it’s tay and my body has been described by every somewhat round fruit/veggie in the book, what about you?
♡ what is? ♡
basically a meetup to celebrate a body type that generally goes under appreciated ! to remind people that fat bodies are deserving of love too !
♡ when is? ♡
thursday, july 27th, starting at 12 PM PST and ending at 11:59 PM PST!
♡ who can participate? ♡
anyone who has been described as plus size/fat/overweight/chubby ! this is to celebrate bodies that are typically shamed ! let your cellulite free babes!
♡ how do i do? ♡
just simply post your selfies that make you feel happy in the tag #plussizephandommeetup ! make sure to interact with other plus size babes and share the love, because we all deserve it !
♡ are there any rules? ♡
keep your posts positive and safe for work ! it’s okay to talk about your journey with self love (obviously) but don’t put down other body types to make yours seem more valid ! no nudity - this meetup is for all ages !! and no body shaming in any way !!!
so well, you all have been seeing me (the ones who have stayed and the ones who have left) struggling during the past…weeks. I have been trying to fight it back but it’s kind of working and not working. Most of the times not working.
So I decided to go back to a youtube channel that once helped me to understand better myself. And so it helped me
(even if just a little) again
This is the video i just watched
and yes it helped me
i have lost count of how many times i have cried while going through her videos. I really recommend watching them.
I know this is kind of exposing myself but i know there are people that needs to see this as much or even more than i need to.
I dont know how much is going to cost me to get out of this constant negative mood. But im going through it. I need to get through it
heyo!i really love your blog!your writing n headcanons bring a smile to my face!!c: *hug* i wanna request(separate headcanons)amajiki, todoroki, & shinsou with a s/o who's insecure about wearing feminine clothing cuz they think they look bad or theyre not used to it. uhh more specifically how they'd react to the s/o wearing such clothing on a date. if that's okay with you aa sorry im specific. i have this insecurity, so support from these boys would make me very happy. tysm in advance!! ^3^
Heyjo lovely! Thank you so very much for your kind words! *hugs back* I very much hope I could write this well enough and that you’re going to like it =) Also, lovely, you are wonderful and I hope you get lots of compliments when you wear your clothes <3
- When he
sees his partner wearing those clothes, makes him pause for a moment, before he
gives them a shy and happy smile and brushes a kiss to their cheek.
- If they
want to wear feminine clothes, he’s supportive of them and compliments them quietly,
a soft smile at his face and he ducks his head a little to hide a faint blush.
makes sure that his partner knows that he loves them regardless of what they
wear and that he just wants them to be happy and to feel comfortable.
- If his
partner talks to him about being worried how they look, he does his best to
reassure them and to tell them that they can take their time. If they want to
ease into things, they can do it, if they need more time to prepare, they can
have it, if they want to do it right away, they can. He’s going to be
supportive of them and he believes in them and tells them he thinks they’re
surprised for a moment, since he knows how insecure his partner can feel about
these sorts of clothes, and then he gives them a small, soft and warm smile,
reaching out to take their hand.
- He gives
them a soft kiss and lets them know that he thinks their outfit is lovely and
suits them, while giving their hand in his a small squeeze.
needs to make sure later though, that his partner only wears these clothes
because they want to and not because they think he wants to see them this way.
He wants his partner to know that he loves them regardless of what they wear
and is proud and happy to have them at his side.
they bring the subject in private, Todoroki listens to their insecurities and while
he may not always be the best at it, he does his best to reassure them. Also,
he lets them know that they can wear all the feminine clothes they want and he’ll
be supportive of them and loves them. He thinks they’re good-looking and if
they want to wear feminine clothes, he’ll happily take them out.
- He gives
his partner a small, warm grin when he sees them dressed like this and leans in
to give them a small kiss, complimenting how they look.
- Still, he
makes sure later on that his partner knows that he loves them and is happy to
be seen with them regardless of what they chose to wear and that he cares about
their comfort most of all.
- Once his
partner lets him know that they chose those clothes because they want to wear
them, he in turn makes sure to reassure them that he loves what they wear and
he just wants them to know that he likes seeing them happy and relaxed most of
his partner discuss their insecurities with him outside of dates, he takes
their hand if they’re okay with it and listens to them. If they want his
opinion, he’s honest in telling them that he is supportive of them. He has
their back no matter what they decide to do or if they want to start wearing
feminine clothes bit by bit or completely right away. He loves them and he’s
there for them.