i want to love like her

i can’t believe they had maggie finally admit to alex what she went through as a child and i have to put up with this stupid love triangle instead of explaining further what LGBT children go through every day. Like, I love that they gave her such a realistic and relatable backstory but please, don’t have her drop that bomb and then give the storyline like 3 minutes… Its just too important to let slide… the LGBT community deserves better. 

anonymous asked:

I just wanted to kind of say thank you - even though that last answered ask wasn't for me, I'm an artist who just.. doesn't feel like their art is very good. And I also feel like it'll never amount to anything like yours has. Sometimes it really sucks, trying to draw for fandoms and stuff, because my art is so sub-par and it's just... not good. I love your art so much - I want to be as good as you one day. I've been practicing a lot, but... I worry I'll never be as good as I want to be.

Never say never is what you should stick with! 

I don’t say that much, but back when I was starting, I was learning from Burdge’s tutorials a lot. I think her tutorials were the very first I found even before I knew something like tutorials existed:”D I didn’t feel my best back then either…. I just. I wanted to be where the people weree~, where Burdge was. and I thought how can I ever catch up to these amazing artists. But seriously, practice takes you WAYS. Not immediately, of course, but it does.

Personally, I’m that type of person who always competes with people even when (mostly) those people don’t even know I, in fact, want to overcome them. I even have that while riding bicycle and passing by random cyclists, and it was the same when I was swimming. So.

Take that ~I want to be like them~ and make it your healthy goal. There is probably nothing that can get you to your limits like healthy rivalry does. It drives your passion and hidden resources.

The more you draw the more changes you notice. You grow to like your art a bit more, you grow to see the mistakes in art of people you idolized when you just started. It’s a process and it’s a journey;) 

Stay strong! 

I wanna meet Maggie’s aunt.

Like. I hope she wasn’t just like “I guess I’ll take you since your parents kicked you out”, no, I hope she was like “You’re my niece and I love you no matter what so you’re going to stay with me until you can support yourself”

I hope Maggie’s aunt is like the motherly figure she needed as a kid, the supportive family she wished she had as a teenager

I hope she comes to visit Maggie in National City so that Maggie can introduce her to Alex and like Maggie’s family is little and it’s broken but she loves it and she loves her aunt and she loves her girlfriend

I just want Maggie to be happy because she deserves the world

I love that Daryl loves Carol so much, that he praises her even when she’s not around. He gushes about her power and strength, he says that she would lead the war, take down the enemies. He virtually says that she can save them all. That she’d lead them all to war. 

And I love that Daryl loves Carol so much, that he is willing to do anything to protect her and help her heal. He loves her so much that she is his top priority. Keeping her safe and having her alive is the most important thing to Daryl and everything else always comes second.

All through season 7, it was conveyed over and over again that Daryl wanted to fight the Saviors and win the war and avenge everyone they lost. And it was conveyed in a way that made it seem like this was the most important thing to Daryl. Like he would do absolutely anything to just kill all the Saviors and get revenge.

Up until the point that he found out Carol was alive.

And that’s when it was made one thousand percent clear that Carol comes first. Always. No matter what. There are no exceptions. Nothing is more important to Daryl than keeping Carol alive and safe. 

First Date Sentence Starters.

’ So, do you come here often? ’
’ Will you go out with me sometime? ’
’ I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime? ’
’ Any chance you’ll go out with me? ’
’ So, do you want to be my girl/boyfriend? ’
’ I was thinking that maybe we could go out somewhere. ’
’ Where should I take her/him out to? ’
’ What’s a good place to someone on a first date? ’
’ Is this like your very first date ever? ’
’ I’ve never really been out on a date before. ’
’ So, have you been on a date before? ’
’ I hope this is a good enough place for our first date. ’
’ Where would you like to go do our first date? ’
’ I need advice, where to go for a date? ’
’ I think this is my first date ever. ’
’ So, how are enjoying this date so far? ’
’ Any chance we’ll make it to a second date? ’
’ So, how long have you liked me for? ’
’ I wanted to ask you put sooner but.. ’
’ I hope this is okay for our first date? ’
’ Do you want to go somewhere else maybe? ’
’ What’s your favorite place in the entire world? ’
’ I’m not good at picking places, I hope this is okay.. ’
’ Sorry, I think I’m a little late.. ’
’ I didn’t run late, did I? ’
’ I always wanted to bring you here. ’
’ I’m having a good time, are you? ’
’ So, do you want to go somewhere when we’re done eating? ’
’ So, is there a certain time you need to be back home? ’
’ This is lovey, thank you, I already am enjoying it. ’
’ Do you want to maybe go out again sometime? ’
’ Are you going to call me after we’re done? ’
’ Okay, so, how’s it going so far? ’
’ So, what do you wanna know about me? ’
’ So, what do you wanna talk about? ’
’ That’s alright, I’ll pay. ’
’ I already have the perfect idea for our first date. ’
’ We could go out again sometime, if you want. ’
’ Well, let’s just get through the first date, first. ’
’ I always try to make the first date the best. ’
’ So, have you been here before? ’
’ What do you like to do? ’
’ We could maybe do something a little more fun next time around. ’
’ Are you nervous? Or anxious? ’
’ Wow, you look great. ’
’ You look amazing. ’
’ Alright, so, are you ready to go then? ’
’ I haven’t laughed this much in a long time. ’
’ You make me laugh so much. ’
’ This is the best night of my life so far. ’
’ I’m really having a great time, I hope you are too. ’
’ I don’t mean to be rude, I just need to go to the bathroom. ’
’ You already make me so happy. ’
’ I’m so glad I let you take me to diner tonight. ’
’ Wow, this place has amazing food. ’
’ Wow, this place is so beautiful. ’
’ So, are you talking to anyone else? ’
’ I’m not sure what to exactly say.. ’
’ Are you flirting with me while we’re eating diner? ’
’ So, what will you to drink? ’
’ Would you be up for some drinks afterwards? ’
’ So, do you kiss on the first date? ’
’ Am I worthy enough to receive a kiss in our first date? ’
’ No kissing on the first date. ’
’ I don’t kiss on the first date. ’
’ What do you do on a first date? ’
’ What do and don’t you do on first dates? ’
’ How long has it been since you’ve been on a date? ’
’ Its been a while since I’ve been on a date. ’
’ This is my very first date ever. ’
’ This is your idea of a first date? ’
’ I really enjoyed this first date of ours. ’
’ Think you’ll wanna go out with me again sometime? ’
’ Is this what you call a first date? ’
’ So, you’ve been single for a while? ’
’ What exactly do you like about me? ’
’ So, what made you want to take me out? ’
’ And what drew you to me of all people? ’
’ You’ve had your eyes on me for a while, huh? ’
’ I’ve had my eyes on you for a while. ’
’ I’ve wanted to take you out for so long. ’
’ I’m glad you let me finally take you out. ’
’ You know, we’ve never been on a date before. ’
’ Come on, we can have our first date there. ’
’ So, where was your last first date at? ’
’ You want to go somewhere else instead? ’
’ I want you to go on a date with me. ’
’ So, you’re gonna go out with me? Like on a date? ’
’ You’re asking me out? Like on a date? ’
’ I’d love to go on a date with you! ’
’ So, where are you taking me? ’
’ Okay, close your eyes, it’s surprise. ’
’ I can’t wait to show where were going. ’
’ Don’t worry, you’re gonna love it! ’
’ We could always go on a picnic? ’
’ You wanna go to the movies with me, for our first date? ’
’ Are you telling me we’re having our first date? ’
’ I hope I’m not too dressy? ’

OMG I AM SO NOT ALIVE AFTER THAT EPISODE!! 

1) That whole scene where Mon El and Kara are arguing like an old married couple made me laugh so much. They are so different and thats what makes it great! Honestly was waiting for them to have heated kiss then. 

2) Her line of you cant force love you have to wait for it to find you (paraphrasing here). I thought was brilliant. I personally think that summed up her and James relationship. She wanted it so badly that when finally did happen she was like oh I don’t actually love you in that way

3) All the Sanvers scenes made me cry

4) That scene where Kara tricked Mon El broke my heart. Mon El looked so heartbroken. I couldn’t deal with it even though I knew that Kara was doing it so Mon El wouldn’t come with her. 

5) AND THAT FINAL FUCKING SCENE BROKE ME IN TWO. GOD FUCKING DAMN IT. THAT KISS WAS EVERYTHING. I CAN’T DEAL

anonymous asked:

My girlfriend has become obsessed with one of the shows she used to like and now she wants to date someone exactly like her favorite character. We've been dating for almost a year and I KNOW for a fact this is a phase but she keeps saying she wants to date someone who is a replica of her favorite character and that I'm not like that... i don't know what to do, I know this is a phase I just feel helpless

I don’t think that finding other ppl attractive while in a relationship is a problem, and that you can talk to your partner about ppl who are attractive while in a relationship. I don’t think it takes away from the love they may hold for you either. but if it’s something that bothers you, talk to your partner about it.

This Maggie backstory gives so much context to her “you only get one” because fuck she’s been burned before by the people who are meant to love her and shit she got broken up with bad and she’s just wants to be in self preservation mode but she’s so in love with Alex that it’s so impossible for her to do so

Also her biggest pet peeve is not being listened to like fuck poor 14 year old Maggie probably lost her voice begging her parents to reconsider, that she was the same Maggie. Poor confused and alone Maggie who only had her aunt who I want to hope loved her with all her heart was probably asked if it was a phase, if she could turn it off, if she could pretend not to like girls. What if her parents gave her the option of turn the gay off and come home or see ya never.

Her backstory is so important and I can’t wait to learn more about her. Because Maggie Sawyer has been burned again and again yet she’s still such a supportive friend and partner. And we talk a lot about how Kara has seen so much and how it’s made her kind. Turns out you can be super without alien genetics. Because to survive this much and still be so kind is the stuff superheroes are made of. And Maggie Sawyer is my hero

anonymous asked:

What Iroh tells Aang when they're walking in the tunnel looking for Zuko and Katara about how power is overrated and he's wise that he chose love, doesn't that confirm that Aang was right in not staying with the Guru and him not letting go of Katara was the correct choice?

Well, in a way yes. The Guru was not really saying that he should let go of love. He was saying to let go of attachment or he cannot go into the Avatar State. Aang did not understand that, though. So he told Iroh that he felt like he had to choose between love and power. And Iroh said he made the right choice that love is the most valuable thing. Now, I am not saying that Aang left to go rescue Katara simply because of his attachment or that he was being selfish by doing that. He left because he genuinely loved her and he wanted to save her. And he was willing to sacrifice his power, out of love for Katara. He had a pure heart by doing that, even if he was minsunderstanding. 

But because he didn’t let go of his attachment and open his chakra first and master his Avatar State, it wound up making him lose the fight. Then he almost dies and finds himself awakening from his coma on a boat going to the Fire Nation. He feels like he made he wrong choice. Everyone thinks he’s dead and he lost his honor. He runs away feeling like he has to be detached and let go of love to redeem himself. But he doesn’t have to give up love, just attachment.

Aang’s dilemma was a parallel to Zuko’s. Zuko also had to choose between love and power. That’s why I think the story would have been better if he chose love. I think it is more consistent with his personality, his kundalini awakening, the themes of the show, and it also would have mirrored Aang’s choice. He had an opportunity to side with Azula where they had a guaranteed victory to seize Ba Sing Se and defeat the Avatar with the Dai Li on their side, but he’d sacrifice power for the love he had for his uncle, and he gets defeated. I think that would have made the story more beautiful and meaningful, rather than resorting to a plot twist like his betrayal for cheap shock value.

Then he winds up going home as a pawn being used by his sister. He is heading back to the Fire Nation with dread, just like Aang. Since Zuko is awakening spiritually, he no longer desires attachment, but unconditional love. He has regained his honor, but he has lost genuine love as he is separated from his uncle who has been branded a traitor and he is all alone. His father’s “love” is empty in comparison. I think this would have made a much better story, and it would have been far more emotionally engaging character development if it focused on how he missed his uncle instead of “OMG Evil Zuko!”

Zuko spends all of his time in the Fire Nation feeling alone and unloved. Meanwhile, Aang has Katara’s unconditional love, and while he loves her, he takes her for granted. After Zuko joins the GAang, he and Aang become good friends. Katara and Zuko fall in love. Aang sees that the most selfless act of love he can offer is to let Katara and Zuko be happy with each other. Zuko finally gets the love he needs, and Aang finally lets go of his attachment and shows his love for his two friends by letting them be happy together. A true selfless Avatar. The message of the story is unconditional love.

The revelation by her mom she’s practically royalty gave me the idea…

can someone pretty please write that au where Lucy is really a princess & Wyatt gets hired as her bodyguard, while Noah is the fiancé they chose for her when she was like 10 but she’s like fuck that shit. Princess of Rittenhouse, princess of a corrupted kingdom is not what she wants & she starts working against them in secret with help from Wyatt & his friend Rufus. She gets more than expected along the way, friends & possibility of love.  

Choose the era as you please, it can be 50′s or 80′s or even now.

anonymous asked:

I loved seeing princess Marco! But... I wanted to see her wearing a different dress?? I know it's silly but I hope we get to see princess Marco wearing a different dress next time :p

I would like to see marco in a different dress but the implications that are there for keeping the dress are AMAZING. Marco KEPT THE DRESS. Marco probably wore it multiple times when we couldn’t see, at least to pose for all the merchandise. Marco loves that dress and that is absolutely amazing and I swear to God this show is threatening to make me cry in the middle of uni.

anonymous asked:

ngl this episode made me lowkey uncomfortable? i won't even mention the lack of sanvers scenes/their duration vs how annoyingly long the 2 hets dude's scenes were and the fact that kara continues to not listen to the words she's saying about/to mon el and is apparently in love but like. even the sanvers scenes were a little yikes i might've enjoyed maggie doing that for alex more if she wasn't basically guilted into it after what happened to her? and then sanvers didn't even talk about it again

their last scene was rushed because they wanted to make room for that unnecessarily long karamel makeout session unfortunately, the entire thing would have landed better if alex also apologized for ignoring what maggie said initially about valentine’s day and unintentionally forcing her into reliving all those bad memories. i’m so fucking irritated 

like no offense but all requests/complaints abt sera being a lesbian were usually prefaced with “she rejected me and it made me upset”, a tone of entitlement; she owed them her pussy, it was all she was worth. and all the requests/complaints for bi cass or cullen or seb or bwall are, you know, “it’s only fair, i relate to this character and want them to feel loved to, like i wanted; i want to see someone like me positively reflected back at me”

like, there is a MAJOR diff in doing sth because you want people to feel good about themselves, versus feeling like you’re owed someone’s love because you feel special or whatever. so forgive me if that and the decades of violent oppression and abuse that predate my existence mean im not moved when someone thinks bi mods for str8 charas are on the same level as str8 mods for gay charas.

Alex Danvers

Since Mon-el  came it does not do more that to take the protagonism from Alex. And I am starting hating it. 

I miss so much the badass moments like this 

and the moments when alex and kara have a good time together . 

And now all his this history centred in Sanvers. I love Sanvers,i shipp sanvers so much but I want to Alex of the first season. To Alex who was going out more  on the screen. But he (mon-el) is stealing him his time on screen .She can be going out with Maggie, having his time with her and simultaneously it can have these adorable moments with kara and be one badass. 

It is my humble opinion.

sorry for my bad english

Certainly, where there is our episode centred on Alex Danvers and Maggie?

I do not see it

I love Sara Ramirez. I’m so happy she’s out and proud, and so grateful she’s using her voice to take a stand. It’s brave and inspiring. (And rare!)

Now, I just want someone to help her hone her voice/message. The fight is necessary and the problems are there. And her willingness to take a stand is so, so important.

It just feels like this one-off offensive sitcom joke is not the time to fall on your sword.

I seriously can’t believe they made kar*mel happen, like okay, if all they wanted was to write him as kara’s love interest why write him like that? why didn’t they write him like they wrote james, or lena, or anyone who has respected and supported her? why write him as abussive, possesive? just to show that that is cute?, that that’s how they fall in love with each other?, they’re writting such a good couple with sanvers, and failing so hard with kar*mel, like seriously, do they even’t realize what they’re writting? can’t they compare what they’re doing? if all they wanted was kara to get with mon hell why write such an awful story for them? they’re showing that their awful relationship, and how they act and treat each other is something good, something to look up.

I just can’t believe it, I mean, I can, but i really hoped that they would do better

the point is, if they wanted so bad for kar*mel to happen, why write it so badly, so awfuly

My North Star (pt 8)

Originally posted by nycbtslover

A/N: AH so I got around to typing this part out! I hope you guys like it. Let me know what you think! Do you want a part 9? I won’t write one if no one lets me know haha 

Length: 2076 words

Pairing: Jin x Reader

Summary: You were in love with your best friend, the one constant in your life. But what happens when the new girl comes along? And a new guy tries to win your heart? 

Previous Parts:  Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 Part 5 Part 6 Part 7


I love her

Jin started to panic. I love her? No, I can’t. I can’t feel that way…. Jin felt like he couldn’t breathe all of a sudden as the realization hit him. All this time, he saw you as his best friend, and he loved you very much. Only now was he beginning to realize that he loved you more than anyone else. After all the years you spent together, he realized that you were what people called a soulmate. The one person that understood everything about him. The one who loved all his virtues and even loved all his vices. And he loved everything about you too. And that was why it was so important that he couldn’t lose you.

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