i want people to know who they are but i don't u get me

PSA: Don’t ‘ship’ idols and sexualise every thing two males do together if you don’t actually support the LGBTQ+ community. Don’t. You can’t have it both ways, you can’t use our sexuality as a means of entertainment and to get yourself off, but then turn round and not care about REAL people in these situations.

The amount of bullshit I’ve seen excusing what Jaebum said on Celebrity Bromance is fucking ridiculous. Here’s some words from an Actual LGBT Person: It was homophobic. There’s no misconstruing or people overreacting. Saying you would beat someone up for wanting to take a guy out somewhere is homophobic. I don’t care if he was nervous or it was a joke or you show me a picture of him holding hands with a guy once. It. Was. Homophobic.

If you excuse people’s comments as not serious or just jokes instead of actually calling people out just because you like them as singers, you are being homophobic too. Listen to actual LGBTQ+ people who are telling you this was wrong of him to say instead of taking it as just a part of his personality or his culture because you don’t want ‘drama’. There are real fans who must feel fucking heartbroken at someone they love using threatening language about LGBTQ+ people. It’s not people overreacting. It’s people hearing an idol say something that we hear time and time again out of the mouths of homphobes, and we have every right in the world to be upset and call him out.

If you shrug it off or actively defend him, you don’t support LGBTQ+ people and you can unfollow me right now, and take your shitty attitude and your love of fanfic with you. 

anonymous asked:

Do u think most people would still ship Ereri if Eremin became canon?

Yes.

They would.

Eren and Armin could literally have sex for three chapters and people in the snk fandom would still claim they’re just good buddies.

Good buddies give each other handjobs and promise to love one another for eternity ya know.

I’m like 110 percent sure that if eremin became canon, all these yaoi fangirls who claimed they just want “a canon gay ship Bc representation uwu” would riot.

They would scream that it was unfair and made no sense and ugh it’s fine Eren hooks up with Levi right after.

Because at the end of the day.

Yaoi fangirls don’t care about healthy gay relationships.

They don’t care about how FUCKING amazing it would be for an extremely popular action apocalyptic manga aimed at teenage boys and grown men…

To have its main couple be two men.

They don’t care.

It’s not fap worthy.

  • Me: It's okay to be unsure of your gender/sexuality!!1! It's totally cool to be figuring yourself out!
  • Me @ me: except you bc u need to get ur stuff together and figure out what the heck u are right now immediately

hi it’s almost 1 am time to tell u how i am deeply troubled by the fact that i have almost 1k followers p much no one interacts with me and how i don’t have any real friends at school i just kind of hang around a group that i’m not a part of and i’m sure they don’t want me around and how there’s no way anyone’s ever had a crush on me bc of u kno. all these things

anonymous asked:

U should be casted as armand. Appearence wise at least

Goof around in period costume AND get paid? Sign me up! 

I know I would provide excellent behind the scenes footage (because let’s be honest I would just follow the Lestat actor around all day and play pranks on him for no other reason than the fact that he’s Lestat. That’s what you get for picking a troll from the fandom) 

Originally posted by peteneems

On screen though? 
Director: I need you to say your lines and then cry in this scene
Me: Tell you what I can do. Stand in silence over there and not do any acting - how does that work for you? 

Maybe I can be like a hair double. Is that a thing? XD 

i know i’m being illogical with my yt vids by the way and i respect everyone who can’t view them due to being busy or not being able to i’m really grateful to everyone who can and likes n supports and i promise you’re not bad if you can’t. i just can’t think w logic sometimes and i’m like oh no i’m not getting likes, but i always do in the end. i just complain here but mean no harm or guilt, i promise. yeah don’t worry At All!!!!! thank u so much for ur support

Who’s your fave? It’s cool, I won’t get jealous if you don’t say me. I say that because I know you’ll say me anyway. I just wanted to play it cool.
—  Neptune (Hyperdimension Neptunia U: Action Unleashed)

anonymous asked:

Do you have any advice for a starting writer who's really bad with sharing their work? Like, I genuinely want to but I'm having a hard time, whenever I do show I get too embarrassed to keep it like that even if they say they like it so I just end up either deleting it or abandoning it.

sorry 4 not answering this straight away i wanted 2 have a think over it so i didn’t give any lacklustre advice!!

i find it a lot easier to post stuff online, like ao3, because the veil of anonymity is a Blessing and i feel a lot less anxious about people seeing my work when they don’t know me and i don’t know them. i’ve signed up for creative writing modules at my uni and had to switch out of all of them because i kept having panic attacks; i legit could not show other people who i knew in real life my work. so: internet = good, in my eyes

if you’re a fic writer i gotta say……. times r pretty shitty for us lmaoooo fandoms suck majorly at giving enough feedback/appreciation to fic writers, who often spend hours/days/weeks writing. people just don’t seem to bother to press the kudos button even though it takes legit one second???? like. if you’ve read however many thousands of words i’ve written (and with me it’s usually 15k+) then i assume you at least enjoyed it a little???? but not many people leave kudos and even less leave comments, so the encouragement for writers to share their work is pretty low. however, those people who Do leave comments/reblog your work and add nice tags? they will Make Your Day. when people say they like it, they tend to mean it. take what they say to heart, take all the encouragement you can get. the people who care to spend time telling you they like your work genuinely do like it, and appreciate it, and often would read more of your work. keep that in mind

i tend to post my work late at night (timezones are a bitch lmao) not only because people (americans) are more active online when it’s late at night/early morning where i live, but because it means i can go to sleep and wake up more or less eight hours later and see that people have read my work and enjoyed it (those, again, who bother to leave comments/kudos). it’s a bit like burying your head in the sand but it stops me from being quite so anxious and it makes me way less likely to delete something i’ve just put up

finally, as for abandoning work, my only suggestion is that you complete it in full before showing it to anyone/posting it anywhere. the stress of having to churn out chapters can be a bit much, and with a lack of decent feedback from readers it can be discouraging. it might seem daunting to write it all at once but take as much time as you need!! it really takes a lot of the stress away when you Know it’s already finished 

i hope this helps!!!! the only thing to do is to Just Do It. have a friend take away your phone/laptop or change your password or something to stop you from deleting your work. everyone’s gotta start somewhere!! i believe in you!! people who write are amazing and strong and imaginative and deserve support!!! you’re gonna do swell my guy

the reason 5sos are popular/famous is because they are talented musical artists… so why not ask them about that? why not ask them how long it took to write certain songs and which ones were the hardest and what their favorite lyrics they’ve written are??? why not ask them about their development as artists over time? why not give them questions with substance? why not refrain from digging for personal information that they clearly don’t wanna give you? treat them like people???? show them some respect???

psa for my bi friends! read if you have a minute to spare

Please do NOT visit the blog biphobiabullshit and/or read any of their posts unless you are emotionally equipped to handle nonsensical biphobia and outright hatred towards bi people. I have never read anything so hurtful or negative in my life, and i want to warn you guys to stay away from it, especially if you have a lot of anxiety relating to being bi.

For anyone who has accidentally stumbled upon that page, I just want to remind you that no matter who you have or have not dated, no matter what preferences you have, no matter what stereotypes you do or do not fit, no matter how you identify in regards to gender, sexuality, or romantic orientation, you are valid and you are welcome in bi spaces. You are welcome here.

Please take care of yourselves. Reading the posts on that page have made me feel absolutely nauseous, and I am appalled that a blog like that exists, let alone has supporters. For anyone who is curious about the content on the blog but wishes to stay away, I will summarize by saying that the blog is run by an incredibly biphobic person who somehow simultaneously refuses to believe that biphobia exists.

The most recent post I saw basically insisted that bi people in different gender relationships are “hetero conforming” and do not belong in bi spaces. I have seen much worse there, but that post hit a little too close to home for me personally and I want to warn you all about that blog in general.

Stay safe and I love u. If you need support, the mods here are all willing to talk and chill out and spread some love and positivity. Hope everyone is doing okay! (You can scroll on now, just stay safe ok? Love u.)

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February 1st marks the second anniversary of my blog ☆*・゜゚・*(^O^)/*・゜゚・*☆ !! I can’t deny that there are many unbearable things on this website, but I can’t say that my tumblr experience was a bad one. I got to know many nice people from different places in the world. The people I follow are all amazing people so I rarely see toxic posts on my dash. My followers are super nice as well that I’ve never received actual anon hate during my two years stay here. To me, this was a place where I could play the nice person without people trying to use me. I’m the devil irl, you just don’t know me. Yes, people usually really get afraid of even talking to me and those who approach me mostly want something in return. This has affected me to the extent that even all the friendships I made online were not initiated by me. However, I was so blessed that many people here has talked to me and I could make new awesome friends. Being able to be nice to people, even though deep inside I know that my tumblr personality is 100% fake, without worrying about how people will take my kindness is one of the most things I liked about this place. I originally made this blog to post graphics, because I love making them but they usually end up with nobody seeing them :c. Thanks to this place, I was able to share them and see many awesome and talented graphics makers. My graphics has improved a lot. I even started manga colouring because of the many inspirational people I follow, and now I can’t stop colouring manga. If there’s one thing I can be grateful to this place for is that it made me start manga colouring. As a person who has no hobby or talent whatsoever, I was glad to find something I can enjoy as a side hobby. Ahem, okay I know this was long but I wanted to say it all now that I might eventually leave this place once and for all because of collage xP.

Last but not least, thanks to all my followers for hitting that button on my blog, thanks to all the amazing people I follow for brightening up my dash, thanks to all the talented graphics makers who could inspire me one way or the other, thanks to every single person who sent me a nice positive message, and finally, thanks to all my tumblr friends for ever being there for me!!

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