i want to do the same for my crush

for real tho that one scene in s1 where keith goes “as soon as my head hits the pillow i’m gonna be lights out” was said in the exact same tone i talk in when i’m trying to impress people. and he was looking at lance. also 10minutes later he had a minor crisis about how fucking stupid that sounded.

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EXO COLLEGE AU SERIES; XIUHAN

In which Luhan is a dance major who’s crushing hard on Kim Minseok, a cute guy from art department that coincidentally shares a same class together.

“Come on Minseok, I know you want ‘the good good’.”
“I don’t even know what 'the good good’ is, Luhan, so please… Just let me excuse myself, I have something else to do.”
“Don’t you see my love for you? I’m in love with you.”
“And I’m late for my liberal art class.”
“You can be my one and only sexy thang.”
“Still nope, try harder.”
“Don’t have to, because I’m already hard for you.”
“OH MY GOD LUHAN PLEASE.”

Why am I so difficult to love? Every time I get close to someone it always ends the same way. They get bored. They find someone better. I’m not enough anymore. Why am I like that? Why is it that what I want more than anything seems to be the one thing I can’t grasp? I want to know what I’m doing wrong. I want to learn how to be loved, but I don’t know how. I’m stumbling around in the dark, accidentally breaking glass things and getting cut trying to find a light switch. I want to be ready, but I don’t know how to prepare. No one can tell me and I can’t seem to figure it out. So what the hell am I supposed to do?
—  Learning to Love
Do you also get that special feeling when you see me? I don’t want to admit it, but I think I have a crush on you. You’re just really cute and you’re constantly on my mind. Baby, do you feel the same?
—  L.N. | falling for you

anonymous asked:

uhmm all of our existence and personality is based on sexual attraction. how is possible to be asexual? i dont understand

1) Our existence and reproduction isn’t ‘owed’ to sexual attraction, it’s owed to the ability to deliver and sire offspring. Which, I’m sorry to inform you, isn’t the same thing as who you get crushes on. Sure, one might lead to the other, but it’s a leap of logic to claim that they’re one and the same thing my bud

2) Going by your shoddy logic, there’s a lot of sexual identities that shouldn’t exist do you really want to go down that hole

3) I alone am proof that asexuality exists, and you need to recognize that.

- Fae

Get To Know Me!!!
  1. The meaning behind my url:
  2. A picture of me:
  3. How many tattoos i have and what they are:
  4. Last time i cried and why:
  5. Piercings i have:
  6. Favorite band:
  7. Biggest turn offs:
  8. Top 5 (insert subject):
  9. Tattoos i want:
  10. Biggest turn ons:
  11. Age:
  12. Ideas of a perfect date:
  13. Life goal:
  14. Piercings i want:
  15. Relationship status:
  16. Favorite movie:
  17. A fact about my life:
  18. Phobia:
  19. Middle name:
  20. Height:
  21. Are you a virgin?
  22. What’s your shoe size?
  23. What’s your sexual orientation?
  24. Do you smoke, drink, or take any drugs?
  25. Someone you miss:
  26. What’s one thing you regret?
  27. First celebrity you think of when someone says attractive:
  28. Favorite ice cream?
  29. One insecurity:
  30. What my last text message says:
  31. Have you ever taken a picture naked?
  32. Have you ever painted your room?
  33. Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex?
  34. Have you ever slept naked?
  35. Have you ever danced in front of your mirror?
  36. Have you ever had a crush?
  37. Have you ever been dumped?
  38. Have you ever stole money from a friend?
  39. Have you ever gotten in a car with people you just met?
  40. Have you ever been in a fist fight?
  41. Have you ever snuck out of your house?
  42. Have you ever had feelings for someone who didn’t have them back?
  43. Have you ever been arrested?
  44. Have you ever made out with a stranger?
  45. Have you ever met up with a member of the opposite sex somewhere?
  46. Have you ever left your house without telling your parents?
  47. Have you ever had a crush on your neighbor?
  48. Have you ever ditched school to do something more fun?
  49. Have you ever slept in a bed with a member of the same sex?
  50. Have you ever seen someone die?
  51. Have you ever been on a plane?
  52. Have you ever kissed a picture?
  53. Have you ever slept in until 3?
  54. Have you ever love someone or miss someone right now?
  55. Have you ever laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by?
  56. Have you ever made a snow angel?
  57. Have you ever played dress up?
  58. Have you ever cheated while playing a game?
  59. Have you ever been lonely?
  60. Have you ever fallen asleep at work/school?
  61. Have you ever been to a club?
  62. Have you ever felt an earthquake?
  63. Have you ever touched a snake?
  64. Have you ever ran a red light?
  65. Have you ever been suspended from school?
  66. Have you ever had detention?
  67. Have you ever been in a car accident?
  68. Have you ever hated the way you look?
  69. Have you ever witnessed a crime?
  70. Have you ever pole danced?
  71. Have you ever been lost?
  72. Have you ever been to the opposite side of the country?
  73. Have you ever felt like dying?
  74. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep?
  75. Have you ever sang karaoke?
  76. Have you ever done something you told yourself you wouldn’t?
  77. Have you ever laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose?
  78. Have you ever slept with someone at least 5 years older or younger?
  79. Have you ever kissed in the rain?
  80. Have you ever sang in the shower?
  81. Have you ever made out in a park?
  82. Have you ever dream that you married someone?
  83. Have you ever glued your hand to something?
  84. Have you ever got your tongue stuck to a flag pole?
  85. Have you ever ever gone to school partially naked?
  86. Have you ever been a cheerleader?
  87. Have you ever sat on a roof top?
  88. Have you ever brush your teeth?
  89. Have you ever ever too scared to watch scary movies alone?
  90. Have you ever played chicken?
  91. Have you ever been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on?
  92. Have you ever been told you’re hot by a complete stranger?
  93. Have you ever broken a bone?
  94. Have you ever been easily amused?
  95. Have you ever laughed so hard you cried?
  96. Have you ever mooned/flashed someone?
  97. Have you ever cheated on a test?
  98. Have you ever forgotten someone’s name?
  99. Have you ever met someone who didn’t seem real?
  100. Have you ever give us one thing about you that no one knows.
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Happy birthday General William Tecumseh Sherman (February 8, 1820 – February 14, 1891)

“He took the little child of my friend in his arms, and patted her rosy cheeks, calling her a ‘poor little exile,’ and saying he was sorry to have to drive her away from her comfortable home, but that war was a cruel and inexorable thing, and its necessities compelled him to do many things which he heartily regretted.” -George McDonnell

“War is the remedy our enemies have chosen. Other simple remedies were within their choice. You know it and they know it, but they wanted war, and I say let us give them all they want.-W.T. Sherman

“Even though you were my enemy, my dear, I would ever love and protect you.” -W.T. Sherman to Cecilia Stovall, 1836

“You once said that I would crush an enemy and you pitied my foe. Do you recall my reply? Although many years have passed, my answer is the same. I would ever shield and protect you. That I have done. Forgive all else. I am only a soldier.-W.T. Sherman to Cecilia Stovall, 1864

“War is hell.” -William Tecumseh Sherman

I don’t want to know or hear about you anymore. I’m tired of hearing the same thing, again and again with the same outcome. Since you’ve been gone, I feel at ease. I feel happier that I am free. I am finally free from the storm you’ve put me through.

anonymous asked:

Like if I met him I would want to give him the biggest hug but I fear my overwhelming homosexuality and huge crush on Mark would ruin things. ;-;

Hey, just because you’re gay doesn’t mean it’ll ruin anything. I’m sure he wouldn’t mind you having a crush, since many many girls have crushes on him and he’s very aware of that. 

I mean, all you gotta do is try not to make him uncomfortable. Same as it is with a chick, just don’t sexually harrass him and you’re all good. :D

But yea, I’d love to hug the fuck out of him. Seems huggable as fuckie.

I hate how you give me butterflies every time I see you. I hate how your voice sweetly plays through my head, putting me in a trance. I hate how your touch sends shock waves through my skin. I hate how your eyes twinkle in the light and leave me drowning in the colour. I hate how your personality leaves me grasping for more. I hate how you’re so imperfectly perfect. I hate how you haunt my dreams, leaving me to wake up yearning for you. But, most of all, I hate how I know you’ll never feel the same way.
—  and nothing will ever be done to change it. 

anonymous asked:

My boyfriend let another woman kiss his cheek and hold hands and hug infront of me, I don't think he realized I was watching though. Do I break the relationship of early since we have been only dating for two weeks and that is all we have done (the hug kiss cheek ect) before that friendly hugging and kissing turns into cheating on me and dumping me for the more attractive girl?

Also same anon as the possibly cheating boyfriend, he also talks about girls who are my friends he has crushes on, and talks about how jealous he was to their boyfriends, also says “We are the perfect couple because I want a girl to flirt with me and you want a man who puts up with you.” (no I want a man who loves and cares about me or at least fucking compliments me like what the fuck)


He doesn’t seem to care for you; he wants a girl that will give him attention and he thinks that just the fact that he’s your boyfriend is sufficient. You shouldn’t have to put up with his bullshit. You should break it up in my opinion.

The Andrew Minyard School of Getting Your Crush to Like You Back
  • Hate him
  • But give him a key to your house
  • After forcing him to do something he didn’t want but whatever
  • Give him a key to your Super Fancy car
  • The same one you don’t even let your brother drive
  • Act like you super ultra mega don’t care about him
  • But secretly watch his every move to make sure he doesn’t fuck everything up
  • Light two cigs and give him one every time
  • Program yourself as a speed dial on his new phone
  • Act like you really really really really really don’t care
  • But close the goal for him when he asks
  • Actually just do everything with only slight reluctance when he asks
  • Did I mention you don’t care about him at all
  • Trust him with your secrets
  • Bandage his wounds
  • ThEn BaThE hIm
  • Respect his boundaries
  • But him clothes
  • Suppress the urge to kill him 10% of the time (maybe less if he becomes a real Pain in the Ass)
  • Buy him matching armbands so you can hide your scars together

This is 100% foolproof. Zero error analysis. 10/10 would recommend

This Counts as Trauma

When I was a little kid, I wanted to grow up to be big, tough and strong. The first thing that I remember wanting to be was an astronaut. I always loved the idea of being an explorer or adventurer, I still do, and since the whole planet was already discovered, I thought I had to go in to space.

When we learned about astronauts in school, I was so excited. I rushed home to tell my parents about it. My parents immediately crushed me–didn’t I know women’s bodies were too weak to handle going to space? And how would I ever be able to raise any kids? My dream was instantly shot down by gendered expectations. I didn’t want to raise kids or be a mom, I wanted to be an explorer and do something great worth being in the history books about.

Every dream I had was shot down in the same way. My parents were quick to remind me that I was obligated to think about my future husband and they were sure that some day I was going to change my mind and want to have kids. After all, how could I ever be fulfilled in life if I didn’t have kids?

I was upset about how few women there were in history books. When I asked my dad about it, he told me that this was because women’s natural place was to support men and work in the home, behind the scenes. My dad told me that I just didn’t have the same brain power as a man and that I shouldn’t get my hopes up about doing something great or important, because I would probably fail if I tried, and besides, I would never be happy unless I fulfilled the role that God set out for me: the role of being a wife and mother.

My dad would tell me that there are differences in men’s and women’s brains and that women were naturally worse than men at things like math and science. He would say that great women are rare because of these differences, that great women actually have men’s brains.

He told me all of these things before I was ten years old.

We know from psychology that early brain development in childhood is super important when it comes to forming who we become as adults.

When a father teaches a young girl that she is biologically inferior to her brothers, that is child abuse.

When a father neglects to nurture his child’s interests and forces her in to a subservient role, that is child abuse.

When a father attacks his child’s ambitions on the basis of her biology, that is child abuse.

The trauma that little girls suffer in silence, the trauma that adult women keep locked up and forgotten needs to be talked about.

We need to raise boys and girls the same way.

anonymous asked:

I'm in love with my best friend but he sees me like a Sister...

Well be cool with that man. You gotta respect that. Just like how you’d expect a guy friend of yours who has a crush or is in love with you to be okay with you seeing him as a brother.

Some people just don’t feel the same way that you do but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to not be in your life.

Kuro positivity day!

So much to say to you guys! I’ve been following this manga since forever, been in the fandom since 2014. You ALL have been like a second family to me, and I love you. This some kind of a shout out post so I’m sorry if I tag someone who doesn’t want it

@just-sebaciel-things We never talked before but God do I love seeing you in my notifications, you always reblog my art and you just make me so freaking happy , Thank you <3

@irllax @nighttimeteaparty @littlebratciel Apart from some dash interactions we’re not really close but you guys are awesome, and witty and I love talking to you, you’re creative and we’re lucky to have you guys!

@queenswatchcat  You’re one of the best artists in the fandom and my tumblr crush, thank you for all your work in the kurofandom. You give me motivation to do the same.

@rabid-bunny My sweet J-bird you are gorgeous and you know how much I love you, and we still going to Europe because I packed and I’m holding you on to it. 

THE WRITERS WHO ARE AWESOME AS FUCK @2oulle22-lover @silverwing26 you two give me life and I miss you both. 

You talented thing, my fellow crazy shipper @eglentyne-mcqueen

And lastly @jaena-eowyn @lovemyciel @rinfiorarara You 3 are practically family, I love you so much, you guys are my absolute fav ever you rock,

I’m so grateful to this manga, I’ve got to know great people thank you and have a great day <3