i tried to match the top one to the bottom

I like Sonadow when it’s done right, and not forcing ‘top and bottom’ roles on them that don’t fit. They match because none of them is really ‘better’ or more dominant than the other. If either tried to push the other down, then you can be damn sure the other would punch them in the shoulder for it.

I like the dynamic that both of them outwardly keep mostly the same relationship that they did before, teasing and taunting and one-upping the other every chance they get, but Sonic knows that sometimes he needs to be grounded by Shadow’s somewhat pessimistic realism, and Shadow knows that he needs to lighten up sometimes and enjoy life.

Shadow benefits from Sonic’s attitude and experience, Sonic benefits from Shadow’s maturity and calmer outlook. They balance each other out.

anonymous asked:

I'm looking to revamp my wardrobe and I was wondering if you had some staples every 20 year old girl should have?

Here is a list of items similar to ones I wear weekly. These items are super versatile and make great staple pieces in any wardrobe. They are super easy to mix and match, creating a ton of looks, and you can use different accessories to style them. I’ve tried to make this list affordable, with all items under $100:

Shoes

White sneakers 

Black lace up heels (I have these in two colors, on sale currently)

Simple sandals

Brown booties

Workout sneakers

Bottoms

Ripped skinny jeans

Dark wash skinny jeans

White jeans (I wear white jeans so often)

Denim shorts

Black skirt

Black leggings

Tops

White tee (Great staple piece)

Black tee

Navy and white striped tee

Fun graphic tee

Chambray button down

Black sleeveless top (good for going out)

Dress

Shirt dress (this one is super fun)

Black dress

White sundress

Outerwear

Structured blazer (good for work and presentations, I’ve needed a blazer countless times in college)

Down jacket (depending on weather where you live)

Jean Jacket

Cardigan (this one is super cute with a bottom ruffle detail, cute for internships)

Accessories

Canvas tote

Black crossbody

Aviator sunglasses

Simple gold initial necklace

hesitant about surgery

i want top surgery, i want to go on T, and i want to be able to present myself as fully male in everyday life, but i guess i have a lot of fear about bottom surgery. i’m afraid of trying to do it and ending up with unsatisfactory results…

to me, a big thing is being able to present as male in public, well nobody is going to see what i have in my pants so it’s not nearly as central to my personal transition as T and top surgery, in my eyes.

i like to picture myself as fully male, but i just don’t know if i could ever make my body match my mental image, and i’m terrified that if i tried and it didn’t live up to expectations, i’d be more unhappy than ever. at least right now, it’s like a nice fantasy that hasn’t gone wrong yet.

i can’t be the only one terrified of bottom surgery, right?