hi I'm new to your blog and I love it ❤️ my question is how to feel sexy & good about yourself? I don't have a bf and sometimes I feel like all my effort I put into myself go to waste because no one will notice anyway. It sometimes just makes me want to lay on the bed and do nothing lol any advice how to stop thinking like that? Xx
Take yourself out on dates. Dinner, movie, spa day, whatever it is you wanna do. The best company you can keep is with yourself.
Take selfies/nudes. Experiment with angles, lighting, filters. Get comfortable looking at yourself, and looking your best. Take them with makeup, without makeup, with clothes, without clothes, all of it. Snapchat has a “my eyes only” feature thats password protected so you can store all your selfies without others seeing.
Eat healthy, drink water, and exercise, physical care=mental care.
Sis, you don’t need a bf to feel loved. Spend time with friends and family, surround yourself with folks who care about you. Love will come at you when you aren’t looking for it, and no one wants someone who’s desparate for a relationship with just anyone. Be picky, don’t settle, and don’t depend on anyone but yourself.
If you *really* want a bf though, and you want to feel sexy af, get a Tinder. There’s a healthy mix of boys who want hookups and boys who want relationships, and it’s a great source of attention when you need it. I actually met my mans on Tinder, we still goin strong rn❤
Love yourself though. Focus on shit like work and school and self improvement in general, you’ll do great.
Good luck babe❤