frame the pics

placing public works projects the way you place furniture in ACHHD

l o n g e r h a i r s t y l e s

official gyroid section in the museum!!!

being able to play the live version of KK’s songs in your house

a path building system that’s something more developed than placing patterns on the ground one by one

mean villagers that you really have to work hard to get to like you/having to work harder for friendships in general

you know how sometimes a villager is like “oooh I heard _____ and _____ were together on the beach” I want those things to be REAL. i want DRAMA. give me the hot gossip

being able to go in the river

placing villager houses (obviously)

bring back notes in a bottle, have them be something that you can receive from random players all over the world

seeing NPCs around the town when their shop is closed

ISABELLE GETS SUNDAYS OFF

BTS replaced you. - pt.3

[pt.1] [pt.2] [pt.3]


Originally posted by hobixing

“Ah… they did? What did they say?” Hongseok passes my phone to me as I read the messages I haven’t opened for the last few hours. Seeing them still hurt because it still feels insincere, as if I was alone in this friendship. 

“Are you going to reply?” Hongseok asked while taking one of my hand in his from under the blanket. It was barely even 6am and I wasn’t down for the drama just yet. 

“Not yet, let’s have cake.” I say smiling, and dragging him with me over to the kitchen still with my phone in one hand.

I took the cake out from the fridge and set it on the table between Hongseok and I. He placed a candle in the centre and lit it, turning the light off before he took his seat. The room was dark and the winter sun hasn’t yet risen and so all that was left to light up the room was the moonlight seeping through the gaps of the blinds and the orange candlelight. A few seconds after, the room was filled with his voice - he sang happy birthday and I couldn’t help but wear a smile on my face. His voice was pretty and I honestly couldn’t thank him enough for doing all this for me. When the short song came to an end we both clapped, I clapped to applaud his singing and he clapped to applaud me fo coming to life twenty-one years ago.

“Make a wish Y/N.” 

“Wishes don’t come true Hongseok.” 

“I’ll make sure this one does, as long as it’s realistic and I can afford it.” He laughed as I smiled. 

“There’s nothing I want.” 

“But there is, I can tell.”

“I just want a shoulder to lean on and not be a burden to people.” 

“Done!” I laughed at his enthusiasm.

“I’ll always be your shoulder to lean on, and you’re never going to be a burden to me.”

“It makes me feel as though I’m replacing them because that’s exactly what they said to me five years ago.” 

“I’m not asking to take their place silly, but just know that I’m always going to be here for you.” He grabbed my hand again from across the table and rubbed his thumb on the back of my hand. I wanted to cry in this moment because I was so grateful of him and his words. 

“I don’t deserve someone like you in my life.” 

“Idiot, I told you this already. You deserve more and better but you’re stuck with me now.” 

“I like the sound of that though.” We both laughed and enjoyed one another’s company. Until my phone dinged, showing a notification from the group chat. I un-muted the conversation but didn’t think they’d be up to say anything.

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1. I wasn’t in love with you anymore, but god, this knocked the wind out of me.

2. You were just here.

3. You were just here.

4. Do you remember? The frozen food pressed to your shoulder, the way you shook with the knowledge of a barely avoided death?

5. My mouth. Yours.

6. I had been struggling with my old poems about you. You know, you were the first one I ever wrote. I had some questions for you, Cleveland. I suppose I don’t have them anymore.

7. It isn’t even seeing you kiss her that’s the problem. It’s that you share a table.

8. Maybe “wife” bothers me, too. I know how that word sounds, coming from you. Remember? Those long drives? Perhaps I still exist as your heart when you hit the road.

9. You still exist as mine when I hit the words.

10. I couldn’t read them aloud anymore, the poems. That old pain. It didn’t exist. We had chased it away with chocolate and cherries. Still, you occupy a shelf in the bright. In the cold .

11. You always have been impossibly careless with my heart. With my new lives, all of them.

12. There’s a Smiths song – if you were reading my texts I would send you it – it goes: and I’m not happy / and I’m not sad. I’m not sad, seeing you happy. She looks as full of light as I used to when you kissed me. I am glad for her. I know what you have to give.

13. It’s the loss of our friendship. More a removal. A reopened scar, from the last time. Remember, how we were friends? We’ve been so good at it. I can’t believe you won’t hear from me now. I couldn’t believe you wouldn’t hear from me, then. You know the words. 

14. I just wanted to wish you well. I just. I just wanted to be what I always have been. Yours, in whatever form we decide.

15. Nearly two years since we met and you still find new ways to let me down. I think it impresses me more than it wounds.

16. You told me all about her, remember? We discovered we had both loved ghosts, since the last time you cried on my couch. Do you remember? The things that we allow to haunt us take root in the end. I need to change my sheets.

17. I wonder if I am the ghost now. The woman you never had the courage to keep. Do I haunt you, darling? I can hear your voice saying yes. Feel the reach of your arms as I spin out of them, laughing. Do I echo?

18. You kissed me like you used to, the last time. You will again, the next. You always do.

19. In a poem I never got the chance to read you, I said that you exist suspended in time. In flashes of white sheets. Bathed in orange light on the Golden Gate Bridge. Spinning me around on a cold February evening. One year ago today.

20. One year ago today, you laid next to me. We cried about something that doesn’t matter anymore. It didn’t matter then, either.

21. Do you remember the words? Of that last song at what we thought was the last breakfast. You sat me on your knee.

22. Your hands shook as you held me tight. I put my lips to your ear. Do you remember? The words. Say them with me.

23. In my own sick way / I’ll always stay true to you.

—  Upon Seeing Your New Girlfriend For The First Time. Charlotte Ford.
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Ok but you know how many feelings I’m having about Bitty having taken Shitty’s role as the keeper of the traditions?

Like my son has grown so much, remember when he was just a scared tiny little frog findings his way around this crazy team?

Now look at him so confident and at ease, with a boyfriend and out to his friends.

Still I kind of want to read about Shitty and Bitty’s friendship, did Shitty put him aside and taught him everything he knew? Did he see Bitty’s potential and started mentoring him since year 1?

In conclusion, we need more Bitty and Shitty friendship fics.

Things I want to see in season 3

-Eleven/Jane and Mike fighting the Mind Flayer side by side because they’re a BAMF couple

-Steve and Dustin being the ultimate BroTP that they are

-Hopper and Joyce AT LEAST going out on a date

-Kali finds Eleven and helps in the final fight against the Mind Flayer

-Find out what happened to 1-7 and 9 and 10 (are they out there or did Hawkins Lab kill them???) and are there more beyond Eleven??

-MORE ERICA SINCLAIR PLEASE

-More Mike and Will scenes because honestly they are friendship goals

-Hopper being super protective of Eleven and super hard on Mike because Hopper is now dad material and doesn’t want to see Eleven get hurt (EVEN THOUGH I WOULD HOPE MIKE WOULD NEVER BREAK ELEVEN’S HEART)

-Also, Hopper going to Joyce for parenting advice because he has no idea what he’s doing and he never had the chance to do this with Sarah

-Less of Mike and Nancy’s parents because they are THE WORST

-Though I kinda half expect Mike and Nancy’s mom to have an affair with Billy because I got a weird vibe from their exchange in episode 9 and I’m actually kinda game for it???

-JUSTICE FOR BOB AND MEW

I never really thought that friend break-ups were a thing. Yeah I’ve heard people say ‘we used to be friends’ or ‘we don’t talk anymore’ but I’ve never actually pondered the ending of a friendship.

I’ve witnessed girls going through breakups, and they always talk about the same things. The way one person stops showing interest,
how they talk less, fight about stupid things, stop feeling the spark. I’ve never felt that before. Never watched a person gradually lose interest in me, text me less, stop wanting to spend every second with me.

Never until now. And god, it f*cking hurts.

Who would have thought my first heartbreak would come from my longest standing friendship? But that’s the way life works, isn’t it? You watch the one good thing you have slowly slip away until you aren’t even sure why but suddenly it’s almost out of your grasp and there’s nothing you can do but wait.

So you feel yourself waiting. Waiting for the texts to stop all together, waiting for the hangouts to become a thing of the past. Waiting for that final blow. But nothing could hurt more than the realisation that there will be no 'final blow’. Because it’s already over. And you’re not exactly sure when, or how, but you know if you stop trying now then everything will cease.

And who can you blame but yourself? And do you know what the worst part is? You can’t even be mad at the other person, because what have they done except lose interest in you? It sucks when all you want is to be by their side, to call them and text them and see them everyday, but they’re done with you. And how can you be any more than you are now, I guess you’ll just never be enough.

So you’re left mourning the end of a friendship, without even truly understanding what’s been lost.

And now your heart is f**king broken but who would even understand because are friend break-ups even a f*cking thing?

A Letter to my Ex Best Friend

Sorry for any grammatical errors. I haven’t edited it yet so I’m sorry in advance lolll. But this is something very personal that I wrote today and hopefully someone else could relate. 

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I was going through my memory box today and a lot of stuff that involved you came up.  It brought me back to the good times and I almost texted you but then I remembered that you’re just a stranger now. It’s been a couple months since we last talked. Crazy huh? How in just a year we went from being inseperable to complete strangers. If someone had asked us a year or two ago if we could see our life without each other in it, we would have laughed and said no; Now here we are.

I would be lying if I said I haven’t thought about you or that I didn’t miss you. I do miss you, a lot. So much has happened since we last talked, and I wish I could share it all with you. There has been times where I picked up my phone to text you but then I would remember you’re not that person anymore; And it’s sad because for the longest time it seemed like you’d be that person who stayed in my life for a long while. I miss being close with your family and being able to call your home my home as well. I miss having the privilege of saying I had more than one family. It’s crazy how much can change in a short amount of time.

I hope you don’t hate me for walking away when I did. I hope one day you understand that I had to or else we would have never known just how toxic our friendship had been. There is quite a few things I know I could have done better and shouldn’t have done, same goes for you. We are both to blame for our friendship being as unhealthy as it was. Though it was so unhealthy, we shared a lot of great memories and I’d like to think it was equally good as it was bad.

I’m sorry. I’m sorry we’re not best friends anymore and I’m sorry I had to be the one to walk away. I’m sorry for any pain I caused. I’m sorry I couldn’t be your person anymore. I’m sorry we couldn’t do everything we wanted to. I’m sorry I tried to blame you for our friendship ending. I’m sorry I tried to hate you because damn did I try. I tried so hard and for awhile it worked because hating you and being mad at you was easier than missing you. But I realize that I could never hate you, no matter how mad I am about what happened. I’m sorry this is how it had to end for us, but that’s life for you. Not everything goes the way it should or how you want it to.

But I would like to thank you. Thank you for being my person for as long as you were. Thank you for being patient with me while I learned how to trust another person. Thank you for the memories I will never forget. Thank you for caring enough to break through the walls I had worked so hard to build over the years. Thank you for being the person I could run to for everything and anything. Thank you for being the person I could count on. Thank you for being the person I could confide in without the fear of judgement. Thank you for teaching me how to love and be loved. Thank you for showing me that I can still trust others and be trusted. Thank you for proving to me that people come into our lives for a reason and though they may not stay, the lessons learned are a blessing.

I would like to say I can see us being friends again in the future but I’d only be spitting out false hope. It would never be the same and if I happen to see you one day, I’ll smile and walk away. My heart will break a little and all our memories will hit me like a train but I’ll feel grateful for the time we did have together. Some people aren’t meant to stay in your life forever and unfortunately I learned you are one of those people. They say some people only come into your life to teach you a lesson and leave, but the most important people leave a mark. Well you left a mark and I am thankful for you coming into my life when you did.

I know you may never see this but I needed to get it off my chest. There were a lot of words unsaid and a lot of words I wish I could have said. I guess I’m writing this to get a small sense of closure for myself.

I hope you and your family are doing well. I hope you get everything you want and more in the life you chose for yourself.

You’ll always hold a place in my heart.

Sincerely,

Your Ex Best Friend

fate.

it’s not just the fact. the fact that you message me everyday at 4 am just to remind me to take better care of myself. the fact that you do it even after I tell you not to. the fact that I barely answer back on time. the fact that you’re on the other side of the planet. the fact that an online friend is one of my biggest fans. the fact that you remind me to eat and drink. the fact that you love throwing random information around, my own personal human google, you’re the lightbulb of my ideas. the fact that you hate yourself just as much as I hate myself. the fact that you blame yourself for your uncle’s death. the fact that you love me more than I love myself. the fact that you love my poetry more than the amount of poems I’ve written, and I’ve written plenty. the fact that you’re still here after all of this time. you are simply too damn cute, by simply being you. friendship masked as sundown, you never like to see me frown. you always ask– what was your suck and sweet of the day? most days I say nothing. most days I don’t want to talk about it. when I think that I deserve pain, I remember you and I stop. when the moon grows the flowers in my mind, when I can’t come up with hard facts or a simple way to say I love you to myself– I think about you. a thousand rivers must contain one dragon, a thousand nights must be enough for me to forgive myself. you are randomness. you are a singularity. you are a tiny poem. you are pressed daisies. you are an unwritten metaphor, you cross my mind, but I can never formulate you. you are on the tip of my tongue, a prose piece without a single mention about love, but I still feel loved by you. you wanna know why you’re different? a million tumblr accounts, yours is the only one without reblogs, posts or anything. you’re my invisible reader. and I see you for you.

Curiosity Killed The Cat - Stiles Stilinski

Author: @mf-despair-queen

Characters: Stiles Stilinski/Reader

Word Count: 6,437

Warnings: NSFW, 18+, Oral (Both Receiving), Mentions of Public Sex, 69, Orgasm Denial, Masturbation, Multiple Orgasms, Fingering, A LOT OF FILTH

Notes: This is 100000000% for my precious Camile, @minhosmeanhoe because she wanted something involving Stiles and masturbation because this is all we ever talk about (we are horny fuckers lol). But, even better, HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAMILE. You are one of my bestest friends I am glad I am able to talk to you daily. I don’t know what I would do without you. I LOVE YOU!!!!❤️

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Parallels between Blood Moon Ball and Club Snubbed

What do they mean? I have no idea.
Blood Moon Ball was the first moment that hinted at something more than exclusively platonic between two characters who were already more than well established friends, Star and Marco. Obviously that was more implied to the viewers than anything, to the characters it was an occasion to deepen their understanding of each other, and strengthen their friendship.
Meanwhile in Club Snubbed two characters who had a romantic past, not shown into the actual series but only referenced, had the occasion to get closer, after two season and almost one year in universe of very limited and mostly negative interactions. 

Star said that she “needs a friend” in both cases, but we all know how it went with Marco. Does this mean that she’s going to fall again for Tom? That there are going to be romantic developments for Tomstar? Impossible to tell. In my incredible bias I choose, until proven wrong or right (it might happen as early as tomorrow, with Demoncism) that while Blood Moon Ball shed a first, incredibly vague and pale romance shade on Star and Marco, today’s episode might be the beginning of a normal friendship between Star and Tom, with the former not being influenced anymore by whatever didn’t work between the two of them in the past, and the latter being finally able to interact with her in a normal way. Even in this episode, despite having honestly tried his best, Tom still choose an extreme solution, completely ignoring Star, ex girlfriend and supposedly friend, as a way to give her some space, just like he overdid in Blood Moon Ball, trying too hard - until he snapped - to forcefully change himself and the party itself for Star’s sake. And yet Tom is not without merits, since he clearly tired his misguided best, and all he got as a reward was Star scolding him.

And looking at the synopsis for Demoncism it looks like he might, once again, try to change himself in extreme ways, possibly more for the sake of others’ opinion about him, than for himself.

Star and Tom’s friendship is put to the test when Tom decides to get rid of his demons.

Where do I want to go with all of this? I don’t know, the post is all over the place. Club Snubbed featured undeniably flirty moments between people who had a sentimental past together, but this came only after the first real argument we see Tom and Star having on screen - since all previous outbursts were either with Marco, or ended with a demon icicle: conflict, and then resolution, most likely leading in tomorrow’s segment to a chance for Tom to grow as a person (without Marco being around?! Inconceivable!), and possibly for Star to see him under a new light, not more as an ex boyfriend, but as a current friend. If this is going to evolve, if the awestruck behavior she had during the dance is going to have a deeper meaning, influencing the direction feelings and ships are going to take in the near future of the season, it’s something we won’t know for sure at the very least until tomorrow. All I know is that Star, while still being young and confused and often controlled by her emotions (just like she let pride influence her during the ball), grew a lot during the past seasons, and seems to be resolved to put some order both in her life and her kingdom, so I don’t think she’s going to fickly jump from a crush to another one, if something is going to change I expect good and meaningful reasoning to be behind it.

Also it looks like Pony Head is going to be with her in Demoncism, possibly meaning that Scent Of A Hoodie - Club Snubbed - Demoncism are going to be an unexpected trilogy of episodes where Star’s feelings about the important people in her life and about what she wants herself are going to mature with the help and advices of friggin’ Princess Lilacia Pony Head, out of all possible people. Truly the most unpredictable of seasons.

Sally’s True Love Spell

Originally posted by untitledqueen

A spell I wrote inspired from the film Practical Magic

This is a fire free spell used to draw in your ideal lover.

This is NOT a spell to make a specific individual fall in love with you.

This spell can also be altered to search for the ideal platonic partner. See the notes section at the end of this post!

Items needed:

- Pick any of the following flower petals and dry them* if you have the time. But fresh petals are also okay. (you don’t need the whole flower just a a couple of petals) You don’t need all of them, I’m just providing as many options as possible:  White Carnation (pure love), Dark Red Carnation (Deep Love),  white Chrysanthemum (truth and loyal love), Red Chrysanthemum (love), Red Rose (deep love), Yellow rose (friendship/ caring), Orange/Coral rose (passion/energy/desire), Lavender Rose (love at first sight),  Tulip (declaration of love/ perfect love) - Any other flower you can think of that symbolizes love + companionship. You don’t need a lot. Maximum 2 petals for each flower of your choosing.

- Hot water (like just barely hot enough for tea. As long as there’s steam, you’re golden)

- water soluble paper (get rice/wafer paper OR look for the brand print-stitch-dissolve in a local craft store. I’ve found it in Michael’s and staples for around $10) IF you can’t fine the paper, just write on your flower petals, provided they are large enough.

- pen(s)/ pencil(s) in any color(s) of your choosing

- mug or bowl

- an open window/ outdoor space

What to do:

- Start boiling your water. Feel free to put it on low heat, this may take some time.

- Take your pen and paper, list the qualities you seek in a love (be they physical or personality related). If you do wish to use a visual element you can print out images/ draw the qualities you seek. There is no need whatsoever to glue items together

- As you write each quality, rip it up from the page so it’s on it’s own strip, place it in your mug/bowl

- when you are finished writing, take your dried petals and crumble them/ tear them up, toss them into the mug/bowl as well

-take the mug/bowl into your hands and speak/whisper this chant

“Lover hear me. Lover know my name. Lover come find me. Lover follow my heart’s flame.“

- put the bowl down, by now your water should be hot. Slowly pour in the hot water, repeating the chant if you wish. Let the steam send your wishes out into the world. Feel free to chant until you no longer see steam/ until the water cools.

- When the bowl/contents have cooled, pour out the mug/bowl. Be sure to wash it when you are done if it’s one you consume from.

Additional Notes: If you’d like, keep a copy of your list should you choose to keep an eye out for your person. Or if you’d like to perform the spell again. Feel free to copy any imagery as well and hold onto it if you wish.

* To press + dry flowers you can either iron the flowers between sheets of parchment paper OR press them under some heavy books (this can take several days. But since it’s petals you’ll probably need a week max.). If you use the iron method, make sure the iron is on the lowest possible setting and there is no water in it. Don’t iron across the paper like you would clothes, just dab for 10-15 seconds in each spot. Let it cool . Maybe go over with the iron 1 more time, you don’t want to scorch/ burn the petals.


PLATONIC PARTNER ALTERATIONS: change the the word “lover“ to “partner“ in the chant. Look for flowers that have friendship/ familial/ unconditional love related meanings such as yellow rose, Jasmine, pear blossom, primrose, yellow chrysanthemum, forget-me-not, blue violets, ect. Obviously make more changes as you see fit <3

(I plan to do more of these as time goes on and things occur to me. They will be collected in the things I want to see tag.)

Things I Want To See More Of: Part One

Siblings: I want siblings who grew up depending on each other–who are still great friends but are also their own persons. They love each others’ passions even though they may not be passionate about it themselves. I want to see siblings who still get along, who defend each other without sacrificing themselves. Siblings who don’t blame each other when they can’t help. Siblings who understand when the other has to take care of themself first. Siblings who commiserate with each other, even if one isn’t suffering the same annoyance as the other. Siblings who sing to each other through texts and send other silly little nothings without expecting something back but knowing the other would enjoy seeing/hearing it. Siblings who know each others’ schedules and run interference for them on things that they know the other won’t enjoy. Siblings who take care of each other, no matter the distance between.

Plots: I want plots that have over-arching, world-impacting plots but those plots are secondary to more intimate, character-related plots. Plots where a character’s development is a greater focus than the implications of the plot point that just went poorly. Plots where character development and plot progression don’t hinge on romantic relationships. Plots that keep friendship in the forefront. Plots that let characters do silly things, bad things, amazing things, and those things hold meaning to the character as well as the world-plot revolving around them. I want to see plots where the “big bad” is just another person; they don’t care or even know of the protag, they’re just trying to achieve their goal, which happens to get in the way of the protag achieving their goal. Plots with lower stakes where the world definitely isn’t going to end, but what turns out certainly isn’t ideal for the protag. Plots that aren’t black-and-white, right-and-wrong, perpendicular goals, end-of-the-word, but more along the lines of acute angles, purple-and-blue. Plots that take the focus off the world and put it back on people.

Magic Systems: I want any magic system, all of them, the ones based on old ideas, the new ones sprung from the garden of individual idea. I want the fire-benders and the wind-bottlers, those with spectral wings to summon and those blessed by gods. Magic systems with everyday uses and magic systems with tolls so high it only gets used once a year, or with a group, or for special circumstances. Magic systems that use the force of the world to power it, or require the use of a substance to jumpstart it. Magic systems with summoning and creatures of tiny power, great power, creatures from everywhere and nowhere and all the stops in between. Magic systems with blood, and those that fail if blood is applied; ones with material requirements and ones with spoken spell-work. I want magic systems that do what I expect them to do, but also ones that do things I’ve never heard of or never considered. Magic systems. Period.

How to befriend the signs

I think this is an area of life that we sometimes push to the wayside. Friendships are so fulfilling though! A friend can be there as a support system that expects enjoys you for who you are. We know that those who may become good friends will have planets that fall in your 3rd, 7th, or 11th houses. That doesn’t mean that you can’t have strong friendships with others of different signs.

I wanted to look more at different ways you can befriend someone based on their sun sign or sign dominance. This isn’t focusing on going into a deep friendship. These are just tips for getting the ball rolling. I’m basing all of these tips on the people I’ve befriended in my own life. Share any tips you have as well! I would love to see more meaningful, uplifting friendships.

Sun in Aries/Aries Dominance: So you’ve made a new Aries acquaintance. Be prepared for a highly energetic individual. One of the best ways to really get to know an Aries is to be open to adventure. If they know that you will go along with them on different outings, they will be more likely to include you. They want to know that you are playful. You don’t have to worry so much about being deep immediately. The first concern is that you know how to have a good time! Or that you know how to defuse a situation.

Sun in Taurus/Taurus Dominance: So you’ve made a new Taurus acquaintance. Taurus are ruled by Venus so they are a more reserved version of Libra. This means that they know how to be charming as well as reserved. Your friendship with them will be pleasant, if a little superficial until you truly get to know them. For the sake of making the first step towards becoming friends, make sure to be on time to the things that you do plan together. Infuse style into your activities such as nice dinners, outings on boats, etc. This may sound bad, but make it something they can brag about later.

Sun in Gemini/Gemini Dominance: So you’ve made a new Gemini acquaintance. Prepare to be a clown, whether it be a outrageous one or a sarcastic one. Let your humor shine through. They enjoy goofy people who are willing to talk. Don’t try too hard to cater to their humor. Just let your own gifts shine through. Also make sure to not be a flake. They want someone who will follow through on plans even if the Gemini has a less than stellar attendance record.

Sun in Cancer/Cancer Dominance: So you’ve made a new Cancer acquaintance. You’ll have to work hard to befriend the crab. Thankfully laughter is the best tonic, much like Cancer’s neighboring sign Gemini. Serve it up with a side of down to earth vibes and they’ll enjoy the dish that is you. It also wouldn’t hurt to actually go grab some food with them. The fastest way to their heart is through their stomach at happy hour at the cool new place you suggested. Laughter and Food is a pretty easy combo, but it just gets your foot in the door. You’ll have to wait another 1-3 years to be processed to the level of a friend who knows any personal details.

Sun in Leo/Leo Dominance: So you’ve made a new Leo acquaintance. Ask them questions. They want to talk and get to know you just as much as they want to share information about themselves. They love witty individuals so if you can make them laugh that’s an added bonus.  Be generous in your excitement. They will reciprocate with what you give them. Much like Taurus and Libra they’re gonna want to be able to have fun things to brag about as potential friendship building activities. A party or a tailgate could be a fun outing for the two of you.

Sun in Virgo/Virgo Dominance: So you’ve made a new Virgo acquaintance. Do practical activities together such as shopping or running errands. Activities that show that even when things are easy going, you’re able to be a friend they can count on. This is another sign that you have to take it slow with and show you can handle a conversation. They will want to make friends with someone who won’t embarrass them.

Sun in Libra/Libra Dominance: So you’ve made a new Libra acquaintance. No doubt you’ve already been charmed by them. Now you have to charm them. Libras are one of the easier signs to befriend. They love to bring groups together so just show them that you are receptive to the idea of making friends. You can do this by simply inviting them out or initiating conversation. This will encourage them to mirror you and return the favor.

Sun in Scorpio/Scorpio Dominance: So you’ve made a new Scorpio acquaintance.Be your most authentic self. But make sure your authentic self doesn’t come out full force. Leave a bit of mystery. Scorpios like to uncover their friends like layers because you’ll have to do the same with them. A good shortcut would be to ask them about their love life.

Sun in Sagittarius/Sagittarius Dominance: So you’ve made a new Sagittarius acquaintance. Focus on having fun, similar to an Aries. You want to show them that you can have a good time. Remember a good time for a Sagittarius doesn’t have to just be adrenaline based. It can be a new intellectual play or an art showing. Just make sure that there is lots of room to interact and makes jokes. 

Sun in Capricorn/Capricorn Dominance: So you’ve made a new Capricorn acquaintance. Capricorns are actually fairly easy going. You can befriend them by being funny and engaging. Doing one-on-one activities is the best way to show them they can have a good time with you. Keep the fun on the more classy side as well. Try exploring a new restaurant while grabbing lunch at work or try to pick up a new skill on the weekend to allow them to destress with their new friend! Basically show them that you’ll be useful in their life.

Sun in Aquarius/Aquarius Dominance: So you’ve made a new Aquarius acquaintance. The key word is to be as open minded as these individuals. They will be open to becoming your friend so long as they know that they can bring you around their social circle. Don’t be afraid to follow up with them and reach out to them to see if there are any events. They enjoy expanding their social network outwards. They love bringing in new friends that they think will uplift the group.

Sun in Pisces/Pisces Dominance: So you’ve made a new Pisces acquaintance. They will enjoy fun conversations that hint on a more playful, romantic side. They love the whimsical parts of life so make sure that they know they’ll find a dreamy friend in you. Whether that be in the way you talk with them or the thing you do. You want to add a dream like element to their life. Accept them for who they and be gentle in your communication with them. There is a good chance that they will enjoy partying/drinking so don’t be afraid to invite them out!

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I want more development in Jughead and Veronica’s friendship.

Jughead said that Veronica wasn’t his friend. I’m just excited to see Jughead finally considering Veronica a friend of his.

I think their friendship would be really cute, I mean look at them.

NaruSaku moments in Boruto

You know what I want?

I want NaruSaku moments in Boruto!

No…not in a romantic way…but the way they are best friends and each others confidant!

I want them discussing each other’s life problems!  I want Sakura laughing at Naruto’s problems and then giving him advice!

I want Naruto to reassure Sakura over Sasuke’s absence!

I want Naruto and Sakura bond with each other more…because I absolutely love them together!!!

And for those who think Sakura is abusive towards Naruto…

No! I disagree! Because every once in a while–people hit their bffs for something goofy!!! That’s what friends do!!! (And those who compliment Sasuke over almost killing Naruto–Sakura just punches him!)

Anyways…

What else I want…

I want their goofiness…

I want their friendship…

I wanna know that this awesome bond they shared did not disappear over time…

I wanna see that even in their busy lives they both find time to be friends!

I want an episode with just that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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