idk why you have to be so rude to the people who are just sending you asks? they look up to you, they're sending you this because they want validation from you. what you're doing is like this: imagine that you see your favorite celebrity. you go up to talk to them, you say something you care about, and they blow you off and say "i don't care" and walk away. that's what you're doing. it's really rude. just try to be a bit nicer.
ur uhhh forgetting those celebrities are people and approaching them with ur first words being abt ur personal life and how bad its going or anything that person has no concerns with is,, Not gonna receive a positive reaction, especially if its happened more than twice